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Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by jaxxy(m): 10:19am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Freethought: It’s called self control. Even when ur married u can choose not to have sex and chill. Sex is not everything even though yes it is good or great bt lack of self control is much worse. |
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by Alphabets(m): 10:25am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Man, while I understand how painful it can be, having to leave someone you love for reasons other than some seroius misunderstanding and irreconcilable differences, the issue of genotype is serious and as such should not to be glossed over for any reason. Now that you find it hard to leave her and vice versa, to the best of my understanding, analysis of genotype has gone beyond the exclusive AA, AS we used to know and I suppose you may need to do more findings about your compatibility to know if as both of you guys are ASs, there is still a possibility of getting married to her without making your children suffer. I have two friends that are engaged now, who are both ASs. They faced this same issue and they both had to run advanced medical tests and make consultations and they were sure beyond being ASs, that they are both compatible and that their children are not endangered even before they agreed to go into courtship which they both are in now. Though I do not have the details, I know they did all the medical stuffs in Lagos and I could ask one of them to give further explanations to you if you feel you need them. All the best brother. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by Offpoint: 10:28am On Dec 17, 2019 |
bindukwe:lol, I know love when I see or read about it. Take that sex out of that relationship and watch the ship sink. They're 2 adults who can't go a week or month without banging themselves... that's all I see. If these 2 start having sex constantly with another partner in a month time they'll forget about themselves. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by Lleigh(f): 10:34am On Dec 17, 2019 |
InyinyaAgbaOku: I am just quoting what happened. People who are both AS have to go into it with their eyes wide open. There are other options they should also look at. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by oluplus(m): 10:34am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Freethought: 1. She's not your Ex, because you have not broken up. 2. You do not have self control, not just on sexual life, but also in other areas of your life. Dont ask me how I know. 3. Pregenotype test (Aminiocentesis) can show you the genotype of foetus. The test is N180K in my state. 4. If you can afford afford number 3, you can shoot your shot. 5.Marry her or let her go. Stop sexing her and be responsible. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by IamPlato(m): 10:41am On Dec 17, 2019 |
What A Fvcked Up World! What You Do Not Know You Do Not Fear. Look At What Science Has Caused. This Was Never God's Plan From The Start. Personally, I Dont Care About All These AS and AA Bullshiit. My Love Life First. |
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by frozen70(f): 10:42am On Dec 17, 2019 |
CallMeDrino: You don't agree because you have never been privileged to get one |
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by frozen70(f): 10:43am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Chibukings111: It's his choice to take it or leave it, go and read again and count the likes |
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by zueman8080(m): 10:44am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Because U both has high level of libido as AS carries. |
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by frozen70(f): 10:46am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Goodnigga: We still have carriers with a man sperm and a donor egg The most important thing is that the sperm that fertilises the egg is from the man 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by frozen70(f): 10:48am On Dec 17, 2019 |
anonimi: Go to places like, the bridge hospital, Nordicar and the rest No one will come out openly to tell you how he/she did it 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by frozen70(f): 10:50am On Dec 17, 2019 |
adanny01: You are absolutely right, the issue is the cost implications |
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by ayanjamz: 10:50am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Let me help u to help urself. You can go ahead with the wedding, if both of u agreed on the outcome. Nowadays, we do intrauterine fetal sampling to confirm fetus genotype before delivery. Most pregnant women in ur situation either abort the fetus in-utero or go ahead with the pregnancy. The only challenge is the cost of sampling the fetus wic is not cheap... It cost 250k 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by anonimi: 10:54am On Dec 17, 2019 |
frozen70: Okay........................thanks for the update. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by Liposure: 10:58am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:honey, your energy n vibrancy on dis forum is out of dis world. U are a true amazon.more grease 2 your elbow 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by DAVE5(m): 11:07am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Erastuslove: As in ehn, the thing tire pesin Why bring a child to the world to suffer, when you could simply find another woman or man to love One of my boss (MAY HER SOUL REST IN PEACE) had same problem, she was SS, she battled for life day and night, today she’s sick, tomorrow she’s sick till she gave up the ghost about 2 months ago, she and her family has money which they spent overly to keep her alive till the her body gave in I did something really stupid as well, me and wifey got married without finding out our blood groups, so we went last week to get it done since her hospital requested she brings my blood group report, turns out we both AA, anybody can yab me for that and I accept my guilt |
