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Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Martinez39(m): 11:04am On Jan 03, 2020 |
maasoap: — So the "lie" that a woman is insultive and disrespectful to her husband after the husband lost his job and hit for financial hard times can only be peculiar to strungup79? ![]() — So the "lie" that a woman is sidelining her husband and creating hell for him during his hard times even though he treated her well when he was a breadwinner is a "lie" only peculiar to strungup79? — The fact that a woman is poisoning the kids' mind against the husband is a situation only peculiar to strungup79? ![]() SMH. Even the combination of these three isn't peculiar to strungup79. So how is she certain that strungup79 is her husband? The length to which someone will go to fake evidence for their narrative can be very disappointing. It reminds me of the case of Jussie Smollett. I suspect that the account claiming to be the wife of strungup79 was probably created by one of the demonic feminist females on this thread who were pinning the blame on the op no matter what. That moniker was probably created to give credence to the narrative that women are always the victims and angels while men are the beasts and abusers. The moniker was probably created to give these girls something to masturbate to on this thread. So I ask, how did truthwillout know that strungup79 is her husband? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by BRATISLAVA: 11:06am On Jan 03, 2020 |
Gbemishile1:So what's the truth from his own side? |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by BRATISLAVA: 11:17am On Jan 03, 2020 |
Kennedyiheme: It's brainwashing once you can't think outside of it. You can't approach relationships with a clean mind because the teaching is always there. And the problem with the brainwashing is that it was invented by a particularly weak man filled with hatred for women. Secretly, he's still some woman's plaything, but let's not get into that. Look at the main student of mgtow here on nairaland. martinez39 is simply a misogynist, it's a wonder he's not pronounced himself gay. Maybe he actually is gay. He has lost objectivity while he pushes the agenda: hatred and subjugation of women. On this thread he never gave reconcilatory advice. His aim is to hurt women through other men with myopic one-sided mgtow theories. You can see it in his questions and responses. He cannot evaluate info except it's in favor of men. Men are always right. Women are crafty. He still wants to pay a baby mama. He still wants to brainwash the children he may have. He's still doing the same things he claims to be against, though he thinks he's on some train to somewhere. He's a feminazi with balls. On this thread he's still lawing for the OP who is viewing but has gone into hiding on exposure. He needs to push the male perspective even with contrary info. He needs to let us know his connection to the man. Add the so called red pill to it and you have men who hate women and believe every evil about them while they consider themselves saints. Isn't that brainwashing? The women are always up to no good. If you don't trust women and hate them, why not look into relationships with other men who won't use tears and money to manipulate you or turn the children against you with their wailings and will not give you stress? When the WGTOW version comes out, the men will begin new hate. Feminism isn't mgtow, if that's the counter. It is for equality of rights. That's why the red pill etc are just avenues for hatred. In the end, all men will marry and impregnate robots in future. That way the dangerous creatures called women will be kept far. If men were getting any wiser, they would step up to the simplest solution available. Love your wife and she will do anything for you. True love. Instead you have red pill men competing with her on children, wailing, sex and other idiocy. I'm done with posts with misogynists. I thought nairaland had balanced views. Instead it sways towards gays and little boys testing their wrists. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 11:41am On Jan 03, 2020 |
QueenSuccubus:longest time |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Kennedyiheme: 11:45am On Jan 03, 2020 |
BRATISLAVA:again mgtow doesn't hold rallies or conferences, holding placards, protesting in front of government offices, holding seminars and telling people what to do... on the other hand this is what the feminist do... the only thing mgtow does is state their opinion on social media.. how do you call people stating their life experience and opinion on social media as brainwashing.. who did the brainwashing?.. if you call that brainwashing then you probably cant comprehend things easily 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by BRATISLAVA: 11:48am On Jan 03, 2020 |
Kennedyiheme: A zombie doesn't know it's a zombie. Keep hating women. Your wrists will evolve. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 11:52am On Jan 03, 2020 |
BRATISLAVA:He has stated his side of the matter We want to hear from the woman too 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by BRATISLAVA: 11:52am On Jan 03, 2020 |
Gbemishile1:She gave her own side. |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Kennedyiheme: 11:56am On Jan 03, 2020 |
BRATISLAVA:well you haven't proved there's a zombie at all.. brianwashing occurs when there is a gathering and a leader.. just like the jihadist, they gather and listen to radical preaching... in london there's an event centre that host feminists twice a month.. you can't point anything like that for mgtows... 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by BRATISLAVA: 11:59am On Jan 03, 2020 |
