Amanda4life:



She may have been abused when she was a child.
Somebody may have used finger., if that is the case she will not bleed

Amandaaaaaaaa....

Shuuuuuuu....keep kwayet dia

Vulcanheph:
I have done a little bit of research and i know that sometimes hymen can be broken without blood but it's very rare....... in your case the girlt is Lying , She probably didn't want to open her legs properly so You won't penetrate her easily and Faking inexperience since She knows that She has already lied to You about being a virgin.........

BOTTOM LINE
i don't think your girl is a virgin

may be wrong Sha but I think your explanation is closer to the Truth

luminouz:



I'm serious na...wanna confirm?

Confirm what? Thats the least of my worries for now. Ok?
Now if you'll excuse me.�

Victoronah1:
where did I state that?

..read your post sir...how can u come to nairaland & ask people for advise on how to sex woman until she bleed...did u leave in prison?(what the heck is that all about?)..


Bro u need help.. truss me sir!!(No oofeense)

Jewessgratitude:


Confirm what? Thats the least of my worries for now. Ok?
Now if you'll excuse me.�

Lmaoooo...

So what's worrying you babe?

luminouz:

Lmaoooo...

So what's worrying you babe?

As if you can solve it��.

My bills! I got bills to pay!

Jewessgratitude:


As if you can solve it��.

My bills! I got bills to pay!

*let's out a long drawn out hiss*

When do you naija girls EVER NOT have bills to pay

*walks out of thread*

Amanda4life:



She may have been abused when she was a child.
Somebody may have used finger., if that is the case she will not bleed

But she is not your wife.
Why are you having sex with her

are you married?

luminouz:


*let's out a long drawn out hiss*

When do you naija girls EVER NOT have bills to pay

*walks out of thread*

ROFLOL����....my belle ooo... Veeeery funnyyyyy.

Mehn...I can feel your broke state�

As for your Chinese name... You're a clown walai���.

Anyways. Dont mention me again o. Don't deal with chinese broke guys����

Jewessgratitude:


ROFLOL����....my belle ooo... Veeeery funnyyyyy.

Mehn...I can feel your broke state�

As for your Chinese name... You're a clown walai���.

Anyways. Dont mention me again o. Don't deal with chinese broke guys����

Lmaoooo...
So now I'm broke because I refused to pay your bills?
Aunty cover your face abeg and PAY YOUR OWN BILLS.

luminouz:



Lmaoooo...
So now I'm broke because I refused to pay your bills?
Aunty cover your face abeg and PAY YOUR OWN BILLS.

*Marked **

Jewessgratitude:


*Marked **

Stop marking and go pay your own Bill's. Are you not ashamed of yourself?

Dear op... Bleep her again... If its free as express... I mean d lagos double or tripple. Lane... Pls run for ur life... Nd pls dont allow squizing of legs... Spred it like a rumor!!! 2 years is a long wait to get all dis bullshit frm a hoe!!!

Victoronah1:
Hello, please I will make it brief.
We have been dating for 2 years however I was in a private school, I just finished. She always tells me she is a virgin, anytime we romance. I said okay fine. I endured for 2 years, so we planned on how to have sex this year, cause she said she will do it with me that she loves me enough. So I brought out 15k huge money this Buhari regime, booked hotel just a night. And used the other 5k for ice creams, she came and after some romance, we tried having sex and she was screaming, her legs where vibrating. At a time I had to stop.But she insisted I continue, but after my dick entered, I did not see any blood at all. I don't know if it was tight cause she didn't want to spread her legs properly,claiming she is having pain, infact this is a lady I really want to marry, but I noticed 2 things
She didn't bleed even till today and it's still getting me scared, I know not all girls bleed, that's why this one is not really shaking me, but the 2 option is
2: I noticed she was very lazy in bed, she can't spread her legs, complaint of pain, she can't do doggy, claiming she is scared. We only had sex yesterday. Now I feel I have been used,lied and betrayed. She has gone to work but I haven't called her yet. I will be frank I love sex, and I don't want to lack sex in my marriage at all. One mind is telling me to still stick to her and try to have sex again and see since she is complaining of pain. But the other is just telling me to quit cause she may be faking everything,the pain and virginity stuff. Also she kept on postponing the sex yesterday, even when she said at night after we go out, we came back and she went to sleep immediately even after spending money to buy Spanish fly, this girl drank it and slept. Please matured guys who have dated or been in this type of relationship please advice me.

Guy won't you feel she's a pro if she actually enjoyed the thing too much on her first time? Kindly teach her d ropes and I'm sure she'll learn. It's a gradual process.

Abscence of blood doesn't mean she's not a virgin. We need to learn to trust the people we claim to love. If you doubt her you shouldn't have had sex with her.

annford:






exercises which include but not limited to cycling, horse riding, sprinting, and so many other sporting activities. Your girlfriend may have actually been deflowered by you.

thank God u said not limited to exercises like cycling,horse riding and sprinting cos i for ask u if nigerian girls dey engage in such exercises .the only time i saw a girl cycling was once in benin and she was just the only female amongs the guys who were cycling...for horse riding matter horses are not dat common in the southern part of naija and the few u see are owned by royals and in the north were it is common the emirs use it for ceremonies and also used for professional sporting activities like polo.the only girls i know who ride horses are white girls cos in the western world the average joe can own a horse if he lives in the country side and parents who own horses teach their sons and dauthers how to ride horses at an early age.so anytime any lady in nigeria who is saying she lost her virginity by riding a horse or climbing mountain that will be the biggest joke of the season .did she climb the mountains in abuja or the one in abekouta ? its better if a guy is insisting on marrying a virgin and the girl knows she aint a virgin she should just walk away instead of stressing herself to deceive and lie to the guy that she is a virgin.there are lot of guys who would appreciate a lady more for her good character than virginity.only a despirate girl lies about her virginity just to get a guy.

taiwoowiat:
She is farm tools.

how?

