smat101:

[s][/s]iPrevail, she is a very hardworking, respectful and intelligent girl...
Beating her can NEVER make her rebellious instead it will make her very scared and embarrassed[s][/s].

Trash.

Beating hardly make any significant impact. Almost everyone here is suggesting you talk to the poor teenager and you are here rambling.

tedimola:
That will be the wrongest move. She has started doing what adults do, so treat her like one. Flogging will make her be more discrete later. You will never see jack again, and she will do times 100 of what you can ever imagine. Be wise. She needs counselling.

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spiralwedge:
Smat101,
1. The guy might not know she's 14. It's SM.
2. Though she's a minor, she's giving her consent. So, this isn't a rape, especially if the guy doesn't know her age. She will still have sex without your knowledge, but maybe best with her agemates. So, you need to intensify your counseling. You can deter the guy by responding to his FB chat or deleting his account and phone number.
3. Beating your sister shows you will be a wife beater. You display ignorance and entitlement to physically abuse her because "you feel you have the right or love"; same way you will do to your wife.

Hahaha...I can Never beat a grown up girl talk more of my wife. No Matter how stubborn she is...The reason I decided to discipline her was because I believe she is still a kid and needs some discipline...

LilMissFavvy:
What kind of training do parents give their children for God's sake? Why is your 14yrs old sister on FB? . I can recall the first time a guy began disturbing my life, I was 13yrs, I used to run from a man if he is too stubborn to leave me alone. A 27yrs old who is after a 14yr old is a wicked soul, he should be arrested. How can your mum be giving your sister opportunity to leave the house? My parents never ever gave my sisters and I such freedom. Asides church, salon, home tutorials, going to market etc., Why should your sister be given opportunities to leave the house such that such a young girl can fix a date with a man. The places I listed above are places she definitely would go along with her mum, or siblings, just like how it used to happen in my family. I agree that you beat up that bastard, but if you beat him up, do not maim him o, if you maim him giving him a disability, he would definitely come for you in future. Screenshot all the FB messages as well.

the world has changed. Kids now have phones . Data is cheap too. I had a neighbor whose dad was a abroad and the wife working on the island. Men used to come and pick their teenage girls for outings

My Guy She Was Brain Washed , Try Knw Her Friends 1st.

czarina:
Report the 27yr old idiot to the authorities. Your sister is a minor. You have evidence.


After that you can focus on talking properly to your sister. She needs counseling.

That is if there is proof that the guy knows that she is a minor.

If he doesn't and she didn't tell him about it in the course of their chats, then, there is no case for an attempt to commit statutory rape (supposing an attempt is even a crime on its own).

Then, if she has lied to the guy that she is 18+ (which is likely), then, a case can't be open for statutory rape.

But if the guy knows that she is a minor and still went ahead to talk about having sex with her, reporting to the police can be great. Although, I wouldn't be sure how he would be charged. The law can be vague, that is why it is hard to charge with attempted statutory rape or even with conspiracy to commit statutory rape.

Ishilove:

Okay nice one. You can use your goons but make sure you teach him a lesson so that when next he see small girls he will flee for his life and destiny.

This woman na action woman o.

Well, I seconded. I hate paedophiles

LilMissFavvy:
What kind of training do parents give their children for God's sake? Why is your 14yrs old sister on FB? . I can recall the first time a guy began disturbing my life, I was 13yrs, I used to run from a man if he is too stubborn to leave me alone. A 27yrs old who is after a 14yr old is a wicked soul, he should be arrested. How can your mum be giving your sister opportunity to leave the house? My parents never ever gave my sisters and I such freedom. Asides church, salon, home tutorials, going to market etc., Why should your sister be given opportunities to leave the house such that such a young girl can fix a date with a man. The places I listed above are places she definitely would go along with her mum, or siblings, just like how it used to happen in my family. I agree that you beat up that bastard, but if you beat him up, do not maim him o, if you maim him giving him a disability, he would definitely come for you in future. Screenshot all the FB messages as well.

