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Should I Love Again???? by bodaola(m): 8:22pm On Nov 22, 2019
I met my present girlfriend as a virgin sometimes around June this year, she have been very kind to me, loving, caring and respectful at the same time. She seems to be perfect. But this Orientation about ladies get me scared of falling in love. This girl loves me more than anything. She's financially supportive and more. At times i do think maybe its because she's just new to sex that's why she's doing all this.

I like her thou... But i can't guarantee love at all. My Ex was the worst lady you can ever meet, she's a slut, gold digger, bad family background and more.

The thing is, I pity this girl because i Dont love her. I'm just scared of loving any girl. I'm just always ready for breakup from any girl, i know what ladies are capable of, before she will break my heart now and i will start thinking of suicide. I Dont want problem.

I need advise, is it safe to love this poor virgin girl

Note: she beautiful and fair (sisi yellow). I Dont want to sing of HeartBreak like KizzDaniel (fvck you) grin
Re: Should I Love Again???? by CallMeDrino: 8:33pm On Nov 22, 2019


Better leave her
Re: Should I Love Again???? by bodaola(m): 8:37pm On Nov 22, 2019
CallMeDrino:


Better leave her

Abi
Re: Should I Love Again???? by Nobody: 8:39pm On Nov 22, 2019
Dear, dont mind those actively condemning love.
They fail to realize that we are all young, and prone to making mistakes. Rather than learn from their mistakes, they would seclude themselves fron romance because they are scared of being hurt once again.
Another fact most fail to consider is that their previous relationship was more likely built on either lust or infatuation not love.
Imagine if the lady in question didnt break his heart but was rather drenched in acid and lose her facial beauty. What if she lost a limb or two in an accident? Would he abadon his dreams/lifes ambitions for her? Love entails a good amount of sacrifice that one should ask themselves if they are willing to make.

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Re: Should I Love Again???? by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:50pm On Nov 22, 2019
- free the babe
- go work on your emotional issues
- when cured, get back on the market
- give proper value to your woman

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Re: Should I Love Again???? by MJBOLT: 8:58pm On Nov 22, 2019
how did you confirm her virginity? undecided

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Re: Should I Love Again???? by bodaola(m): 9:05pm On Nov 22, 2019
MJBOLT:
how did you confirm her virginity? undecided

I know you didn't believe, the same way i was shocked a girl of 22 yrs can still be a virgin
Re: Should I Love Again???? by Nobody: 9:23pm On Nov 22, 2019
bodaola:
I met my present girlfriend as a virgin
I don't really seem to understand why this is captioned first. Why is sex so prioritized?
..Sometimes around June this year, she have been very kind to me, loving, caring and respectful at the same time. She seems to be perfect. But this Orientation about ladies get me scared of falling in love. This girl loves me more than anything. She's financially supportive and more. At times i do think maybe its because she's just new to sex that's why she's doing all this.

I like her thou... But i can't guarantee love at all. My Ex was the worst lady you can ever meet, she's a slut, gold digger, bad family background and more.

The thing is, I pity this girl because i Dont love her. I'm just scared of loving any girl. I'm just always ready for breakup from any girl, i know what ladies are capable of, before she will break my heart now and i will start thinking of suicide. I Dont want problem.
Why do unmarried people do the 'love' word as though married? Sth that really may lead nowhere? Why don't you get walking down the aisle than the drunk's walk on daylight?

I need advise, is it safe to love this poor virgin girl

Note: she beautiful and fair (sisi yellow). I Dont want to sing of HeartBreak like KizzDaniel (fvck you) grin
How old is your immaturity? All your post revolves around her sexual state and not necessarily love. Love people as you love yourself, Mr. Pity Man.

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Re: Should I Love Again???? by Nobody: 9:27pm On Nov 22, 2019
RedCreme21:
Dear, dont mind those actively condemning love.
They fail to realize that we are all young, and prone to making mistakes. Rather than learn from their mistakes, they would seclude themselves fron romance because they are scared of being hurt once again.
Another fact most fail to consider is that their previous relationship was more likely built on either lust or infatuation not love.
Imagine if the lady in question didnt break his heart but was rather drenched in acid and lose her facial beauty. What if she lost a limb or two in an accident? Would he abadon his dreams/lifes ambitions for her? Love entails a good amount of sacrifice that one should ask themselves if they are willing to make.
I feel bad that girls reason from their ears. What is love to you?
Re: Should I Love Again???? by Nobody: 9:42pm On Nov 22, 2019
0ppa:

