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Re: I Hit My Wife by nairalanduseles: 10:35am On Dec 16, 2019 |
niaralandtopuser: And you think that is right.....that you have no self control .......you need to re evaluate your life.......fear or intimidation does not amount to respect.......I have kids and I have NEVER hit them ......and they respect and love me genuinely........do not let the society u live in make u act like an animal.....you Will be ashamed of yourself when you start talking w/o civilized people... |
Re: I Hit My Wife by daddytime(m): 10:36am On Dec 16, 2019 |
kodakred: Not sure if the shoes where Versace though...a pix? |
Re: I Hit My Wife by BlackLaw: 10:36am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Dupalmer:That's bad advice. For the sake of the child, that marriage must be protected at all costs. This should teach you to always keep your emotions in check and to always communicate with her - a simple text explaining you'd be late would have prevented this situation. Give it time and go back to her, what she is doing is not so far from the right thing to do, she has to take concrete steps to make you understand that domestic violence is unacceptable behaviour. It usually starts with one innocent slap, then two, then God knows what... Give it time, then try again. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nobody: 10:37am On Dec 16, 2019 |
bluefilm: Off course Blue film. You don't have real relationship. Na only for on top your laptop you dey ease yourself. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Myhusband(m): 10:38am On Dec 16, 2019 |
you're not losing anything bro, calm down or you don't pay her bride price give her a break to think it over beside your going out by 2am is bad as husband. not even about your wife but safety give her a break and go back later to the memory lane of how you hook her up, lobatan |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Rosella1: 10:38am On Dec 16, 2019 |
I was happy reading the post until I finished reading and didn't see the part where you got beaten by them! ![]() |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nobody: 10:38am On Dec 16, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy:Lol I pity your life... I know you're only just seeking attention... Very stùpid mentality... 2 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by bizhop01: 10:39am On Dec 16, 2019 |
If only about this, she was planning to leave you only waited for trigger. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by spencekat(m): 10:40am On Dec 16, 2019 |
midnighter:Yes,the woman was wrong by provoking him,but he would not have slapped her. 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by deltateam: 10:40am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Dupalmer: Over a trouble she ignited? So you have already judged without seeing the woman's angle. Who told you that op has not been acting irresponsible all along? The breed of men being birthed these days amaze me truly. ![]() |
Re: I Hit My Wife by BRATISLAVA: 10:40am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Dupalmer: Lol. And can't men be virtuous? Your advice is so one-sided that it's ridiculous. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by mokt(m): 10:40am On Dec 16, 2019 |
maryjames9: I have a sister but she is separated, both parents are late. However, I believe adults reporting themselves especially when it comes to relationships will only make things worse. A smack on the face is not the same as knock down my friend. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by bukatyne(f): 10:40am On Dec 16, 2019 |
ITbomb: Honestly, Yorubas say you can marry a bad wife, you shouldn't dare to have bad in-laws. If the brother is hot headed because of his youth, her mother cannot ask what happened and resolved? I know someone who slapped his wife when they just wedded. Madam reported to his uncle, that one called him and gave him a thunderous slap. Thereafter, begged wifey that they don't beat wives in their family and they learnt conflict resolution skills. Today, their marriage is 40 years plus and such has never happened again. 2 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by theunnamed: 10:41am On Dec 16, 2019 |
emeijeh: Lol I don dead ![]() ![]() Is this sarcasm? Are you hearing what you put down there ![]() Na wa ooo. 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by midnighter(f): 10:41am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Vivonose: He should appeal to her because she is really hurt but he has already shown remorse so I dont understand why she left. I dont see how you can provoke somebody to the point of violence and then call your family to come and pick you. If she is just tired of his behaviour generally then I can understand, but calling them on the basis of this particular incident is very unnecessary. 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by danot1030: 10:41am On Dec 16, 2019 |
I will never support any reason giving by any man for hitting a lady and not especially his wife. A coward hit a woman while his mate makes millions of dollars fighting men like them. Next time if are going to calm a raging woman down you will need to first calm down your own nerve no matter the provocation. Anytime you you hit a woman you kills something in her, you kill her affection and respect for you and it will take you an extra and reassuring efforts to regain it back. For your wife packing out with her family, that is not necessary but since it has happened, go with your family to plead with them and bring your wife back home. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by thedio(m): 10:41am On Dec 16, 2019 |
