partnerbizn5:
I will call her on phone to come back home from wherever she is, hug and kiss her, reassure her of my love for her; prepare her favourite meal, and make the bed for her to sleep. We will look for the way forward afterwards ranging from sending her abroad to counselling.

You know why?

She needs me now more than ever. The whole world is against her. The hypocrites.

I will be with her now!

Another option is to disown her, let her go into depression and may be suicide.

I choose the former, first option.

Wisdom is profitable to direct!

partnerbizn5:
I will call her on phone to come back home from wherever she is, hug and kiss her, reassure her of my love for her; prepare her favourite meal, and make the bed for her to sleep. We will look for the way forward afterwards ranging from sending her abroad to counselling.

You know why?

She needs me now more than ever. The whole world is against her. The hypocrites.

I will be with her now!

Another option is to disown her, let her go into depression and may be suicide.

I choose the former, first option.

Wisdom is profitable to direct!

Sterope:
Discipline?

Very predictable. What else is new? I am sure they have disciplined her plenty before this episode. There is time for discipline and this is not it.

Kapeter:
idiota, i have videos of girls who till 2mao will never know they were recorded having sex. It's in the safest part of my pc.

Someone can record you without your knowledge, don't be stupid. It's a common thing furing our school days, we secretly filmed girls without their knowledge just to brag in our circles.

And during your emotional period(sexual) you can do whatever especially for the one you love, trust and believe is prolly gonna be your future partner.

DWJOBScom:
I think rusticating her wasn’t cool

Kapeter:
you don't have to be the one to punish her, that's something she will voluntarilly do to herself, you are to help her and watch her so won't overpunish herself except if you are ready to lose her.

fortran12:

What they both did is wrong, its not about condemning her alone the guy is also at fault. The society is quick to point out the girl it's not fair. The blame should be shared evenly.

femi4:
she ll survive it just like Chidima did.Chidima is happily married now... It takes a scandal to forget a scandal

FatherBona:
How old is that girl? She does not look above 24 to me. No matter what happened she's still the victim here. The amount of backlash she's received from her institution and the internet is more than enough to make anybody drink a carton of sniper. The op is right. It is a mistake that has happened which is not worth the girl's life. So if you are a member of that girl's family and you reading this just know that she needs you now more than ever. Hypocritical Nigerians be acting like they have never had sex or done so in a weird place. Randomly collect the phone of any Nigerian and go through his gallery, the amount of personal sex.tapes and nude vids will make a Catholic priest renounce his oath of celibacy. So why are we crucifying two people for an act of carelessness which is common among children their age.
That girl should pick up the pieces of her life, Babcock expelling her is not the end of her world or her life. People have survived after a sex tape scandal, she is not the first and won't be the last.

Hopeless hypocrites

Fountainofyouth:
Some people like to be seen as woke, Op has watched too much Hollywood high school movies, this is Nigeria ma'am, come back to reality, I would so much whoop her ass ehn she would never do doggy anymore talk more of sex, and that her mouth that swallowed cum, she would wash her teeth and tongue every hour of everyday for one week till she has sores all over her mouth,

Do you know the trauma I as a mother would feel watching something like that? My own daughter? That's if i don't have high BP sef.

Fountainofyouth:
Some people like to be seen as woke, Op has watched too much Hollywood high school movies, this is Nigeria ma'am, come back to reality, I would so much whoop her ass ehn she would never do doggy anymore talk more of sex, and that her mouth that swallowed cum, she would wash her teeth and tongue every hour of everyday for one week till she has sores all over her mouth,

Do you know the trauma I as a mother would feel watching something like that? My own daughter? That's if i don't have high BP sef.

pocohantas:
Nairalanders have started abusing the word hypocrite again...

Now we all have to think in one direction and support everything, to avoid being tagged hypocrites.

I doubt some of the people commenting have seen the video. I agree she needs all the love, if she were my sister, daughter, friend...etc, I will definitely stand by her. But I would also need her to understand she didn't do well at all.

