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Re: Please Help A Husband And Wife by Nobody: 11:13pm On Dec 03, 2019
UyaiIncomparabl:


Scammer.

do you even know what a person with Aspergers Syndrome behaves like? they become fixated on one thing and for me that thing is being with my husband

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Re: Please Help A Husband And Wife by Nobody: 11:16pm On Dec 03, 2019
SarahSholagbade:


thats the point. so im getting a little bit of money and it goes straight on bills, i cant even afford anything gor me if i wanted something, which i don't, i just want to see my husband but wh3n my money all goes on bills i struggle
Which bills actually? You live free off govt. The only thing u pay for is feeding and clothing.
Ur husband for the past 3 yrs couldnt raise flight ticket for u to visit him?

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Re: Please Help A Husband And Wife by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:18pm On Dec 03, 2019
SarahSholagbade:


do you even know what a person with Aspergers Syndrome behaves like? they become fixated on one thing and for me that thing is my husband


Scammer. Go find work.

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Re: Please Help A Husband And Wife by Nobody: 11:21pm On Dec 03, 2019
sassysure:

Which bills actually? You live free off govt. The only thing u pay for is feeding and clothing.
Ur husband for the past 3 yrs couldnt raise flight ticket for u to visit him?

electricity
gas
tv licence
rent
council tax
broadband
mobile phone bill
Re: Please Help A Husband And Wife by Nobody: 11:24pm On Dec 03, 2019
UyaiIncomparabl:



Scammer. Go find work.

i have actually been declared unfit for work at my medical assessment
Re: Please Help A Husband And Wife by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:27pm On Dec 03, 2019
SarahSholagbade:


i have actually been declared unfit for work at my medical assessment

You're still replying. Bloody scammer! angry

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Re: Please Help A Husband And Wife by Nobody: 11:35pm On Dec 03, 2019
Do u know what I didnt come on here looking for abuse, i came on here looking for one little scrap of help but u know what i can see all im getting is abused.

what happened to the world where everyone was nice to each other and helped each other when they needed help?
why is the world all hating on each other? i have dont nothing al all to harm any other people even when people are being racist towards a person from a different country, i always stick up for the person from the other country because i hate racism and I beleive we should all be treated fairly and we should help each other.

i wont bother next time sorry for asking for a tiny bit of help i didnt expect abuse my bad i dont even wanna be on here anymore MODS please remove my account cos i just feel sad that people wont help a genuine person

this has just made me lose all faith in the human race. I can see that humanity and helping others have gone down the drain seriously makes it sad that this is what the world has come to. Jesus would never have wanted this for the world

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Re: Please Help A Husband And Wife by Nobody: 11:36pm On Dec 03, 2019
SarahSholagbade:


electricity
gas
tv licence
rent
council tax
broadband
mobile phone bill
U pay all these through the money council give u every month. So u are living off the govt.
U are enjoying life really. If u have any health issue, u are treated free. From 1k which is less than what u collect a month, u still have up to 400 left if u spend money unnecessarily.
Tv licence is once a yr, aside housing, the rest isn't up to 100 pounds for a single lady living alone.
Can we do the maths?
It's even cheaper if u live in an apartment or a room.
U are richer than some workers after tax really. People with family and yet they can comfortably travel to Nigeria If they want to grin

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Re: Please Help A Husband And Wife by Nobody: 11:38pm On Dec 03, 2019
Do u know what I didnt come on here looking for abuse, i came on here looking for one little scrap of help but u know what i can see all im getting is abused.

what happened to the world where everyone was nice to each other and helped each other when they needed help?
why is the world all hating on each other? i have dont nothing al all to harm any other people even when people are being racist towards a person from a different country, i always stick up for the person from the other country because i hate racism and I beleive we should all be treated fairly and we should help each other.

i wont bother next time sorry for asking for a tiny bit of help i didnt expect abuse my bad i dont even wanna be on here anymore MODS please remove my account cos i just feel sad that people wont help a genuine person

this has just made me lose all faith in the human race. I can see that humanity and helping others have gone down the drain seriously makes it sad that this is what the world has come to. Jesus would never have wanted this for the world
Re: Please Help A Husband And Wife by Nobody: 11:43pm On Dec 03, 2019
SarahSholagbade:
Do u know what I didnt come on abuse, i came on here looking for one little scrap of help but u know what i can see all im getting is abused.

what happened to the world where everyone was nice to each other and helped each other when they needed help?
why is the world all hating on each other? i have dont nothing al all to harm any other people even when people are being racist towards a person from a different country, i always stick up for the person from the other country because i hate racism and I beleive we should all be treated fairly and we should help each other.

i wont bother next time sorry for asking for a tiny bit of help i didnt expect abuse my bad i dont even wanna be on here anymore MODS please remove my account cos i just feel sad that people wont help a genuine person
Don't go yet, we are examining how u are richer than most families in UK, and a millionaire in naira actually.
I can still break it down.

