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Honest Answers Needed Pls by Phenomenal16(f): 3:41pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
Pls I don't know if am not lucky in rlships...... Sometimes we luv ppl who don't luv us.....or who don't av our interest at heart.... I don't like long distance rlships..soni decided to give this one a trial. For like days getting to a week,,,,he haven't called.. Even though we r having a church program... But he isn't the general overseer... But dedicated ooo I wonder y he haven't called for sometime now.....the last time we talked was on Sunday..... Unlike bf,,,,and I truly likes him a lot. Can that be a red flag....m patiently waiting for him to call me.... On a second tot ..but no matter how busy u r for days u shld av called .... What's ur take on this? I feel am not lucky in rlships.... May be I shld take a break. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Phenomenal16(f): 3:43pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
M not demanding ... I don't inconvience him I try as much as possible to manage what I av.... I don't cheat... 1 Like |
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Nobody: 3:43pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
How old are you? can you just concentrate on something else other than relationships something like developing yourself to be a better woman. with your mentality before you reach 30, you might have jump and jump out from relationships 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Phenomenal16(f): 3:44pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
I personally think I shld stay on my own till he calls me .... Let me preserve my remaining integrity left..... It hurts much I don't want to look desperate 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Phenomenal16(f): 3:44pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
M not demanding ... I don't inconvience him I try as much as possible to manage what I av.... I don't cheat... 1 Like |
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Phenomenal16(f): 3:48pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
My question is this: 1. can this be a red flag 2.is he tired? I don't want to look desperate or too cringing.... |
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Lightangel65: 3:50pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
Phenomenal16: He may just be busy, he doesn't have to call everytime 3 Likes |
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Phenomenal16(f): 3:54pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
Lightangel65:..he doesn't behave this way.. 1 Like |
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Lightangel65: 3:56pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
Phenomenal16:Then you call him relationships are not one sided. Ask him what is going on 5 Likes |
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by RoyalUc(m): 3:59pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
Why are you bothered? If you think something is wrong, kindly call him to be sure. It won't take anything from you, rather it will help... 2 Likes |
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by torqque7(m): 4:00pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
No be u dey do female miseducation forming hard chick and giving bad advice to ladies that would cost them their relationships? So u self dem break ur heart?lol smh just like linda ikeji that was forming feminist and making young girls feel men are not important only fornher to go and get pregnant and tried hard to get the man to marry her,stop the fake life and allow urself to be happy. As for ur relationship if u know u like him then better drop that ur useless pride and contact him to know y he hasnt been in touch.Goodluck. 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Phenomenal16(f): 4:06pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
torqque7:.....is not by forming miseducation... He's keeping me in suspense..... And I don't wanna cheat.... Good luck to ur too 2 Likes |
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Deandean: 4:07pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
This advice z an expo n a violation of sec. 14 of the international bro. Code...so keep it. 1.Don't ever call him,its a power game,even if ul submit to him later,4 now u need some power to negotiate where d relationship will lead(if u av no power,he'll so panel beat ur heart ul eventually propose to him) 2. The moment you guys re back on track,don't be do demanding,but always ask him for some things u knw he can afford (even if u can too).a man's heart lies where his money goes....if hez not investing,he'll hardly b committed . 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Nobody: 4:12pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
Phenomenal16: My dear will it kill u to call him? Do u know why he hasn't been able to call u? The day u girls stop playing relationships like chess and start living it freely is the day u start enjoying it ![]() 8 Likes |
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by LilMissFavvy(f): 5:11pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
Yes it is a red flag. 1. He may be going through personal problems. Some guys like to withdraw when having difficulties, very bad attitude. 2. He may not really fancy you that much. 3. He is distracted by another lady, or is in another relationship. Don't conclude yet, don't call him either. With time you will know his stand and decide on the next move to make. Phenomenal16: |
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Homeboiy: 5:31pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
I don't know for him But I don't usually call when am in a relationship except u flash me I have 3,566# airtime on my phone now and I don't want to call anyone except the person flash me. Swallow your pride and call him Maybe he's in police custody or he's phone has lost 6 Likes |
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Nobody: 6:04pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy: Why that? |
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Nobody: 6:40pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy:withdrawing when having a hard time is not a bad attitude, from what she's posting, any guy's withdrawal is not a bad attitude. 1 Like |
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by LilMissFavvy(f): 7:32pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
It's all about maturity, he should be mature enough to handle personal issues, without allowing it frustrate his partners emotions. He is supposed to gain strength calling his partner and hearing her voice. Withdrawing and refusing to call is childish if he is having issues. NB: the OP sounds like it's not an old relationship, if it's a new relationship, then it's too early for bullshiitt, emotional manipulation and stress. Dont call. But if it's an old relationship....... Pls call him o. Grayjoy: 1 Like |
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Nobody: 7:54pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy:lol, why should she call him if it's an old relationship? I believe u know that not all parteners gives strenght, attention seeking girls will aggravate your problems when you get entangled with one and unfornately, the op looks like one. This lead to my last break up, and am so happy with that. 2 Likes |
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Nobody: 8:03pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
Op drop your number here let me call you since only calling is your problem 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Mykel51(m): 6:17pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
Phenomenal16: Call him to know why he didn't call you... If he gives a flimsy excuse, you can then decide if you want to give him a break... talking from experience...so call first to inquire. Cheers 1 Like |
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Phenomenal16(f): 6:30pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
Mykel51:..OK,,I will do that ...but I hope am not acting cheap |
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by dave4rella(m): 6:51pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
![]() May we never have a friend who will be angry that we haven't called her, instead of calling to find out what happened. Pick that damn phone and call him If you're Hot and dripping wet travel and have him fvck your pvssy like mad. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Phenomenal16(f): 6:58pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
Deandean:...u made a point especially no 2 ...because I don't demand ....he was even praising me for that ...I come dey feel myself.. Foolish me I feel like crying a river right now 1 Like |
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Mykel51(m): 8:37pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
Phenomenal16: No you are not dear, that is why there is a clause there...if the reason is flimsy... You may discard him |
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Playstation1: 8:48pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
hmm |
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Phenomenal16(f): 8:50pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
Mykel51:..okay..Thanks for d contribution 1 Like |
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Phenomenal16(f): 8:53pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy:..like 9 mnths |
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Phenomenal16(f): 8:59pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
Updates!!!...OK I had series of dreams 1.he refused to hold my hand in one of d dreams.. 2.he left me and was seeing anoda gal .....this dreams r real...but then I don't if am over thinking lol.. Just felt like sharing... |
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Playstation1: 8:59pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
If U Never Still Call That Boy Up Till Now Since Wen U Open This Thread, Then There Is Bone In Ur Brain. 7 Likes |
Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Phenomenal16(f): 9:00pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
Anything that wants to happen shld happen tired already |
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