nurex01:
Stop spending your money on her.

hummmm...seems very true...

Lekside442:
shes just 20

She's a minor in her behavior. I guess as much.

She left her guidance's house to greet in you in Akure? I fear woman

Lekside442:
Good evening nairalanders...I just need a little advice from you all..no insults please..and don’t mind my English....so we planned to meet today again..though we’ve being meeting before..she comes all the way from ondo to akure..so when she gets there..she called and I told her..she just have to wait for me..cuz it’s very hard to see motorcycle at this time of Christmas...she was then patient..so when I finally get there she said she has being waiting in the sun since..I then explained to her it’s very rare to get a bike this time....she then said okay..immediately we get there I get Something for her,a cold stone..after sometimes..she was then going through my phone....she saw one of my pictures and she asked when I snapped it I showed her the info which was Thursday...and her mood just changed..and she ask me to get my phone away from her...asked her what’s wrongshe didn’t respond..She then said she’s going back to ondo...I said I wanna give the bike man the TFare she said if I do she’s gonna tear it..saying all sort of things...I then just have to leave her to go..embarrassed me there and saying abusing words...and that’s how I leave her to go...please nairalanders what do you think I can do about this shit...I’m fed up of her unnecessary angers all the time.we've being dating and it’s almost 4months now...genuine advice please..I’d be very grateful...Thanks.

no one should kill your joy. Scatter her toto amd walk away

Mraphel:

She's a minor in her behavior. I guess as much.

She left her guidance's house to greet in you in Akure? I fear woman

Yes she does.

emeijeh:

Aha!
Guys, should we tell him?

He knows already. Lol!

cassyrooy:
He knows already. Lol!

Tell me now...that’s why I’m here for advice please.

Lekside442:
Tell me now...that’s why I’m here for advice please.

See, young girls don't like stories and long term stuff.

Plenty of them want to have much fun, she unnecessarily angry at you because you're lagging behind in something she likes and wants. Check yourself, she have placed you side-by-side with another guy and she wants you to impress her.

Again, Ondo to Akure is a bit far, two different towns. There's someone in that Ondo that she may be seeing. Akungba boys fit dey run her matter o.

And what the guy I quoted meant in his post was, 24 and below are not for dating.

Run nigga,!! run!! I hate to hear this shit all the time on nairaland,i love her so much, never love a girl 100% because she can change any moment. My advise for you is to break up with her as soon as possible, no one is perfect but you see anger issues? it's difficult to deal with in relationships. Good luck.

Starz825:
I mean no offense oo...i just can't have a relationship with a lady from ondo...anger and curse in that their mouth (def not all of them but most) is wat I will never stand for or endure in a relationship....
Don't just mess up with them when u date them...they can finish u with curse

U took those words from my mouth, them b no go area especially if them see say the guy na weakling

Lekside442:
Tell me now...that’s why I’m here for advice please.

Bro the thing is that she understands that u have fallen in love n she's using it to her advantage cos she wants u to worship her. The advice I have for u is this, leave her n I bet u after some failed relationship n she realizes good guys are scarce she will come back to beg but guess what....... U go don get better girl by then.

NEVER in your life believe a partner with anger issues will change..99% of them never change,my problem with them is in the period of anger they do and say unreasonable things that pierces the other partner.. I will rather remain single than be with a partner that has anger issues.
OP if you truly have sense kindly walk away

Unik3030:
Bro the thing is that she understands that u have fallen in love n she's using it to her advantage cos she wants u to worship her. The advice I have for u is this, leave her n I bet u after some failed relationship n she realizes good guys are scarce she will come back to beg but guess what....... U go don get better girl by then.

Thats very true bro...cuz I care for her alot...I call her even without her calling...I call everyday...just to make her happy..I give her even without asking..just to make her comfortable...but all she do is just to bring unnecessary issue that doesn’t even have any meaning...there was a day she asked me for something and I promised to give her...she then later asked I was then trying to recollect how much...and all she could say is why I’m I asking her silly questions when I know already..I just wanna ignore her for some days or weeks..

