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Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by Carlmax(m): 10:29am On Dec 09, 2019 |
fykes: Hmmm! You must be a shrink!!! See Phsycoanalysis. You need to start charging for sessions, cos plenty people get problems for naija. 3 Likes |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by samtol4(m): 11:45am On Dec 09, 2019 |
Most guys are always carried away with beautiful without considering the character of a lady 4 Likes |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by BigBizzy(m): 12:05pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
Guys these days are now more emotional than the ladies...are y'all exchanging roles? Jeezzz 3 Likes |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by farady(m): 12:37pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
Ginaz: OP, this lady makes lots of sense. You are moving too fast. Besides that ladies can be are very unpredictable, it is totally wrong for you to cohabit with a lady (that you met less than how many months sef?) Do you realise the grave implications of what you are getting yourself into? If ANYTHING happens to that lady, your own do be and even that your Brig.Gen uncle go take small cover! A proper risk assessment of your action indicates that when yawa gas, den you go realise say that love wey dey shark you na ice-block love - cause it will sudden melt very fast with the heat you will find yourself. Final answer, please abort! 5 Likes |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by millionboi2: 12:49pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
Richnerd69:low self esteem kil u dia |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by seyigiggle: 2:30pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
go ahead without reservation. atleast someone attested to her good behavior. your doubt would only lead to issues. Richnerd69: 2 Likes |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by Nobody: 2:32pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
Even we married men are sometimes tired of our wives...lol You will get tired, I promise you that. You will regret this decision in just a few months. The question you will keep asking is what did I get myself into? I don't understand the demon that pushed you to take this decision. You may just be amongst the lucky few though, I know a guy who lived with a woman for 7 years before finally marrying her and they are doing very well. I hope in your own interest this will be your case. 18 Likes |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by Richnerd69: 3:26pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
samtol4: No one is talking about marriage here, she's coming for a purpose, to serve, and not just live with me...I just picked Interest in a random friend. She has no other place but I was thinking if she stays for a few month and she's already adapting, then I could get her a place, that's if she would still love to stay back and start a new life in PH after service year. |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by frubben(m): 4:51pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
Richnerd69:wow this girls pussy Is intelligent, see as pussy dey speak English for your head . Continue speaking English 16 Likes |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by hpymoment(f): 5:02pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
Richnerd69: Sir can you please press another button that will help me to get a job in any of the MDAs? Thanks. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by Ginaz(f): 5:11pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
frubben: Please free the guy. He talks from both sides of his mouth . First it was he liked her reason he moved her to his base. Secondly, he changed the story to how she was not meeting up to her expectations and sad about her current situation, he wants to help . Before we see, he don dey talk about how she transferred herself to Abuja. ![]() Now currently saying , if she is adapting to living with him ,he would look for a house for her to stay (this was someone who said he has changed his mind towards that). That guy is so confused( I don’t wanna use a bad word) . He keeps justifying his selfish interest in the girl . Unlimited sex styles for a whole year. ![]() I’ve already told him to marry the girl if he likes her so much , the guy kept going on and forth making no sense of what he is saying . ![]() Button presser my ass!! . If it was so easy why didn’t the girl’s sister get her a lucrative job in Abuja? Nobody should bother to give him any advice. It’s a waste of time . He will keep defending his foolish actions spiced with selfishness. 28 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by Ginaz(f): 5:24pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
Richnerd69: Oga you talk from both sides of your mouth . You said the reason you wanted her to stay was because she behaves like your sister. She is teachable and Humble, that you really liked her. You have changed the whole story she wanna serve bla bla bla. She doesn’t have anywhere else to stay. Who brought up the ideal of a life in ph? Was it not you? Who convinced her and called the shots for her to be transferred to ph? Was it not you? So what’s this whole blabbers of “her serving , picking interest in a friend, she will adapt, bla bla bla “. You’re not serious o. I regretted wasting my time with this piece of shiiit . The other guy that said you were a fool was right. 19 Likes |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by Nelgenius4me(m): 5:31pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
The chances of success in any relationship is 50/50 . It is not out of place to have some degree of fright. If you want want your relationship with your girl to be successful ,the yam and the knife is your hand. I think it would have been rational to study your girl from a distance before taking her as a co partner. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by Richnerd69: 5:44pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
Ginaz, there are many reasons people do things. Letting her come over to get an experience is one, and her kind of person is accommodating and her traits are recognizable, somewhat like sis's... Which is another reason. It's either you have a language problem or an issue with comprehension...anyways I don't seem to like your style of approach. I think you have more life threatening issues to sulk about. You must be a loner and sick piece. You knew it was a "piece of sh*t" from the beginning, but you just love to deal with sh*t, don't you? like the wingless house-fly that you are. I chose to ignore you initially, cuz, I wasn't getting any good vibe from you, rather you want to drag this issue like it's a big deal. You are aggressive and you sound pained over people's business. I hope you find happiness someday . It's not healthy to be this frustrated. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by Ginaz(f): 6:05pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
