Hi Nairalanders, please I need mature advice on this one.

I met this very beautiful girl I used to crush on during my secondary school days last Friday. We had a brief chat and I later asked for her number. She told me her phone isn't good. The screen damaged, and she can't take calls. I asked if she don't have someone I could call her through.

She said I should give her my number. I did, but wasn't sure she would call me. Throughout that day I was glancing at my phone expecting her call. She never called.

The next day was yesterday being Saturday. I was hanging out with friends at a friends shop when a call came in around 9:37 am. I answered and inquired of the caller and lol and behold it was her.

The area was noisy so I asked if I could call her back in the next 20 minutes. I later called her back an hour later. I didn't want to look desperate.

She was on another call when I called. I tried 3 times and her phone went switched off. I comot my mind for her matter.

About 2 hours later a call came in from another number. I picked and it was her. She said her phone went off, she borrowed phone from a friend and the battery died. Now she's calling from her sisters line.

I said okay and we spoke a little lengthy (I called her back). I told her I used to crush on her back in those days but was very scared to approach her. But now man has wisen up I would like to take her out on a date and get to know what's going on with her life.

She was glad and accepted the date. She told me though she have somewhere to go that yesterday so we need to hang out in the morning or probably evening time. I said tomorrow we tell.

Early morning while I was in bed she called and told me I should come to her place. I was like our place? Your parent nko? Won't the frown?


She told me her mum traveled outside the state, and her dad is off to work and would come back till 7pm. I was happy though surprised she invited me to her place on our first official meeting.

I came she cooked for me and we eat. She bought beverage drink etc. In fact she treated me well.
Then she told me I'm looking handsome these days. (Well, God created me weel. I be fine boy for real.)

Funny thing was when I can she was wearing her night dress. A short and shoulder slim cloth not covering her stomach. She was always touching her breast like it was itching her. She started rubbing her stomach like someone who over-feed.

I made a move and touched her stomach and she acted cool with it. She lay on my laps acting like she's sleepy. (I like her a lot and won't want to go to bed with her on our first meeting)

In fact, a lot happened. But then she begin to complain of being broke. She would say it and say it again. Until I gave her 1,500 cos I really want something seruous with her.

We planned to go to the movies this week, but with her compalin of being broke I have been thinking. Is sh up to something.

Please advice me....

Hahahaha...... You already know na

Nigga... You better use your head oo

Or do you want to become one of her ATM machines all because of love(pucci) in this buhari regime?

Sooner than later, she's going to play games with your head bro and later your heart.

Play the game of love if you must but don't fall a victim.

It is well with your soul my brother in the Lord... It is too early to complain. Time will tell

To pick .Sand from Abakiliki rice is more interesting than ur shite story..


Mr Charity

Hahahaha. I Cant Stop Laughing. She Laid On Your Lap And You Gave Her 1,500. What Will Happen If She Strokes Your Dick? You Will Dash her Your Life. Hahahahaha


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Developit:
Hi Nairalanders, please I need mature advice on this one.

I met this very beautiful girl I used to crush on during my secondary school days last Friday. We had a brief chat and I later asked for her number. She told me her phone isn't good. The screen damaged, and she can't take calls. I asked if she don't have someone I could call her through.

She said I should give her my number. I did, but wasn't sure she would call me. Throughout that day I was glancing at my phone expecting her call. She never called.

The next day was yesterday being Saturday. I was hanging out with friends at a friends shop when a call came in around 9:37 am. I answered and inquired of the caller and lol and behold it was her.

The area was noisy so I asked if I could call her back in the next 20 minutes. I later called her back an hour later. I didn't want to look desperate.

She was on another call when I called. I tried 3 times and her phone went switched off. I comot my mind for her matter.

About 2 hours later a call came in from another number. I picked and it was her. She said her phone went off, she borrowed phone from a friend and the battery died. Now she's calling from her sisters line.

I said okay and we spoke a little lengthy (I called her back). I told her I used to crush on her back in those days but was very scared to approach her. But now man has wisen up I would like to take her out on a date and get to know what's going on with her life.

She was glad and accepted the date. She told me though she have somewhere to go that yesterday so we need to hang out in the morning or probably evening time. I said tomorrow we tell.

Early morning while I was in bed she called and told me I should come to her place. I was like our place? Your parent nko? Won't the frown?


She told me her mum traveled outside the state, and her dad is off to work and would come back till 7pm. I was happy though surprised she invited me to her place on our first official meeting.

