They are intelligent and ready to support and share your concerns. Considering Nigerian men ego thinking that she wants to dominate you in ramifications. Some of them prefer to keep quite so that U don't think she is very rude. If she refuse U sex U will still talk. I don't know what they will do to please U Nigerian men. All what they are doing is to protect their home and marriage.

CsRockefeller:


But u said no guy can.

I said the ones I dated in the past

feelz:
90% of Nigeria girls are not interested in such conversation, people that dont even know basic stuff as the governor of there state down to knowing what's just going on around. They derive pleasure in watching soap opera's, having unproductive discussion and using emotional way to get money from guys. I can go on and on listing. Nigerian girls have a very long way to go.

Nwoke m, stop generalising.

lavylilly:
Greetings to you all.

I have a disturbing thought I'd like to share. Recently, i stumbled on a video which had a caption "Apart from sex, women have nothing to offer in a relationship."

I totally disagree with this.

I am not disagreeing as a feminist. I am disagreeing as a sane woman.

In as much as a lot of women folks are guilty of the caption charged against them, i think the male folks should also be blamed as an encouraging factor to this.

Gentleman, apart from calling her to come over to your place for the weekend, have her wash your clothes, keep your house clean and have massive sex. Have you tried to engage her in an intellectual/an intelligent discourse?

Apart from drilling that hole, have you tried to drill and extract her God given potentials from her?

Have you tried to discuss your dreams and aspirations with her and see how she fits in by suggesting ideas that would contribute positively to your dreams?

Apart from taking her to the club and have countless sit outs, have you ever taken her for seminars and workshops?

These are questions a lot of male folks are guilty of.

It takes two to tangle. Until you give her room to show you her potentials, you will never see her showcasing it.

The reason why she gives you just sex is because that is the only thing you require all the time from her ever since you both met.

Require more than sex, and then you will see her come out in her fullness.

(c) Precious Pearls

It's all about have you ever advised her? Sit her down? Show her your plans and dreams? Show, show, advice ....... Blah blah blah
Whatever happens to women doing same to men.
Always receiving and receiving... Smh
Ehat happens to a lady sitting a man down to tell him her plans, how it's goin to affect the man positively, both targets and goals.
Always about you you and you..
And it is always the man's fault for a lady been lazy, not proactive or have her plans.
Too much entitlement mentality.
Franchang
Martinez39
Pansophist
Ubunja

All this shouting and ranting won't change anything believe it or not u can't cheat nature,besides Nigerian guys are bunch of confused narcissist same with the women,y'all really need to give up on relationships and marriages and explore the world for a while

Yellowmoon1400:

Empty coconut head indeed

uyai iban abadie?
I'll add u on WhatsApp and we'll talk!
take care

Bhadgirl:
All this shouting and ranting won't change anything believe it or not u can't cheat nature,besides Nigerian guys are bunch of confused narcissist same with the women,y'all really need to give up on relationships and marriages and explore the world for a while

Can we explore the world ?

RonaldoVido:


Can we explore the world ?

Yes

Deja93:
My girlfriend is from cape town South Africa and she’s a leading miner boss meaning she’s got a very high degree and works in an office she’s been my backbone financially Whenever I’m down and morally

The most loving human I ever met

I’ve met Nigerian girls in the past they’re a disgrace to their womanhood

All these naija girls chanting marlian up an Dan will never be serious

Better goan fix your lives and quit challenging my comment

Ever wondered why y’all remain unmarried

Well your next response to this post might just be the reason



*spits*

*modified*

Nice to hear. Do you live in SA?

Gettreadyy:

wrong
we want sex, for me that's the first thing I'm more concerned about but after the sex i also want to know if you will be a valuable partner.
but then you find out she's mostly interested in what she will benefit from you and you (men) realize she is only good for sex and nothing more.

bro we're on d same page...u look for d sense of belonging and how to grow with dem....they are not interested in it,so its do n go

Pettyprincess:
Are you minding them? Men attract ladies of their type,if your woman offer only sex in relationship then it obvious u also dnt offer nothing else aside sex!! Birds of the same feathers flock together!! Rubbish!!!