@op u r wrong for leaving ur wife and kid at home to stay with work friend till around 2am. If u don't care about ur life,how about ur wife and the innocent kid U apologized to her but she kept shouting ,did u notice that the little slap u gave her restored her factory settings. 'She went back to the bedroom and locked the door behind'.what she should av done to avoid the first slap. She was very wrong for calling her family, ur mum is her best option.she should av called ur mum to report ur movement and not the slap so that if anything happens to u in future due to ur movement nobody will blame her. Finally maintain ur champion don't beg her,don't inform anybody so that they will not plead on ur behalf.just let her be with her senseless mum and bro.if she like she will come back, make itself happy she will find her way home. 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by maeola(f): 10:41am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Oliver12Hodges: ![]() |
Re: I Hit My Wife by BRATISLAVA: 10:42am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Dupalmer: Lol. And can't men be virtuous? Your advice is so one-sided that it's ridiculous. You have made excuses for appalling behavior. So the responsibility of dealing with bad behavior falls on the woman alone? The man can behave anyhow and she must stomach it to appease him? Everything women say is nagging? You're funny, but not in the hilarious way. Are you in any relationship at all with a slave for your "love"? Graxie, come and see this. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by patjane(f): 10:43am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Mr man go beg ur wife.. if you take all this useless single faceless men talk here you’ll regret it later.... 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nobody: 10:43am On Dec 16, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy: I guess your senses skip that part he left the bed room for her, @2am he shuld leave to where, where wil d so called "real men" walk out to @ such time. l agree the man acted irresponsible, shuld a reasonable woman nag even a real man to walk out @2am. that ur parent are on standby to help yu move ur load @every whistle blown doesnt mean ur parent value you more than those parent that guide there daughters to av a stable home n resolves issues when issues arises they caution in both parties.May God not give us immature parent. stop embrassing ur parents online. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Fejimummy: 10:44am On Dec 16, 2019 |
why do I have a feeling that this was not the first time you are hitting her |
Re: I Hit My Wife by bravesoul247(m): 10:45am On Dec 16, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy:agreed. But what about his apologies? 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nobody: 10:45am On Dec 16, 2019 |
GraGra247:How old is this one? Fk out of here! 2 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by seangy4konji: 10:45am On Dec 16, 2019 |
I have suffered in my youger days to be shouting at home later in life.. I made that decision. Early in life so that I can live long. Goodluck begging your wife.. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by etrange: 10:45am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Afamed: Dude, let's not bring religion into this. What I stated was about relationship between humans as it relates to domestic violence. Back to the issue at hand, a second chance is great. Especially if both parties are willing to give it when one misbehaves. That's why I used the expression "order of the day" which means continuous. The OP's wife doesn't have a history of nagging, why didn't he condone this one and give her another chance? He came back in the middle of the night without prior calls and when the wife expressed dissatisfaction, he ignored her. When she continued, he beat her up. Only then did he know there was something called apology/explanation. And then we expect her to just cry and swallow it so that she'll be called a virtuous woman whose duty is to compromise. When something happens to her tomorrow, we will be here asking "why didn't she speak up?". I believe both parties should learn the art of second chance. But I also believe victims of domestic violence should confide in someone. Someone needs to know the true narrative in case the story changes tomorrow. Who else to confide in if not the mother? 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Sammiejokes(m): 10:45am On Dec 16, 2019 |
I don't understand all this assumptions he does not respect the wife for hanging out till 2AM. He never said he did not inform the wife he is hanging out with friends. Marriage is not bondage, as long as I told my wife am going out with friends and a call or text sent I will be a bit late because you enjoying the company of friends. If you have a reasonable wife who knows this is a one off outing, she will not turn it into a fight in the middle of the night when you are intoxicated. I hope you find peace as you go through the tough time. You need God wisdom at this point. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Dee04(m): 10:46am On Dec 16, 2019 |
xendra: You mean you won't open the door to your owned house or the man's house.. To live for that house don tire you na 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Ladycewhy(f): 10:46am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Vivonose:these ones here are willing to throw their own sisters under the bus to maintain their bro code just so you know. 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by DaddyNimo(m): 10:47am On Dec 16, 2019 |
weak man, if you call to beg her again I'll send e swear for you. I hate a nagging woman and only slap reset their brains. 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by BRATISLAVA: 10:47am On Dec 16, 2019 |
freecocoahubby:did the wife make him bleed? Or what are you comparing? You wouldn't say this if she fell dead. Or maybe you would. You would want to hear his side of the story that justifies drawing blood or murdering her. I hope if a woman drew blood you would agree and not say she took it too far. |
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