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Re: Will I Regret My Decision Later On In Life? by LoyalRccgMember: 10:25am On Nov 23, 2019
yeyeosoronga:
Flee from all appearances of evil
Why not get yourself busy? Are you in the university yet? If you are, look for other skills to acquire that will help your life post uni.
Get some certifications relevant to your course of study. Leave small pikin matter. If you want a girlfriend, get one who you can be serious with, and who has the same vision as you. Leave the 16 year old alone o.

I'm a graphics designer. I'm the one who does all graphics works for the church
Re: Will I Regret My Decision Later On In Life? by greatme2good(f): 10:42am On Nov 23, 2019
Op I hope you pay attention to your own sister coz this saying "show me your friend" is not just a mere say. Stay miles away from that your sister's friend and the pianist especially. Don't be surprised if he leaks the pastor's daughters nude in future.... You don't need such people in your, he's not worthy to be called a friend.

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Re: Will I Regret My Decision Later On In Life? by Nobody: 10:46am On Nov 23, 2019
OkCornel:
Jesusjnr & Praivit0 come and see something the once saved always saved crew likes.

Come and see ‘grace’ at work in this story...
Lol!

The Albhagdadi and Solite3 grace to continue in sin crew.

Not surprised for this is the reason why i'm going to fight such an erroneous teaching with every atom of strength i've got in me, so help me God.

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Re: Will I Regret My Decision Later On In Life? by Nobody: 10:58am On Nov 23, 2019
LoyalRccgMember:
Good morning guys, so there's an issue that has been bothering me for a week now.

it's about my younger sister's childhood friend. so, I came back from school last month after finishing my 2nd semester 300l exams.

And anytime, my friends sister visited our house, she'll sometimes sneak into my room to collect my phone which she claims shes uses for assignments (she's currently in S.S.2).

So last week, she came as usual to collect the phone. after giving her, she decided to stay back in the room while she makes research on her so-called assignments. while putting on earpiece ooo.

unknown to her, even though I was busy on my laptop, I could still hear some noise from the earpiece. I had to pause what I was doing to listen carefully and found out that this girl was actually watching porn in my holy phone oooo.

I got angry and collected my phone after which I sent her out of my room. even after that event, she still visits our house and still comes into my room but I've denied her my phone sha.

So, last week Sunday, after church service, I tried to my Buddy who was a pianist in our church to seek advice from him if I should report the girl to her parents or leave her alone.

I was quite shocked at his reply as he said I messed up that I should have taken advantage of the girl. I was like, the girl is 16 oooo. and i also told him that I don't engage in such stuffs (At 20, I've never hugged a girl before because of my low self esteem as my friends would call it) He also told Me that age is just a number that he have been strafing the junior pastor's daughter who was his girlfriend (17year old girl ooo and dude is 23) i didn't believe him at first not until he showed me the nude pictures of the girl.

he said I should man up that he'll get me a condom this Sunday which I will use. I told him that he should remember that he is a Christian and that as Christians, we should stay away from all forms of immorality and that our body is the temple of God which should remain Pure and Holy at the same time.
the dude's defense was that Jesus has already died for our sins and that subsequent sins we commit will be forgiven.

Right now, I'm confused as to what to do as my younger sister's friend has been trying to seduce me. sometimes, she'll just come into my room without even knocking the door wearing what seemed like mini skirt. mind you, all the while that she has been coming to our house, my parents are not always around. also, her mom and my mom are close buddies.

Please I need an advice on what to do as my friend from the just has already promised to bring the CD on Sunday. also, is it true that Jesus really died for our subsequent sins? that is, the sins we commit later on in life will be forgiven? also, I need advice from those who had engage in premarital sex before. so far, have you had any regrets? please help a brother. please I'll appreciate if I get more views concerning this issue.

Lalasticlala
mynd44
seun
Bro you're on the right path which leads to eternal life, while your pianist friend is threading a very dangerous path which lead to destruction. If you leave your path and begin to follow his you'd both end up in hell.

Advice your friend to repent if you can for that idea of grace is the grace of hell fire. But if you can't, I'd advice you just keep the distance from such a friend for he's not good company for someone like you, as you can see how he's been able to turn your head a bit.

