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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by habsydiamond(m): 9:42pm On Jan 03, 2020
veteranExboy:


I'm lost
u are found. Am simply saying he should reach an agreement with the babe for another 3 years since it's contract relationship

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Neimar: 10:28pm On Jan 03, 2020
Lamanii22:
You're not crazy Hun.. My now boyfriend waited 7 years... Not like I didn't like him then but I was waving off that feeling... I was like God forbid I can never be in love with this kind of guy... You won't believe all the relationship I had never lasted... Although we started dating recently... But he told me he's been dating me for seven years... Imagine... He said he has never stopped loving me and that he'd never.. So I don't think you're crazy...

you are wicked grin

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Lamanii22(f): 10:30pm On Jan 03, 2020
Neimar:


you are wicked grin


Loool don't mind me...
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by boiz2men(m): 12:48am On Jan 04, 2020
Lamanii22:
You're not crazy Hun.. My now boyfriend waited 7 years... Not like I didn't like him then but I was waving off that feeling... I was like God forbid I can never be in love with this kind of guy... You won't believe all the relationship I had never lasted... Although we started dating recently... But he told me he's been dating me for seven years... Imagine... He said he has never stopped loving me and that he'd never.. So I don't think you're crazy...
you are wicked.

Poor guy. After you have been dumped repeatedly, you settled for him

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Nobody: 12:59am On Jan 04, 2020
3 years shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked
after the main guy she was hoping on has dumped her u now available to take the remains lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
and u call urself an alpha male

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Nobody: 1:01am On Jan 04, 2020
2special:
Likely she might dump you if she settles with her ex boyfriend but who knows
yes..her ex that is that malaysian big boy on white native.he will come again for another fix and the babe will still dump op cheesy

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Nobody: 1:02am On Jan 04, 2020
favoryte33:
In as much as i wish you good luck on your new relationship,i would ask that you take your time to observe her. .
kolo wek observe kini?

Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Nobody: 1:05am On Jan 04, 2020
maynation:


Oga you're not crazy, any other question?
loud the volume abeg cheesy

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Nobody: 1:07am On Jan 04, 2020
Lamanii22:
You're not crazy Hun.. My now boyfriend waited 7 years......
7 yrs?? offpoint come and hear sumptin shocked

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Nobody: 1:09am On Jan 04, 2020
2special:
Likely she might dump you if she settles with her ex boyfriend but who knows

Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by BigDick70inch(m): 5:47am On Jan 04, 2020
Op..u r not craze but u jux "mad and foolish combined"

Well..aint here to shout alpha male or whatever..it is something I will never do..



U even lack self worth to accept..a girl..dat claimed not to have a feelin for u..while she was so fresh and young ..


Even..when I was a novice(during my predegree day in uni)..

I tried toasting a 100level girl for months as per I like her so much Oo..she was telling me she doesn't love me but like me excuse..

Had.. to ignore her for like 2 years..even tho shes always the first to say hi when we cross path...


Fast-forward to her 300l days..i realised she do fix her gaze more on me..only God knew what was going on thru her mind..

She do..seize every opportunity to talk to me but I never change..

Not because..i'm proud Oo but once my mind is made up..aint goin back


Again..i wooed one girl in my department back in uni too..but she was doing shakara(she said we dating Wud distract our studies)..
I showed her love,
care..
gave her enough attention..
Was jovial and make her so free with me..

I knew she..was into me cos she had do anything for me
There was a day..she invited me and my g to his house and cooked..

I refuse to eat the food which made her so furious and ended up telling me..she went thru the cooking wahala to see me eat her food Oo...


But when..i eventually locked my heart against her ehn..she even instruct her friend to beg on her behalf with knowing her wrong..

I never called nor chat her up sinx i left skool..

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Nobody: 7:43am On Jan 04, 2020
Lamanii22:
You're not crazy Hun.. My now boyfriend waited 7 years... Not like I didn't like him then but I was waving off that feeling... I was like God forbid I can never be in love with this kind of guy... You won't believe all the relationship I had never lasted... Although we started dating recently... But he told me he's been dating me for seven years... Imagine... He said he has never stopped loving me and that he'd never.. So I don't think you're crazy...

Thanks for sharing your own experience. I hope your union last a lifetime

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Nobody: 7:48am On Jan 04, 2020
lefulefu:
3 years shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked
after the main guy she was hoping on has dumped her u now available to take the remains lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
and u call urself an alpha male

I had this same thought earlier.. However,she left her ex because she caught him cheating on her.Moreover I don't mind if this was the case, I have my own story too.

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Nobody: 7:53am On Jan 04, 2020
BigDick70inch:
Op..u r not craze but u jux "mad and foolish combined"

Well..aint here to shout alpha male or whatever..it is something I will never do..



U even lack self worth to accept..a girl..dat claim not to have a feelin for u..while she was so fresh and young ..




Even..when I was a novice(during my predegree day in uni)..

I tried toasting a 100level girl for months as per I like her so much Oo..she was telling she doesn't love but like me excuse..

Had.. to ignore her for like 2 years..even tho shes always the first to say hi when we cross path...


Fast-forward to her 300l days..i realised she do fix her gaze more on me..only God knew what was going on thru her mind..

She di..seize every opportunity to talk to me but I never change..

Not because..i'm proud Oo but once my mind is made up..aint goin back


Again..i wooed one girl in my department back in uni too..but she was doing shakara(she said we dating Wud distract our studies)..
I showed her love,
care..
gave her enough attention..
Was jovial and make her so free with me..

I knew she..was into me cos she had do anything for me
There was a day..she invited me and my g to his house and cooked..

I refuse to eat the food which made her so furious and ended up telling me..she went thru the cooking wahala to see me eat her food Oo...


