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Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by LilMissFavvy(f): 5:24pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
My dear, be patient and smart, you will definitely meet the right man. Forget about the toxic males attacking your comments. I can't even read to page 15, but you made so much sense. Don't take things too serious, I keep preaching to ladies that 99.99 Nigerian men are cheats and scumbs, they are only good to marry and be dumped if they begin to give a woman stress. Procreation should be the major purpose for marrying a Nigerian man, and ladies who marry them should never concede to have more than two kids, because anything can happen. The purpose for marriage institution has been ruined by men, they are cheats, and not loyal. Don't ever think of changing your sexuality because of our useless males, many with complicated sexuality are desperately trying to become straight, so beware. Children are a blessing, do not fear. Remember to pray about it as well. Lastly, beware of the DMs you receive, you are exposing yourself here too much, these evil dipsticks may come for you, my 3cents..... good luck. funmisticqueen: 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by uninspired07: 5:29pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
Fourwinds: Hmmmmmmmm. Insightful. |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by CorperKola: 6:04pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
BRATISLAVA:From what the wife said, i gather she said she never emasculated him, how does that come in again in your last sentence. U have issues yourself, its like seeing men being emasculated makes you wet or happy U gotta see someone now |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Ilekokonit: 6:20pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
bamirotola: Fact of life 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 6:28pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
I keep saying I will no longer respond but for reasons I don't understand this harsh judgement by total strangers is really hurting me. It hurts like hell to be labelled a liar when you are not. It hurts also to be at the receiving end of false accusations. It is indeed a man's world. Look at the number of men here crucifying me for nothing. I have been through hell but it's fine. I've got God. Like I keep saying the truth will come out. I will be vindicated unless my God is no longer alive. Meanwhile I will plead with you all to please desist from the disparaging remarks or stop making any at all. I am a real human being with feelings and I don't deserve this. I need to focus on my job now and on healing my heart. God I make this prayer here openly, please vindicate me the way you vindicated Mordecai and heal my wounds. Give me songs of joy in the place of this heartbreak. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by ableguy(m): 6:43pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix:Waoo, this is a pure truth. Thanks for sharing |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Ilekokonit: 6:56pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
otipoju: I know someone in England who wanted to bring his wife from Naija and she was refused a Visa obviously because she was pregnant and she was delayed by the embassy in Naija until she had the baby in Naija. The guy went back to England and was paying £100 per hour to a Lawyer to fight her case and eventually she was granted a visa and he took her and the baby to England with him. Fast forward to a few years of her being in England and every thing was going fairly well until he lost his job but he got a good redundancy payout such that he was able to keep paying the monthly mortgage on the house he bought for a few years and look after wife and kids without stress. Note that he bought the house putting down the initial deposit and the wife did not contribute a penny as she was unemployed BUT he still put the house purchase in joint names - Mr and Mrs. When he lost his job and he, wife and kids had almost exhausted his redundancy pay and savings on daily living, they sold the house and downsized to a smaller rented house. Half of the profit on the sale of the house was used to pay 6 months rent upfront for the newly rented house and Bros took the other half to try his hands at business in Naija in 2004 not knowing that Naija was very expensive. After 2 months Bros came back to England to meet an UNCOOPERATIVE WIFE who wanted him out of the house at all costs. Little did Bros know that the minute he departed for Naija 2 months earlier, his scheming wife WHO HE BROUGHT TO ENGLAND AGAINST ALL ODDS INCLUDING VISA DENIAL - went straight to the authorities and "claimed" that her husband had abandoned them and England being anti family and being the single parent capital of Europe started giving her single parent money on top of her part time salary. This same Bros had to pack out of the house less than one hour after returning from Naija with all his unopened luggage to a hotel as the wife made the house so hot that he had no option but to pack out. Her game plan was to make the house so hostile for him so that she becomes genuinely a single mother and continue enjoying the single parent money from the marriage breaking UK Government. There was a time Bros had to sleep in his car in the cold winter when his wife told him he was using her for shelter - just because the 6 month rent Bros paid had expired and she was now paying the rent and Bros was job hunting. His son on the way to school saw him sleeping in the car in the cold winter and just shook his head. The same man who gave the wife British papers, bought a house when she didn't have a job and put her name on it as joint owner is now using her for shelter because she has started paying rent just for 2 months They have been separated for the past 14 years but the wicked wife has managed to turn their children against him including the one born in Naija during her visa denial period. When I see such stories as above, it strengthens my resolve against ever setting up a woman financially or helping a woman in any way as most of them are back stabbing ingrates. A woman's game plan is to expend a young mans energy and finances on looking after her and her kids and once the man has set her up financially, she has no need for him again and she starts acting like a witch so that the man will get the message and leave the house for her so that she can become the lawmaker in the house. BOTTOM LINE IS THAT AN EDUCATED WOMAN CAN NEVER EVER BE SUBMISSIVE "LONG TERM". 11 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by BRATISLAVA: 8:45pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
