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Re: I Hit My Wife by midnighter(f): 1:23pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
victorian: They will now ask you if you can really be a woman or if you're just a man using female photo ![]() Somebody chased a grown man around and around his house, got what she was looking for and then went crying to her parents, does it make sense? If you don't enter keke can keke driver carry you ![]() Nobody should beat anybody but then nobody should go looking for beating if they don't want it. This is not a perfect world or romance movie where people do exactly what you want or expect If she just asked him where he had been and he snapped and started raining slaps on her then I could understand but these beans get serious weevil. How can you claim right after provoking somebody 2 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by marcus0123: 1:23pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Brother just go apologise and bring your family back period 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by kennylesy122(m): 1:23pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
BRATISLAVA:Ok so you agreeing she should leave her matrimonial home cause of a little Rift right ?. I rest my case An Accident is an Accident,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,so if not her husband that slap her if it’s another person for example they report to the police and he got arrested would that Return the Blood back Abeggiiiii Shakara is good but too much shakara dy burn body. He at fault 70% But that doesn’t require Leaving ur matrimonial home. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nobody: 1:25pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
BRATISLAVA: No individual should engage in self abasement and grovelling. Any woman who expects that her husband should jettison his self respect to satisfy her vengeful pride; regardless of what he did to her; is just not worth it. 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nobody: 1:25pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
patjane: Are you kidding, do you know how desperate gurls are around married men ... every sidechick prayer is 4 housewife to jus move out ... 1yr way to easy. how long did it take kemi adegbeite ex to remarry. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by zimach(f): 1:26pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Dulpamer..... this your advice no follow at all 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by pongwa(m): 1:29pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Let her go Ekene161829:let her go. Two wrongs |
Re: I Hit My Wife by kodakred: 1:31pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
daddytime:@ daddytime
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Re: I Hit My Wife by Seunolad1(m): 1:31pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
I dnt blame you, some times wife's Provoke husband to that extent. It's has happened to me ones in my marriage of 1year and 9 months we just concealed everything after two days of begging. Since then I have never lay hands on her anymore and she has stopped shouting on me during argument. Bro dnt beg her for now give her little time to healed or think otherwise because if you beg her the same thing will still repeat itself and you may not be able to handle it. 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by tiptoe1: 1:34pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Unrated900: Bro I'm not saying what the woman dis was right but I feel something has been going on between them before this happened. She was only looking for a little opportunity to make a decision she's been thinking about between her and her family. Bro I even feel 90% of marriage issue is caused financial issue, I have a friend who's a Victim and I won't lie, I really feel bad for him, we can't even visit him cause his wife disrespects his friends like they're nothing. This marriage of a thing is a complete scam, and I just hope African parent will stop looking at it as an important phase that must take place in their child's life. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by zimach(f): 1:35pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
madridguy: It's very easy to say. He did something very very wrong and injured the wife on top. No matter what, he should go for his wife. Yes, she and her people over reacted but you won't blame them o. She might be scared of the future. Na so e get start. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by zimach(f): 1:41pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Dupalmer: Oga with this your advice, I'm not sure you are married. God forbid, what if at the process of trying to slap the woman, sth worst than this happened?? What if the woman was the one that went out and came in at 2am?? I believe they have been having normal misunderstanding and the woman never reacted this way by calling her people. There are many ladies young say? The devil you know is better o. You never jam one you go slap and you won't go free. He should have entered the room and lock himself up there. Let him go and win his wife back..... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Hit My Wife by patjane(f): 1:41pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Every sidechick? Lol Are you calculating base on how the runs ladies in your family are desperate with married men and how dem wish for the house wife to park-our? Quote me when you divorce ur wife and about to get marry again within a year.. ericsmith: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Hit My Wife by trippleKAY(m): 1:42pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
u wee lock me outside my our(my) house ![]() 2am? when it's not business? she sabi shout, person like me wey no fit shout I no go open door atall. you wee sleep there. anyway give it time and go back to begging her she would have calmed down and thought about her life, she will come back. unless she is convinced living without you is what's best for her.[/quote] |
Re: I Hit My Wife by trippleKAY(m): 1:43pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
U wee lock me outside our (my) house ![]() xendra: |
Re: I Hit My Wife by wany(f): 1:45pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
imiski: She will do no such thing.are you supporting the man for hiting his wife,let him too test a slap from a fellow man and let see how it feels.he is lucky the wife is soft ,some women will retaliate back and he will then show that real man power(nonsense) at the end of the fight one person will go down,and it could be him don't doubt.stupid egoistic monkeys every where. ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Makeuplocus(f): 1:46pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
If this was your first time as you said and you apologized whole heartedly like you said. I think your wife over reacted by leaving the house 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by trippleKAY(m): 1:46pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
xendra:go marry oyibo na |
Re: I Hit My Wife by daddytime(m): 1:46pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
kodakred: Sorry bro not this... |
Re: I Hit My Wife by zimach(f): 1:47pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
gloniks: God bless you for this. Some comments here are sickening. That's to tell you that some men don't value women. Not just a slap, with blood o. kaiii. In this harmattan � 2 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by madridguy(m): 1:47pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
My sister, if this happened to someone close to me, the woman, her son and the wife must kneel down and apologize for the abomination they committed. zimach: |
Re: I Hit My Wife by kolawo(m): 1:48pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
YOUR MISTAKE....