People like you are a rarity, so don't deplete what's already in short supply in the society, and also begin to thread a path that would definitely end in regrets.

I believe that you'd be fine, and also warn your sister against keeping such a friend except you believe she can take of herself.

God bless.

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Re: Will I Regret My Decision Later On In Life? by Gettreadyy(m): 12:18pm On Nov 23, 2019
Tell her you don't want to see her in your house with a stern face but don't report her to her parents.
I believe many youths if in ur shoes will take advantage of her.
Re: Will I Regret My Decision Later On In Life? by alBHAGDADI: 12:37pm On Nov 23, 2019
jesusjnr:
Lol!

The Albhagdadi and Solite3 grace to continue in sin crew.

Not surprised for this is the reason why i'm going to fight such an erroneous teaching with every atom of strength i've got in me, so help me God.

You guys are pure satanists who will go any length to ensure people end up in hell fire like you. Look at how you guys created the OP's new Monika two days ago to create this topic just to cast aspersions on the Gospel of Jesus Christ. You want to to hold people in bondage.

You created the Monika to make it seem like Once Saved Always Saved is a doctrine that encourages sin.

Curses be on you all for this blatant falsehood. Hell fire is your abode, bloody Satanists.

Re: Will I Regret My Decision Later On In Life? by OkCornel(m): 12:43pm On Nov 23, 2019
alBHAGDADI:


You guys are pure satanists who will go any length to ensure people end up in hell fire like you. Look at how you guys created the OP's new Monika two days ago to create this topic just to cast aspersions on the Gospel of Jesus Christ. You want to to hold people in bondage.

You created the Monika to make it seem like Once Saved Always Saved is a doctrine that encourages sin.

Curses be on you all for this blatant falsehood. Hell fire is your abode, bloody Satanists.


Get well soon eh...gateman and minister of hellfire

Every new moniker on Nairaland might just be me.


As usual, always sidestepping the issue being discussed with false accusations.


Your escapades in the sexuality section is still there for all to see.

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Re: Will I Regret My Decision Later On In Life? by alBHAGDADI: 12:45pm On Nov 23, 2019
OkCornel:

Get well soon eh...gateman and minister of hellfire
Every new moniker on Nairaland might just be me.

As usual, always sidestepping the issue being discussed with false accusations.

Your escapades in the sexuality section is still there for all to see.
Get thee behind me Satan
Re: Will I Regret My Decision Later On In Life? by OkCornel(m): 12:45pm On Nov 23, 2019
alBHAGDADI:


Get thee behind me Satan

Hope you’ve taken your medications today.

Continue in ‘grace’ so you can keep patronising ladies of easy virtue and some weed;
https://www.nairaland.com/5340899/daddy-freeze-reacts-estate-where#80951557


Take your hypocrisy outta face mehn!

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Re: Will I Regret My Decision Later On In Life? by Nobody: 12:53pm On Nov 23, 2019
Don't do it! Be the adult with a functioning brain.

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Re: Will I Regret My Decision Later On In Life? by alBHAGDADI: 1:08pm On Nov 23, 2019
OkCornel:


Hope you’ve taken your medications today.

Continue in ‘grace’ so you can keep patronising ladies of easy virtue and some weed;
https://www.nairaland.com/5340899/daddy-freeze-reacts-estate-where#80951557


Take your hypocrisy outta face mehn!

Are you done?

You went as far as digging into my post as far back as 2016 when I wasn't saved. You dug it out to do what exactly? To tarnish my image? No

You dug it up to discredit everything I preach on this forum. You want people to be like "oh, look at who is preaching". That is so satanic about you. Every child of God on this forum knows you are a confirmed Satanist who would go any length to please his father the devil.

What is it you even think you have against me? You pulled one line from a comment I made out of sarcasm and all of a sudden I'ma bad guy.

What baffles me is how you found time to dig as far back as 2016 just to look for dirt on me. I must really be giving your father sleepless nights on this forum for you to do that. Guess what fool, I wasn't saved then, a thing you ought to have been smart enough to figure out from my posts of those days. But you don't care. All you want is looking for anything you can use to prevent people from listening to the Good News of the Gospel of Jesus Christ which I preach. Isn't that satanic? Why try to discredit someone trying to set people on the right part but morally and spiritually? That's because he's freeing people from your master's grip. You don't like that.

