Exceed15:
The men on NL are proud of you. You are now a high value man. Next time , do not give your power to any woman. Treat her like an option. Reduce attention you give them. Infact be harsh ( not violent) towards them sometimes. Be selfish, take good care of yourself. I swear they will chase u. I speak from experience.

My observation too.. Some women are more attracted to toxic guys..I have seen,heard and experienced..

Senior bra ,you say you break your savings for a girl? In this nigeria wey we de ,i think that'll be the last thing i'll do for my g.f ,besides b4 i start saving i have a plan b4 doing so .


The passage wey sweet me pass na the area wey you say you came to realization an started spending on your self .

That really makes you a man ,apart frum unserious responsibilties like hers .


Don't lost focus senior bra ,you still have nothing to lose

This sex of a thing na risk ,cus at some point you fit impregnant am before you know you dong dey carry out full community responsibity for head

Wtf did i just read? I don’t believe this shit! But if it’s true bro i’m very disappointed in you! Brotherhood is disgusted in you! And e no go better for you! No wonder na una dey spoil these bannies with the kind mentality una dey give them!

DEATH TO ALL SIMPS!

Dollarmind001:
The truth is that she will still come back to you and you will accept her back.

I'm waiting for your next thread on reconciliation and breakup again

I promise to always give feedback, I will never accept her back. I know my worth and what I deserve right now.

She's not the one for me unless, I want to die young because she will eventually kill me slowly.

She's not my first gf but she was just the one that mealt my heart, I realized my fault and all the red flags I ignored from the start.

It's not going to happen twice.

udomonday:
with the way you sound, there's a 99% probability that you will run back to her whenever she decides to start pressing your mumu button.

That's the last thing I will do on this earth. I'm moving forward.

BeyondCertainty:
You are and still a SIMP.

You were DUMPED.

If the girl calls tomorrow, you will still take her back.

You clearly do not know how to say NO.

Don't be a nice guy.

You shouldn't put a woman on a pedestal, you should be your number 1 priority.

Henceforth, please focus on you and your purpose.

A lot of these women will chase you when the time comes.

Yes then I clearly don't know how to say NO to her. I have been the lover boy and the nice guy to her.

She made me realize women doesn't deserve it unless they earn it.

I realized I have been so simp for her that's why I created the first thread and I needed help then. I make use of some of the advice and she broke up.

She doesn't love me, she was just there because I'm a provider and she left because I stopped providing.

I deserve better and I'm not going back to her.

Gadafii:
Welcome to the fold my brr

Don't make that mistake ever again.

If she's not adding value to your life, you have no business commuting to her, keep her on a fukkk level alone, transactional shiit.. why you go dey buy wig, tampon, nails etc for a girl that hadn't bought you anything

As a guy man, my philosophy is that your girl must have more stake in the relationship than you, sex is not enough


If she can't come thru for you financially, encourage you, water you, recharge you, pray for you, grow you, pour into you, pray for you etc.. she's not worth your commitment.

Lazy entitled girls always have luck with simps who would break their backs, necks and bank accounts satisfying them.

Imagine you bought dogs and breed them with those money you spent on her or bought a piece of land and cultivate water melon, or other vegetables on it.

Despite all you have done for her, she still dumped you for flimsy excuses

Thanks so much brother, I learnt my lesson in hard way. I wasn't serious in all my past relationships before I met her because I was building myself and trying to elevate my family when all that is done. I said to myself I should give love a chance and I got roasted.

lymelyte:
My observation too.. Some women are more attracted to toxic guys..I have seen,heard and experienced..

Exactly, They are so Foolish throw away good guys..

Allenmuller:
Senior bra ,you say you break your savings for a girl? In this nigeria wey we de ,i think that'll be the last thing i'll do for my g.f ,besides b4 i start saving i have a plan b4 doing so .


The passage wey sweet me pass na the area wey you say you came to realization an started spending on your self .

That really makes you a man ,apart frum unserious responsibilties like hers .


Don't lost focus senior bra ,you still have nothing to lose

Yes brother I actually did break my bank for her when she needed money and it was very crucial. I was so stupid to do that, because she can't do that for me.