Kennedyiheme: k |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by midnighter(f): 12:31pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
BRATISLAVA: |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by BRATISLAVA: 12:36pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
[quote author=midnighter post=85463488][/quote] What happened, midnighter? |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by cerpvad(m): 12:40pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
He who pays the piper dictates the tune. Marriage is woven around power and class interface. Earning power and social class are two main factors I always advise guys to consider before marrying a lady. If she earns more than you and she's from a wealthy family, guys, run for your life. Some ladies, after using their earnings and wealthy family to entice you into marriage, would bite you back with a lifetime controls, blackmails and giving you depression. In fact they would be feeling too big to have sex with you. See where you missed it all. look above. Immediately after the actual statement that you isolated and quoted, the next sentence starts with "Some ladies". If you were not discursively indolent, you should have realized that with the presence of that indefinite modifier "Some" in the body of that post, the writer does not condemn ALL WEALTHY WOMEN like you have erroneously perceived. From discursive perspective, you do not isolate a particular utterance from the rest while assessing a writer's main opinion on a subject. Equally, some utterances are mere exaggerations or overstatements just like the aspect which you bolded and quoted and should not be used to represent main opinion. In fact all exaggerations or overstatements are not valid opinions. However, I don't expect everyone to be technical on how to deduce a writer's point of view. Since you fall into that category, you can drop your last words and let's move on from this topic for good. midnighter: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by YorubaPrince: 1:06pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
funmisticqueen: Mental problem na e go scatter you las las 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by midnighter(f): 3:51pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
BRATISLAVA: What happened to what? I don't understand |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by midnighter(f): 3:53pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
cerpvad: midnighter: |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Ilekokonit: 5:46pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
Kekereekun123: Thanks for sharing this. I hope unmarried Naija men are learning more about Nigerian women from this. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 5:47pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
Ilekokonit:lol. You cannot know the heart of a woman toll ur broke or sick. Thats life. We the men dey use money entice them to date us too 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Ekwutox: 6:26pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
Truthwillout: Hmmm |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Ilekokonit: 7:08pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
Truthwillout: Ephesians 5:22-24 King James Version (KJV) 22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. 24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in EVERY THING . 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Jeweltz(f): 7:12pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
It's hurtful to know guys who keeps bashing women here have not tender any apology on this thread 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Ilekokonit: 7:30pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
funmisticqueen: Your words will come back to bite you. At 25 you are still a child when it comes to REAL LIFE work experience. Don't let your qualification as a Doctor deceive you 'cos even those who studied medicine at Cambridge University, UK are still subject to some of us, so before you open your mouth to say silly stuff in response to career saving advice given to you, think deeply than not every one on here gives a hoot about your medical degree as some people on this anonymous forum can employ you and pay you 10 times what you are earning as a Doctor with just the money they spend on socializing monthly. Try and read between the lines in CALMNESS as your God sent helper that can elevate your finances at record speed may be one of the people you are insulting here daily and remember that it doesn't all end in Nigeria as you may still meet some of the people you have insulted here abroad and they already know your face. So, simmer down and learn as the world is a shrinking global village and you don't want to burn all your bridges as your face is already known from your profile. So, as a CHILD of 25, take a chill pill and keep quiet and learn for once. If you have mental health issues like you have alluded to on one of your posts then focus on completing your counseling sessions and if need be take anti depressants and stop being so cantankerous especially when people who can help your situation are giving you advise. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by cerpvad(m): 7:30pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
Yes. You are correct with that position. I just dm you. Check your dm and respond midnighter: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by BRATISLAVA: 7:33pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
midnighter: Why quoting me? |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by midnighter(f): 8:40pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
BRATISLAVA: I agreed with that part of your post. |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by BRATISLAVA: 8:44pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