I don't blame govt for proposing to scrap off free payments. I can now see the reason why.
By the way, in Nigeria, the autistic people I have seen are up and doing. So far, u have been writing excellently with coherent thoughts so u can articulate in other words u can engage your brain profitably, so why are u begging?
The one govt is giving u is not enough? Aren't u being too greedy?

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Re: Please Help A Husband And Wife by CaptainMitch: 11:54pm On Dec 03, 2019
This Anya 4.30 guy from ashewo beer parlour thread has come again, if you give am money na oyibo olosho he go use kill himself

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Re: Please Help A Husband And Wife by Allen102: 3:35am On Dec 04, 2019
SarahSholagbade:
i don't know if I'm allowed to post this guys but pleaseee help by clicking on the link below. Thankyou so much

http://www.gf.me/u/wyynfr
Go and post this on Twitter not here.
Good luck to you and your husband. smiley

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Re: Please Help A Husband And Wife by Nobody: 3:36am On Dec 04, 2019
According to your other thread (https://www.nairaland.com/4794052/uk-visit-visa-refusal-letter), Yemi or whoever - has a 10-year ban from the UK. In any case, you can't expect people here to donate money for the trip.

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Re: Please Help A Husband And Wife by misfit69: 4:10am On Dec 04, 2019
scammer oshi...2 tinz 2 note, u're married n u didn't put a standard wedding pic. u should av done d work smarter than a regular pic with no rings. other thing to note is someone with autism will type 100% like u are is a definite scam. u are not even typing as a human, most likely an app or format preinstalled. we too wise for naija, no use mumu kill urself

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Re: Please Help A Husband And Wife by devlishGINGER(m): 6:32am On Dec 04, 2019
sassysure:

U are a Nigerian scammer. One can easily raise flight tickets as long as he or she is working. How much is the ticket?
Is this the new format now.
Also we Nigerians know how we write. Reading your posts smells Nigeria all over grin
A British lady can never ever write like this.
U missed the common words they use in their everyday language. Ode
FBI

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Re: Please Help A Husband And Wife by CaptainMitch: 9:10am On Dec 04, 2019
Fine girl kiss
UyaiIncomparabl:


Scammer.
Re: Please Help A Husband And Wife by Triniti(m): 10:12am On Dec 04, 2019
sassysure:

Don't go yet, we are examining how u are richer than most families in UK, and a millionaire in naira actually.
I can still break it down.

I don't blame govt for proposing to scrap off free payments. I can now see the reason why.
By the way, in Nigeria, the autistic people I have seen are up and doing. So far, u have been writing excellently with coherent thoughts so u can articulate in other words u can engage your brain profitably, so why are u begging?
The one govt is giving u is not enough? Aren't u being too greedy?
You have annihilated this op with his wack format. There was zero britico in the way that fella writes, he’s even asking the mods to remove him

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Re: Please Help A Husband And Wife by yeyeosoronga: 10:29am On Dec 04, 2019
SarahSholagbade:
Do u know what I didnt come on here looking for abuse, i came on here looking for one little scrap of help but u know what i can see all im getting is abused.

what happened to the world where everyone was nice to each other and helped each other when they needed help?
why is the world all hating on each other? i have dont nothing al all to harm any other people even when people are being racist towards a person from a different country, i always stick up for the person from the other country because i hate racism and I beleive we should all be treated fairly and we should help each other.

i wont bother next time sorry for asking for a tiny bit of help i didnt expect abuse my bad i dont even wanna be on here anymore MODS please remove my account cos i just feel sad that people wont help a genuine person

this has just made me lose all faith in the human race. I can see that humanity and helping others have gone down the drain seriously makes it sad that this is what the world has come to. Jesus would never have wanted this for the world

Why don't you ask the good ol' British people for help, and leave the Nigerian forum? I'm sure you will be able to raise some money, by British people dear

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Re: Please Help A Husband And Wife by Nobody: 12:22pm On Dec 04, 2019
SarahSholagbade:


We got married when i travelled to Lagos when i went to visit him before the financial problems began. Yeah i guarantee it is real, because I have the certificate with me :-) But thankyou for the advice, I will try there

Alright, I wish you the best.
Re: Please Help A Husband And Wife by dayleke: 1:22pm On Dec 04, 2019
You guys no get joy o...

Chai!!!!#

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Re: Please Help A Husband And Wife by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 1:53pm On Dec 04, 2019
CaptainMitch:
Fine girl kiss

kiss how far chief?
Re: Please Help A Husband And Wife by cococandy(f): 3:33pm On Dec 04, 2019
The Nigerians you’re asking for help don’t even have constant electricity. grin Your best bet would be Nigerians abroad who might have a bit to spare. Gas is a luxury to some of us. By TV license I guess you mean cable right? Lol.

Your £1,000 a month is what BIG men in naija make. The ones on this forum that make anything close to 200,000 monthly (less than £500) are feeling themselves like the catch of the century.
My point is that you’re rich by our standards. grin

We don’t care if all that money goes straight to bills or not. At least you have something to pay your bills with. The last thing the average NL member here will do is to contribute money for you to sponsor your husband to travel to UK to see you. When we are hating on those who left like they owe us for leaving. We all die here together grin

If your story is genuine, I feel sorry for you and hope things work out for you guys.