I came she cooked for me and we eat. She bought beverage drink etc. In fact she treated me well.
Then she told me I'm looking handsome these days. (Well, God created me weel. I be fine boy for real.)

Funny thing was when I can she was wearing her night dress. A short and shoulder slim cloth not covering her stomach. She was always touching her breast like it was itching her. She started rubbing her stomach like someone who over-feed.

I made a move and touched her stomach and she acted cool with it. She lay on my laps acting like she's sleepy. (I like her a lot and won't want to go to bed with her on our first meeting)

In fact, a lot happened. But then she begin to complain of being broke. She would say it and say it again. Until I gave her 1,500 cos I really want something seruous with her.

We planned to go to the movies this week, but with her compalin of being broke I have been thinking. Is sh up to something.

Please advice me....

You are still a child.

Why would you date someone that cannot afford to buy phone for herself.

You better runaway before she bankrupt you.
Better still have her as friend with benefits and forget about all these love of a thing.

You need koboko you went to her house and because you love her and you foolishly allow that punny passed you by ?


Oya come here

Lol op u need to be ubunjanised and martinised. You are too slow for a niggar on the fast lane. At this your age remove your mind from anything long term that's the trap you set for yourself and them u come back to complain after they use it against you. Truth is there's no woman that's a trophy. It is not worth the effort.

Girls are cunning.They know how to manipulate weak guys into dropping cash.Na so this gel go dey call me" dear'my love.
Ok,I come toast her she say she get guy wey she dey roll with.Why you come dey call me your love?I noticed she did that whenever she want to tax me or she need recharge card.And me wey mumu go give her.Though she would say it romantically.
The last one wey I treat her fvck up be say she say make I borrow her #5k.You know gels na.Any money wey a guy borrow them na dash.I meet her for her location with the #5k.But I talked for my mind say I go romance her before I give her because e no easy to collect back your loan from a female friend wey come be your toaster.When I say make I romance her she bluntly refused.And I really wan give her the money.Na there I changed my mind.I tell her say make she text me her account details say I go wire her.She send am the next day begin call me I blocked her number.Truecaller just dey update me of several miss calls.Since 3 weeks she never call.

Truth is , you're the mumu here .

Don't shift the blame .

Developit:
Hi Nairalanders, please I need mature advice on this one.

I met this very beautiful girl I used to crush on during my secondary school days last Friday. We had a brief chat and I later asked for her number. She told me her phone isn't good. The screen damaged, and she can't take calls. I asked if she don't have someone I could call her through.

She said I should give her my number. I did, but wasn't sure she would call me. Throughout that day I was glancing at my phone expecting her call. She never called.

The next day was yesterday being Saturday. I was hanging out with friends at a friends shop when a call came in around 9:37 am. I answered and inquired of the caller and lol and behold it was her.

The area was noisy so I asked if I could call her back in the next 20 minutes. I later called her back an hour later. I didn't want to look desperate.

She was on another call when I called. I tried 3 times and her phone went switched off. I comot my mind for her matter.

About 2 hours later a call came in from another number. I picked and it was her. She said her phone went off, she borrowed phone from a friend and the battery died. Now she's calling from her sisters line.

I said okay and we spoke a little lengthy (I called her back). I told her I used to crush on her back in those days but was very scared to approach her. But now man has wisen up I would like to take her out on a date and get to know what's going on with her life.

She was glad and accepted the date. She told me though she have somewhere to go that yesterday so we need to hang out in the morning or probably evening time. I said tomorrow we tell.

Early morning while I was in bed she called and told me I should come to her place. I was like our place? Your parent nko? Won't the frown?


She told me her mum traveled outside the state, and her dad is off to work and would come back till 7pm. I was happy though surprised she invited me to her place on our first official meeting.

I came she cooked for me and we eat. She bought beverage drink etc. In fact she treated me well.
Then she told me I'm looking handsome these days. (Well, God created me weel. I be fine boy for real.)

Funny thing was when I can she was wearing her night dress. A short and shoulder slim cloth not covering her stomach. She was always touching her breast like it was itching her. She started rubbing her stomach like someone who over-feed.

I made a move and touched her stomach and she acted cool with it. She lay on my laps acting like she's sleepy. (I like her a lot and won't want to go to bed with her on our first meeting)

In fact, a lot happened. But then she begin to complain of being broke. She would say it and say it again. Until I gave her 1,500 cos I really want something seruous with her.

We planned to go to the movies this week, but with her compalin of being broke I have been thinking. Is sh up to something.

Please advice me....

Father Christmas's loading... She want you to spend the kind of money her father can not even spend on her

December go sweet for one girl o..