You have been creating different new Monikas just to tackle me. Sadly for you, I keep seeing your handwork in them. You create the Monika that created this thread just so you can tell the world that the Gospel of Jesus makes people live in sin. You did so because you haven't had rest since my thread last Sunday freedamy people from your satanic grip. It's been sleepless nights for you and so shall it ever be.

You are a reprobate and doomed to hell fire. Guess what? This your latest moves will make God inflict you with deadly diseases because you are working against him. You will become an example of what no one, not even a mad man, would want to be.

Now, get thee behind me thou accuser of the brethren.

Revelation 12:10 King James Version (KJV)
And I heard a loud voice saying in heaven, Now is come salvation, and strength, and the kingdom of our God, and the power of his Christ: for the accuser of our brethren is cast down, which accused them before our God day and night.
Re: Will I Regret My Decision Later On In Life? by ednut1(m): 1:15pm On Nov 23, 2019
Fake account
Re: Will I Regret My Decision Later On In Life? by alBHAGDADI: 1:18pm On Nov 23, 2019
ednut1:




Fake account




Thank you very much.

lalasticlala seen mynd44

Take note. The OP is fake. The thread was created by someone with the aim of discrediting Christianity. Of you glance through the thread, you will see who the person is.
Re: Will I Regret My Decision Later On In Life? by OkCornel(m): 1:25pm On Nov 23, 2019
alBHAGDADI:


Are you done?

You went as far as digging into my post as far back as 2016 when I wasn't saved. You dug it out to do what exactly? To tarnish my image? No

You dug it up to discredit everything I preach on this forum. You want people to be like "oh, look at who is preaching". That is so satanic about you. Every child of God on this forum knows you are a confirmed Satanist who would go any length to please his father the devil.

What is it you even think you have against me? You pulled one line from a comment I made out of sarcasm and all of a sudden I'ma bad guy.

What baffles me is how you found time to dig as far back as 2016 just to look for dirt on me. I must really be giving your father sleepless nights on this forum for you to do that. Guess what fool, I wasn't saved then, a thing you ought to have been smart enough to figure out from my posts of those days. But you don't care. All you want is looking for anything you can use to prevent people from listening to the Good News of the Gospel of Jesus Christ which I preach. Isn't that satanic? Why try to discredit someone trying to set people on the right part but morally and spiritually? That's because he's freeing people from your master's grip. You don't like that.

You have been creating different new Monikas just to tackle me. Sadly for you, I keep seeing your handwork in them. You create the Monika that created this thread just so you can tell the world that the Gospel of Jesus makes people live in sin. You did so because you haven't had rest since my thread last Sunday freedamy people from your satanic grip. It's been sleepless nights for you and so shall it ever be.

You are a reprobate and doomed to hell fire. Guess what? This your latest moves will make God inflict you with deadly diseases because you are working against him. You will become an example of what no one, not even a mad man, would want to be.

Now, get thee behind me thou accuser of the brethren.

Revelation 12:10 King James Version (KJV)
And I heard a loud voice saying in heaven, Now is come salvation, and strength, and the kingdom of our God, and the power of his Christ: for the accuser of our brethren is cast down, which accused them before our God day and night.

Stories that touch.

You’re fond of telling lies, and accusing people of using alternate monikers to get back at you, especially when your lies and hypocrisy is exposed.


For a start, prove to everyone here that loyalrccgmember is my alternate moniker, or forever confirm yourself a false accuser and liar on this forum.


Hypocrisy and lies go hand in hand with you.

Utter nonsense.


Mynd44 please take note.

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Re: Will I Regret My Decision Later On In Life? by Chubhie: 1:42pm On Nov 23, 2019
LoyalRccgMember:


Thanks a lot! I'm planning to report my guy to our pastor but I don't want to be seen as a snitch

Re: Will I Regret My Decision Later On In Life? by Nobody: 4:02pm On Nov 23, 2019
LoyalRccgMember:
Good morning guys, so there's an issue that has been bothering me for a week now.

it's about my younger sister's childhood friend. so, I came back from school last month after finishing my 2nd semester 300l exams.

And anytime, my friends sister visited our house, she'll sometimes sneak into my room to collect my phone which she claims shes uses for assignments (she's currently in S.S.2).

