Blackman5844:
Please don't mind my English.

I created this thread https://www.nairaland.com/8123588/she-cheated-give-second-chance about what my ex did to me when we were still dating.

I got some advice on here and I followed it.

We dated for eight months, it was the first girl I will ever loved deeply, she's 25 I'm 26. I gave her my time, money and sacrifice a lot for her, I even break my bank for her.

So after getting some advice from here, i pretended I was very broke that I didn't even have 5k in my account, this girl told me that I'm not prudent with spending money that i spend money lavishly. I was shocked because before I pretended I was broke, this girl has been my one of priority, she will bill me almost every day, if not for food it will be data apart from she want to make her hair, her nails etc. there was a time she told me she wants me to rest for a week from her billings lol.

I helped her making her business grow to the point that she's now stable and even paying for advanced course for her business. I literally spent 7 months pleasing her dancing to her tune because I got her almost everything she asked me, whenever she needs money if I can't give her the whole money I make sure I give her more than half.

I'm not sure I buy clothes for myself during that 7 months. And I did for her, even for her family functions lol. Help her sis with a phone worth more than 200k.

So the very last month we spent together, I started taking care of myself, got myself clothes, shoes I spent more on myself. She started ranting that I should invest in her business. I told her I can't invest in someone that's not my wife.

She started complaining that I'm taking care of myself without considering her that she needs to buy tampons virgin** wash she needs like 20k plus etc.

So a night before the day she broke up, we bleep, so in the middle of the night they brought light I wanted to help her to charge her phone she thought I was checking her phone she voltage that (have I not seen what I'm looking for on her phone) we fight and the next morning she broke up.

She used her Dad as an excuse. She told me her Dad can't allow her to get marry to me because of religion differences. Lol.


She still call me, she told me she wants to continue bleeping till it ends lol 😂

Thanks so much for all your advice I really appreciate. You guys safe my life.

I learnt my lesson..

Although I'm pained because of all the money and sacrifice I made.

Sonnobax15:

So when you were busy helping the native hen,she didn't realize her father would disagree to your marriage due to religious differences?

Well, that's how bannies are naturally wired.....If you like,do heaven and earth fro Dem,the day you'll fail to kill an ant for her, she'll automatically tag you to be a bad and stingy person...

At least, you've learned your lesson....Now it's time to move on with your life.......

Blackman5844:
Please don't mind my English.

I created this thread https://www.nairaland.com/8123588/she-cheated-give-second-chance about what my ex did to me when we were still dating.

I got some advice on here and I followed it.

We dated for eight months, it was the first girl I will ever loved deeply, she's 25 I'm 26. I gave her my time, money and sacrifice a lot for her, I even break my bank for her.

So after getting some advice from here, i pretended I was very broke that I didn't even have 5k in my account, this girl told me that I'm not prudent with spending money that i spend money lavishly. I was shocked because before I pretended I was broke, this girl has been my one of priority, she will bill me almost every day, if not for food it will be data apart from she want to make her hair, her nails etc. there was a time she told me she wants me to rest for a week from her billings lol.

I helped her making her business grow to the point that she's now stable and even paying for advanced course for her business. I literally spent 7 months pleasing her dancing to her tune because I got her almost everything she asked me, whenever she needs money if I can't give her the whole money I make sure I give her more than half.

I'm not sure I buy clothes for myself during that 7 months. And I did for her, even for her family functions lol. Help her sis with a phone worth more than 200k.

So the very last month we spent together, I started taking care of myself, got myself clothes, shoes I spent more on myself. She started ranting that I should invest in her business. I told her I can't invest in someone that's not my wife.

She started complaining that I'm taking care of myself without considering her that she needs to buy tampons virgin** wash she needs like 20k plus etc.

So a night before the day she broke up, we bleep, so in the middle of the night they brought light I wanted to help her to charge her phone she thought I was checking her phone she voltage that (have I not seen what I'm looking for on her phone) we fight and the next morning she broke up.

She used her Dad as an excuse. She told me her Dad can't allow her to get marry to me because of religion differences. Lol.


She still call me, she told me she wants to continue bleeping till it ends lol 😂

Thanks so much for all your advice I really appreciate. You guys safe my life.

I learnt my lesson..

Although I'm pained because of all the money and sacrifice I made.

galantjoe:
If I may advice
Continue to fuccck her since she wants it that way but NEVER give her fortune. Be a miser, atmost make it friendship with benefits

Creamypie:
u don finally get sense

Blackman5844:
Please don't mind my English.

I created this thread https://www.nairaland.com/8123588/she-cheated-give-second-chance about what my ex did to me when we were still dating.

I got some advice on here and I followed it.

We dated for eight months, it was the first girl I will ever loved deeply, she's 25 I'm 26. I gave her my time, money and sacrifice a lot for her, I even break my bank for her.

So after getting some advice from here, i pretended I was very broke that I didn't even have 5k in my account, this girl told me that I'm not prudent with spending money that i spend money lavishly. I was shocked because before I pretended I was broke, this girl has been my one of priority, she will bill me almost every day, if not for food it will be data apart from she want to make her hair, her nails etc. there was a time she told me she wants me to rest for a week from her billings lol.

I helped her making her business grow to the point that she's now stable and even paying for advanced course for her business. I literally spent 7 months pleasing her dancing to her tune because I got her almost everything she asked me, whenever she needs money if I can't give her the whole money I make sure I give her more than half.

I'm not sure I buy clothes for myself during that 7 months. And I did for her, even for her family functions lol. Help her sis with a phone worth more than 200k.

So the very last month we spent together, I started taking care of myself, got myself clothes, shoes I spent more on myself. She started ranting that I should invest in her business. I told her I can't invest in someone that's not my wife.

She started complaining that I'm taking care of myself without considering her that she needs to buy tampons virgin** wash she needs like 20k plus etc.

So a night before the day she broke up, we bleep, so in the middle of the night they brought light I wanted to help her to charge her phone she thought I was checking her phone she voltage that (have I not seen what I'm looking for on her phone) we fight and the next morning she broke up.

She used her Dad as an excuse. She told me her Dad can't allow her to get marry to me because of religion differences. Lol.


She still call me, she told me she wants to continue bleeping till it ends lol 😂

Thanks so much for all your advice I really appreciate. You guys safe my life.

I learnt my lesson..

Although I'm pained because of all the money and sacrifice I made.

EreluRoz:
You are in your 20s and as a man you should be focused on securing your future. What type of women date these boys in their 20s sef? Cricket relationship.

Gadafii:
until she go tie him down with bele?

Be like you don't know what desperate girls are capable of doing, many men ended up with women in this way

I would advise he completely dump her and move on him life, count his loses and go work on himself by registering at the gym, or join the local football team every weekends, go to swimming classes or learn a craft.