Lekside442:
Thats very true bro...cuz I care for her alot...I call her even without her calling...I call everyday...just to make her happy..I give her even without asking..just to make her comfortable...but all she do is just to bring unnecessary issue that doesn’t even have any meaning...there was a day she asked me for something and I promised to give her...she then later asked I was then trying to recollect how much...and all she could say is why I’m I asking her silly questions when I know already..I just wanna ignore her for some days or weeks..

Bro let's take a bet, free this girl completely n look for another girl. Am 100% sure she will come back to u

Forgive me if I judge u wrongly but e be like say u dey show too much weakness for this girl front. Sit her down and with a very stern look, talk sense into her. If she nor dey hear that one, use shout take follow her up.

Be like she don see u finish. Update me later boss

emeijeh:

Aha!
Guys, should we tell him?

No Bro....

Hmm. Stay with her if you don't want to have peace of mind. Only 10% of girls in their 20s have sense. Stop wasting your time and money. Focus on something productive and dump her ass if she decides not to mend her ways. Shalom

MARX77:
Forgive me if I judge u wrongly but e be like say u dey show too much weakness for this girl front. Sit her down and with a very stern look, talk sense into her. If she nor dey hear that one, use shout take follow her up.

Be like she don see u finish. Update me later boss

thanks very much bro.....I don’t really expect her to be doing this shit to me bro...I take good care of this girl well...I give her before she asks bro...I really did care for her both financially and materially bro...I do everything she wants..but I don’t understand..like maybe she thinks I’m sacred to loose her...have decided not to even pick her calls again nor reply her texts for days...

MightySirKay:
Hmm. Stay with her if you don't want to have peace of mind. Only 10% of girls in their 20s have sense. Stop wasting your time and money. Focus on something productive and dump her ass if she decides not to mend her ways. Shalom

thanks very much for your advice bro....you’re all talking sense here..I’m not regretting being on nairaland for an advice.

Leave her... Dont call or text... Her brain needs restructuring

Lekside442:
thanks very much bro.....I don’t really expect her to be doing this shit to me bro...I take good care of this girl well...I give her before she asks bro...I really did care for her both financially and materially bro...I do everything she wants..but I don’t understand..like maybe she thinks I’m sacred to loose her...have decided not to even pick her calls again nor reply her texts for days...

Ignoring is good, nice one. But after that... Sit her down and drive sense into her... And baba... Nor dey too show Love... Nor be everybody dey mature enough to handle excess Love, she go feel say u be mumu. I greet u chief.

MARX77:


Ignoring is good, nice one. But after that... Sit her down and drive sense into her... And baba... Nor dey too show Love... Nor be everybody dey mature enough to handle excess Love, she go feel say u be mumu. I greet u chief.

asin I don’t just know how to thank you bro...nairaland is full with guys with brains and maturity...with good thinking...you guys really bursted my brain today.....OMG!thanks alot guys.

aminusodiq:
Leave her... Dont call or text... Her brain needs restructuring

Thanks very much bro...y’all just sounding really well and intelligent...thanks very much!!!!kudos to you all.

godfrey01:


Dating a girl in her 20's, you will be apologising for the rest of your life till she mature...

Not true Boss.

See eh OP; there are two kinds of people I can't stand, those who get angry easily, and those who aren't respectful. Somehow, the later is always synonymous with a person who has the former.

When I was in school, there was this course mate of mine, an Igbo girl. She was rich and very annoying, also gets easily angry like your GF and disrespectful. Due to the fact that I no too hold and was kinda brilliant, I sucked it in.

She would buy me food and all while we studied together. She's a good person, but my Dear, anytime you do a small mistake, you would see her other side. Wahalai, I suffered, I was even older than her but she was always there when I needed a helping hand.

