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Re: I Hit My Wife by patjane(f): 3:04pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Whatever ooo ericsmith: |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Theyoungmatron: 3:08pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Ekene161829:There is no point rationalising or downplaying what happen cos she bled from a split lips as a result of the force you expended when you slapped her. When admonishing someone you love deeply, i doubt you can expend such energy to the point of blood flowing. She won't just forgive that easily especially coming from someone she loves. Go to their house, sit down and repeat this words to them "" I am sorry for the inconveniences my action may have caused you all as my family, i wish it never happen but it did and sincerely i regrets my actions"". Keep shut and ignore any provocative words that may ensue in return. They are at a cross-road now on what happened. They are trying to see what you will do, whether what you did was a happenstance, a slight judgemental fault or a deliberate battery attempt on their daughter. Your action now will either make or mar the future of your marriage. Do not listen to anybody telling you jack-shit on not apologising to the woman you love, it shows irresponsibility and lack of tact if you do not show remorse for battery and endangering your life by staying out late. 4 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by victorian(f): 3:13pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
midnighter: Correct! But she's not wise at all. She should thank her For, her hubby have conscience to beg her. For me? I don't have strength to nag.. If I don't like my husband's behavior, I will talk about it when he's clear headed and sober and that's the first and last time I will complain. I don't like complaining twice, I don't like nagging, I dnt have strength to fight man. But with the way I will behave, he will quickly adjust his behavior. In short any man I marry will know the kind of person I am ,before wedlock. 2 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by josite: 3:15pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Ekene161829: in the future you are most likely to regret being married to a woman like this.i pray im wrong. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nobody: 3:16pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
BRATISLAVA: He said he spent the whole night apologising. A fraction of that should have been enough for her to forgive him. 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nairaboi(m): 3:25pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
GraGra247:He left her in the bedroom went to the Parlor and she still followed him to there. After he had slapped her, she now went back to the bedroom, locked the door and refused to come out. The same room she refused staying before she was slapped. Most times, na we dey cause trouble for ourselves |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nickymichy(m): 3:29pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
What u did was bad no doubt abt dat....it can happen to anyone...u are sorry and pls don't hit ur wife again..... But nigga...things are happening in ur home dat u don't know... Try to investigate...u will tank me later |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nairaboi(m): 3:30pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
CHoccolaTE: Madam, are you ok at all? He should sign an agreement thus using his hand to sign his own grave for a nagging woman. Na wao |
Re: I Hit My Wife by virginchaser(m): 3:35pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
No reason to hit a woman unless your life is threatened. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nobody: 3:35pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
patjane: so you could run out of bullet or is it becos i asked you to shoot ur shot ...shoot make i fire you
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Re: I Hit My Wife by Cocao(f): 3:36pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
victorian: My God. How exactly can you justify what you typed up there. There is a place for mind games. This situation is not one of it. She was slapped so hard that she bled. I mean, what could have possibly been so annoying that the man had to do that? Stop trying to follow nairaland men to spew trash. Most of them hide under the cloak of anonymity to say what they can't go through with. Stop and think with your brain 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Hit My Wife by emonis88: 3:49pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
gloniks:Y r u making a mountain out of a mole hill?the man apologized saying it wasn't intentional. N there is no marriage without it ups n downs, which doesn't translate to domestic violence. OK since the wife is calling her mother n brother now when they ve any slight misunderstanding his wife il call her people, n time il come her mother il tell her when to make love, get pregnant, cook for her home, listen to her husband, or any other thing at least no mother wants to see her daughter suffer. And then I wonder who came to run her mother's home for her when she was younger? |
Re: I Hit My Wife by imiski(m): 3:49pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
wany:I don't approve a man hitting his wife. But the woman would not let him be, e waka go here she follow e come here she follow. You don't know how annoying nagging can be. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Surrey2Bimshire: 3:51pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
You slap her to CALM her down . So , is she calm now ?? Ekene161829: 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by emonis88: 3:52pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Cocao:U r still single I presume. 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by 5thAngel(f): 3:54pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
emeijeh: The first slap i received from my significant other has led to series of blows and kicks. It's usually not intentional but subsequently, more will come. 2 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by keeki: 3:55pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Visit her parents and plead with them they would accept you if they fear God..you made a mistake and she should have involved her family except if you have been beating her or exhibiting some level of violence |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Cocao(f): 3:59pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
emonis88: What has that got to do with what I typed 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by chriskosherbal(m): 4:00pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe:I have been noticing some of your comments, you are a babe I swear, I kind of like your person ...that comment is maturity in display. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by djon78(m): 4:01pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Hanging out till 2am was bad Hitting her was gross On the part of the Lady, following the man around nagging was not good. It shows she ain't matured. A matured, sensible and wise woman can calmly drive home her disappointment, which will bring a better result Calling her family is worse. She ain't matured at all 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by sweetilicious(f): 4:02pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Dupalmer:Nawao for your assertion. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by sweetilicious(f): 4:06pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
madridguy:Exactly. Marriage is not just living together and bearing children. If she can't forgive after you show remorse, emm |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nobody: 4:06pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Ladycewhy:I hardly go out in the night but there are times you just run into an old friend and before you know it 11pm already. If I were the op, I will give her a little space for her to calm down and think things through then try to contact her again to work things out. a real wife beater will not care about apologising immediately after hitting you |
