franchasng:
I said it, gay alert, Nairaland should create a section for assless gays like you

Ladycewhy:
lol

UndauntedYOCA:
Some of us have sense but guys won't see that, I want to be my bf's peace, help him in whatever way he so desires. I have tried talking to him about side hustles such as business (trust me when I say I have business ideas), I help him look for other things that can fetch him money, one time like that I even dedicated a whole day to help him look for sites he could write for and earn extra cash, I told him about it, asked him to find out about them but he never got back to me. I'll want to tell him things he can do but he's always busy. Goes to work early and comes back late, barely even chats with me. Anyways she God will help us. Hope the sensible ones like us never get taken for granted.

feelz:
90% of Nigeria girls are not interested in such conversation, people that dont even know basic stuff as the governor of there state down to knowing what's just going on around. They derive pleasure in watching soap opera's, having unproductive discussion and using emotional way to get money from guys. I can go on and on listing. Nigerian girls have a very long way to go.

franchasng:
men follow what women fancy, or what majority of women fancy.



My sister be honest to yourself, how many Nigerian lady will prefer to stay at home with her boyfriend playing computer game, solving assignments, watching CNN, BBC, etc without showing her man clearly that she is bored


How many Nigerian ladies would agree to have a date at a garden where she won't order drinks, fried rice, shawarma, goat head, pizza, cold stone, etc


How many Nigerian ladies are interested in extracting the wisdom God gave them


They are more interested on how to dress or walk or talk or move to get a rich guy that will be squandering money on them; me I love it oh, in fact, I am a fan of it but let's be honest, Nigerian ladies are interested in men for the below reasons:

1.) Money
2.) Gifts(phones, laptops, cars, houses, etc)
3.) House rent
4.) School fees
5.) Upkeep money
6.) Free vacation



Remove the above things, 99.99% of Nigerian ladies will never date or marry any man, they are ready to die single and be using candle, cucumber, finger, Biro, carrot, broom, etc to be dicking themselves whenever they are Hot


How many Nigerian ladies can swear that they have given their boyfriend a huge sum of money that changed his life, like money he used to buy a car, rent a house, travel abroad, start or expand his business, pay his school fees


How many Nigerian ladies can swear they have helped their boyfriend secure visa to travel abroad or helped their boyfriend get citizenship of a western nation


But there are millions of Nigerian guys doing these things and many more everyday even as we speak!!!


Dear Nigerian ladies please change oh, make una change for good, the world is changing, internet is making guys wiser and opening their eyes to their previous mistakes, their mumu don de do oh

lavylilly:
Greetings to you all.

I have a disturbing thought I'd like to share. Recently, i stumbled on a video which had a caption "Apart from sex, women have nothing to offer in a relationship."

I totally disagree with this.

I am not disagreeing as a feminist. I am disagreeing as a sane woman.

In as much as a lot of women folks are guilty of the caption charged against them, i think the male folks should also be blamed as an encouraging factor to this.

Gentleman, apart from calling her to come over to your place for the weekend, have her wash your clothes, keep your house clean and have massive sex. Have you tried to engage her in an intellectual/an intelligent discourse?

Apart from drilling that hole, have you tried to drill and extract her God given potentials from her?

Have you tried to discuss your dreams and aspirations with her and see how she fits in by suggesting ideas that would contribute positively to your dreams?

Apart from taking her to the club and have countless sit outs, have you ever taken her for seminars and workshops?

These are questions a lot of male folks are guilty of.

It takes two to tangle. Until you give her room to show you her potentials, you will never see her showcasing it.

The reason why she gives you just sex is because that is the only thing you require all the time from her ever since you both met.

Require more than sex, and then you will see her come out in her fullness.

(c) Precious Pearls

planetx13:
The main question is how many of them can even give the sex well.... Nigerian women are very boring when it comes to matters of the other room


Ciao

feelz:
90% of Nigeria girls are not interested in such conversation, people that dont even know basic stuff as the governor of there state down to knowing what's just going on around. They derive pleasure in watching soap opera's, having unproductive discussion and using emotional way to get money from guys. I can go on and on listing. Nigerian girls have a very long way to go.

rtdCivilservant:

So are u now saying women are Zombies that they give in to whatever the men ask from them? They give sex just because the men ask? Are u saying Women are this stupid? God forbid my sweet mother can never be as foolish as u described.

lavylilly:
Greetings to you all.

I have a disturbing thought I'd like to share. Recently, i stumbled on a video which had a caption "Apart from sex, women have nothing to offer in a relationship."

I totally disagree with this.

I am not disagreeing as a feminist. I am disagreeing as a sane woman.

In as much as a lot of women folks are guilty of the caption charged against them, i think the male folks should also be blamed as an encouraging factor to this.

Gentleman, apart from calling her to come over to your place for the weekend, have her wash your clothes, keep your house clean and have massive sex. Have you tried to engage her in an intellectual/an intelligent discourse?

Apart from drilling that hole, have you tried to drill and extract her God given potentials from her?

Have you tried to discuss your dreams and aspirations with her and see how she fits in by suggesting ideas that would contribute positively to your dreams?