Honestly, there's a lot of hypocrites here. Who can swear they never gone out of their way to impress a lady. Gulllible hypocrites.

The guy who said time will tell is the only mature advice so far.

Moreover, N1,500 was nothing to me. Not like I had enough, but at this moment it's not a lot.

Again, the story wasn't complete. The girl in question is from a very poor family. I bet the father earns up to 20k per month. Not to talk of the mother.

When I got to their house she was with her sick junoir brother, a boy of about 11 years. And she told me she has spent all her money buying drugs and feeding the family since her parents can't afford enough. So I decided to help with N1,500.

The girl in question is very beautiful, and my mum knows and like her a lot. She even jokes I or one of my brother will marry her.

I'm just scared if giving her the money on our first meeting was too early, and if she might suspect I could always assist when she needs financial help?

I didn't want a situation she will think because I gave her 1,500 today I will give her tomorrow. And I only wanted to hear your guys thought on it.

Maybe if she was into me she would not have raised the issue of money. But I am sure she truly needed money.

I saw her damaged phone, and if she was the kind that feast on gullible guys she would have acquired a branding new phone giving to the fact that she has a lot of admirers.

She was dating a guy for 7 years since secondary school, but due to the fact the guy womanizes a lot she decided to move on. But somehow she wants to give me a try.

But since girls are unpredictable I was looking for you guys to advice me if you have had an experience of a girl acting like she's head and heels into you, only to dump you after assisting her financially.

But obviously a lot dumb brain here. If I be mumu I for ask this question at all.

The problem is boys inability to assist a girl if she isn't paying back with sex. So giving her N1,500 and not wanting to take her to bed at once is a crime?

I tire for this kind people sha!

well 1500 is not much cos afterall u said u crushing on her .but dont complain if by chance she starts making excessive demands ooo in the weeks to come .u be man so u u suppose bear am .

Developit:
Honestly, there's a lot of hypocrites here. Who can swear they never gone out of their way to impress a lady. Gulllible hypocrites.

The guy who said time will tell is the only mature advice so far.

Moreover, N1,500 was nothing to me. Not like I had enough, but at this moment it's not a lot.

Again, the story wasn't complete. The girl in question is from a very poor family. I bet the father earns up to 20k per month. Not to talk of the mother.

When I got to their house she was with her sick junoir brother, a boy of about 11 years. And she told me she has spent all her money buying drugs and feeding the family since her parents can't afford enough. So I decided to help with N1,500.

The girl in question is very beautiful, and my mum knows and like her a lot. She even jokes I or one of my brother will marry her.

I'm just scared if giving her the money on our first meeting was too early, and if she might suspect I could always assist when she needs financial help?

I didn't want a situation she will think because I gave her 1,500 today I will give her tomorrow. And I only wanted to hear your guys thought on it.

Maybe if she was into me she would not have raised the issue of money. But I am sure she truly needed money.

I saw her damaged phone, and if she was the kind that feast on gullible guys she would have acquired a branding new phone giving to the fact that she has a lot of admirers.

She was dating a guy for 7 years since secondary school, but due to the fact the guy womanizes a lot she decided to move on. But somehow she wants to give me a try.

But since girls are unpredictable I was looking for you guys to advice me if you have had an experience of a girl acting like she's head and heels into you, only to dump you after assisting her financially.

But obviously a lot dumb brain here. If I be mumu I for ask this question at all.

The problem is boys inability to assist a girl if she isn't paying back with sex. So giving her N1,500 and not wanting to take her to bed at once is a crime?

I tire for this kind people sha!

no one is saying you should not spend bro but just use brain and give what you can afford to lose it festive period all the girls can be tricky.....watch her very well and if you see something good in her and not all this gold diggers type then you can do anything for her but do with caution....cheers

dudesexy111:
no one is saying you should not spend bro but just use brain and give what you can afford to lose it festive period all the girls can be tricky.....watch her very well and if you see something good in her and not all this gold diggers type then you can do anything for her but do with caution....cheers

thats the key point here.give what u can afford to lose .some guys will empty their whole bank account just cos dem wan impress a girl and they will turn around and be blaming general buhari ...just the same way some nigerians spent on MMM.

A good relationship starts from friendship.

You can help out with the sick brother. Since you know the family is not too rich , atleast you should prepare your mind.

You are the one causing confusion here bro. Help if u want to help or walk away. No big deal.

