Yellowmoon1400:
How am I suppose to trust you, who knows this could be a charade

EmptyCoconutHead:
lol just reply to ur whatsapp message first! the end will justify the means!
also asides from the Innovative issue also bear in mind that I'm your eyeneka and a confirmed eyen ibibio so we need to hobnob dear.

Yellowmoon1400:
Let me find you via Fb first

Yellowmoon1400:
let me find u on FB first

emmaodet:


It's all about have you ever advised her? Sit her down? Show her your plans and dreams? Show, show, advice ....... Blah blah blah
Whatever happens to women doing same to men.
Always receiving and receiving... Smh
Ehat happens to a lady sitting a man down to tell him her plans, how it's goin to affect the man positively, both targets and goals.
Always about you you and you..
And it is always the man's fault for a lady been lazy, not proactive or have her plans.
Too much entitlement mentality.
Franchang
Martinez39
Pansophist
Ubunja

Deepthoughts:
see,we have tried all the options you rightly listed above,but the results is always discouraging so we inevitably settled for the only option available which is the sex,the only subject be girls can discuss endlessly is latest Brazilian hairs,make up styles, fashion trends, who's dating who n super star wannabe infatuations,nothing meaningful so don't blame the guys for concentrating on akpako.

alexola20:
I have met few beautiful girls in Migeria.But when I tried to engage them in meaningful conversations,they get tired,bored and a bit intimidated because some of them have nothing much upstairs.Lest I forget they were all university graduates.

Juliearth:





You deserve some accolades, sis. There is more to being a lady than the physical. Some men may wonder why its so hard to have a stable relationship.... This right here is it (for me). If you cannot arouse my intellect, then its not worth it.

Dizzyrascal:
I am a guy but i can boldly say that your sentiment is absolutely spot on....if I must shorten it down to one word, it would be: BRILLIANT...threads like yours remind me of why i still appreciate Nairaland...Kudos

PrecisionFx:




Anyone saying that is Mad. It's just stereotyping.

I hope u are not a misguided feminist

Xisnin:

You wrote well but spoiled it with the bold. I know you are trying to sound balance but
we live in a perfect world and any sane person would expect some behavioral deviation from
any group you look at.

Aside from professional prostitutes and friends with benefit with clearly defined roles,
it is very difficult for a woman to offer only one value in a relationship even if she plans to.
Those that believe such have not sat down to think about it.

It is anti-women propaganda that a lot of women have sadly agreed with.

Nature8:

joepepsy:
How can you engage a bimbo in intelligent discussion.

lavylilly:

lavylilly:
hmmmmmmmmm

lavylilly:
ask her what are interest are

EmptyCoconutHead:
alright dear search for Cull Obsidian on Facebook you'll see a guy with a black spec on his dp.
pls when quoting me kindly obliterate my fb details dear. thanks as I'll be anticipating your request

Yellowmoon1400:
I did try finding you but couldn't find you still
Precious Fatile~Precious Pen

anslem04:



You must know for men ... our best chances of getting a lady is showcasing our romantic side n financial capacity becos that is the requisite for most ladies heart, if yu notice wen men meet to discuss it is different compared to wen with d ladies. the case is only different with sapiosexual beings.
so even when an intellectual guys meets any lady he minimizes that side of him, becos he doesnt want to bore or freak the babe out .... so these men just av to wait on luck esp. when u understand d scarcity, konji no b joke
The bitter truth is we all can't have or get want we want, jus creat a 2nd choice u can work with @least.

EmptyCoconutHead:
I don see u.
u fine small but na smallie u con be o.
still sent a request though

elonize:
mehn this ur woman ehn,na coconut head o,sorry to say did but I only mean dis for her not taking advice,dats all...
She falls into d third category of my post...she supports financially wen u r down but d attitudes is d problem... Well bro I have not found a solution to dis type of problem.
She's a good person in d aspect of supporting,...
But una b lovers now..who 1dey give who advice wen its needed concerning finance cos if d guy don't have d knowledge of dat,d girl shud have d knowledge... Think very well,pray and ask ur pastor concerning dis girl if der is a future between both of u...nogo make mistake,abeg

LaGersona:


Lol, na really coconut head. I feel she thinks it's all about "doing it alone" since she's not yet married.
I've had a lot of conversation with her about self improvement and growing together but it yield nothing.
Concerning finding if she's the right person, I've done my finding and it's positive but our "free will" will always change prophecies.
I'm not religious anymore but I'm growing spiritually.
I hope she grows up soon coz if we eventually get married with this her attitude, she won't get most of my support/care.

emmaodet:


Bro all na the same. I dated a custom lady officer for about 4 year and despite giving her gifts, money, cards etc for she and her daughter, she never deem it fit to spend a dime on me despite earning 120k per month.
I kuku ma cut the yeye relationship off, no time for nonsense.

emmaodet:


Don't mind her, see how she is even boasting about eating the Guy's money without her contributing.
Very wack mentality.
Whether they like it or not - The Era of men spending alone is Overr........
Men are pushing back now and it will only get louder because the average man on tge street is already Stretched to the Limit

Laurene:
when is he gonna pay your dowry?

Laurene:
when is he gonna pay your dowry?

elonize:
this ur last lines na wahala....she won't get ur support
Imagine how DAT house go b,quarrel of any sorts
Prophecies can change true..but if d man of God is shown a bad future for both of u n u still went ahead with d marriage, na u know how u go do pass.was at a church program,n d pastor said "bachelors n spinsters who r not yet married, its good u have spiritual head dat can see d future cos many marriages are broken cos d couple didn't seek for spiritual advice"
Bro a husband n wife came for deliverance like I did,spiritual husband dey worry d man,smtimes d man go sleep for bed ,but wake up to see himself for ground...nobi say d man n d woman Nor get money o
But enough wahala dey worry d man n d woman..she's even thinking of breaking d marriage. Be careful

elonize:
u c dis girl so,she said she doesn't credit his account,.. Na dis kind girl dey kill d man...lazy piece of shit
Na all dis kind free free things she dey like
She's happy he choose her above all