Apart from taking her to the club and have countless sit outs, have you ever taken her for seminars and workshops?

These are questions a lot of male folks are guilty of.

It takes two to tangle. Until you give her room to show you her potentials, you will never see her showcasing it.

The reason why she gives you just sex is because that is the only thing you require all the time from her ever since you both met.

Require more than sex, and then you will see her come out in her fullness.

it is not all of that will listen to whatever you maybe saying without sex sex sex

(c) Precious Pearls

joepepsy:
Don't like women who are not beautiful.

anslem04:




Need i remind you of a saying which as becum an actual fact; " you can't give what you don't av''.
In r/ships, is not until you start giving her aptitude test b4 yu knw she is intelligent/smart or industrious ... from mere gist you can detect if she is intelligent. another fact about intellect beings is dey can't resist sharing n learning , so even if d guy refuse to bring up topic that as do with his dreams & aspiration d babe will ask
most naija babe have nothing upstair aside been materialistic, its so easy to knw dem, cos they will never ask d guy abt is dreams & goal ,all they knw hw 2 ask is, hello av u sent it !
Bottomline an intellectual babe won't even wait 4 her man to run an aptitude test on her b4 she start showcasin her potentials

Sweetcollins:
Just like the guy above rightly said, so many so called slay girls don't even know what is Honda or Toyota , so how can you ask for her help in choice making....sometimes I pity them. They are just there!!
Many I said, NOT ALL I no wan dodge stones

Jossyroyal1:
You have a point OP

When people generalises, it only shows how lowly and unintelligent they are in terms of reasoning. How can a sane individual say “Women have nothing to offer in a relationship other than sex”?
By such generalization, you have stupidly included your mom, aunties, sisters and other female folks in your life into your stupid assumption.

Go to most homes, you will realise it's women that's shouldering financial responsible and overseeing the well being of the family except you think relationship is limited to boyfriend and girlfriend. Marriage is a relationship also

Generallll:
You just don't want to come to terms with the reality MISS POSTER.
Nigerian ladies ve nothing to offer in a relationship!!!! Period.
Infact most ladies this days have no difference with those ladies at the brothels, they date you, give you sex and extort money from you, an average Nigerian lady has many boyfriends and she bleeps and extort money from them all.

Jossyroyal1:
You have a point OP

When people generalises, it only shows how lowly and unintelligent they are in terms of reasoning. How can a sane individual say “Women have nothing to offer in a relationship other than sex”?
By such generalization, you have stupidly included your mom, aunties, sisters and other female folks in your life into your stupid assumption.

Go to most homes, you will realise it's women that's shouldering financial responsible and overseeing the well being of the family except you think relationship is limited to boyfriend and girlfriend. Marriage is a relationship also

Fountainofyouth:



You will burn in Hades for mentioning Southy here, "she's your backbone financially" bla bla bla, you lazy ass nuisance, pretty sure your sisters and female cousins are Nigerians, rubbish.

anslem04:





Before you conclude abt blaming men,u av to put to consideration population of women along men ... the chances of a man meeting an intellectual lady if he hookup of with 10 ladies a year can't b more than 2, which means men have to do more of the average women. in d midst of scarcity men jus av to make do with alternatives, n even if yu don't want to loneliness is nobody friend.
most of these guys askin you jamb question av yu eaten n stuffs is becos they don't see the potentials or endeavours on urside that could help them thru whats on there mind ... when i had these gurl workin in a microbank, i stil kept my aspirations, ideas of xpansion to mysef, becos talk like these bore average gurls, u"re a man figure tins out on ur own n bring money jare buh these babe will talk of investment opportunities , ideas, new Smes & money makin topics ... that unlocked me to relate more with her on that level.
buh i aasure yu chances of meetin intellectual guys is so high ... don't giv up

Jossyroyal1:
You have a point OP

When people generalises, it only shows how lowly and unintelligent they are in terms of reasoning. How can a sane individual say “Women have nothing to offer in a relationship other than sex”?
By such generalization, you have stupidly included your mom, aunties, sisters and other female folks in your life into your stupid assumption.

Go to most homes, you will realise it's women that's shouldering financial responsible and overseeing the well being of the family except you think relationship is limited to boyfriend and girlfriend. Marriage is a relationship also

Deja93:
My girlfriend is from cape town South Africa and she’s a miner she’s been my backbone financially and morally for a while now trust me I’ve met Nigerian girls in the past they’re a disgrace to their womanhood

*spits*

anslem04:




Need i remind you of a saying which as becum an actual fact; " you can't give what you don't av''.
In r/ships, is not until you start giving her aptitude test b4 yu knw she is intelligent/smart or industrious ... from mere gist you can detect if she is intelligent. another fact about intellect beings is dey can't resist sharing n learning , so even if d guy refuse to bring up topic that as do with his dreams & aspiration d babe will ask
most naija babe have nothing upstair aside been materialistic, its so easy to knw dem, cos they will never ask d guy abt is dreams & goal ,all they knw hw 2 ask is, hello av u sent it !
Bottomline an intellectual babe won't even wait 4 her man to run an aptitude test on her b4 she start showcasin her potentials