Any parent heart would sink watching that video. Such parent would even need sometime to put themselves together, they might even be needing therapy alongsides her.

Biingoo:
If you know how much the likes of Mia khalifs, Jada fire, osa lovely etc earns per video you'll be amazed how successful a professional IndecentStar can be. From the video its clear the girl has a gift of becoming a IndecentStar hence should be encouraged to enhance her potentials.


A professional IndecentStar earns nothing less than 100k dollars per shoot which is equivalent to around 36m naira and guess what? You don't a certificate to become one! Who Babcock certificate help

CHESTER48:
lol. She is not clever. This is the best time to open an Instagram account and become famous. In Nigeria you become famous by doing controversial or bad things. Look at bobrisky, Kim Kardashian. Etc I hope she sees my post. Not clever at all.

But I am, so Thanks to the mods for giving me this privilege to show case my talent too. Look at the video below.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KMnltHgA_mw

tenderheart:
Am I the only one that haven't watched the video

SmartyPants:


Does being in Nigeria really make a difference? how and why? Is the girl not in Nigeria doing doggy? Is Nigeria better off as a country than those other "hollywood" countries?

Fact is, if your child has gone this far astray, chances are you did not raise her right. And i hope you are a virgin who has never seen nor touch a dick in her life coz as far as i can tell, the only difference between this child and many on here is that she was caught on camera.

Elxandre:
My own point is, Would Jesus expel her from his school because of a mistake or transgression?
In fact, this can be compared to the case of the adulterous woman saved by Jesus in the Bible.
Where is the place of forgiveness and grace in a supposedly Christian school, considering that the event even took place outside the school?

Now she's likely depressed and suicidal, while Babcock only cares about it's "image"and business considerations, instead of the wellbeing of students like a Christian body should.
This Pharisee-like attitude is the reason atheists keep multiplying daily.

She made a mistake that brought the school into badlight, fine! But how about counseling and suspension instead of throwing the baby away with the bath-water?

femtex007:

You are correctly correct. But don't forget to sue the school. Because the incident did not happen at the school premisses. So they don't have the right to expel her.

Biingoo:
If you know how much the likes of Mia khalifs, Jada fire, osa lovely etc earns per video you'll be amazed how successful a professional IndecentStar can be. From the video its clear the girl has a gift of becoming a IndecentStar hence should be encouraged to enhance her potentials.

A professional IndecentStar earns nothing less than 100k dollars per shoot which is equivalent to around 36m naira and guess what? You don't a certificate to become one! Who Babcock certificate help

pocohantas:
Nairalanders have started abusing the word hypocrite again...

Now we all have to think in one direction and support everything, to avoid being tagged hypocrites.

I doubt some of the people commenting have seen the video. I agree she needs all the love. If she were my sister, daughter, friend...etc, I will definitely stand by her. But I would also need her to understand she didn't do well at all.

Any parent heart would sink watching that video. Such parent would even need sometime to put themselves together, they might even be needing therapy alongsides her.

partnerbizn5:
I will call her on phone to come back home from wherever she is, hug and kiss her, reassure her of my love for her; prepare her favourite meal, and make the bed for her to sleep. We will look for the way forward afterwards ranging from sending her abroad to counselling.

You know why?

She needs me now more than ever. The whole world is against her. The hypocrites.

I will be with her now!

Another option is to disown her, let her go into depression and may be suicide.

I choose the former, first option.

Wisdom is profitable to direct!

femi4:
she ll survive it just like Chidima did.Chidima is happily married now... It takes a scandal to forget a scandal

Fountainofyouth:



The difference between here and Hollywood countries is that parents aren't allowed to beat their child at all, or you think parents there are happy when their kids do nonsense like this knowing they can't do anything about it, be living in delusion there, they know if they try it na jail straight, so pls spare me the blaaaaa you're typing,


Nothing to do with child going astray anything, do you know what kids do in secret? this one was stupid to record it that's the difference, she should have known better.

oodua1stson:
I may forgive her but I can never forgive how she sucked that d1ck like mtn suck data