Re: I Hit My Wife by djon78(m): 4:06pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Calling her family and packing out is very unwise at all. The woman in question is not wise at all. She has been able to escalate a minor situation, two of them would have settled amicably. And in escalating the situation, there marriage will never be the same except two of them grow sense and become wiser in handling issues |
Re: I Hit My Wife by BRATISLAVA: 4:12pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
RisenPhoenix:if someone hit you and injured you in an act of violence, would you accept their apology because they deserve to be forgiven or get them arrested for assault? You're acting like a man raising his hand on his wife is his right, so if he apologizes she must accept. You've failed to call it what it is. It is criminal force and a violent assault. No matter the provocation, if you meet such a person outdoors you wouldn't try hitting them because you would end up in jail. So why do it at home and feel like it is your right to use force on another person? You guys can't understand crime. You've made it marital sentiment and believe that women must take physical abuse while men cannot stand it. Imagine if each time as a man you say something another person doesn't like and they beat you up for it, later claiming it was your nagging fault and an accident. Isn't that madness? 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by victorian(f): 4:20pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Cocao: My dear, I'm thinking with my brain. And the least I will do is follow nairaland men to spew rubbish. I'm looking at it this way, my husband comes home late around 2am. I asked him where is he coming from? He mumbled some words and said walked away from me, to the bedroom. I dragged him back and started nagging, how can u come home this late? U don't even consider your life. And u call your self a married man! He still walks away from the bedroom, headed to the sitting room, I followed him again. , and he kept mumbling that it's OK, he has heard and I still kept on talking to him like he's a kid! Cmon! What do u think I'm doing? I'm looking for someone to shut my mouth up! Some men can leave home at that moment and drive off with their car. While some who do not have anywhere to go but are determined to Stay home, will either bang the door at my face, as I keep howling at his back? Or give me a dirty slap to keep me shut! And unfortunately he gave his wife a hard slap that brough blood oozing from her lips. She simply. Asked for it! A sharp mouthed girl came to look for my trouble at home. You know what I did? As she was about sharpening her mouth I slammed the door on her face! And locked it. She kept screaming and shouting at the hallway. I would have hit her with something just to keep her mouth shut and listen to reason but on second thought, She may collapse and faint or even die on me. So I simply slammed the door on her face! I don't have patience for such sharp mouth and talking down on me, even as lady. How much more as a man! My brother when he was alive, his girlfriend used to talk down on him, so I thought. One day I came home abit early and heard her talking and nagging non stop. I was like WTF! And her voice was so loud. Mehn, my head turn, I walked to his room, knocked entered and asked him, is everything OK? He said hmm yes. The way I looked at his gf ehn? She sef know say she pass her boundary. She then left immediately. I was like, how can u allow a woman raise her voice on you? U are there quiet mumbling? Are u this weak! Mehn that's not a woman o! That's a dragon! The earlier u cut off from such girl, the better for you. If not that I respect u as my younger brother, I would have insulted her and warned her never to try such again at you. U don't nag or scream at me! For what? Assuming I'm the husband or following me up and down breathing down my neck! I won't take it lightly. He didn't listen to me, las las her nagging and wahala pushed him to his grave. So babe! I don't accept such nagging and hounding a man as if he's a kid. Forget nairaland men, I honestly don't! 5 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by phyiktor(m): 4:22pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
I no b relationship counselor or marriage counselor but after begging her and she refuse to accept...plz free her for sometime n see...she will use her own leg to come back... perhaps she have ur baby with her so surely she will come.... make wahala or trouble of single parenting settle on her she will retrace her step Bros go drink with ur friends jooor |
Re: I Hit My Wife by midnighter(f): 4:26pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
victorian: Lol I have had to learn to hold my peace because I know that I am very capable of doing something like this. The only thing is that nobody beat me which is why I know that calling your family into the matter is very nonsensical when you should even be hiding the thing from your family if you have an iota of shame. If you know you have some crazy temper, plus being tired, plus female hormones then it's better to work on it and present your issue calmly than drive your husband to abstraction because at the end you will still eat your own slice of HUMBLE PIE and admit that you were the one who started it Forget nairaland guys or misogyny or whatever. I am not one to advocate for allowing a man to rubbish you but if you know that you can be very persistent and irritating then you'd better err on the side of logic and think realistically about how best to get what you want without driving the man insane Somebody is already kneeling down on the ground for you, that's your best chance of getting your point across and you missed it to go and call your mother who is relaxing in her husband's house already ...shuuu? 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by kennylesy122(m): 4:30pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
BRATISLAVA:Wait!!!!!!! Are you married ![]() ![]() So if ur partner slaps u intentionally or Unintentionally His Going to pay for that ?? ��� |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Ogegod87: 4:32pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Leonel55: I Love you! 2 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by BRATISLAVA: 4:35pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
kennylesy122:Anyone who commits a crime will face the law. There is no partner in assault. It is a lie that partners assault themselves unintentionally. It is not an accident, so it cannot be overlooked. I will not hit a partner and if I am hit, they will face the law. That is assault. 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by D1zion: 4:36pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
GraGra247:mmm mmm you're wrong. At least I believe he told her were he was going before he left the house not that she stopped him.it was an office party. Yes,really he came back late which is not good, but when he'd come back he apologized to her,meaning he knew he was wrong to have stayed late. As a reasonable woman.she should have accepted his apologies the tell him not to repeat it again except if he's in the habit of going out & coming back late before that incident. He apologized to her,she refused & was raining insults on him.he respected himself & left the room she followed him definitely no matter how calm & patient you're you must loose it.I believed she said something that provoked him to make him loose it to hit her. Calling her mother into her matrimonial problems is not a good one.if he's never done that before, he humbled himself,he was remorse over what he did.yet she refuced & allowed her mother & brother to take her home.mmm mmm mba nu nu. As a reasonable mother & grandmother, the mother never acted like one.she should have call the husband to order & advice him & tell him that should be the last time.give them advice that will make things work BTW them not to just come & whisked the girl away.sheybe the brother go marry too? 1 Like |
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