SarahSholagbade:


electricity
gas
tv licence
rent
council tax
broadband
mobile phone bill

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Re: Please Help A Husband And Wife by saucecode(m): 4:02pm On Dec 04, 2019
cococandy:
The Nigerians you’re asking for help don’t even have constant electricity. grin Your best bet would be Nigerians abroad who might have a bit to spare. Gas is a luxury to some of us. By TV license I guess you mean cable right? Lol.

Your £1,000 a month is what BIG men in naija make. The ones on this forum that make anything close to 200,000 monthly (less than £500) are feeling themselves like the catch of the century.
My point is that you’re rich by our standards. grin

We don’t care if all that money goes straight to bills or not. At least you have something to pay your bills with. The last thing the average NL member here will do is to contribute money for you to sponsor your husband to travel to UK to see you. When we are hating on those who left like they owe us for leaving. We all die here together grin

If your story is genuine, I feel sorry for you and hope things work out for you guys.

Shut up. The poverty you grew up in and your empty pride for living a less than average life in usa will never let you reason correctly. Always feeling uppity.
So BIG men in naija make £1000 a month? cheesy where did dis utuegbe come from. A BIG man in naija is either a business or company owner making millions monthly after paying employees or is a top professional earning a salary between 700k - 1.8m monthly. I have not even included politicians and some musicians.

And you can't contrast currency differences and say things like someone in UK or US is rich by Nigerian standards. Wetin dis prideful talk mean sef. why dont u go to live in Nigeria after saving up $200,000 which is even a stretch because only people earning a minimum gross of $450,000 a year can pull it off, and u and I know it will take you at least 10-15 years to save dat amount, then go and use it to form i am rich by naija standards in Nigeria.
I give u 2 years at most before u will start running around looking for money to buy flight ticket to come back to obodo.

Mumu talks.

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Re: Please Help A Husband And Wife by CaptainMitch: 5:17pm On Dec 04, 2019
I dey o merry Christmas
UyaiIncomparabl:


kiss how far chief?
Re: Please Help A Husband And Wife by boyka1: 6:24pm On Dec 04, 2019
Even the pic is photoshopped.

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Re: Please Help A Husband And Wife by ctleurocollege: 6:36pm On Dec 04, 2019
SarahSholagbade:


We got married when i travelled to Lagos when i went to visit him before the financial problems began. Yeah i guarantee it is real, because I have the certificate with me :-) But thankyou for the advice, I will try there


Scammer, why didn't you open Gofund me account?

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Re: Please Help A Husband And Wife by baby124: 7:22pm On Dec 04, 2019
ctleurocollege:



Scammer, why didn't you open Gofund me account?
I think she opened. Her story is most likely true because she has been on this for one year now. However, she should try to get help from her friends and family. Not Nigerians in NL. Except her friends and family don’t agree to the relationship
Re: Please Help A Husband And Wife by ctleurocollege: 8:09pm On Dec 04, 2019
baby124:

I think she opened. Her story is most likely true because she has been on this for one year now
. However, she should try to get help from her friends and family. Not Nigerians in NL. Except her friends and family don’t agree to the relationship

Blad! there's a possibility that you're right but @36 bro is not disabled, he's fit, I would hustle hard for my visa fees and ticket if I was him + his application is dead on arrival UKBA will never grant him a visa with a spouse on free money, they know he'll be a liability on them too. Best she comes down here or they block in Ghana

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Re: Please Help A Husband And Wife by comtem2011: 9:42pm On Dec 04, 2019
SarahSholagbade:


electricity
gas
tv licence
rent
council tax
broadband
mobile phone bill
lol, u for call sassysure make she dey pay all the listed bills for you na.
Re: Please Help A Husband And Wife by Nobody: 9:48pm On Dec 04, 2019
baby124:

I think she opened. Her story is most likely true because she has been on this for one year now. However, she should try to get help from her friends and family. Not Nigerians in NL. Except her friends and family don’t agree to the relationship
U believed that?
Lexus430 gave her the easiest and best way to apply for spousal visa for spouses with disabilities link and she vamoose to show again begging for money.

The thing we see here.
He or she ran away cos justwise and Lexus430 will eventually burst the bubble.
For 3 yrs, her spouse couldn't raise money for her flight ticket to Nigeria knowing she isn't capable?
For 3 yrs, even if he is carrying blocks where they are building house.
How will they give birth as an average naija man want a child. A sure banker for marrying her in the first place.
Fear scammers. They are real grin

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Re: Please Help A Husband And Wife by Nobody: 9:49pm On Dec 04, 2019
comtem2011:
lol, u for call sassysure make she dey pay all the listed bills for you na.
Sharrap there.
Ode
Re: Please Help A Husband And Wife by comtem2011: 9:53pm On Dec 04, 2019
sassysure:

Sharrap there.
Ode
Are u for real? Did u understand what I wrote up there at all? Well, I won't exchange words with you.

It is well.

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