And I can't repeat the past.

Thanks so much brother.

Blackman5844:
Please don't mind my English.

I created this thread https://www.nairaland.com/8123588/she-cheated-give-second-chance about what my ex did to me when we were still dating.

I got some advice on here and I followed it.

We dated for eight months, it was the first girl I will ever loved deeply, she's 25 I'm 26. I gave her my time, money and sacrifice a lot for her, I even break my bank for her.

So after getting some advice from here, i pretended I was very broke that I didn't even have 5k in my account, this girl told me that I'm not prudent with spending money that i spend money lavishly. I was shocked because before I pretended I was broke, this girl has been my one of priority, she will bill me almost every day, if not for food it will be data apart from she want to make her hair, her nails etc. there was a time she told me she wants me to rest for a week from her billings lol.

I helped her making her business grow to the point that she's now stable and even paying for advanced course for her business. I literally spent 7 months pleasing her dancing to her tune because I got her almost everything she asked me, whenever she needs money if I can't give her the whole money I make sure I give her more than half.

I'm not sure I buy clothes for myself during that 7 months. And I did for her, even for her family functions lol. Help her sis with a phone worth more than 200k.

So the very last month we spent together, I started taking care of myself, got myself clothes, shoes I spent more on myself. She started ranting that I should invest in her business. I told her I can't invest in someone that's not my wife.

She started complaining that I'm taking care of myself without considering her that she needs to buy tampons virgin** wash she needs like 20k plus etc.

So a night before the day she broke up, we bleep, so in the middle of the night they brought light I wanted to help her to charge her phone she thought I was checking her phone she voltage that (have I not seen what I'm looking for on her phone) we fight and the next morning she broke up.

She used her Dad as an excuse. She told me her Dad can't allow her to get marry to me because of religion differences. Lol.


She still call me, she told me she wants to continue bleeping till it ends lol 😂

Thanks so much for all your advice I really appreciate. You guys safe my life.

I learnt my lesson..

Although I'm pained because of all the money and sacrifice I made.

sir,u gat money


U don't gat money so why are you complaining

Nairaland is a school of thought on its own....if u no wan learn come nairaland

Self-centred girls

Lol women do not love, they are opportunist and manipulators, u won't understand till u test them, so no pity them use them, the only woman worth sacrificing for is your daughter the remaining will manipulate u till u run dry and move to the next

Blackman5844:


I promise to always give feedback, I will never accept her back. I know my worth and what I deserve right now.

She's not the one for me unless, I want to die young because she will eventually kill me slowly.

She's not my first gf but she was just the one that mealt my heart, I realized my fault and all the red flags I ignored from the start.

It's not going to happen twice.

STORY

Blackman5844:


I promise to always give feedback, I will never accept her back. I know my worth and what I deserve right now.

She's not the one for me unless, I want to die young because she will eventually kill me slowly.

She's not my first gf but she was just the one that mealt my heart, I realized my fault and all the red flags I ignored from the start.

It's not going to happen twice.

Story
you go still love again. I was once like you. Sweet loverboy. despite many lessons.... the one wey off my sense for love na wen i catch the girl with my boss.... in the act.
I just hang boot.
ever since i don't care about love anymore. Became a heartless and hardened person relationship wise.

EreluRoz:
You are in your 20s and as a man you should be focused on securing your future. What type of women date these boys in their 20s sef? Cricket relationship .

Lol... Na now I confirm say U no well 😂😂😂

dkidd:

Lol... Na now I confirm say U no well 😂😂😂

😂 cricket 🦗 relationship everywhere

EreluRoz:
😂 cricket 🦗 relationship everywhere

Lol.. I just learnt a new one today

If u had prioritized half the time you spent being a m.oron of a simp on ur education, you wouldn't say "don't mind my English" for a language u've spoken all ur life. Dumb fvcks everywhere.

Wèrè!

You go learn!

Btw, how many of your guys you don help?

I wish I fit knock sense into that your monkey head.