CorperKola: You are funny. What if we both stand to urinate? |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by otipoju(m): 8:47pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
Ilekokonit: We live in very very periluous times for men. Ive taken all situations like this into consideration and I have resolved that I owe it to myself to enjoy my life by doing the things that i enjoy. The children you sacrifice for today can be turned against you tomorrrow. That woman that you are telling all your secrets may use them against you tomorrow. So its important to invest and secure your future. A woman may have divorced you in her heart 10 years ago but will still continue to live and smile and have sex with you until the time is ripe to let go. They could be very very heartless. They thing is we see the signs but we choose to ignore them. The only way to escape their clutches is when they realise thay you have not built your life around them and you will do just fine without them. The key is not to be caught offgaurd. We live in a world were kindness is seen by women as weakness. I cant stop being kind but i will not allow myself to be used and i always do what makes me happy. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 9:15pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
Truthwillout:please ma, clear your name and open a counter thread |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by midnighter(f): 9:16pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
cerpvad: I actually went back and read through the exchange to see if I was mistaken, but Im not. I didnt take your exaggeration out of context because the following sentences used to support it still painted a bad picture of wealthier women, which you obfuscated again in your subsequent comment by erroneously adding another issue. It was later on that you clarified what you meant, which I accepted already. And dont mind that indolent blaggard who is encouraging you in your folly, his support means nothing If you read the discussion he referred to, you will see how much hot air he was blowing just so that he wouldnt answer my simple questions hahaha you people are hysterical! |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Ilekokonit: 9:40pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
obama30: Words of wisdom 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Ilekokonit: 9:44pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
Classcaptain1: Now that made me laugh |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Ilekokonit: 9:47pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
Kennedyiheme: You will never regret your decision to stay away from marriage which is now a scam women use to manipulate men. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Kennedyiheme: 10:12pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
Ilekokonit:exactly .. yes sadly we have passed the time were women were brought up well.. now its disaster... men dont need marriage anyway 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Ilekokonit: 10:23pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
Ozugbo: Bros, you are stronger and better without her. Make your hustle your wife for now. For me, my source of income is my first priority, Dad, Mum, Siblings, Children and Wife come 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th and 6th in that order. Your wife and children and siblings may one day deny you if you lose all your money but your Dad and Mum will never deny you no matter how low you fall financially. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Ilekokonit: 10:25pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
optimus106: Simples. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Ilekokonit: 10:58pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
After moving out of that toxic house, your daily prayer should be the following words in Micah 7:8 - ESV :- Rejoice not over me, O my enemy; when I fall, I shall rise; when I sit in darkness, the Lord will be a light to me 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Kennedyiheme: 11:06pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
MEN.. i repeat again... do not get married in this age and time..this isnt 1930 were women were brought up well... you don't need marriage.. if you want kids, just give one girl belle and pay her.. after all thats the only thing that satisfies them "MONEY".. pay her get your kids.. by the way men aren't really crazy about kids tbh.. for me i dont really like kids lol.. hustle buy your house live alone.. men are blessed because there are so many things that make a man happy.. video games, watching sports, fixing cars.. how can you get bored living alone.. when premier league they dere . If you try getting married now, you are basically signing your death wish 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Ilekokonit: 11:15pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
After lavishing his hard earned money on wife and kids when the going was good for him the wife and her meddling family are now turning a family man to an object of scorn and ridicule in front of his own kids. Olohun maje. Tufiakwa. This is probably what some men go through that makes them ABANDON wife and kids in the middle of the night with no forwarding address and not come back until their finances turn up for the better. Not every man is built to witness and bear the nonsense the op is putting up with. Death before dishonor. There is no greater dishonor to a man than turning his own kids against him in his home that should be his place of last refuge. 5 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Ilekokonit: 11:26pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