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by CallMeDrino: 11:30am On Dec 17, 2019 |
frozen70: Lmao... That's what you think |
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by BridgeClinic: 11:30am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Freethought: Dear Freethought, we understand your dilemma and can feel your pain. We have encountered a number of clients at Bridge Clinic in Nigeria who has faced situations similar to yours. Many people here have recommended medical advice and procedures as a solution to your challenge and we are here to tell you that that is the best step to take next. PGT (Preimplantation Genetic Testing) formerly known as PGD or PGS can help to identify the genotype of embryos that are created during the process of IVF, before transferring them to the womb. This means that couples with the AS genotype in the male and female can have children without worrying about having Sickle Cell babies. This is highly recommended as it increases the chances of having a healthy baby. If you would like to know more about this procedure, you may click here https://www.thebridgeclinic.com/patient-care/services/preimplantation-genetic-testing-pgt . We wish you the very best and hope that you are able to find a solution that allays your fears really soon. |
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by Nobody: 11:37am On Dec 17, 2019 |
ThothHermes:Sickle Cell is predominantly among blacks. And yes, even among black Americans, some are irreedeemably foolish and go ahead to birth kids with Sickle Cell |
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by Nobody: 11:39am On Dec 17, 2019 |
BridgeClinic:And you think he can afford it? So what if he can? How about the hundreds of people in the same dilemma? The solution is simple and cheap. Let him find someone else. |
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by Nobody: 11:39am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Op, are you the same poster with the guy who got his gf pregnant. Cos you sound alike. Mtchew |
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by kingxsamz(m): 11:40am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth: That guy is not wise. When the problem hits Op, he won't be there for them o. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by kingxsamz(m): 11:42am On Dec 17, 2019 |
ThothHermes: Smh, so this is your response to an intelligent reply? ... Now who's the ret.ard? |
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by mechanics(m): 12:10pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
Once you starts having sex, it will be difficult to end the relationship, you shouldn't have gone that far knowing fully well both of you were AS. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by Kakamorufu(m): 1:01pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
raphroye:Now he has 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by life707: 1:45pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
Freethought: If you have the money for artificial insemination, selected sperm and ovum with the AA gene can be selected from both of you for the insemination. It means you won't be allowed to conceive naturally thereby eliminating the risk IUI-Intra Uterine Insemination should cost less than 200k. But if u don't have money, your best bet is not to go ahead with all these sex thing and be a man that looks ahead and care about the future. Las Las it's up to you |
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by femo007(m): 1:59pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
am not telling you to go ahead with your marriage but this Is what happened to my brother, all of discouraged him, what he just tell us is that his God did not ask him to separate with the lady,both of them are leaving together with three children two are AA and only girl among the children is as |
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by BecomeALandLord(m): 2:11pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
Boss, now that the deed is done and she's pregnant, what are your plans? |
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by lokito: 2:40pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
frozen70: Nice reply but please what's the meaning of fezeel? Or you meant fizzle? Please be guided! |
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by urose93(f): 3:11pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
frozen70: Clap hands for yourself. You are advising unrepentant fornicators to continue having sex with a protection. What kind of stupid love is that? Seriously, this generation is doom |
Re: How Do I Get Over My Ex Whom I Left Because We Are Both AS? by Rotji(m): 5:27pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
Biglittlelois: Haba! If you are AA you have no excuse whatsoever not to marry SS, in fact it's the remedy for the problem. Except if you don't come across and fall in love with such, if you do fall in love with SS no body will advise you against it. |
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