So 14year olds don’t go to school, they just sit at home... they don’t have friends that can corrupt their minds.??...
the society is messed up... parents can only try....sexual corruption is everywhere, pornn, sexy music videos,sexy nollywood , Hollywood movies is just a click away....
if a parent doesn’t buy a 14year kid a phone, some of her friends will have it, they will easily initiate them into Facebook, Instagram and the rest from school...

Naira Marley and the rest isn’t making matters easy, if u try religion they will tell u it’s scam....the society has been reengineered for failure....the only option left is to learn from mistakes...let’s just hope it’s not a costly/deadly mistake

All of you advising him to beat that girl, I hope that when she collapse (God forbid) in his hand and the story makes front page, hope you won't turn against the OP for beating his sister?

Times have changed.
This generation is a spoilt one.

Even parents no longer allow teachers to beat their wards in school again.

OP, do whatever makes you happy.

Bro I don't think there's much you canndo pH
Unless you will take her to live with you in the city
The society we are in now is bad social media has done more bad than Good bro

You've her fb deactivate it
Give her small Nokia instead
Ban her from social media threaten her that you've an app that will be monitoring her pix on social media that if she join you will know

Ishilove:
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More oil on your head. Which kain useless rebellion is that? Na so fvck dey hungry am?

The beating should not be too much but make sure you slap some sense into her. Oniranu omo.

As for that despoiler of innocence, make sure you treat his fvck up. Keep chatting with him pretending to be your sis, set a fvck date with him then show up at the venue with some Oshodi thugs who will rearrange his dentition and shift his jaw. Oloriburuku omo ale

I didn't know this came from u.

smat101:
I Am Planing To Seriously Beat My Kid Sister 2moro Morning

What I was scared of is finally happening...
I've a lot to say but let me try to be brief...

My problem is that she is a minor and this guy is 27...

So this is what I plan to do, Flog her thoroughly very early tomorrow, then later talk to her again...
Then that bastard beat him up in the evening with two other guys...

I really love this girl and Want the best for her pls parents preferably how should I handle this matter .

OP tell her you saw a revelation that if she has any form of sex in the next 4 years that she’s going to die. Be serious with it and the consequence involved. You can plan with someone to play pastor to really instill fear into her about the revelation. You can even cry that u don’t want her dead.
While I use next 4 years Is cox the lie may not sell again by when she’s 18 esp if she don enter uni. At least she go don get more sense about life by then

since she's never expreance that thing counsil her that even if they use condom she will end of haven preagnancy and the world would turn to her

Vortex369:
She has fallen in love. That is the aspect that escapes you commentators.

When emotions fuel a decision, beatings dont cut it.

Arrange with a girl to privately call your sister claiming to be girlfriend of the pedo guy and saw their chat about sex and threaten to beat and disgrace her if she dares come close to her supposed man

Her fragile heart will crack. Then follow up by saying that a strange girl call you and warned to pour her acid cos she is sleeping with her guy. Then arrange some nice canes on her ass. Make it hurt that she can not lie down for sex.

Slap makes no sense and looks too mature for her. Use fresh cane and Arrange 12 strokes on same spot on her ass. That will be part of her memory. Cane the ass enough so she cant sit or lay down on it. Make see how she wants to lie down for Bleep.

Stop being too direct in age of AI. It don't work

smat101 this is the best advice you can get. Don't be too direct in this AI age

what if he is currently reading this post

Why am I of the opinion that the bastard is on this forum

Wrong move

Just counsel her and teach her about sex education

What I found out is.. Pickin wey won spoill go spoil l no matter what

1StopRudeness:


So 14year olds don’t go to school, they just sit at home... they don’t have friends that can corrupt their minds.??...
the society is messed up... parents can only try....sexual corruption is everywhere, pornn, sexy music videos,sexy nollywood , Hollywood movies is just a click away....
if a parent doesn’t buy a 14year kid a phone, some of her friends will have it, they will easily initiate them into Facebook, Instagram and the rest from school...

