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Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Respect55(m): 3:55pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
jseth:She will come as a wife |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Respect55(m): 3:55pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
Seenyo:She humiliated herself, not me |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Respect55(m): 3:57pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
DominusPrime:She might still have in her pursue but u know, women like to be given |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Respect55(m): 3:58pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
SmellingAnus:Leave me o |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Respect55(m): 3:59pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
Depressed101:U need a bottle of water |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by SmellingAnus(m): 4:00pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
rozario01:Lol... You don't know them... I met a virgin that fell in love with me during my youth service... I never had sex or took advantage of her ... I only banged her long after service when she had lost it .. today she is married and she is still inlove with me... She had once traveled with pregnancy just to come and receive the dvck but I dodged... She has practically confessed that she had to imagine fvcking me before enjoying sex with her husband... My brother... Virgins are more complicated than you think... I have met many of them in my life time maybe because I don't like them and nature has a way of bringing to you what you actually don't like... 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by anigbajumo(m): 5:03pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
Ryocaj: Na Soo my bro |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Depressed101: 5:15pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
Respect55:and you too.. Guy chill stop mentioning me |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by midnighter(f): 5:35pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
Respect55: It's up to you sir, just a piece of advice 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by IamPlato(m): 5:37pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
Respect55:that Silence Is Killing Her... Has She Reached Out To You |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by LordOfTheWeed: 5:37pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
Depressed101:This is the olosho that cheated on the OP!!! ![]() My instinct never fails me.... 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by EasternPrince: 5:39pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
midnighter: Fix your useless life first then advice others about their next. |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by IamPlato(m): 5:40pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
Respect55:Bro That One Na Lie... Will You Tell Me Now That You Are Not Hurt or Broken? You Are Hurt Bro... If You Are Not Then You Didnt Love Her Then 2 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Tonyspecial(m): 5:52pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
rainmoredays:u need better bleep aswia |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by midnighter(f): 6:08pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
WackyJ1: I don't think you really read what I wrote. I didn't say that he must have done something wrong, or that it was a justification for cheating. I said that it is possible that he has done something wrong, which she responded to by cheating. In fact I said that twice already, so I don't understand why you keep repeating it. You're doing what most overly-emotional guys do, which is totally throw the baby out with the bathwater. Just because you don't like what the girl did and you want to punish her, you're advising the OP in the wrong direction. Gaining closure over a situation is more important than inflicting pain on the other person. Read it through, 10 times! Its actually your own advice that doesn't make any sense. If he's done with her then how does it harm him to go and clear up the mess, for his own sake ![]() Hahaha! "Y'all move out and send a lawyer"! In the united states of Akwanga right? When have divorce negotiations in Nigeria ever been simple as that? Even if you don't see each other, you still have to explain the whole thing to your family so that they will grab. Or am I talking to oyibo? WackyJ1: Who is telling him to go and ask her this ![]() This is somebody who was planning to go to marriage class next month for crying out loud! Why are you injecting so many unnecessary Machiavellian machinations into a simple meeting ![]() WackyJ1: It was just a metaphor. 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Tonyspecial(m): 6:09pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
SmellingAnus:Ur Monika shaa 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Tonyspecial(m): 6:13pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
LordOfTheWeed:hw u takno ![]() |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Depressed101: 6:16pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
LordOfTheWeed:laughable ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by midnighter(f): 6:22pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by EasternPrince: 6:43pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
midnighter: At least you learned how to answer long questions well from someone that sounds like big cow. |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by WackyJ1(m): 7:17pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