Richnerd69: Wawu. Me being frustrated at what exactly? The way you guys just throw the word frustration eh? ![]() You want to help her, you say you like her, then you say you gonna send her off, come back again to say no. Mr man, by the time you are through making this mistake , you would be the one frustrated last last. Whatever reason you had the girl, kudos to it. Lemme remove mouth and stop here. Keep living in a fairytale world, reality is coming soon. 11 Likes |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by fykes(m): 6:27pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
Carlmax:Lol.. U just made me laugh... Behavioural patterns are easy to spot if u have lived long enough and know what to look for. 1 Like |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by Jaqenhghar: 6:41pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
Richnerd69:Wat are u asking people for? You went ahead and made plams without consulting people. You bent over to see that your dream came true nowyour are scared. SMH |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by Smithwilliams826: 6:42pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
Richnerd69:Have u finished building urself up? 8 Likes |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by Frankyboy1(m): 6:42pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
I don't know why people get so worked up, this life has no manual or guarantees, just be careful and follow ur guts instincts or maybe even your very emotions can lead you rit sometimes, in some years to come,this damsel can be ur lovely wife who has brought so much blessings to you, and in some years time too, she can be ur downfall or undoing, life is unpredictable like that, never take it so seriously, for 90%/of the things you fear never comes to pass, your meting her could also be divinely orchestrated to set her up for her missing rib or destiny is in pH, some small things happen for a big reason and some big things happen for no reasons, life has no guarantees and all it owes us is only death, but in between being born and dying let's hope and work that the coin of life deals us a good one! Peace out joor 12 Likes |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by luminouz(m): 6:43pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
GrabHisBalls:Why are you like this na? ![]() Let the girls enjoy being taken care of naaaaaaa.... |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by safarigirl(f): 6:43pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
Richnerd69:you're her best shot because you convinced her to come and live with you in a place you knew you would be her best shot. You Sound like a manipulative guy. She will be at your mercy for the duration of her stay in PH. You must be obsessed with the idea of being someone's lord and personal savior, preferably a woman you can be having free sex with, while blackmailing her with threats of eviction if she ever challenges your authority. For a woman to even agree to leave Abuja that she worked and had plans to stay with an aunt, to go to PH, where she only knows you, a man she has known for how long? You should be very afraid, because it speaks poorly of her. She must have ulterior motives just like you, because no good, decent girl would put herself in such a dicey situation I hope this decision bites you in the ass and you receive a year of fire and brimstone on your head for inviting a stranger into your space for one year. You will be the cunning man that will be buried with his cunningness. 21 Likes |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by BREYZ: 6:43pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
Don't come here and cry fowl tomorrow ![]() Which opportunity dey PH sef? Me wey be PH boy run Come Lagos u wan carry person daughter go PH in the name of greener pastures ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by Mightyify(m): 6:44pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
Guy listen to me.... You did nothing wrong apart from asking her to come stay with you. You should have taken it slow and allow her to serve in Abuja. The sex and emotions will wear out soon... and you gonna need space very soon...you gonna feel trapped and you gonna look for a way of escape. 14 Likes |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by CirocBoi(m): 6:45pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
samtol4: O BOY SEE ENGLISH!!!!
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Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by luminouz(m): 6:45pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
Nawa ooooo... If i ask the guy to work my posting to PH na, he will be saying he has no one but God. See wetin broda do for geh now o. Even the women here are bashing OP. Guess being that stoopid angered them ![]() 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by DaddyMorenike: 6:45pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
No. |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by Nobody: 6:46pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
luminouz:Well, I don't have a problem with that. After all, person must fall mugu. ![]() This my friend's own was just too much. Fear Igbo girls. |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by midnighter(f): 6:46pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
Wow. But what is so interesting about her that you did all this without even knowing her? This just sounds like a terrible idea You mean her elder sister accepted that you, a strange guy should carry her sister to his house in port Harcourt? What type of elder sister is that, if I may ask? Is it that I'm experiencing dyslexia or what ![]() Even if you rent an apartment for her, how do you know that she's not just pretending to love you so that she won't be homeless? I don't want to use this word but I am forced. OP you are very stupid... Reading through this thread, I got a familiar, peculiar feeling of irritation in my mind. I wondered what it was until finally I put my finger on it: This is how I felt reading through the travails of nairaland legend, Mazi GREATRESEARCHER... if you know, you know... God help you... 6 Likes |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by Iyajelili(f): 6:46pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
Since you're the reason she's relocating to PH, why don't you rent an apartment for her(if you can afford it) so that you guys won't be a burden on each other but can still see and work out your relationship at a slow pace? 2 Likes |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by HowDareU: 6:46pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
It is very simple: you seems so desperate. Slow down a little bit and know more about her. Dig deep and unravel her past history. Let her know your intentions on the get go. Don't get too intimate with her because it might be a distraction for both of you. Are you sure she is in the same pedestrian with you: your goals and aspirations per say? Remember, marriage is a marathon; not a hundred (100) metre race. Goodluck. 1 Like |
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