Naira Marley and the rest isn’t making matters easy, if u try religion they will tell u it’s scam....the society has been reengineered for failure....the only option left is to learn from mistakes...let’s just hope it’s not a costly/deadly mistake

As in our artist are not helping matters with musical videos

You want to flog her, then go back to where you came from leaving her to herself again? Does that make any sense to you? What she needs at this point is advice and attention from you. Show her you love her and let her know you saw the chat but won't tell your Mom because you know she won't do such. Even though you know she planned to, act like you don't know. Flogging doesn't fix a child, they flogged me till I bleed, I still did what I wanted to do. But there was this time my mom told me she was disappointed in me, that word got to my soul that was when I started changing. I love you mom.

makydebbie:
I'm going through this same thing with my 16 years old cousin. I really don't know what to do anymore because I've told her the dangers of her actions yet she's still going out without letting anyone know only return hours later and I don't want to resort to beatings because I'm sure it'll make her even more rebellious.

if beating make her more rebellious,then increase beatings until she can no longer be rebellious

fergieboy:
Wrong move

Just counsel her and teach her about sex education

What I found out is.. Pickin wey won spoill go spoil l no matter what

but if them over pamper pikin na una go still blame the parents say them no bring am up wella. Trash

makydebbie:
I'm going through this same thing with my 16 years old cousin. I really don't know what to do anymore because I've told her the dangers of her actions yet she's still going out without letting anyone know only return hours later and I don't want to resort to beatings because I'm sure it'll make her even more rebellious.

chai
then try a professional counsellor before this issue goes out of hand

"Spare the rod spoil the child" . I would advice you to beat her and the draw her close.

The most stupid advice here is from those suggesting fighting your fellow man. The only problem here is that she's a minor and should be protected but in this our generation, never look down on any guy. Some are hardened criminals and village cultists looking for who to use as target practice. And a fight might ensue in the process and either of you get injured.

I suggest you either talk to your sister and the idiot that's planning to abuse her. Or better still, use the law enforcement agencies on him but also remember, this is Nigeria. Depending on who that guy is, nothing might come out of the case.

smat101:
[b]UpDate[\b] I didn't beat her this morning, but I gave her hot slaps and then counsel her. She cried and from the look of things the cry was very remorseful...
Thanks to Ishilove
Enwhen
eduman365
Misstearious
flyingdutchman
Lexusgs430
airex...
And Everybody that gave meaningful advice..

Remaining that guy, I've really thought about it...
I will just take some guys with me in the evening and warn Him thoroughly without being physical unless if he starts it... And make it clear to him that she's underage and he should stay clear...

Way to go. Going forward please keep a closer eye on her and don't stop sounding sex education in her ears. Kids of this generation are bigger than us

AwkaetitiBabe:
Nigerians and corporal punishment. He should simply put together gory pictures of pregnant teen going through vvf, aids patient, man arrested for sleeping with a teen, societal condemnation, such subtle conditioning are more effective than beating.

Nice but beating should be added to reset the brain first

Did I say 14yr olds do not go to school? You think all parents are care free? School has timing, and a parent should know when school will be over, and the time a child should return. My dad would always call me to ask why I was 5mins late arriving from school, and I would explain. Despite the strictness of my parents, especially dad, I still loved them, loved my dad far more than my mum. As we grew we understood they meant well. Some parents do not know how to train a female child.

1StopRudeness:


So 14year olds don’t go to school, they just sit at home... they don’t have friends that can corrupt their minds.??...
the society is messed up... parents can only try....sexual corruption is everywhere, pornn, sexy music videos,sexy nollywood , Hollywood movies is just a click away....
if a parent doesn’t buy a 14year kid a phone, some of her friends will have it, they will easily initiate them into Facebook, Instagram and the rest from school...

Naira Marley and the rest isn’t making matters easy, if u try religion they will tell u it’s scam....the society has been reengineered for failure....the only option left is to learn from mistakes...let’s just hope it’s not a costly/deadly mistake