Kinda agree with you. Every girl I have ever been close to have been really smart intellectually and otherwise. Don't know how it happens. You actually attract your kind.

EmptyCoconutHead:
byes that's why I specifically mentioned "naija girls"
I've had so many benefits gained from dating Caucasian, Americans etc.

boss abeg link me

Danniedpastor:


Oga, not all Nigerian ladies are guilty of this.
You can only attract your kind of person. You can go about having random sex and expect an intelligent woman. Stop drilling holes and be focused and watch the kind of woman you will attract.

attracting ur kind of person statement is not so true

Later

Puya:


This one did not even read the thread before inviting someone’s mum and siblings, just jumped into conclusion ...

Read madam, Always read and stop embarrassing yourself..

You’re part of the issue they’re discussing...

Goalnaldo:
lol. She seems to like you though. You can have her. I'm a redpill disciple and I adhere strictly to the first rule.

Hmmm, both of u will not kill me

If I catch you

Pettyprincess:

I also don't like men that don't have common sense!!

biggy26:

Nice to hear. Do you live in SA?

I’m in Dubai but I’ll visit sa again soon

EmptyCoconutHead:
dating a naija girl is the worst thing that can ever befall a man .
I thought God created ladies to be a man's helper but now it's otherwise.
Naija girls have proven to be a source of misery to men.
instead of them to help and stick with u they will rather tie u down and heap their burden on your head as they now see relationship as a means of occupation.
these hoes called women have nothing to offer in a man's life.
they cannot even keep up with intellectual discussions, bringing up creative ideas, innovative matters. they only know how to trend nonsense on Twitter Instagram uploading pictures on Facebook.
useless creatures.
I have already given up on them, best thing is to go pay for a service of a lady, engage on a contract with her and after she delivers a child to me I pay her off.
girls are not really worth the headache.
useless liabilities.

I hope you have a sister or sisters because your username here says it all.
Just because you had ugly relationships don't mean you have to badmouth ALL Nigerian Ladies. You get what you give. "instead of them to help you" indeed. What are you doing to help yourself?
dating Caucasians abi. I'm sure you're only after the green card and not because of love. In the end,don't that make you like the same females you so despise? *SMH*

I think I love dis honesty

franchasng:
ladies do it too, has it stopped guys from helping their girlfriends


Let's be honest, majority of Nigerian ladies are selfish, stingy, greedy and covetous in nature, only very insignificant few are exception.


Nigerian women are mostly good to their children and parents; those are the people that enjoy their selfless love and care, but to men, they are brutal and offer nothing aside sex in return for money, favor, job, help, marriage, etc

timosa:
I tried discussing my biz with my ex, all she could say was 'may God help you'. Many of them have nothing to actually offer.

were u take meet this one o .lolzzz

Goalnaldo:
The other day, I was discussing with a girl few houses away from mine. I see her as decent cause I don't see guys around her and she always go to church. She told me there's a man proposing marriage to her and she doesn't like him( I know the man cause I've met him once in her house) but she will eat his money. I told her that's wrong. She said that's the first time she will eat a man's money in her life. Can you imagine? All of them are just the same expecially in extorting money joor.

don't use that to judge her

Pinkie2018:
I have dated a guy that all he offered me was his dick. I recharged his phone, gave him money for haircut, offering, bought him cloths shoes, and celebrated him on his birthdays and other stuffs. But received nothing but his dick. Most guys too only want sex in relationships. Refuse him sex and watch how the relationship goes. My former boyfriend broke up with me after I stopped giving him sex telling me he can't be begging me the time. This is the same guy that for the 2 years I dated him never bought me anything or gave me any meaning thing. Remove money from relationship, what do guys offer if not dick?