So last week, she came as usual to collect the phone. after giving her, she decided to stay back in the room while she makes research on her so-called assignments. while putting on earpiece ooo.

unknown to her, even though I was busy on my laptop, I could still hear some noise from the earpiece. I had to pause what I was doing to listen carefully and found out that this girl was actually watching porn in my holy phone oooo.

I got angry and collected my phone after which I sent her out of my room. even after that event, she still visits our house and still comes into my room but I've denied her my phone sha.

So, last week Sunday, after church service, I tried to my Buddy who was a pianist in our church to seek advice from him if I should report the girl to her parents or leave her alone.

I was quite shocked at his reply as he said I messed up that I should have taken advantage of the girl. I was like, the girl is 16 oooo. and i also told him that I don't engage in such stuffs (At 20, I've never hugged a girl before because of my low self esteem as my friends would call it) He also told Me that age is just a number that he have been strafing the junior pastor's daughter who was his girlfriend (17year old girl ooo and dude is 23) i didn't believe him at first not until he showed me the nude pictures of the girl.

he said I should man up that he'll get me a condom this Sunday which I will use. I told him that he should remember that he is a Christian and that as Christians, we should stay away from all forms of immorality and that our body is the temple of God which should remain Pure and Holy at the same time.
the dude's defense was that Jesus has already died for our sins and that subsequent sins we commit will be forgiven.

Right now, I'm confused as to what to do as my younger sister's friend has been trying to seduce me. sometimes, she'll just come into my room without even knocking the door wearing what seemed like mini skirt. mind you, all the while that she has been coming to our house, my parents are not always around. also, her mom and my mom are close buddies.

Please I need an advice on what to do as my friend from the just has already promised to bring the CD on Sunday. also, is it true that Jesus really died for our subsequent sins? that is, the sins we commit later on in life will be forgiven? also, I need advice from those who had engage in premarital sex before. so far, have you had any regrets? please help a brother. please I'll appreciate if I get more views concerning this issue.

Lalasticlala
mynd44
seun

All these young instrumentalist in church and choristers I don't just trust them. Esp the ladies they usually fall prey for Brother John or Peter because he has a good voice or can play a particular instrument so well.

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Re: Will I Regret My Decision Later On In Life? by Orhevus: 4:06pm On Nov 23, 2019
Kennywagz
Re: Will I Regret My Decision Later On In Life? by armadeo(m): 5:38pm On Nov 23, 2019
Guy what's the conflict about.

He said he would being condom, you didnt say no.

You've consented to the act in your mind but your guilt feelings led you to opening this thread.

The only thing I would say is the girl is a child leave her alone. Dont be that guy.

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Re: Will I Regret My Decision Later On In Life? by armadeo(m): 5:40pm On Nov 23, 2019
LoyalRccgMember:


Thanks a lot! I'm planning to report my guy to our pastor but I don't want to be seen as a snitch

Lol. Guilty as dude. Am sure her perky breasts have been giving you thoughts.

This matter is as simple as a senate vote. The power of it is only ou decides. Yea or nay.


As I said shes a child.
Re: Will I Regret My Decision Later On In Life? by Prinss: 5:50pm On Nov 23, 2019
"Sin is waiting at your door and its desire is to have you..."- God [Gen. 4:7]
Re: Will I Regret My Decision Later On In Life? by nervorum: 7:04pm On Nov 23, 2019
LoyalRccgMember:
Good morning guys, so there's an issue that has been bothering me for a week now.

it's about my younger sister's childhood friend. so, I came back from school last month after finishing my 2nd semester 300l exams.

And anytime, my friends sister visited our house, she'll sometimes sneak into my room to collect my phone which she claims shes uses for assignments (she's currently in S.S.2).

So last week, she came as usual to collect the phone. after giving her, she decided to stay back in the room while she makes research on her so-called assignments. while putting on earpiece ooo.

unknown to her, even though I was busy on my laptop, I could still hear some noise from the earpiece. I had to pause what I was doing to listen carefully and found out that this girl was actually watching porn in my holy phone oooo.

I got angry and collected my phone after which I sent her out of my room. even after that event, she still visits our house and still comes into my room but I've denied her my phone sha.