This continued till we graduated. I thought that small child attitude has left her but I was wrong. Few months back we kinda reconnected and she suggested we see, I proposed a fast food, she agreed. Later she suddenly changed that she wants to see a movie, I said ok, let's meet at Ikeja, she said no that she wants the mall at Surulere, I said ok, no problem.

Few days to the event, I was short on cash on and notified her that we move it to the following week, she snapped and told me to forget about everything, me I kuku lock up. She didn't reply my messages for about 2 months.

One day, I decided to try again, I sent her a message apologising for what happened the other time so as not to spoil the friendship, she said I should first send her money before she forgives me. I just laughed it off.

My advice is you stay away from that girl, her type will give you too many dramas, insults and headache.

CsRockefeller:
See eh OP; there are two kinds of people I can't stand, those who get angry easily, and those who aren't respectful. Somehow, the later is always synonymous with a person who has the former.

When I was in school, there was this course mate of mine, an Igbo girl. She was rich and very annoying, also gets easily angry like your GF and disrespectful. Due to the fact that I no too hold and was kinda brilliant, I sucked it in.

She would buy me food and all while we studied together. She's a good person, but my Dear, anytime you do a small mistake, you would see her other side. Wahalai, I suffered, I was even older than her but she was always there when I needed a helping hand.

This continued till we graduated. I thought that small child attitude has left her but I was wrong. Few months back we kinda reconnected and she suggested we see, I proposed a fast food, she agreed. Later she suddenly changed that she wants to see a movie, I said ok, let's meet at Ikeja, she said no that she wants the mall at Surulere, I said ok, no problem.

Few days to the event, I was short on cash on and notified her that we move it to the following week, she snapped and told me to forget about everything, me I kuku lock up. She didn't reply my messages for about 2 months.

One day, I decided to try again, I sent her a message apologising for what happened the other time so as not to spoil the friendship, she said I should first send her money before she forgives me. I just laughed it off.

My advice is you stay away from that girl, her type will give you too many dramas, insults and headache.

hummmmm you really nailed it bro...thanks in a million brother.

ondo girls and Ibadan girls in general are very local and weird. They'll just create un necessary beef with you... Very st*pid beef that will shock you.
They can insult and swear for you eh. it as if they created with it..

You might even play with then.. na beef..

I don't know what's bad taking pix with another girl.... bros lock that girl jawe she will just give you HPB...

It pained her that she even threaten to tear your money..


Jealous woman can kill you.

Frankicent:
ondo girls and Ibadan girls in general are very local and weird. They'll just create un necessary beef with you... Very st*pid beef that will shock you.
They can insult and swear for you eh. it as if they created with it..

You might even play with then.. na beef..

I don't know what's bad taking pix with another girl.... bros lock that girl jawe she will just give you HPB...

It pained her that she even threaten to tear your money..


Jealous woman can kill you.

lock as how?bro

Lekside442:
Thanks alot bro..you really talk alot of sense...but I really love her soo much..but this only sickness she got about getting angry on unnecessary issue..and she’d always act like she’s on the right...she’d be at fault and she’d want me to be the one plead...imagine that bro.

Just like mine but I been lock up for days now and I found my peace back...


I can't kill myself

Lekside442:
lock as how?bro

bone her... let her go she will only cause you more pain.

Aged 20. H.mmm wrong period to date a girl. She is at that stage in her lifetime where she wants to be like her friends. Not friends in the traditional sense of the word but competitors. She wants to put on the gown Sandra wore last week or the shoe Jane wore yesterday or buy the bag jennifer is saving money to buy. As a result, this is her whoring stage and she is ready to do anything to get what she wants. If you cant afford to yield to all these demands you have no means of playing. It's tantrum upon tantrum untill show is over. Let her go. Tell her you can't continue and let her go you cant change her at this stage. I want to believe she went through ur phone and saw nothing indicting or incriminating to hold hands and lay out the cards for you and out of the disappointment of not seeing anything she threw a tantrum. Let her go.

Bro another man is in her life trust me on this

Roroapple:
Bro another man is in her life trust me on this

hummmmmm...what makes you say so?bro