Lucifyre:
If u had prioritized half the time you spent being a m.oron of a simp on ur education, you wouldn't say "don't mind my English" for a language u've spoken all ur life. Dumb fvcks everywhere.

at a point in life I think you have to give love a chance at the age of 26 going to 27 is not a crime. but I realize it doesn't worth it. (I won't abuse you but I know you have been there too and let me just say you will still be there )

ObalendeCMS:
Wèrè!

You go learn!

Btw, how many of your guys you don help?

I wish I fit knock sense into that your monkey head.

😂😂 I won't count my achievements on here.

Blackman5844:

It was all her planned, she wanted to use till she gets whatever she plan. Before she left my place when she broke up, she still told me to invest in her business that we will sign a paper agreement. Lol.

When she went to Bleep her ex, she told me she told her ex that they can't continue having sex because she doesn't want what she's enjoying from me stop.
Lol, not because she love me.

A man in love is a foolish man. I'm not sure I will be able to love like this again in my life. Because I'm not giving my heart so cheap anymore

She just Helped You to Become a Man ... You Started The Game On Monies, Then Monies Bag is all She Sees In You Because That's What You Make Her to See & The Day You Introduced Poverty was a Shock to Her Mental Spheres Because She Wasn't Trained By You From Beginning On Brokeness ....

A Man must Reason Life with His Brain ....
Leave Women To Reason Life With Her Heart..
You Planned Your Own Shee Yourself

Life Would Be Unfortunate(Cruel) for a Man That Approaches Realities From His Heart While Your Woman is Approaching Realities From Her Brain .... ....

She did Nothing Wrong, She Just Schooled You How to Man Up & Reason From Your Head ... All Man Must Be Streetwise!

An Emotional Man Is Disaster to Manhood & A Problem to His Nation Which Relies On You As It Pillars of Defence ...

She did a Great Job in Training You .... The One Wey You No Learn From Home, You Go Learn Am For Street ...

Even if You Be Dangote, Once You see someone making incessant Demands On Your Wealths Then You too Should Make Incessant Demands On Their Wealths if Not Someone is About to Run Someone Street and as Street-wise Yourself, You Must not Looseguard .....

Welcome to Manhood, Only if You Learn

SkengRay:
Op. Some of us have been there. Falling in love with the wrong person as a lover boy. You go too Suffer. Make the babe con Sabi use Manipulation You're doomed. Don't be too happy you've not recovered yet you're still in the waters it will take time.



PSA⚠️☣️: Simps Are Liable to learn the Hard Way

At some Point in Life, We all SIMP especially if you are testing the water for the first time ... you take women out there as your mom & sister until the hometraining of each of us started rolling its head ....

The longer your learning curve, the longer your simp curve !!

Holluwhakemmy:
You are both fornicator

are there fornicator in 2024

lymelyte:
My observation too.. Some women are more attracted to toxic guys..I have seen,heard and experienced..

Women are attracted to A Man ... Someone that commands his world not errand boy ...

Toxicity would just damage your Organs with Poisons !!

DonroxyII:
are there fornicator in 2024

Yes Sir

Blackman5844:



Yes then I clearly don't know how to say NO to her. I have been the lover boy and the nice guy to her.

She made me realize women doesn't deserve it unless they earn it.

I realized I have been so simp for her that's why I created the first thread and I needed help then. I make use of some of the advice and she broke up.

She doesn't love me, she was just there because I'm a provider and she left because I stopped providing.

I deserve better and I'm not going back to her.

Go Back to Her ... Stop Running On Emotions ....

Then Use another style other than what you used before ....

This time, Use your head not your heart !!

She will be the one to love you better & try to please You ....

But A Sane Man Doesn't Revenge On Women ..

Holluwhakemmy:
Yes Sir

Gen Z ain't no Fornication... Everything now is Normal

Dey play, she will come back to rob you the more.
Once you fvcked that toto again ehn, you will stay hooked to her manipulations.

RoadMozart:
Story
you go still love again. I was once like you. Sweet loverboy. despite many lessons.... the one wey off my sense for love na wen i catch the girl with my boss.... in the act.
I just hang boot.
ever since i don't care about love anymore. Became a heartless and hardened person relationship wise.

It is in women's nature to discipline weak men. If you hadn't seen her with your boss, you wouldn't learn.