victorian:







I'm not attacking the Op, the Op said the right thing.

But comments coming up from Some guys here, is so appalling and I wonder why would any right thinking lady wish to even date these kind of guys?

They will suck her dry and empty her bank account all in the name of, what is a woman offering in a relationship. I see these comments every time on nairaland, what's a woman offering and it's becoming annoying.
Some men are no longer men, they are not ready to work. Even when they are working, they want zero responsibilities. All they just want is to keep fucvking different girls, day in, day out. Tasking the girls for food and money.

Haba! What kind of useless life is that?

Anyways such guys know they can't brainwash me with such trash!

I cut off straight! Mo Raye oshi!

I didn't come to this life to come, slave and feed a full grown man as if he's a baby in diapers. God forbid!

Nigerian men now want to be pampered too, they are tired of being the horse

Pettyprincess:
Are you minding them? Men attract ladies of their type,if your woman offer only sex in relationship then it obvious u also dnt offer nothing else aside sex!! Birds of the same feathers flock together!! Rubbish!!!

But your dp says othewise

EmptyCoconutHead:
dating a naija girl is the worst thing that can ever befall a man .
I thought God created ladies to be a man's helper but now it's otherwise.
Naija girls have proven to be a source of misery to men.
instead of them to help and stick with u they will rather tie u down and heap their burden on your head as they now see relationship as a means of occupation.
these hoes called women have nothing to offer in a man's life.
they cannot even keep up with intellectual discussions, bringing up creative ideas, innovative matters. they only know how to trend nonsense on Twitter Instagram uploading pictures on Facebook.
useless creatures.
I have already given up on them, best thing is to go pay for a service of a lady, engage on a contract with her and after she delivers a child to me I pay her off.
girls are not really worth the headache.
useless liabilities.

I don't disagree with all these you've written
But, I know you need money ASAP
you're at your wit's end
Dhoo

Zizza:


Hear! Hear!!
What then do you offer that is bring to the table since she brings all the money

Na them Even the bible called women helper not bread winner.

Funny enough, the strength women use in the labour room and home management, they now deploy to make money. Roles can be switched no wahala. It will make the male folks of this generation happier

cbrass:


But your dp says othewise

What does my dp has to do with my statement?

Tell them and i dont bliv in pre marital sex!
my virginity is for my husband
And i want a frnd nd companion in the person i will marry because my dream is a happy family.

Not nigeria girls that sold their soul to Big Brother 9ja, telemundo and zee world,
Many nigeria girls is not even interested to know who is the governor of their state, especially those pretty one.

Nigerian girl will want to visit you, she will ask for tfare if she is going tfare.
When she wan call you she go ask for airtime, when. Very useless set of girls, after akudo show me Pepe in 2015 since then I have stopped dating Nigerian girls. I don’t even look their face not to talk of approaching them.

Point of correction OP, Not all women

Pettyprincess:
Are you minding them? Men attract ladies of their type,if your woman offer only sex in relationship then it obvious u also dnt offer nothing else aside sex!! Birds of the same feathers flock together!! Rubbish!!!

Are you a parking ticket?






















because you've got FINE written all over you..

lavylilly:
Greetings to you all.

I have a disturbing thought I'd like to share. Recently, i stumbled on a video which had a caption "Apart from sex, women have nothing to offer in a relationship."

I totally disagree with this.

I am not disagreeing as a feminist. I am disagreeing as a sane woman.

In as much as a lot of women folks are guilty of the caption charged against them, i think the male folks should also be blamed as an encouraging factor to this.

Gentleman, apart from calling her to come over to your place for the weekend, have her wash your clothes, keep your house clean and have massive sex. Have you tried to engage her in an intellectual/an intelligent discourse?

Apart from drilling that hole, have you tried to drill and extract her God given potentials from her?

Have you tried to discuss your dreams and aspirations with her and see how she fits in by suggesting ideas that would contribute positively to your dreams?

Apart from taking her to the club and have countless sit outs, have you ever taken her for seminars and workshops?

These are questions a lot of male folks are guilty of.

It takes two to tangle. Until you give her room to show you her potentials, you will never see her showcasing it.

The reason why she gives you just sex is because that is the only thing you require all the time from her ever since you both met.

Require more than sex, and then you will see her come out in her fullness.

(c) Precious Pearls

Any woman that sees the man as a means to get money does not deserve honor

rtdCivilservant:

So are u now saying women are Zombies that they give in to whatever the men ask from them? They give sex just because the men ask? Are u saying Women are this stupid? God forbid my sweet mother can never be as foolish as u described.

Some times I feel like I am ignorant, I want to know from your perception. What do you consider a perfect relationship?
I don't know if you noticed but u hv a very sassy attitude that tells the brain on default that you are trouble. But I will like to see things from your view

Generallll:
You just don't want to come to terms with the reality MISS POSTER.
Nigerian ladies ve nothing to offer in a relationship!!!! Period.
Infact most ladies this days have no difference with those ladies at the brothels, they date you, give you sex and extort money from you, an average Nigerian lady has many boyfriends and she bleeps and extort money from them all.