So, last week Sunday, after church service, I tried to my Buddy who was a pianist in our church to seek advice from him if I should report the girl to her parents or leave her alone.

I was quite shocked at his reply as he said I messed up that I should have taken advantage of the girl. I was like, the girl is 16 oooo. and i also told him that I don't engage in such stuffs (At 20, I've never hugged a girl before because of my low self esteem as my friends would call it) He also told Me that age is just a number that he have been strafing the junior pastor's daughter who was his girlfriend (17year old girl ooo and dude is 23) i didn't believe him at first not until he showed me the nude pictures of the girl.

he said I should man up that he'll get me a condom this Sunday which I will use. I told him that he should remember that he is a Christian and that as Christians, we should stay away from all forms of immorality and that our body is the temple of God which should remain Pure and Holy at the same time.
the dude's defense was that Jesus has already died for our sins and that subsequent sins we commit will be forgiven.

Right now, I'm confused as to what to do as my younger sister's friend has been trying to seduce me. sometimes, she'll just come into my room without even knocking the door wearing what seemed like mini skirt. mind you, all the while that she has been coming to our house, my parents are not always around. also, her mom and my mom are close buddies.

Please I need an advice on what to do as my friend from the just has already promised to bring the CD on Sunday. also, is it true that Jesus really died for our subsequent sins? that is, the sins we commit later on in life will be forgiven? also, I need advice from those who had engage in premarital sex before. so far, have you had any regrets? please help a brother. please I'll appreciate if I get more views concerning this issue.

Lalasticlala
mynd44
seun

Yes, you would regret your decision to proceed with this act.

Your spirit has already witnessed to you that what you are contemplating is evil. Yes, it is.

God wants us to flee from immorality, it does not matter what the world thinks.
A man cannot take fire in his bossom and not consumed. Others have escaped, YOU WOULD NOT. BE warned to desist from this action!
Re: Will I Regret My Decision Later On In Life? by midnighter(f): 7:29pm On Nov 23, 2019
BiggyB242:


All these young instrumentalist in church and choristers I don't just trust them. Esp the ladies they usually fall prey for Brother John or Peter because he has a good voice or can play a particular instrument so well.

Especially choirmaster lipsrsealed I really hate those guys sometimes. They will just mess up almost all the girls in the choir

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Re: Will I Regret My Decision Later On In Life? by Abcruz(m): 7:41pm On Nov 23, 2019
LoyalRccgMember:


Thanks a lot! I'm planning to report my guy to our pastor but I don't want to be seen as a snitch

If you value your identity and priority in life cut ties with that evil friend of yours. Do not destroy your destiny on the alter of 5mins pleasure. Sex is a covenant and not a casual act of fun.

One friend deceives another and no one tells the truth. These people have trained themselves to tell lies. They do wrong and are unable to repent.-Jeremiah 9:5

Run away from that girl because she will ruin your reputation before your sister and consequently destroy the relationship existing between your mother and her mother. In the future she will end up telling the whole world that you raped her as a teenager.

Sensible people will see trouble coming and avoid it, but an unthinking person will walk right into it and regret it later.--proverbs 22:3

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Re: Will I Regret My Decision Later On In Life? by midnighter(f): 7:45pm On Nov 23, 2019
You don't need to touch a 16 year old girl. And she's even your family friend.

You will ruin your reputation and that of your family if you try that nonsense.

If you must do it, find somebody who is of age at least. And somebody your family doesn't have connections with
Re: Will I Regret My Decision Later On In Life? by CsRockefeller(m): 9:04pm On Nov 23, 2019
midnighter:
You don't need to touch a 16 year old girl. And she's even your family friend.

You will ruin your reputation and that of your family if you try that nonsense.

If you must do it, find somebody who is of age at least. And somebody your family doesn't have connections with

So sex is now allowed outside marriage?

If he must do it or he shouldn't do it.

It's well o.
Re: Will I Regret My Decision Later On In Life? by LadySarah: 9:05pm On Nov 23, 2019
LoyalRccgMember:


Thanks a lot! I'm planning to report my guy to our pastor but I don't want to be seen as a snitch

Dont report him,life will handle him
Re: Will I Regret My Decision Later On In Life? by midnighter(f): 9:14pm On Nov 23, 2019
CsRockefeller:


So sex is now allowed outside marriage?