YOUR RESTITUTION.... |
Re: I Hit My Wife by madridguy(m): 1:50pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
You are indeed a matured woman full of wisdom and marital understanding. If i happened to be the OP, i swear her mother attitude can end the union. I will just tell them to leave the baby for me or they go with the baby forever. victorian: 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by afroxyz: 1:51pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
xendra: you would lock me out of a house that I built or pay the rent? woe betide you there. you may lock me out of the house, but I would.lock you out of the home. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Sandypearl: 1:53pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
yomi007k:but he was not talking to her all he was doing to aplogize |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Annie001: 1:58pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Op you did wrong by coming home late, but she should have ignored you or keep malice with you till you beg and beg, she did wrong by calling her mother but what kind of mother is that, na wa iooo 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by afroxyz: 2:00pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
gloniks: people.like you are only comparable to demons. Yea, DEMONS. the man tried to avoid altercation by going to the living room. she still followed him there to instigate him. He reacted and you say he has no right? well, ok. But what gives the woman the right to follow him and further instigate him despite his efforts to avoid any conflict? is he not a human being? Doesn't he have a tolerance threshold? Now the man starts apologising after his stupid act. throughout the night and the first thing she does is call her parents.? well, ok. she may be right. But what sensible MIL would come to take the daughter out of her husband's house? She didnt even come to settle the matter but came prepared to take the wife out of her matrmonial home despite the mans pleading? How can you crucify the man for reacting without blaming the person that caused the action? Like I said: You are a demon. 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by AdedoyinO(f): 2:01pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
xendra:God God bless you my sister. That's how it starts. Beatings today, flowers tomorrow; kick today, shoes and bags tomorrow. Na so e go continue till dem beat am enter grave. I have a strong feeling this story is not complete. As you men will say, we have not heard her own side of the story. There's more to the issue. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Hit My Wife by BRATISLAVA: 2:04pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
RisenPhoenix:but a man can do that? Is that what you're saying? So if your wife gave you a slap that resulted in bloodshed, she shouldn't beg you? You will be so kind as to forgive immediately? She shouldn't think you are worth it to apologize to you? |
Re: I Hit My Wife by BRATISLAVA: 2:05pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
kennylesy122:and accident is a car crash, plane crash or a forest fire consuming people. Drawing blood from someone, hitting someone isn't an accident. It is premeditated. She can leave if she wishes to, because what happened is domestic violence- not an accident- and if brought to a police station, it is criminal force and he will be called a criminal and sentenced. If he touched anyone else like that it would not be an accident. He would be serving for his crime. 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by tabithaola(f): 2:07pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Ekene161829: You came late into your home,at 2:a.m to be precise. She opened the door for you to come in and asked why you returned so late.You got angry and hits her in the process. Here is a bitter truth op. Have you thought of how much she cares for staying awake till that time?Did you think of how worried she was? Did you consider her/baby been in need of your help at the wee hour of the night?These and more questions you should ask and truthfully answer yourself. She might have overreacted but I bet you she did it out of love for you and your safety. There's always a first time to everything. You have done it,of care isn't taken, you'll find yourself doing it again. Never you hit a woman no matter what NEVER I repeat. Women forgive when you offend them but we hardly forget but if you smart enough, you'll apologize to her both in words and actions. I do pray to God to help me in taking wise decisions but some decisions must be made for both parties to know their boundaries.if I were to be your wife, I'll make sure I make you remember what you did wrong by giving you a reason to, how to achieve that shouldn't be your headache. Swallow your pride and Beg your wife and her parents if you truly love her and want your wife and your daughter. Don't listen to those vomitting thrash,they endure and not enjoy their marriage,so they want more people to join them in their pains. Goodluck. 2 Likes |
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