midnighter: Unbelievable. |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by midnighter(f): 8:46pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
BRATISLAVA: Quite. |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 9:20pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
Ilekokonit:there's a reason why I ignore your existence. Let me continue to do so. So, kindly mind the misogynist business that pays you. Goodbye |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by midnighter(f): 10:05pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
funmisticqueen: But seriously, he has a point dear. It won't be nice for all this to come up if you want to travel. Maybe you should try going underground 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by midnighter(f): 10:06pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
cerpvad: Thanks |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by bizgenera: 10:22pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
I held back my contribution on this matter because I hoped and prayed to hear from the other side (the wife). It is good to always hear from both sides so as not to be one sided in one's judgment. Here is what I think: The man is a MelChol (Melancholic and Choleric) as evident in his love for law and order. He is a perfectionist. He loved and cared for his family and he was able to thrive in his element (MelChor) till he lost his competitive advantage (Income). He lost his control and self esteem hence the genesis of his problem with his wife. The wife is a SanChol ( Sanguine and Choleric) as evident in her more liberal stand on raising the kids and her very expressive nature. Both couple are good people, a perfect match as both are supposed to bring order and fun into their marital journey. With their Choleric power combination, they ought to have been unstoppable. The wife is a hard worker as the man just that the later is no longer making headway in his business. But instead of these traits to work in their favour, it worked against them. Some Sanguine actions of the wife often time becomes irksome to the Choleric husband who perhaps when he tries to assert himself is silenced overtly or covertly by the wife who has now assumed his role, the role which used to give the husband his satisfaction. He then became Melancholic. That is why he is so depressed. The wife for instance might have thought that if she creates the impression that she has bought a land , that the husband will upon hearing it double up on his hussle. Meanwhile, there was no real land, it was just a drama put up by a typical Sanguine. But the perfectionist husband took it as a sign of disregard. I can go on and on to show how poor personality management and the "poverty evil" that befell the husband is about to destroy a beautiful family. The plain truth is, no family can live in harmony without money! 4 years plus is too much a burden on the woman alone to run the home going by what she wrote. If she has been doing that without denigrating the husband, then a Laurel for her. It is not easy at all . This union is not a lost cause. If we can all join hands together to help them fix their obvious problem, we will be helping to secure the future of their kids in particular. Divorce affects children the most. My proposition. What if 1,000 nairalanders can donate just 1k each, making it a million and we invest it on behalf of this couple with MBA ( a legit investment management company) That company will be sending them 150k monthly as profit which will then be used by the couple to pursue businesses and to pay bills at home. That would help to reduce the pressure in their marriage. Some of us are business analysts, we can advise him on what type of business he can engage in to raise further capital for his dream projects. With the proposition, the man would have mobility capital to be able to source for businesses. Entrepreneurs find it difficult to breakthrough without this. He might have tried to go out to market prospects in times past, but due to lack of cashflow and bills to pay , the man will just be in a fix. Not everything is spiritual, although that one is also there and it is real. But if he seeks, he will find solutions. There are nairalanders who can see and help (prophets and deliverance ministers). There are some of them even around them. They must tackle this problem holistically (spiritually and physically). The couple should please for the sake of their children make peace. The husband should be more loving and the wife, more respectful. The two are very intelligent (from the way they write), you guys should please work it out. Go out on a date, just the 2 of you. Go back 11 years and start fixing the short comings from there. No boss, no villain, no victim. Just two adults who have invested so much in each other and who wants to reconcile. I feel the wife still loves the husband deep down in her heart , so there is still hope. But if the flame is off, sorry sir no remedy. Mutually work out a separation . But I still feel all hope is not lost. And when you the husband now becomes comfortable and rich, pls do simmer down on some areas. Let your family see another side of you. When you relate with woman with love (your girls inclusive) , you will get the best from them. I pray that God would intervene in this matter and prosperity, peace and love will rein once again in your home ... Amen. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by makydebbie(f): 10:39pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
funmisticqueen: Ah, so you're like this and you opened thread with sub stories? You deserve whatever you got from this forum, next time don't complain. 2 Likes |
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