If he must do it or he shouldn't do it.

It's well o.

Of course he knows he shouldn't do it, no be rccg hin dey? He already knows all that so let's just be practical here

My concern is touching that little girl...that's the most stupid thing he could possibly do. Statutory rape, affecting his relationship with his sister, messing up his mother's name, scandalising his family in the church and the list goes on.

If he can't hold himself again he should go and find somebody age-appropriate.
Re: Will I Regret My Decision Later On In Life? by extremelygolden: 10:07pm On Nov 23, 2019
LoyalRccgMember:
Good morning guys, so there's an issue that has been bothering me for a week now.

it's about my younger sister's childhood friend. so, I came back from school last month after finishing my 2nd semester 300l exams.

And anytime, my friends sister visited our house, she'll sometimes sneak into my room to collect my phone which she claims shes uses for assignments (she's currently in S.S.2).

So last week, she came as usual to collect the phone. after giving her, she decided to stay back in the room while she makes research on her so-called assignments. while putting on earpiece ooo.

unknown to her, even though I was busy on my laptop, I could still hear some noise from the earpiece. I had to pause what I was doing to listen carefully and found out that this girl was actually watching porn in my holy phone oooo.

I got angry and collected my phone after which I sent her out of my room. even after that event, she still visits our house and still comes into my room but I've denied her my phone sha.

So, last week Sunday, after church service, I tried to my Buddy who was a pianist in our church to seek advice from him if I should report the girl to her parents or leave her alone.

I was quite shocked at his reply as he said I messed up that I should have taken advantage of the girl. I was like, the girl is 16 oooo. and i also told him that I don't engage in such stuffs (At 20, I've never hugged a girl before because of my low self esteem as my friends would call it) He also told Me that age is just a number that he have been strafing the junior pastor's daughter who was his girlfriend (17year old girl ooo and dude is 23) i didn't believe him at first not until he showed me the nude pictures of the girl.

he said I should man up that he'll get me a condom this Sunday which I will use. I told him that he should remember that he is a Christian and that as Christians, we should stay away from all forms of immorality and that our body is the temple of God which should remain Pure and Holy at the same time.
the dude's defense was that Jesus has already died for our sins and that subsequent sins we commit will be forgiven.

Right now, I'm confused as to what to do as my younger sister's friend has been trying to seduce me. sometimes, she'll just come into my room without even knocking the door wearing what seemed like mini skirt. mind you, all the while that she has been coming to our house, my parents are not always around. also, her mom and my mom are close buddies.

Please I need an advice on what to do as my friend from the just has already promised to bring the CD on Sunday. also, is it true that Jesus really died for our subsequent sins? that is, the sins we commit later on in life will be forgiven? also, I need advice from those who had engage in premarital sex before. so far, have you had any regrets? please help a brother. please I'll appreciate if I get more views concerning this issue.

Lalasticlala
mynd44
seun

An RCCG member asking such a silly question!

Just because you want to commit fornication, destroy your destiny and damn your soul in hell, you're trying to indirectly justify what your friend said about the death of Christ. So the church service you've been attending all these years and the sermons you've been hearing, fell on the biblical stony ground, abi?

I pray the condom burst. Just impregnate the girl already so that you'll engage in manual labour while still going to school. Afterall, it's just few hours to Sunday. But don't forget that THE SOUL THAT SINNETH, SHALL DIE! Ezekiel 18:20, Ezekiel 33:8-9

A gullible fellow.

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Re: Will I Regret My Decision Later On In Life? by Smartjohns(m): 11:46pm On Nov 23, 2019
Omihanifa:
WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS
The Bible advises people to “flee from fornication.” (1 Corinthians 6:18) This means that a person needs to stay as far away as possible from anything that could lure him or her into sexual immorality. (Proverbs 22:3) For instance, in order to remain morally clean, it is vital for one to avoid close association with people who ignore God’s principles related to sex. The Bible warns: “He that is walking with wise persons will become wise, but he that is having dealings with the stupid ones will fare badly.”—Proverbs 13:20.

I LOVE YOU!!!!
Re: Will I Regret My Decision Later On In Life? by NoToPile: 6:30am On Nov 24, 2019
LoyalRccgMember:
Good morning guys, so there's an issue that has been bothering me for a week now.

it's about my younger sister's childhood friend. so, I came back from school last month after finishing my 2nd semester 300l exams.