I have helped ladies that I don't have and will never have feelings for. I also help guys too. But I do it because God gave me the grace. I ain't rich yet.

lefulefu:
thats the key point here.give what u can afford to lose .some guys will empty their whole bank account just cos dem wan impress a girl and they will turn around and be blaming general buhari ...just the same way some nigerians spent on MMM.

am telling you bro....I don wise tey tey no girl fit scope me I swear

lefulefu:
thats the key point here.give what u can afford to lose .some guys will empty their whole bank account just cos dem wan impress a girl and they will turn around and be blaming general buhari ...just the same way some nigerians spent on MMM.

Abi o

dudesexy111:
am telling you bro....I don wise tey tey no girl fit scope me I swear

Time will tell in the later run. If she appreciated the 1500 which means she isn't after your money and she is really broke. Remember she took you to her house cooked and served u. if she wanted to use your head she will take you to a fast food so you can buy food and she will take food away but no she didn't. 1500 is nothing because other girls will see it as an insult but she took it because she really needed it. So stick and see how it goes

Developit:
Hi Nairalanders, please I need mature advice on this one.

I met this very beautiful girl I used to crush on during my secondary school days last Friday. We had a brief chat and I later asked for her number. She told me her phone isn't good. The screen damaged, and she can't take calls. I asked if she don't have someone I could call her through.

She said I should give her my number. I did, but wasn't sure she would call me. Throughout that day I was glancing at my phone expecting her call. She never called.

The next day was yesterday being Saturday. I was hanging out with friends at a friends shop when a call came in around 9:37 am. I answered and inquired of the caller and lol and behold it was her.

The area was noisy so I asked if I could call her back in the next 20 minutes. I later called her back an hour later. I didn't want to look desperate.

She was on another call when I called. I tried 3 times and her phone went switched off. I comot my mind for her matter.

About 2 hours later a call came in from another number. I picked and it was her. She said her phone went off, she borrowed phone from a friend and the battery died. Now she's calling from her sisters line.

I said okay and we spoke a little lengthy (I called her back). I told her I used to crush on her back in those days but was very scared to approach her. But now man has wisen up I would like to take her out on a date and get to know what's going on with her life.

She was glad and accepted the date. She told me though she have somewhere to go that yesterday so we need to hang out in the morning or probably evening time. I said tomorrow we tell.

Early morning while I was in bed she called and told me I should come to her place. I was like our place? Your parent nko? Won't the frown?


She told me her mum traveled outside the state, and her dad is off to work and would come back till 7pm. I was happy though surprised she invited me to her place on our first official meeting.

I came she cooked for me and we eat. She bought beverage drink etc. In fact she treated me well.
Then she told me I'm looking handsome these days. (Well, God created me weel. I be fine boy for real.)

Funny thing was when I can she was wearing her night dress. A short and shoulder slim cloth not covering her stomach. She was always touching her breast like it was itching her. She started rubbing her stomach like someone who over-feed.

I made a move and touched her stomach and she acted cool with it. She lay on my laps acting like she's sleepy. (I like her a lot and won't want to go to bed with her on our first meeting)

In fact, a lot happened. But then she begin to complain of being broke. She would say it and say it again. Until I gave her 1,500 cos I really want something seruous with her.

We planned to go to the movies this week, but with her compalin of being broke I have been thinking. Is sh up to something.

Please advice me....

You didn't pay for the food and drink but because you dropped N1500 now, you are having a second thought. Are you a stingy handsome man?

Judging from what i am reading, many girls has turned men to "women philosophers" to the point that helping a female really in need is now considered a rip off.

Guys, Do you know if a woman decides to rip you off or milk you dry, you won't even know till she has eating deep into your savings or made you gone broke?

you don't want sex on the first meeting but you gave her money, you have blown the cover.

Lol man wey dey reason spending 1500

lefulefu:
well 1500 is not much cos afterall u said u crushing on her .but dont complain if by chance she starts making excessive demands ooo in the weeks to come .u be man so u u suppose bear am .

Developit:
Hi Nairalanders, please I need mature advice on this one.

I met this very beautiful girl I used to crush on during my secondary school days last Friday. We had a brief chat and I later asked for her number. She told me her phone isn't good. The screen damaged, and she can't take calls. I asked if she don't have someone I could call her through.

She said I should give her my number. I did, but wasn't sure she would call me. Throughout that day I was glancing at my phone expecting her call. She never called.

The next day was yesterday being Saturday. I was hanging out with friends at a friends shop when a call came in around 9:37 am. I answered and inquired of the caller and lol and behold it was her.

The area was noisy so I asked if I could call her back in the next 20 minutes. I later called her back an hour later. I didn't want to look desperate.

