Hi guys, sorry for the disturbance. I am pretty popular here, but had to open a new account:

A little about me: I am a lady of 27 years and I own a digital marketing and branding firm. I have not been in a relationship in the last 2 years, not because I don't want to, but because I am being careful not to date the wrong person.

So, I met a man late last year, when I went for a meeting. His company was to award a contract to my firm, so i had to see him in person as I am the owner of the firm, and he is the owner of his. As soon as as he entered the board room, and i set my eyes on him, i liked him (that was the first time such ever happen to me).

As time went on, we started talking, and our relationship moved from professional to friendship. He has told me of his past relationships and how he has been used and cheated on by his past girlfriends. And his belief now is that anyone that gets close to him definitely wants something.

The thing is I like this guy genuinely and I think he fancies me too. He is 80% what I want in a man. But his past relationship has really messed up his mind to thinking that the only thing girls want from him is his money.

My question is this:
How do I let him know that I like him genuinely and not really because of his money.

Intelligentbabe:
Hi guys, sorry for the disturbance. I am pretty popular here, but had to open a new account:

A little about me: I am a lady of 27 years and I own a digital marketing and branding firm. I have not been in a relationship in the last 2 years, not because I don't want to, but because I am being careful not to date the wrong person.

So, I met a man late last year, when I went for a meeting. His company was to award a contract to my firm, so i had to see him in person as I am the owner of the firm, and he is the owner of his. As soon as as he entered the board room, and i set my eyes on him, i liked him (that was the first time such ever happen to me).

As time went on, we started talking, and our relationship moved from professional to friendship. He has told me of his past relationships and how he has been used and cheated on by his past girlfriends. And his belief now is that anyone that gets close to him definitely wants something.

The thing is I like this guy genuinely and I think he fancies me too. He is 80% what I want in a man. But his past relationship has really messed up his mind to thinking that the only thing girls want from him is his money.

My question is this:
How do I let him know that I like him genuinely and not really because of his money.

By making your money

Hmm
I will leave this for the gods of our land
Or ask a bleeping pastor

You've got to work it out na

Be urself,

value him as much as u value ursef,

wen it come to business with him be a little bit strict but nt too much oo as dat will signify dat u know Wat you are doing

Create tym for ur relationship but don't push yourself on him, like don't b carried away cuz he might not take it like u re wallowing in love.

talk about ur vision and aspirations as dat will tell more about you to him

Den don't try to be all over him, I think av said dat before sef.

Don't start d "come and meet my family" thingy as d relationship is still embryonic.

Omoge biko let him first put it across to you that he wants you before talking the convincing talk with him. Na mouth you go use talk am first before acting it.


By the way, ensure he pays for all services rendered by your company to his...dont mix pleasure with business biko. Good luck.

Intelligentbabe:
Hi guys, sorry for the disturbance. I am pretty popular here, but had to open a new account:

A little about me: I am a lady of 27 years and I own a digital marketing and branding firm. I have not been in a relationship in the last 2 years, not because I don't want to, but because I am being careful not to date the wrong person.

So, I met a man late last year, when I went for a meeting. His company was to award a contract to my firm, so i had to see him in person as I am the owner of the firm, and he is the owner of his. As soon as as he entered the board room, and i set my eyes on him, i liked him (that was the first time such ever happen to me).

As time went on, we started talking, and our relationship moved from professional to friendship. He has told me of his past relationships and how he has been used and cheated on by his past girlfriends. And his belief now is that anyone that gets close to him definitely wants something.

The thing is I like this guy genuinely and I think he fancies me too. He is 80% what I want in a man. But his past relationship has really messed up his mind to thinking that the only thing girls want from him is his money.

My question is this:
How do I let him know that I like him genuinely and not really because of his money.

Why worry about a person when we full here. Dm me ojare let us mukulu muke this new year. You go dey alright

sorry for the disturbance. I am pretty popular here, but had to open a new account:

I love this line die
I fit swear with my left blokos na one of our feminist hanties be this. Men are scum hanties.

Since he feels that way...about women wanting his money.be giving your own money...unless d guy know wetin him dey do,but him no know wetin dey do am.

so, you didnt see any of those broke guys abi?

Soft work dear. Add value to his life. You both are entrepreneurs, find ways to help his business and personal life grow without trying too hard.

HE MIGHT BE RIGHT, YOU PROBABLY LOVE HIM BECAUSE HE HAS MONEY. WOULD YOU HAVE FELT THE SAME FOR HIM HAD HE BEEN BROKE?

Randomly start up a conversation with him involving how girls are after guys who are on a high financially. Make it interactive (don't be the only one talking, so he won't suspect you're going somewhere). Then tell him about how you're not into wealthy guys because of their wealth, be creative about it. That's if you're being honest. This will definitely attract some impromptu tests, so you should be mindful about that.