And anytime, my friends sister visited our house, she'll sometimes sneak into my room to collect my phone which she claims shes uses for assignments (she's currently in S.S.2).

So last week, she came as usual to collect the phone. after giving her, she decided to stay back in the room while she makes research on her so-called assignments. while putting on earpiece ooo.

unknown to her, even though I was busy on my laptop, I could still hear some noise from the earpiece. I had to pause what I was doing to listen carefully and found out that this girl was actually watching porn in my holy phone oooo.

I got angry and collected my phone after which I sent her out of my room. even after that event, she still visits our house and still comes into my room but I've denied her my phone sha.

So, last week Sunday, after church service, I tried to my Buddy who was a pianist in our church to seek advice from him if I should report the girl to her parents or leave her alone.

I was quite shocked at his reply as he said I messed up that I should have taken advantage of the girl. I was like, the girl is 16 oooo. and i also told him that I don't engage in such stuffs (At 20, I've never hugged a girl before because of my low self esteem as my friends would call it) He also told Me that age is just a number that he have been strafing the junior pastor's daughter who was his girlfriend (17year old girl ooo and dude is 23) i didn't believe him at first not until he showed me the nude pictures of the girl.

he said I should man up that he'll get me a condom this Sunday which I will use. I told him that he should remember that he is a Christian and that as Christians, we should stay away from all forms of immorality and that our body is the temple of God which should remain Pure and Holy at the same time.
the dude's defense was that Jesus has already died for our sins and that subsequent sins we commit will be forgiven.

Right now, I'm confused as to what to do as my younger sister's friend has been trying to seduce me. sometimes, she'll just come into my room without even knocking the door wearing what seemed like mini skirt. mind you, all the while that she has been coming to our house, my parents are not always around. also, her mom and my mom are close buddies.

Please I need an advice on what to do as my friend from the just has already promised to bring the CD on Sunday. also, is it true that Jesus really died for our subsequent sins? that is, the sins we commit later on in life will be forgiven? also, I need advice from those who had engage in premarital sex before. so far, have you had any regrets? please help a brother. please I'll appreciate if I get more views concerning this issue.

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Ogbeni, your post got to me.

I beg you in the name of the God you serve, flee from every apperance of evil.

You know its wrong thats why you opened this thread, you are just surprised that a church brother is advising you to do otherwise, that shows that all the words you ve been listening to in church are not in vain, you still have the fear of God in you.

Avoid that girl, ban her from coming to your house, tell your mum what she's trying to do, your mum will handle it with her mum. However you want to do it make sure she doesn't come near you at all. You are only protecting yourself.

As for brother adviser with doctrine from the pit of hell, avoid him in church on the street anywhere, he's evil masqurading as a son of God, they are plenty in church nowadays oo. He's looking for someone to drag down with him he's not even repentant at all. Do not even collect the condom from him.

Gods grace doesn't give us license to sin, that doctrine he is telling you is an error and from the pit of hell. You are going to bear the consequence of your actions.

As for having regret about premarital sex, oh yeah you will surely regret it all your life.

Dont tamper with your destiny because one guy somewhere trying to poision your mind.

Teenager trying to seduce a 20year old, Lord have mercy oo and the Agbaya that they asked advise from is even more annoying, now twisting the bible for his own selfish benefit.

I wonder what the church is turning into nowadays.

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Re: Will I Regret My Decision Later On In Life? by egopersonified(f): 3:12pm On Nov 24, 2019
See the generation of kids we are raising. I believe this girl just wants to brag she has a boyfriend too. Instead of looking for similar interests they have and create a bond, she just wants to open legs. See the destruction of having tonto, tasha, tuface, davido and co as role models.

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Re: Will I Regret My Decision Later On In Life? by LoyalRccgMember: 5:20pm On Nov 24, 2019
alBHAGDADI:


Thank you very much.

lalasticlala seen mynd44

Take note. The OP is fake. The thread was created by someone with the aim of discrediting Christianity. Of you glance through the thread, you will see who the person is.

so, because I created a new account to seek advice, I'm now discrediting Christianity? Mind you, my mom and dad are strong members of the church

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