midnighter: If it doesn't "justify" it then why are you mentioning it? Why then are you suggesting he talks to her and finds out what it is? midnighter: Let me ask you. What wrong direction are you saying that we are advising the OP in? My own advice is to simply never see the girl again. What closure do you want him to get in this situation? midnighter:He handled the situation maturedly already. Answer the question I asked above, let me understand where you are coming from. |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by healthserve(m): 7:22pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
WackyJ1: I agree If the OP sees her or gives her the slightest of chance of closure, he will become the repository of bad feelings. Someone is trying to make someone feel they made them commit an act rather than own their actions and bear the responsibility of thier misdeeds 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by WackyJ1(m): 7:34pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
Respect55: Your username looked Familiar and then I checked my other account and I realized that we have had an interaction before there around January 2018. Is this the same girl that you did not see for seven months that you were scared of losing? |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by midnighter(f): 8:09pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
WackyJ1: I mentioned it as part of a wider point about closure, which you decided to seize on. I said that he should find out what drove her to do what she did, a possible reason being his doing something wrong. That's just one thing she might say. Am I the two-timing woman ![]() I'm suggesting he talks to her to get a clear narrative of what really happened and the reason why it happened. That's not too much to ask is it? WackyJ1: Lol! Your own advice is simply never see the girl again! And now he has seen her again. Now what ![]() Now, she has shown up at OPs sisters house shedding useless tears to try to buy the elder sisters affections and make it look like he is oppressing her, just look at. This stuff is going to get even messier if he doesn't wrap it up, pronto If they speak and break up finally she won't have the Chance to make all these funny funny movements. What on earth made her bypass his house and show up at his sisters house crying without speaking, if she's not mad ![]() Don't you think that's very embarrassing? And his sister will be trying to squeeze details out of him, which he doesn't have because you people told him simply never to see the girl again. Thereby making him look odd to his sister and anybody who asks. Why not go and talk to her, if only to warn her never to show her shameless face in his sisters house again? WackyJ1: You are talking in the past tense when the situation is far from over. What just happened at his sisters house is evidence of that. 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by dgitrader(m): 8:21pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
WackyJ1: Hmmmmmmm, another angle! |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by OgaMosco(m): 9:04pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
You made the right decision, but I hope you stand your ground, cos if your sister loves her, my dear you're in for a long ride, cos your elder sister would come begging on her behalf and you wouldn't want disrespect your elder sister. This relationship is far from being over unless you stand you ground. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by WackyJ1(m): 9:40pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
midnighter:You are not the two-timing woman yet why is it that the only possible reason you keep repeating that may be responsible for her cheating is a response to him doing something wrong ? No other possible reason like the one I mentioned about her being greedy, wanting to explore, or wanting someone to give her money and gifts like the new guy was doing. Reasons that are on her and have nothing to do with the guy? Yet, all you keep saying is that she cheated as a response to something the guy did. and that he should make the effort to find out what he did wrong . That is what I have a problem with. You're subliminally passing potential responsibility to the guy for her cheating. There are a lot of ways she could have reacted rather than cheating and the fact that she didn't choose either one of those ways makes her unworthy of being talked to in the name of closure. All the closure he needs is that she is a Lying manipulative cheating B.tch. That's all. midnighter:You don't have to know someone's reasons before you hold them accountable for their actions. All they have to do is cross your boundaries after you have warned them about what would happen if they do. And then you hold them accountable by actually doing what you said you were going to do. midnighter:"Hey baby, Why did you cheat on me?" "Why did you lie to me?" "Was I not good enough for you" How does asking her why she cheated make sense to you? Have you been cheated on before? Did you ask why? Was the exercise productive? midnighter: This I agree with. He can also explain to her (his elder sister) exactly what he said in this thread and that is all the understanding she needs. 2 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by midnighter(f): 10:24pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
OgaMosco: Thank you |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by midnighter(f): 10:52pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
WackyJ1: You are putting words into my mouth, let's just agree to disagree since the discussion is not going anywhere |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Yeecar(m): 10:54pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
Daviddson:You are a very dumb guy, a lady even tried correcting you all to no avail. Stop exposing your foolishness on a National forum. 4 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Yeecar(m): 11:04pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
WackyJ1: Just ignore the girl already, as you can see, most of them have the tendency of cheating. When they are caught, they make you feel you caused it... Fish brains |
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