LadySarah:
.We alike shaoo
What happened to your own place anyway?
If yours was interesting she would be going there.

akpunda86:
Shez 32 sometimes i feel shez not yet matured for marriage.leaving a matured man all alone in d house with d harmattan cold.sometimes i wonder if her village is more important than her marriage.im just watching cos if she cant adapt after 7 yrs of marriage she better think twice. Im from anambra shez imo.

GrabHisBalls:
You Igbos like going home during festive period na.

I don't even remember the road to my village.

NwaAmaikpe:
You know during Christmas many of us come from overseas with the sole intention of looking for an unfortunate man's wife to shag.

akpunda86:


Anambra z fun during xmas so is my villa infacr iv warned her after this year i no wan hear i wan go xmas for my villa.she is free to go see d mum and siblings but not every xmas.she can go bf the holidays.besides our newborn just six months.infact she is not going anywhere.
I regret marrying from imo state their culture pissing me off now.

akpunda86:
Every Christmas my wife wants to go home to their village.im not against but go ontime and come back so we all do new year togeda.

Its beggining to piss me off cos if im gone that means my kids leg fit no touch their papa village.

On that note i have warned her let this christmas be the last i hear you say you want to go home.

On my own ill say the disavantages of marrying from another state outweighs the advantage.
Every christmas u look foward spending with your family nd wife not knowing she z married talking of going to her maternal villa.

I gave her 22nd to 28th.wch is enuff.overstays hmmmmmm

akpunda86:


Anambra z fun during xmas so is my villa infacr iv warned her after this year i no wan hear i wan go xmas for my villa.she is free to go see d mum and siblings but not every xmas.she can go bf the holidays.besides our newborn just six months.infact she is not going anywhere.
I regret marrying from imo state their culture pissing me off now.

theButterfly:
I guess she will take the newborn with her or who will look after the newborn when she goes?

starbuck:
I feel comfortable spending the Christmas with my people because I do things the way I like not when I go Oga's village, all the ụmụnnes and ụmụadas will be doing plus and minus untop your case, even to sleep for afternoon is an abomination unto them....


2ndly, I feel safe with my kids in my father's house than husband's which he himself can attest to

akpunda86:


Yea travelling with d newborn

akpunda86:


For how long

akpunda86:


Anambra z fun during xmas so is my villa infacr iv warned her after this year i no wan hear i wan go xmas for my villa.she is free to go see d mum and siblings but not every xmas.she can go bf the holidays.besides our newborn just six months.infact she is not going anywhere.
I regret marrying from imo state their culture pissing me off now.

akpunda86:
Every Christmas my wife wants to go home to their village.im not against but go ontime and come back so we all do new year togeda.

Its beggining to piss me off cos if im gone that means my kids leg fit no touch their papa village.

On that note i have warned her let this christmas be the last i hear you say you want to go home.

On my own ill say the disavantages of marrying from another state outweighs the advantage.
Every christmas u look foward spending with your family nd wife not knowing she z married talking of going to her maternal villa.

I gave her 22nd to 28th.wch is enuff.overstays hmmmmmm

starbuck:
I feel comfortable spending the Christmas with my people because I do things the way I like not when I go Oga's village, all the ụmụnnes and ụmụadas will be doing plus and minus untop your case, even to sleep for afternoon is an abomination unto them....


2ndly, I feel safe with my kids in my father's house than husband's which he himself can attest to

akpunda86:


Anambra z fun during xmas so is my villa infacr iv warned her after this year i no wan hear i wan go xmas for my villa.she is free to go see d mum and siblings but not every xmas.she can go bf the holidays.besides our newborn just six months.infact she is not going anywhere.
I regret marrying from imo state their culture pissing me off now.

armyofone:
What is the big deal going to hers or your papa village for Christmas?? Can't y'all stay in your home to celebrate Christmas and new year and create your own memories and legacy ?? Nigerians sef always making a thang out of nothing!
Answer to your question: No- you guys must not travel but stay at home and build your own memories with the kids.

akpunda86:


Anambra z fun during xmas so is my villa infacr iv warned her after this year i no wan hear i wan go xmas for my villa.she is free to go see d mum and siblings but not every xmas.she can go bf the holidays.besides our newborn just six months.infact she is not going anywhere.
I regret marrying from imo state their culture pissing me off now.

Sanchez01:

Calm down, sir. I am sure Imo's culture doesn't out rightly demand that a married woman must spend every Christmas in her own village. This is your wife's prerogative or some tiny rights she thinks she has that you failed to check. She is married now and spending the Christmas with her immediate family should be her priority before her village's or parents'.

I feel you both need to come to an agreement and you decide where your own family would be spending Christmas every December. Lobatan.

PuZZyNegro:


My friend, you are whining.

If your wife traveling to her hometown is the reason you're regretting marrying from IMO state, then you have a problem of not having problem.

It is expected that she travels to her village this season. Reason being that, this is the period her other siblings, cousins, friends, extended family, old school classmates, etc., usually come home. So, a great opportunity to meet with people she has not met for a long time.

In my family, we usually create a year that everybody would travel home including both my married sisters.

Mind you, my brothers married from the same state yet their wife spend the festive period in their fathers' house and we don't have problem with that.

You have her from January to December, it's just this few days that she wants to get refreshed and rejuvenated from the years worth of hard work before another hectic year begins that you know it's harmattan

Enyi a, behave yourself there

Sanchez01:

I wanted to write this but then... The OP is from Anambra and his wife from Imo State. So there is this unwritten constitution about Igbos traveling home for Christmas. You just can't take it away from them.

However, your suggestion, for me, is everything. I just can't imagine why couples can't choose to have a vacation ALONE or spend it in their home ALONE. The concept of creating memories is lost on some. Call it life.

akpunda86:

Im not yet sure i wanna go villa.i want to spend time with the kids..She has started asking all her brothers and sis in town when they are travelling.have told me wanna join them.Is not a must ill travel to my village but to me a must that i stay with my family.
IS ALWAYS HAPPY NEW YEAR I HEAR FROM MY WIFE FROM FONE ON NEW YEARS.

akpunda86:


Nwoke leave matter for matter.i wear the shoe so knows where it pains me.my friend married from imo state.the way the woman adapted to our culture.joined all women group hardly u know z from imo.Im a titled chief a title my father conferred on us when we were young.

Why do we basterdize marriage.all thru my life iv nvr seen my mum leave my dad during xmas.she can go to her maternal home everyday but nvr skips food time for dad.This days Honey egwusi soup in plastic microwave it when hungry.
Guy im not happy.