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My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by Cheato64(m): 6:16pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
I got married in 2018, I love my wife so much and I know she loves me too but my wife is too dramatic. She always claim she trusts me but mehn she doesn't let me out of her sight. I do everything and it's affecting me, we have a son and another is on the way, she has refused to learn how to drive on purpose, I take her everywhere, antenatal, market (hate this one the most), I drop and pick her from work, am forced to go church or other programs which I wouldn't like to go. She goes through my phone every 3 days most especially at night. She noticed I snore I asked for a separate room, she will never let me, she Insists we sleep with light on. Sometimes I pray for Nepa to take light. The day I called an ex that works in bank to assist me with transaction due to crowd, she went through my phone saw it, I had to explain out of anger she smashed my phone she does this very often she has smashed hers b4. I feel like running away for a week but I can't leave my work or our son and she might go to my parents which I wouldn't want. Pls I need help on how to tackle this wahala 126 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by olumide3367(m): 6:21pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Why na ? Men giving power to women. Modified... Made FTC for the first time towards the end of the year. It means the new year will be good . Thanks for likes jare. Mainwhile, check my signature 377 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by imiski(m): 6:21pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Sit her down and discuss. She may have been a victim of infidelity. Or she is naturally very jealous(this one is incureable) 274 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by daddytime(m): 6:24pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Lol Una no date before marriage? You couldn't have missed some of these traits even though some people are good at hiding their true characters while dating. 389 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by piippa(m): 6:26pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Learn how to be firm with decisions. When you decisive people take you for who you are. That didn't start when you got married I'm sure it started before you got married. 167 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by doitforyou(f): 6:29pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
This is bad and not sustainable. At some point you have to put your foot down. I suggest after she gives birth you guys have a very long talk. If you have cheated on her before, and she has forgiven you enough to marry you then part of giving you a second chance is to trust you until you prove her wrong again. You guys can’t be doing this, marriage is long. This is why I can forgive a cheating partner but I can never get back with the person, because I can never trust that person again and it makes for a toxic and draining relationship. 274 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by Larryfest(m): 6:30pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Are you the wife or husband because I don't get why you don't even have a common say in most issues in the house 159 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by LOGOBELT: 6:30pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
You have really tried discovering her faults. The next thing is to study her... Like what are the things that makes her angry? What are the things i do that piss her off? Most importantly, what does she want? The matrimonial bedroom is not just a sleeping room... Wake her up at night, talk to her solemnly, once again i said solemnly... As for your chat with your ex Biko, end it "its better to stay off Ex especially when you are married, to prevent Family Palava" As for driving her to the market, antenatal and church, boss its your RESPONSIBILITY as the husband. We men only show love to our partner before marriage, once she is in, you find it difficult to continue what you started. Like I said, yoy have discovered her faults, next is to study her...... After that, next is to wake her up at night, say sweet and emotion capturing words to her, then when she fall for it.... Hit her with the words " Dear, i want to discuss something with you" while you caress her. Talk to her about it, and am sure she will listen. Women aren't that DIFFICULT you just need to ADJUST a little, so that ONE TROUSER CAN FIT YOU TWO 253 Likes 19 Shares |
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by Cheato64(m): 6:36pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
daddytime:how am I supposed to know she won't want to learn how to drive on purpose, and if I decide to firm and she jumps bike, accident or miscarriage might happen, I won't forgive myself 36 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by babyfaceafrica: 6:36pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
You saw all the signs but big breats and round yansh no allow you... My brother carry your cross 223 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by nero2face: 6:42pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
she loves u so much mehn, I wish for such a loving jealous wife, she only want u for her self alone...endure it and try turning it into fun, laugh at her when she do those things and let her know u love her and won't cheat on her...u can device a fun means of cajoling her whenever she act up 183 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by daddytime(m): 6:43pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Cheato64: I can imagine.. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by Cheato64(m): 6:43pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
doitforyou:I have never cheated on her before and after marriage, just that I still have the phone number of my ex and we watched a movie Okafor's law together. She so much believe in that movie, now back to the trust issue 28 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by Cheato64(m): 6:52pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