Abeg i want to increase the volume for those at the back.

You really know what these people are, nothing to add.

No be lie, Nigeria girls too mumu.

lavylilly:
Greetings to you all.

I have a disturbing thought I'd like to share. Recently, i stumbled on a video which had a caption "Apart from sex, women have nothing to offer in a relationship."

I totally disagree with this.

I am not disagreeing as a feminist. I am disagreeing as a sane woman.

In as much as a lot of women folks are guilty of the caption charged against them, i think the male folks should also be blamed as an encouraging factor to this.

Gentleman, apart from calling her to come over to your place for the weekend, have her wash your clothes, keep your house clean and have massive sex. Have you tried to engage her in an intellectual/an intelligent discourse?

Apart from drilling that hole, have you tried to drill and extract her God given potentials from her?

Have you tried to discuss your dreams and aspirations with her and see how she fits in by suggesting ideas that would contribute positively to your dreams?

Apart from taking her to the club and have countless sit outs, have you ever taken her for seminars and workshops?

These are questions a lot of male folks are guilty of.

It takes two to tangle. Until you give her room to show you her potentials, you will never see her showcasing it.

The reason why she gives you just sex is because that is the only thing you require all the time from her ever since you both met.

Require more than sex, and then you will see her come out in her fullness.

(c) Precious Pearls

You are wrong, WOMAN ARE THE CAUSE OF NIGERIA PROBLEM

Generallll:
You just don't want to come to terms with the reality MISS POSTER.
Nigerian ladies ve nothing to offer in a relationship!!!! Period.
Infact most ladies this days have no difference with those ladies at the brothels, they date you, give you sex and extort money from you, an average Nigerian lady has many boyfriends and she bleeps and extort money from them all.

People at the back, can you hear it well Should I increase the volume more

franchasng:
Nigerian men now want to be pampered too, they are tired of being the horse

Not all Nigerian men are these shameless and leeches o!

At least my bf is a Nigerian, complete Igbo man and he loves to be in charge and very caring and generous. He works hard and ball hard. He doesn't wait for me to even credit his account. Instead he credits mine whenever i ask.

Ask me, why won't I respect him? Connections, he has!
Money he has!
Fine matured face he has!
Class he has!
He's even humble and well learned.

If u see babes rushing this guy? U go bow!

But I'm glad he chose me above all.

Mehn not all Nigerian men o.

I do pamper my man but not with crediting his account with money. He sees me as a woman meant to be protected, pampered and loved. That's how a man is meant to be. Not all these leeches calling themselves men.

to be honest Nigerian girls think a man is an automatic lifetime meal ticket, you must rescue them and their siblings from poverty or else they will give you trouble, some can not even cook despite having dead brain.

they want you to take them to America, lazy gold diggers

Thatssobeyonce:
Tell them and i dont bliv in pre marital sex!
my virginity is for my husband
And i want a frnd nd companion in the person i will marry because my dream is a happy family.

Hehe then get married to that and discover, she is not a virgin. Anyways beware their are medical precedures that imitates virginity and their those ones that canter that, I will suggest test all and don't forget to go do DNA test on all your children too. These women are listening to feminist. If she is not a virgin thou. U probably have the greatest con artist in the hus. Hand her over the police ASAP

feelz:
90% of Nigeria girls are not interested in such conversation, people that dont even know basic stuff as the governor of there state down to knowing what's just going on around. They derive pleasure in watching soap opera's, having unproductive discussion and using emotional way to get money from guys. I can go on and on listing. Nigerian girls have a very long way to go.

Really what kind of girls do ya'll meet?do you know the number of guys I have turned down because they're intellectually dumb,talk about the economy,what's happening in other nations, art,music,scientific explorations,books,the horizon,tech,real estate, entrepreneurship,etc, most just went to school, aside football and local politics they cant keep up with anything.

Thatssobeyonce:
Tell them and i dont bliv in pre marital sex!
my virginity is for my husband
And i want a frnd nd companion in the person i will marry because my dream is a happy family.

eh yaah this one touch me, it's well with you my sis, you will find your heart desire if u are honest and offer value you seek in return

Women can love and pamper a lot.In fact they are the best at it
A woman treats you a certain way not because she's that way originally,a woman treats you based on who you are
Someone like me, I don't need nothing from you...sex,cooking,cleaning,washing etc.It is called "relationship" not trade by batter

feelz:
90% of Nigeria girls are not interested in such conversation, people that dont even know basic stuff as the governor of there state down to knowing what's just going on around. They derive pleasure in watching soap opera's, having unproductive discussion and using emotional way to get money from guys. I can go on and on listing. Nigerian girls have a very long way to go.

I swear. They are the pure dregs of civilization.

How some men manage to wed them on Saturdays amaze me.

midnighter:
[s] "Empty Coconut Head"







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kop inua mfo

victorian:








Not all Nigerian men are these shameless and leeches o!

