Bodaolawrites:
No, Olorun maje.... I can't forgive any cheating partner... Once i confirmed you're cheating... I will just kindly breakup in my mind and look for someone else i will give the love to. And get you fvcked only without any feelings.

I'm not that Nigga that seat a Bae down and announce breakup... I just do the breakup in my mind and that's all.

CreepyBlackpool:
Can you forgive a piece of gum another guy has finished chewing and put it in your mouth and chew

Bodaolawrites:
No, Olorun maje.... I can't forgive any cheating partner... Once i confirmed you're cheating... I will just kindly breakup in my mind and look for someone else i will give the love to. And get you fvcked only without any feelings.

I'm not that Nigga that seat a Bae down and announce breakup... I just do the breakup in my mind and that's all.

Nicoddemus:
This story of immortality is getting too much. God please will I still see a decent girl to marry

aishauju:
Ladies and guys in the house, does anyone of you have such experiences?

MrBrownJay1:


you are talking about "your" love for that person without caring about what they do, while i am focusing on the person who claims to love you yet act contrary to it.

there shouldnt be any talk of forgiveness (to begin with) if the person in front of you loved you.
now, if that person could get up, chat up some babe, take her home, make love to her then lay back and smoke a cigarette, while not for ONE minute think about the love they had for you nor the hurt and damage that such unfaithful/deceitful act would create to you (and/or your relationship)... then i am sorry but that is closer to hate than love.

you CANNOT knowingly hurt your partner (and the relationship you guys have) by cheating and thereafter claim that you love them. its CONTRADICTORY

i guess, to each their own.

AkupeMBANO:

peope like you cheat alot.

Birdeyeview:
YES!
so many of y'all do not know the real meaning of true LOVE.
i once dated a guy from Minnesota for 3 years (white skinned), our relationship was a transparent one at that... one time we had a huge argument which led to 2 month of not been in touch. we loved eachother irrespective of our flaws and then decided to bury the hachet and get back together... while we were together he revealed to me how he cheated and with whome (of which i never knew)...this story is good for women but not any man who is sure he knows for sure that his father begot him. Otherwise how do we account for ancestry? Thanks.
i forgave him because he pleaded and vauge never to repeat it anymore.. it was painful to let go but i had to because i always loved him no matter what... i still do although i lost him to cancer 2017.
my point is; true love never fails and should set no bounds. forgiveness and not keeping an account of any injury should be part of the motivating factors in any outstanding relationship...
ps; forgive my typographical errors if need be.

sochey:
Errr..... If you find out that he/she is cheating, you be patient. Ask questions why, everyone has reasons why he or she does anything. If the reasons doesn't add up, the ball is in your court.


Blimey!!

Every cheating relationship ends up in shackles...

pocohantas:
I will forgive him.

I honestly do not see the need to let him off so easily. There should be some level of torment before finishing it off...