my sympathy to u,but lemme say dis maybe uve been meeting d wrong guys.u need a guy to appreciate u for ur support n return same gesture.. D way it happens to sm guys,naso e dey happen to some girls n I wonder how some guys dey live with demselves for doing dat.
They don't know d implications of doing dat.
I wish I met a girl like u....honestly but its a bad luck

Pinkie2018:
I'm not lieing. This guy has approached me on different occasions I still turn him down, he has approached almost all the girls in my lodge including my roomie. You know yourselves

hahahahhahahahahhah,which kind mumu b dat...shu all ur roomates

Nowplay:
The only thing a Nigeria women can offer you is sex I have my reasons
When I was in Nigeria I thought relationship is all about men giving out to women.....
Now I find out is only in Nigeria..women’s feels sex is a big deal but in other sex is nothing....
Other countries women value love and caring.....
Other countries women can buy gifts for their boyfriend,give you ideas that can make you rich..not only sex
but in Nigeria as far as ur a man every expense is on you..

guy u b fowl o.most Nigerian girls is to take dem out for junk foods n barbeque, n cinemas.some wen manage buy smtin for d guy na boxer or polo,y dem even like dat tin sef n dey do it mostly on his bdays

Pinkie2018:
my dear its appalling how you guys insult girls any slightest opportunity you get; when we compete with u guys, complain, when we decide to be just ladies, u also complain; tell me which guy will be willing to give any girl a dime without wanting to sleep with her?

yeah,u give her a dime,n u turn to jackass abi.u try well well.
I helped a girl once,n dat was d first time of meeting....after giving her d cash,d next tin she wanna leave immediately, haba sense won't tell u to stay a little bfor going...so since dat day till now ntin will connect me n her

Emperoradrian:

Wetin dis one d talk, now If I say some gals make a lot of sense wen dey are not talking, some ppl go begin beef me, everyone do have sex, and everyone is expected to also bring something to d table intellectually, and dis one is here talking about birds of d same feathers, wetin concern bird concern dis discussion now? Dis one weak me o.

u r right,having sex n bringing sometin intelligent

elonize:
yeah,u give her a dime,n u turn to jackass abi.u try well well.
I helped a girl once,n dat was d first time of meeting....after giving her d cash,d next tin she wanna leave immediately, haba sense won't tell u to stay a little bfor going...so since dat day till now ntin will connect me n her

she knows you might want to sleep with her before she leaves. That I confirmed my earlier statement

elonize:
hahahahhahahahahhah,which kind mumu b dat...shu all ur roomates

I'm serious. He isn't a student but lives in student lodge. He is a bouncer in one hotel according to what I heard

[quote author=Pinkie2018 post=84287030]you demand sex, the girl demand money; automatically she is a liablity; You guys prefer a girl you will drill and drill but doesnt ask for anything; stop demand for sex if u want her to stop demanding for money; when a girl finds out all you want is her body, she will also start demanding for money so as not to lose out; Most of you that said u prefer foreign ladies, tell yourself the truth, you guys are liablities to them, always extorting. Yahoo boys. I know your ego will not let u see the truth, yes you....[/quote) don't make me laugh,some guys have dated some girls ,no sex..d girl will b strafing another guy...my dear just forget it

Goalnaldo:
lol. She seems to like you though. You can have her. I'm a redpill disciple and I adhere strictly to the first rule.

wow! I don't even know what to say...u seem like a really cool dude....but am a bit lost here can you help me explain what the first rule is all about

LaGersona:
Some guys prefer sex than intelligent conversation but girls should also be blamed for this.
I would give instance about my personal experience.
I used to share ideas with my gf and expected a response on how to improve herself, relationship amongst other meaning conversation. But the response I always get is "okay" or "motigbo".
It always pissed me and I decided that whenever we're alone, is either romance or sex since she no want get sense.

she no want get sense hahahahhaha,buy sense for her na.
Some sha,anything educational is not sweet