I feel bad that girls reason from their ears. What is love to you?
I get the whole red pill stuff. Protecting men from gold diggers and such. But men shouldnt cut themselves off from romantic relationships because of a mistake that may or may not have been based on love.
Love is a strong feeling of affection that cares little for physical appearances, hence my illustrations. Love means sacrifice. When that other persons happiness is a priority. It's a selfless feeling. Majority of the relationships here, werent based on love. What if the lady became pregnant? Would he accept or ditch her? When i had my heart broken, i cried alot. But i realized several things.
Im young and would make mistakes
I wasnt inlove with my ex. We had fun. Though it ended with hurt, we both shared fun memories.
Why blame all men or bottle up cause of what wasnt real?
Thats beauty of life and love. Have fun, cry alot, move on and become stronger.
AstroG learn grin
Re: Should I Love Again???? by Omar09(m): 9:47pm On Nov 22, 2019
RedCreme21:
I get the whole red pill stuff. Protecting men from gold diggers and such. But men shouldnt cut themselves off from romantic relationships because of a mistake that may or may not have been based on love.
Love is a strong feeling of affection that cares little for physical appearances, hence my illustrations. Love means sacrifice. When that other persons happiness is a priority. It's a selfless feeling. Majority of the relationships here, werent based on love. What if the lady became pregnant? Would he accept or ditch her? When i had my heart broken, i cried alot. But i realized several things.
Im young and would make mistakes
I wasnt inlove with my ex. We had fun. Though it ended with hurt, we both shared fun memories.
Why blame all men or bottle up cause of what wasnt real?
Thats beauty of life and love. Have fun, cry alot, move on and become stronger.

Your definition for love made me trip a million times, but I'm afraid that's not the "love" in reality. In reality, "love" is cruel, a platform for deceit, thread with care is all signs that should be attached to it.
Re: Should I Love Again???? by AstroG: 9:49pm On Nov 22, 2019
RedCreme21:
I get the whole red pill stuff. Protecting men from gold diggers and such. But men shouldnt cut themselves off from romantic relationships because of a mistake that may or may not have been based on love.
Love is a strong feeling of affection that cares little for physical appearances, hence my illustrations. Love means sacrifice. When that other persons happiness is a priority. It's a selfless feeling. Majority of the relationships here, werent based on love. What if the lady became pregnant? Would he accept or ditch her? When i had my heart broken, i cried alot. But i realized several things.
Im young and would make mistakes
I wasnt inlove with my ex. We had fun. Though it ended with hurt, we both shared fun memories.
Why blame all men or bottle up cause of what wasnt real?
Thats beauty of life and love. Have fun, cry alot, move on and become stronger.
AstroG learn grin




Its bedtime goan sleep,your mates have all gone to bed undecided undecided

Re: Should I Love Again???? by Nobody: 9:52pm On Nov 22, 2019
Omar09:


Your definition for love made trip a million times, but I'm afraid that's not the "love" in reality. In reality, "love" is cruel a platform for deceit. Tread with care is all signs that should be attached to it.
Love now means money and sex. Thanks wink
Re: Should I Love Again???? by Nobody: 9:54pm On Nov 22, 2019
Dude you just wicked!! You didn't know you were not in love with her b4 turning her to tokunbo angry guys like you are the ones that turn the good girls to bad girl later you will start opening thread about how ladies break your heart!! Please just let the poor girl go b4 it's too late!!! She will definitely find someone that will adore nd love her!!!
Re: Should I Love Again???? by Nobody: 9:55pm On Nov 22, 2019
AstroG:





Its bedtime goan sleep,your mates have all gone to bed undecided undecided
grin grin all you have to do is tell me to change. I swear i would.

I dont sleep till 1am.

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Re: Should I Love Again???? by Nobody: 7:25am On Nov 23, 2019
RedCreme21:
I get the whole red pill stuff. Protecting men from gold diggers and such. But men shouldnt cut themselves off from romantic relationships because of a mistake that may or may not have been based on love.
Love is a strong feeling of affection that cares little for physical appearances, hence my illustrations. Love means sacrifice. When that other persons happiness is a priority. It's a selfless feeling. Majority of the relationships here, werent based on love. What if the lady became pregnant? Would he accept or ditch her? When i had my heart broken, i cried alot. But i realized several things.
Im young and would make mistakes
I wasnt inlove with my ex. We had fun. Though it ended with hurt, we both shared fun memories.
Why blame all men or bottle up cause of what wasnt real?
Thats beauty of life and love. Have fun, cry alot, move on and become stronger.
AstroG learn grin
Actually, I really do not like teen-love talks. When you are ready to discuss pro-teen and out of self-believed emotions, hit the mention.
Re: Should I Love Again???? by AfroKnight: 7:44am On Nov 23, 2019
You took her virginity? Good.

Break her heart bro. Do it for guys who have suffered in the hands of women. grin grin grin Shatter the damn heart! grin






Lol. I shouldn’t talk like this

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Re: Should I Love Again???? by DanDeeBoss(m): 7:49am On Nov 23, 2019
Since you don't love her, Forget about her....
True Love is just like a ghost...... don't exist cheesy

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