At least my bf is a Nigerian, complete Igbo man and he loves to be in charge and very caring and generous. He works hard and ball hard. He doesn't wait for me to even credit his account. Instead he credits mine whenever i ask.

Ask me, why won't I respect him? Connections, he has!
Money he has!
Fine matured face he has!
Class he has!
He's even humble and well learned.

If u see babes rushing this guy? U go bow!

But I'm glad he chose me above all.

Mehn not all Nigerian men o.

I do pamper my man but not with crediting his account with money. He sees me as a woman meant to be protected, pampered and loved. That's how a man is meant to be. Not all these leeches calling themselves men.

And your boyfriend might be here with anonymous moniker whining and complaining too, it is only a guy's friends that can tell u how the guy feel about u.


Men can be dying and be forming hero in front of their woman, lol



You think all the guys here are single and stingy, some may have bought cars for their girlfriends and still here whining

victorian:








Not all Nigerian men are these shameless and leeches o!

At least my bf is a Nigerian, complete Igbo man and he loves to be in charge and very caring and generous. He works hard and ball hard. He doesn't wait for me to even credit his account. Instead he credits mine whenever i ask.

Ask me, why won't I respect him? Connections, he has!
Money he has!
Fine matured face he has!
Class he has!
He's even humble and well learned.

If u see babes rushing this guy? U go bow!

But I'm glad he chose me above all.

Mehn not all Nigerian men o.

I do pamper my man but not with crediting his account with money. He sees me as a woman meant to be protected, pampered and loved. That's how a man is meant to be. Not all these leeches calling themselves men.

My friend go and sit down. Tell me what your contributions to him is since he has fulfilled all obligations.

lavylilly:
Greetings to you all.

I have a disturbing thought I'd like to share. Recently, i stumbled on a video which had a caption "Apart from sex, women have nothing to offer in a relationship."

I totally disagree with this.

I am not disagreeing as a feminist. I am disagreeing as a sane woman.

In as much as a lot of women folks are guilty of the caption charged against them, i think the male folks should also be blamed as an encouraging factor to this.

Gentleman, apart from calling her to come over to your place for the weekend, have her wash your clothes, keep your house clean and have massive sex. Have you tried to engage her in an intellectual/an intelligent discourse?

Apart from drilling that hole, have you tried to drill and extract her God given potentials from her?

Have you tried to discuss your dreams and aspirations with her and see how she fits in by suggesting ideas that would contribute positively to your dreams?

Apart from taking her to the club and have countless sit outs, have you ever taken her for seminars and workshops?

These are questions a lot of male folks are guilty of.

It takes two to tangle. Until you give her room to show you her potentials, you will never see her showcasing it.

The reason why she gives you just sex is because that is the only thing you require all the time from her ever since you both met.

Require more than sex, and then you will see her come out in her fullness.

(c) Precious Pearls

I won't date u even if u were given to me for free..

U present women as some very passive creatures,almost as simpletons..

Ur write up is saying :
women don't know whats good for them and don't have a mind of their own..they depend on d man to show them how and what to do..


I dnt blame u tho..this d typical mindset of d average Nigerian gal..

I would av said spit but...

Did u know it was on yesterday i browsed , on google that "Are all women whores"? And google sez, Trust me , oh mine oh mine. what i got. see women's brain are in their pvssy. No matter how that pussy will one day look for a cassava to scratch the wounds. it has bin programmed in their head to give sex. kpam.

Swears most of them cant just initiate any meaningful Convo,dey are just good in Fashion,hairs nd Movies
I shake head for Nigerian gals[color=#990000][/color]

Brightgem:
That's true. It's also the men's fault for encouraging these girls to be mediocre, because too many men are also mediocre.

I find too many men not able to hold intellectual conversations as well, very few. Na wetin you chop, what are you doing, what's fun to you them go dey ask. Eeesssh! As not as I'm not a teenager, basic conversations piss me off.

Before you conclude abt blaming men,u av to put to consideration population of women along men ... the chances of a man meeting an intellectual lady if he hookup of with 10 ladies a year can't b more than 2, which means men have to do more of the average women. in d midst of scarcity men jus av to make do with alternatives, n even if yu don't want to loneliness is nobody friend.
most of these guys askin you jamb question av yu eaten n stuffs is becos they don't see the potentials or endeavours on urside that could help them thru whats on there mind ... when i had these gurl workin in a microbank, i stil kept my aspirations, ideas of xpansion to mysef, becos talk like these bore average gurls, u"re a man figure tins out on ur own n bring money jare buh these babe will talk of investment opportunities , ideas, new Smes & money makin topics ... that unlocked me to relate more with her on that level.
buh i aasure yu chances of meetin intellectual guys is so high ... don't giv up

Muhylonaire:
Ok... We have heard this before, can you please say something else.

Let's kuku settle this, if you have heard this countless time hit the LIKE button... If you are seeing this for the first time, Oya SHARE button.

We will keep talking about it until we see changes in them.