She was on another call when I called. I tried 3 times and her phone went switched off. I comot my mind for her matter.

About 2 hours later a call came in from another number. I picked and it was her. She said her phone went off, she borrowed phone from a friend and the battery died. Now she's calling from her sisters line.

I said okay and we spoke a little lengthy (I called her back). I told her I used to crush on her back in those days but was very scared to approach her. But now man has wisen up I would like to take her out on a date and get to know what's going on with her life.

She was glad and accepted the date. She told me though she have somewhere to go that yesterday so we need to hang out in the morning or probably evening time. I said tomorrow we tell.

Early morning while I was in bed she called and told me I should come to her place. I was like our place? Your parent nko? Won't the frown?


She told me her mum traveled outside the state, and her dad is off to work and would come back till 7pm. I was happy though surprised she invited me to her place on our first official meeting.

I came she cooked for me and we eat. She bought beverage drink etc. In fact she treated me well.
Then she told me I'm looking handsome these days. (Well, God created me weel. I be fine boy for real.)

Funny thing was when I can she was wearing her night dress. A short and shoulder slim cloth not covering her stomach. She was always touching her breast like it was itching her. She started rubbing her stomach like someone who over-feed.

I made a move and touched her stomach and she acted cool with it. She lay on my laps acting like she's sleepy. (I like her a lot and won't want to go to bed with her on our first meeting)

In fact, a lot happened. But then she begin to complain of being broke. She would say it and say it again. Until I gave her 1,500 cos I really want something seruous with her.

We planned to go to the movies this week, but with her compalin of being broke I have been thinking. Is sh up to something.

Please advice me....

Don't play the fool

Be wise, if she ask you of money again in the next 6 months, don't give her

You have to be sure she wants your money or your love

Don't even sleep her before she will claim you broke her heart

Within the period you won't be giving her money, if she is real age will stay and if she is not real, she will pull out

Developit:
Hi Nairalanders, please I need mature advice on this one.

I met this very beautiful girl I used to crush on during my secondary school days last Friday. We had a brief chat and I later asked for her number. She told me her phone isn't good. The screen damaged, and she can't take calls. I asked if she don't have someone I could call her through.

She said I should give her my number. I did, but wasn't sure she would call me. Throughout that day I was glancing at my phone expecting her call. She never called.

The next day was yesterday being Saturday. I was hanging out with friends at a friends shop when a call came in around 9:37 am. I answered and inquired of the caller and lol and behold it was her.

The area was noisy so I asked if I could call her back in the next 20 minutes. I later called her back an hour later. I didn't want to look desperate.

She was on another call when I called. I tried 3 times and her phone went switched off. I comot my mind for her matter.

About 2 hours later a call came in from another number. I picked and it was her. She said her phone went off, she borrowed phone from a friend and the battery died. Now she's calling from her sisters line.

I said okay and we spoke a little lengthy (I called her back). I told her I used to crush on her back in those days but was very scared to approach her. But now man has wisen up I would like to take her out on a date and get to know what's going on with her life.

She was glad and accepted the date. She told me though she have somewhere to go that yesterday so we need to hang out in the morning or probably evening time. I said tomorrow we tell.

Early morning while I was in bed she called and told me I should come to her place. I was like our place? Your parent nko? Won't the frown?


She told me her mum traveled outside the state, and her dad is off to work and would come back till 7pm. I was happy though surprised she invited me to her place on our first official meeting.

I came she cooked for me and we eat. She bought beverage drink etc. In fact she treated me well.
Then she told me I'm looking handsome these days. (Well, God created me weel. I be fine boy for real.)

Funny thing was when I can she was wearing her night dress. A short and shoulder slim cloth not covering her stomach. She was always touching her breast like it was itching her. She started rubbing her stomach like someone who over-feed.

I made a move and touched her stomach and she acted cool with it. She lay on my laps acting like she's sleepy. (I like her a lot and won't want to go to bed with her on our first meeting)

In fact, a lot happened. But then she begin to complain of being broke. She would say it and say it again. Until I gave her 1,500 cos I really want something seruous with her.

We planned to go to the movies this week, but with her compalin of being broke I have been thinking. Is sh up to something.

Please advice me....

u be mumu already

The girl is actually broke.Sge is honest she can't afford a phone for her self etc.I don't think she was using you as mumu try and see any way you can assist her get a job.The relationship is still early and she is not a pretender forming slay queen ,big babe and asked you to take her to Mr bigs or a costly hotel for date.She brought you to her house and cooked for you ,She is a girl that can manage a home .Go ahead and try to know her better.