But when..i eventually locked my heart against her ehn..she even instruct her friend to beg on her behalf with knowing her wrong..

I never called nor chat her up sinx i left skool..


Wise man..
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Lamanii22(f): 7:57am On Jan 04, 2020
boiz2men:
you are wicked.

Poor guy. After you have been dumped repeatedly, you settled for him


It's not my fault too... I was young and naive... I was still a teenager when we first met... He was in his 20s then....

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Ifakiland(m): 7:58am On Jan 04, 2020
These are the kind of weak men you give birth to when you have sex missionary style with your wife...we convinced via doggy are tough, hard willed and don't take shit from anybody cos we know our worth.
You will always be a second best, enjoy.

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by boiz2men(m): 8:09am On Jan 04, 2020
Lamanii22:



It's not my fault too... I was young and naive... I was still a teenager when we first met... He was in his 20s then....

Not your fault, right

Why you now like him?

Time convinced you?

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Moz22: 8:39am On Jan 04, 2020
donstan18:
I don't know if you are crazy or not, but one thing I'm sure of is that it will be very annoying to find out that she isn't worth the stress and patience you passed through while waiting for 3 years.
you are completely wrong
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Moz22: 8:40am On Jan 04, 2020
veteranExboy:
Okay I'm shy right now
gay spotted

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Lamanii22(f): 8:45am On Jan 04, 2020
boiz2men:


Not your fault, right

Why you now like him?

Time convinced you?


Maybe I just realized.. I'm still young lol... Not like I wanna be married that soon.... I just accepted my feelings for him... Plus he is really kind, he isn't perfect but has the quality of a father,husband,teacher and boyfriend like all in one quality... Funny how I've never been as connected to anyone as I am with him.. We connect so effortlessly...



Although if I had waited a little longer, if I was still doing shakara.. He would have travelled out and I'd have lost him forever.. But God was still on my side, he got visa denial (i'm not saying it's a good thing).. I was the first person he called.. He told me everything, he was really down.. I was literally crying...

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Lamanii22(f): 8:46am On Jan 04, 2020
veteranExboy:


Thanks for sharing your own experience. I hope your union last a lifetime


Amen... Thank you hun
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by boiz2men(m): 8:58am On Jan 04, 2020
Lamanii22:



Maybe I just realized.. I'm still young lol... Not like I wanna be married that soon.... I just accepted my feelings for him... Plus he is really kind, he isn't perfect but has the quality of a father,husband,teacher and boyfriend like all in one quality... Funny how I've never been as connected to anyone as I am with him.. We connect so effortlessly...



Although if I had waited a little longer, if I was still doing shakara.. He would have travelled out and I'd have lost him forever.. But God was still on my side, he got visa denial (i'm not saying it's a good thing).. I was the first person he called.. He told me everything, he was really down.. I was literally crying...

He's well to do right? grin

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Richnerd69: 8:59am On Jan 04, 2020
Lamanii22:
You're not crazy Hun.. My now boyfriend waited 7 years... Not like I didn't like him then but I was waving off that feeling... I was like God forbid I can never be in love with this kind of guy...

I was forced to quote you, as I almost choked on my coffee . Can I know why? @the emboldened.

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Lamanii22(f): 9:02am On Jan 04, 2020
boiz2men:


He's well to do right? grin


He is okay.. Not like i'm dependent oo.. I'm not lazy.. If we work hand in hand.. We would build together...

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Lamanii22(f): 9:21am On Jan 04, 2020
Richnerd69:


I was forced to quote you, as I almost choked on my coffee . Can I know why? @the emboldened.


Lol.. I just didn't want to date someone in my area... His house isn't far from mine... Its even on the same street... And then when I was growing something happened... A girl's nude pictures was pasted everywhere in my neighbourhood.. And she's a girl from the area.. Her boyfriend set her up.. So I've always had that mind that every guy in my area's the same...
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by AntiWailer: 9:21am On Jan 04, 2020
Yes she knows he is low life

That 3 years his taste never change while she try other things.

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Fisher007: 9:22am On Jan 04, 2020
Lmao my brother Date but don't accept it as a relationship that will lead to marriage. Take your piece of the vessel and return her back to the street where she belongs.

My reason for the above sentence :

My brother why are you.complaining, she doesnt value you and she see you as an option. You are a low life to her. If you were really worth it initially she wouldn't make you wait that long. She has shared whatever she has to offer and still sharing it around.

Reverse the case that she asked you out and you waited 3 yrs to answer. Lol how will she treat you.

You see you must learn to treat people the way they treat you. Example ladies complain wealth/rich men treat them like shit but they forgot how they treated these men when he/they were poor and hustling.

My advice chop wella don't dull it. You can even have six on the side but don't dream or get to into it. Use a condom. Just date don't make it a relationship or something that can lead marriage.

Simple

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by naijazee2: 9:22am On Jan 04, 2020
Okay
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Sirmuel1(m): 9:22am On Jan 04, 2020
veteranExboy:


She's never tasted the forbidden fruit... don't ask how I got to know


Then don't be a Mumu like the ex cheesy

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by bamasite2: 9:23am On Jan 04, 2020
She be visa?

Mtcheeew

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Nobody: 9:24am On Jan 04, 2020
Lamanii22:
You're not crazy Hun.. My now boyfriend waited 7 years... Not like I didn't like him then but I was waving off that feeling... I was like God forbid I can never be in love with this kind of guy... You won't believe all the relationship I had never lasted... Although we started dating recently... But he told me he's been dating me for seven years... Imagine... He said he has never stopped loving me and that he'd never.. So I don't think you're crazy...
Story story, what else would he say to make you feel better, its ur type of heart I like to break

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