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Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by daviddelly(m): 11:44pm On Dec 02, 2019 |
after getting married to an ambitious man ,later he will more obsessed about his ambition without giving u love or being there for d kids when u need him ,u will also be d one to open a new account to complain.most guys are poor today because of how the society (Nigeria)is,everyman or guy has an ambition.just hope for a man who will always be dia for u money is not everything true love is. 21 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Nobody: 11:45pm On Dec 02, 2019 |
DanDeeBoss: so men living in highbrow areas dont hurt women, they dont chop and run..lol 24 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Nobody: 11:48pm On Dec 02, 2019 |
Lightway:sorry to bother you, did you ever find the ambitious lady? |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Nobody: 11:49pm On Dec 02, 2019 |
Beosten: so how many religious single women in their 30s are married now? they go to church everyday, worship christ like no man business but are still single even in their 40s. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by EmptyCoconutHead(m): 11:49pm On Dec 02, 2019 |
midnighter: |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by EmptyCoconutHead(m): 11:51pm On Dec 02, 2019 |
midnighter: |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Nobody: 11:54pm On Dec 02, 2019 |
...some are in the army(i can't date men in the armed forces)... Good luck. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Nobody: 11:56pm On Dec 02, 2019 |
Apination:leave am, na me she go marry at last, if she care to know! I'm Mr No good advice. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Nobody: 11:58pm On Dec 02, 2019 |
the op is looking for a rich, matured and ready made man for marriage, he must be living in an highbrow area, age bracket(35-40) all her spec are in the writeup but many of you cant noticed that 40 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by noCAP(m): 12:22am On Dec 03, 2019 |
This must be funmitasticqueen, abi wetin be her moniker sef? 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by maya007: 12:45am On Dec 03, 2019 |
We all had these dos n dont pros and cons...n that's how we remained single ooo cause of our high taste n choices n before we knew it time had gone,n we were now settling for less n looking up to God if we had known to always remind ourselves no one is perfect n we dont always get wat we want mayb things would have been different...little advice dont waste time waiting for the perfect detailed man make ur self perfect work on urself n watch d right person come for you ....you attract who you are! 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Cutehector(m): 12:56am On Dec 03, 2019 |
Clout chaser. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by pryme(m): 12:59am On Dec 03, 2019 |
Harlequeen: These are the kind of women am worried about, Those that think they are perfect. In other words you will be doing the man a favor by being in his life. That's a red flag with bright colors. 56 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by pryme(m): 1:03am On Dec 03, 2019 |
Ladylite: You deserve fresh fish for this post. 12 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Squirrel01: 1:12am On Dec 03, 2019 |
GraGra247: Tell her the truth. Stop deceiving her. 9 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by zed7: 1:14am On Dec 03, 2019 |
Harlequeen:Actually, there is a thin line between high self esteem and narcissism. Whilst we think we are the best thing to sliced bread, others may just see us as shíít and avoid us. Learn to be a bit humble, respect all irrespective of whether he is your spec or not. My elder sister worked in a multinational, was doing good, pretty and all but kept looking for the right man like you. She was very friendly with this semi educated guy who admired her so much. One day he told his cousin about her. He introduced them and he ended up being her dream guy. Even 'fuckboys 'have their purpose. Do not drop your standards but also realize that sometimes what is good for us is not always what we think is good for us. You are young, don't put pressure on yourself. Just enjoy the company of guys casually. To be honest, I can boldly say you don't understand men yet. A question to ask is, the people we want, do they want us in return? The best gifts sometimes come in unattractive packages. Stay safe. 51 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Squirrel01: 1:16am On Dec 03, 2019 |
Ladylite: Lol 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Squirrel01: 1:28am On Dec 03, 2019 |
lilwetdick: Na her format. Updated cv 6 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by totosucker(m): 1:36am On Dec 03, 2019 |
Harlequeen:Bullshit. No established man will fall for this crap. Work on becoming the kind of lady that an established man will love. 13 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by rex444(m): 2:38am On Dec 03, 2019 |