LOGOBELT:bro are you married? Women are not easy as you think oooo, how is it my responsibilities, I go to antenatal I see most women if not all coming by themselves. 97 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by sisisioge: 7:07pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Na wa for all of una fa! If its not wife wahala, it would be husband trouble! Why? No happily ever after tale? Make una let us hear word biko! Mean while, I dont know what to type regarding your issue...apologies 42 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by olabrinks(f): 7:13pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
You missed the part where you cheated on her probably before marriage or after hence why she’s acting this way. No woman is going to behave like this out of nowhere. 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by jakandeola(m): 7:15pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
sisisioge:when u see a guy who want to love and tresure ur heart u begin to play wit him.u ask if his fine.if his rich or can speak English den u miss it.why a girl who is more wise and despirate see d man and marry him.dey are in love and live happily forever why ur in pains. 18 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by sisisioge: 7:18pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
jakandeola: But Jakande, why are you so daft bayi? Why not fvcking leave me alone! Screw you assssszhole! 32 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by APOPTOSIS: 7:19pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
U get luck Say u no marry witch, by now you for no get HAND to use TYPE. It's always better the LADY loves you more than you LOVE her. 46 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by olril17(m): 7:43pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Cheato64:all this whining half men sef...na wa for men of nowadays ooo. 26 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by olril17(m): 7:45pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
nero2face:easier said than done...those behaviors are very annoying. 23 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by olril17(m): 7:52pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Cheato64:u sound like a wussy...as a man,u have got to be firm and be in control of your marriage...geez! 24 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by Cheato64(m): 8:20pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
olabrinks:I have never cheated on her before and after wedding but I can see this is hard to believe but faithful men exist 62 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by Cheato64(m): 8:21pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
olril17:am firm but but don't want to be to hard and make an irreversible mistake 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by olril17(m): 9:12pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Cheato64:you have to be hard when u have to be hard..women spots men weakspot and take them for granted 48 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by Nobody: 9:20pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Cheato64:So u think that men who don't attend antenatal with their wives are doing the right thing? Men are meant to go to antenatal with their pregnant wives! A man that fixed my dish one time said that he alone took care of his wife and 3 kids that crucial first few months. That post pregnancy bath etc he did it. A full blooded Nigerian man! It is your responsibility. Not mother inlaw or house maids. Guess where he learnt what to do, at antenatal class. 90 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by Albinoworwor: 9:23pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
nero2face: Jealous women are scorned women I pray u don't make one ur partner coz I can't even describe how your life will be 24 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by Nobody: 9:26pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Well, If your wife is a listening type, please engage in a heart to heart discussion. Let her know you aren't comfortable with the drama, if she's sensible, she will adjust with time. If dialogue can't solve, then apply a little firmness. If she smashes your phone next time, let her replace it, if her intrusion is much, give her space. People sometimes tend to receive sense, when their excesses is challenged. However, if you married an Instagram slay queen, well, you would have to live with it and prepare your mind for more exciting drama. I wish you the best sir. 29 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by Emodeee: 9:26pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
sassysure: Your hubby did same for you? 15 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by Nobody: 9:29pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Cheato64:I'm laughing but this is actually quite serious. I would be scared if a man is behaving like this. She has anger issues and she doesn't trust you. Seek therapy together, pls. Good luck. 20 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by Tonymegabush1(m): 9:31pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Inasmuch as you have identified those her trait what have you on your own part to avert such scenario, her not willing to let you off her sight could have been what you have projected into her cognitive domain thus her assumption lifestyle.. NB. Hope still in sight never reason running away, on new year day take your whole family out to a cool atmosphere enjoy your day las las go home and talk with her if need be reassure her of your commitment. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by Nobody: 9:39pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Emodeee:Yes o. Everything u can think off. He didn't go to antenatal during my first pregnancy. I didnt go at all but all the hospital visits he was there asking questions. Subsequent, he attended. I only talked about the pregnancy and antenatal. But, I can as well talk about her obsession. Either that 1, she is afraid she will lose you as she never expected somebody like u will come her way, 2, she has insecurity problem. Refer to 1. People she trusted has been disappointing her. 3, she has low self esteem, still refer to 1. And u are making her fear come true by contacting your ex. As for the aggression, refer to her background. In all its about, communication, assurance and promise. Good luck. 47 Likes 2 Shares |
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