@ OP not every lady bleeds when they loose their virginity,I did not bleed and its not a big deal .Regardless it does not make sense for a lady to lie about her virginity status .

Sexual compatibility is very important ,i dont go near guys that have high sex drive because I know I am not a fan of sex .I love my body and I can't stand someone touching me always .So if your girl is like me then OYO is your case.

Lefulefu I dey always enjoy as you dey write you be wiseman

Try and have sex with her again. U would find out that she's never a virgin. She played you.

Experience! If she opens her legs very well, u would easily decode. Lol, ladies can lie en!

May be she is dry virgin

CaptainMitch:
Lefulefu I dey always enjoy as you dey write you be wiseman

but come to think of it why is it some guys are so stuck up on a girl"s virginity? being a virgin wont stop her to cheat nau.abi guys for here no know say dere some ladies who take it in the backdoor but refuse virginal sex so as not to mess the hymen up .so tell me how dat one dey different from the gurl wey don do virginal sex .

Victoronah1:
thank you so much. She will not spread leg, and be telling me because she is tight that's why. I thought maybe she was not aroused enough that's why I bought Spanish fly 5k from ShopRite this girl drank like half and slept off. I felt like dying

Spanish fly wey I dey buy #200

lefulefu:
thank God u said not limited to exercises like cycling,horse riding and sprinting cos i for ask u if nigerian girls dey engage in such exercises .the only time i saw a girl cycling was once in benin and she was just the only female amongs the guys who were cycling...for horse riding matter horses are not dat common in the southern part of naija and the few u see are owned by royals and in the north were it is common the emirs use it for ceremonies and also used for professional sporting activities like polo.the only girls i know who ride horses are white girls cos in the western world the average joe can own a horse if he lives in the country side and parents who own horses teach their sons and dauthers how to ride horses at an early age.so anytime any lady in nigeria who is saying she lost her virginity by riding a horse or climbing mountain that will be the biggest joke of the season .did she climb the mountains in abuja or the one in abekouta ? its better if a guy is insisting on marrying a virgin and the girl knows she aint a virgin she should just walk away instead of stressing herself to deceive and lie to the guy that she is a virgin.there are lot of guys who would appreciate a lady more for her good character than virginity.only a despirate girl lies about her virginity just to get a guy.

Igbo women cycle a lot, South South women cycle a lot.

In fact if you go there you'll see women riding motorbikes to school etc I mean students.
Even in the villages.
So you have never travelled out of your abode?

Victoronah1:
thank you so much. I've always been scared of virgins, they lack sexual experience

After you've disvirgined her!

You are now scared of virgin?

Really?

You sly fox!

I dey tell you, if you disvirgin a girl leave am sef she go hate you, me I no really care, once I marry you no do nonsense or I kick you out na only cheating i no go fit tolerate, nothing concern me with virgin sef because even from16 many girls don dey sexually active.

lefulefu:
but come to think of it why is it some guys are so stuck up on a girl"s virginity? being a virgin wont stop her to cheat nau.abi guys for here no know say dere some ladies who take it in the backdoor but refuse virginal sex so as not to mess the hymen up .so tell me how dat one dey different from the gurl wey don do virginal sex .

Charleys:


Spanish fly wey I dey buy #200

Jesus are you in Lagos? The cheapest one I saw in the pharmacy inside the mall was 700 and the bastard said only one can't go half. Spanish gold

victorian:









After you've disvirgined her!

You are now scared of virgin?

Really?

You sly fox!

Biko lemme oo.

Twoclans:
@ OP not every lady bleeds when they loose their virginity,I did not bleed and its not a big deal .Regardless it does not make sense for a lady to lie about her virginity status .

Sexual compatibility is very important ,i dont go near guys that have high sex drive because I know I am not a fan of sex .I love my body and I can't stand someone touching me always .So if your girl is like me then OYO is your case.

hmmm. But she was really trembling. Her legs where shaking when I was penetrating,infact it got to a point that she told me that she couldn't breath, I felt the way she was breathing so fast. Could she be nervous? Cause if she is not relaxed then it may hurt her?

yes she is, even EVE our great grand mother was a virgin!!!

a man wanted to do money ritual, so the ritualist asked him to bring a virgin from UNILAG!!!

guys please help him, he needs your help!!!!

Stillthebest:


Try and have sex with her again. U would find out that she's never a virgin. She played you.

Experience! If she opens her legs very well, u would easily decode. Lol, ladies can lie en!

Hmm. Okay so I took some comments and called her. After some talks she said she saw blood in the morning, when she went to ease her sef. Meanwhile I was still in the hotel with her. I asked why she didn't wake me but she said she didn't want to disturb my sleep. Well I love her, not cause she is a virgin or not. I love her character, but I will be pissed to know she is lying. She said the pain is still there, but not that much! How possible is this?

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