EgunMogaji2: The above proverb means that :- If a man is on fire and his child is also on fire, he has to make an effort to off the fire on his own body first before going to assist his child. Thats why I said earlier that I pity men who are shouting my pikin, my pikin up and down forgetting that if you die of high blood pressure, these same kids will forget about you in a jiffy especially since your wife has already turned them against you. Bottom line is to look out for number 1 first - i.e put yourself first before any child or wife as we now live in a passionately selfish 21st century where almost every one including your own kids are fair weather relatives who WILL look down on you if you suffer a financial downturn. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Martinez39(m): 11:45pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
Truthwillout:If you stop coming to this thread or you start ignoring mentions, will you die? Get the Bleep out of this thread. You say you treated your husband well yet, somehow, you recognised a moniker that is new, has few posts, and didn't give his identity out as your husband. Really? How did you know strungup79 is your husband? It is improbable (not impossible) that a man would victimise and malign a wife that stands with him during hard times given that such woman is the dream woman of every man. How did you know strungup79 is your husband? 9 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by richie240: 11:51pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
Oga strungup79, what sayest thou to 'madam's' rebuttal? Don't go ghost mode on us biko! 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by emmaodet: 5:50am On Jan 03, 2020 |
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Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by maasoap(m): 9:33am On Jan 03, 2020 |
Truthwillout: I'm not talking about not having property but behind your husband's back. And I think that either the husband has been listening to wrong people or you're telling lie |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by freshvine(f): 9:33am On Jan 03, 2020 |
Truthwillout: You came here to curry sympathy and validation. I've read your defense and nothing you've said that made sense rather you corroborated what your supposed husband has said then cry victimization. Let me summarize for you: 1. Your husband said he was previously the breadwinner until his finances dwindled but you craftily didn't address that in your submission. 2. He alluded to the fact that you're now the breadwinner and that's where you capitalized in your detailed narrative to push your emotional blackmailing and sentimental approval. In your post to corroborate his approval of your financial charge, you demonize him and made him villain. 3. The real reason why he opened this thread of being emasculated and dehumanized you didn't touch that part rather your argument was one of a proud conceited lady who really has emasculated the husband by telling us " it's being handled offline ". You bragged about taking a break. Obviously you've the cash now, you wear the trousers in your home and you now call the shot. When to take a break in marriage and all is your defacto call. Let me tell you, all the emotional craps of defense you put up there doesn't sit with me because I can intelligently read through the lines. When you married your husband, I guess you never envision things will go south with him but today circumstances has put him in this unfortunate situation, think about this and reason no man is infallible to upheaval. Tomorrow it may be your turn and you'll run back to him blaming the devil. Until you address the issues of him alluding you're disrespectful, stop calling God in your defense to curry sympathy. When a woman who loves her husband and wants things to work respond to husband complaints, I know but when a wicked woman comes with emotional tantrums to cover her unruly behavior, I just know. I wish you well in your future endeavor but any woman married and whose brideprice was paid that deliberately turn the children against their fathers has unknowingly sown curse in the children. The chicken will grow and face same consequence except those that came to realization of their mothers manipulative scheme and made good with their fathers. 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by maasoap(m): 9:39am On Jan 03, 2020 |
Martinez39: She claimed that her husband had told the same lie to his family, simple. So, she recognised the "lie" here. The woman said that she has no landed property. Who is the liar here? 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by QueenSuccubus(f): 9:53am On Jan 03, 2020 |
luminouz: Lol! Lemme read from the start since I was off from NL for a long time. Those who like to abuse are nothing but kiddos coz they only seek attention here on NL.. outside NL most of them still sucking milk from their momma 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by luminouz(m): 9:54am On Jan 03, 2020 |
QueenSuccubus: I trust you babe... You weren't gentle with them at all. You were very savage... I missed you. Where have you been? |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by maasoap(m): 10:01am On Jan 03, 2020 |
funmisticqueen: Thanks for calling me out. It is now difficult to know the truth. There are new allegations in the wife's story which I learnt that the husband has refused to address. E.g. The issue of not coming home, the issue of not working for 5 years, the issue of frequent quarrelling which made wife to stay away from home. And you and I know that there is no way the family of the wife wouldn't be adding fuel to the blazing fire. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by QueenSuccubus(f): 10:04am On Jan 03, 2020 |
luminouz: What else shall we do in this life sha? Ofcurz been chasin' paper ooo.. so many mouth i feed every day I barely come online here since there's no topic that would entice me anymore I miss u too.. i miss those days that we are all here almost banging each oda hahahaha 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by luminouz(m): 10:12am On Jan 03, 2020 |
QueenSuccubus: : |
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