very touching but my two piece advise is, live a life ...... have fun if U can , depending on what your idea of fun is- embrace it... you mustn't be in a sexual relationship...meet men ,meet boys ,explore but while at it ,use your head ....at the right moment if ever there is, something good might happen but also prepare for the unexpected too....that's life .... 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Nobody: 2:54am On Dec 03, 2019 |
hmm your case is kinder complex oo .ok i understand when u said u dont like fukboys or men who are not ambitious but u would like a man with a steady career and who is focused but again u dont want to date a doctor or a soldier .is a doctor or soldier not one with a steady career? .anyway all i can say is the type of men u like try and go to those places they hang out and also dress well and look good(i didnt say u should dress like ashawo oo).sooner or later they will pick u.and u did say u would like to date a guy who who is focused in traveling out of the country or has traveled out.As a lady u more in a bigger advantage than we guys to hook up with a partner who is based overseas.all u need do is have friends or family members who might link u up with such men overseas looking for good homebased girls or u can use the internet but then be wary of scammers.a friend of my aunty her first dauther was lucky to hook up with a naija guy based in the uk.though the man is a divorcee and a little advanced in age(look like his late 50s or so) but then he looked cool.the girl finished from federal poly auchi with no boyfriend or fiancee so she was linked to this guy who was looking for a homebased wife.she is now married to the man and in the uk now.u can hook up on facebook and search for abroad based naija guys who are interested in homebase naija girls and with luck u could meet ur prince charming who would come to naija to pick u up and join him overseas.keep on searching and dont give up. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Nobody: 3:01am On Dec 03, 2019 |
Skmoda360:i cant understand why a girl in nigeria will be saying she is finding it hard to get a partner .nigeria wey men dey search upandan for wives .if na abroad i can understand cos for yankee and jardon most guys dere no dey too send woman dat much d way we naija guys do and many of them arnt all dat suck for marriage hence many of their ladies are very lonely. but in naija ehn men dont give women breathing spaces so its kinder surprising when i see a lady in nigerian complaining that she cant get a man . 15 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Nobody: 3:04am On Dec 03, 2019 |
You are lookin for who will take good care of u abroad. U are just a mad gold digger. 11 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Lonelypacifist6: 5:49am On Dec 03, 2019 |
Are you truthful and to yourself? Answer this question first? |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by MedicH: 6:02am On Dec 03, 2019 |
May i know why you don't want doctors? |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by blinkz4real: 6:24am On Dec 03, 2019 |
Find a Bible believing church and serve God and the interest of his Kingdom! In no time you will find peace and the God ordained man will locate you and wen he comes u ll no its what u desire. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by healthserve(m): 6:31am On Dec 03, 2019 |
Harlequeen: Tryst me not everyone marries for selfish reasons. In fact, many marry for peace and fulfillment even in today's evil days 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by partnerbizn4(m): 6:31am On Dec 03, 2019 |
Beosten: Really? Could you elaborate more on that girl that you paid her fees? Why did she leave? And would you pay a girl's fees now if you could turn back the hands of time. |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by partnerbizn4(m): 6:37am On Dec 03, 2019 |
Ladylite: Please tell, how is life spiritual? |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by SouthSouth1914: 6:44am On Dec 03, 2019 |
No man will have access to my vagina and womb without investment and commitment. Eventually it becomes hard to keep up communication and we just fizzle out like that. I am sorry to say, maybe you were once an undercover call girl. You need to realize men do not owe women anything, same way you have your standards! I think you are just being addressed the way you carry yourself- A call girl. PS: Any insult therein is non intentional and hope you don’t take offense! 4 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Harlequeen: 6:49am On Dec 03, 2019 |
dancok:i never said i was looking for an ambitious lady |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Harlequeen: 6:51am On Dec 03, 2019 |
Lonelypacifist6:i try to be. It's a very tough thing to do. |
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