Ehn...... Its simple just spoil him instead but use your sense in doing so, make e no be mugu fall guy man chop

What do i know.... Let the oracles here do justice

Shibaraba , which day will you repent Mukulu muke kee you there

Shibaraba:

Why worry about a person when we full here. Dm me ojare let us mukulu muke this new year. You go dey alright

sorry for the disturbance. I am pretty popular here, but had to open a new account:

I love this line die
I fit swear with my left blokos na one of our feminist hanties be this. Men are scum hanties.

just say ur pant got wet dripping all over. Board room kwa bed ni. Tell us the full story, Inside life

I definitely plan on making more money

healthserve:




By making your money

OlawaleBammie:
You've got to work it out na

Be urself,

value him as much as u value ursef,

wen it come to business with him be a little bit strict but nt too much oo as dat will signify dat u know Wat you are doing

Create tym for ur relationship but don't push yourself on him, like don't b carried away cuz he might not take it like u re wallowing in love.

talk about ur vision and aspirations as dat will tell more about you to him

Den don't try to be all over him, I think av said dat before sef.

Don't start d "come and meet my family" thingy as d relationship is still embryonic.

Thanks for this

sisisioge:
Omoge biko let him first put it across to you that he wants you before talking the convincing talk with him. Na mouth you go use talk am first before acting it.


By the way, ensure he pays for all services rendered by your company to his...dont mix pleasure with business biko. Good luck.

Thanks for the advice. And as for mixing pleasure with business, I won't make the mistake

An intelligentbabe who is pretty popular here, owns a digital marketing and branding firm, yet does not know how to genuinely convey to a man that she is interested in him and not his money.

You are either very stvpid, or you are most definitely interested in him because of his status.

My bet is on the latter, because not once in your OP did you write anything about the qualities you admire in this man. All you really went on about is the 'money'.

As a matter of fact, I'm changing my bet - I want to stake it all on the certainty that you are stvpid AND interested in him because of money. Two for two.

Rubbish

Shibaraba:

Why worry about a person when we full here. Dm me ojare let us mukulu muke this new year. You go dey alright

sorry for the disturbance. I am pretty popular here, but had to open a new account:

I love this line die
I fit swear with my left blokos na one of our feminist hanties be this. Men are scum hanties.

Lol. If you swear with your left blokos, you will eventually loose it because you are wrong

Intelligentbabe:


Lol. If you swear with your left blokos, you will eventually loose it because you are wrong

Okay I won't swear. I live my blokos

payperpost:
so, you didnt see any of those broke guys abi?

I just knew someone will say something like this.

Well, if you must know i have dated a broke guy before,and he ended up stealing from me. And just so you know, I was helping him financially too.

So, Yes! I didn't see any.

justnock:
Soft work dear. Add value to his life. You both are entrepreneurs, find ways to help his business and personal life grow without trying too hard.

Thanks

You are already working. You own your own firm. You are independent and you are doing well for yourself.

If all these ain't enough to convince him that you can't be after his money, then, dear, don't bother convincing him at all.

crackhaus:
An intelligentbabe who is pretty popular here, owns a digital marketing and branding firm, yet does not know how to genuinely convey to a man that she is interested in him and not his money.

You are either very stvpid, or you are most definitely interested in him because of his status.

My bet is on the latter, because not once in your OP did you write anything about the qualities you admire in this man. All you really went on about is the 'money'.

As a matter of fact, I'm changing my bet - I want to stake it all on the certainty that you are stvpid AND interested in him because of money. Two for two.

Rubbish

It is obviuos that something fundamentally wrong with you, if not i don't see why you should call someone you don't know 'stupid'. Can't you find a way to say whatever you have to say without insult?

Dude go and work on yourself instead of looking for who to pour your frustration on.

Intelligentbabe:


It is obviuos that something fundamentally wrong with you, if not i don't see why you should call someone you don't know 'stupid'. Can't you find a way to say whatever you have to say without insult?

Dude go and work on yourself instead of looking for who to pour your frustration on.

You're stvpid is a fact, not an insult.

You have all you 'claim' to have and still need help convincing a man you're not after his money.

So yes, it's either you're stvpid or you think everyone here is stvpid.

Intelligentbabe:


It is obviuos that something fundamentally wrong with you, if not i don't see why you should call someone you don't know 'stupid'. Can't you find a way to say whatever you have to say without insult?

Dude go and work on yourself instead of looking for who to pour your frustration on.

Let's do it this way Adam a. Since you love him and money isn't the problem. Shower him with occasional gifts like cooking meals once in a while. Weekend spoiling. Buying him gifts in arrears you see him deficient. Make him feel its free meanwhile you're over billing him and using the extra for all these perks. Chai I'm evil By this doing you take off the assumption of him being leeched to him been buoyed and trusted higher.. Not to cum talk about hot sex after fresh egusi soup with freshly killed and smoked rabbit meat and palm winetto augment the chemical reaction

Intelligentbabe:


It is obviuos that something fundamentally wrong with you, if not i don't see why you should call someone you don't know 'stupid'. Can't you find a way to say whatever you have to say without insult?

Dude go and work on yourself instead of looking for who to pour your frustration on.

Let's do it this way Adam a. Since you love him and money isn't the problem. Shower him with occasional gifts like cooking meals once in a while. Weekend spoiling. Buying him gifts in arrears you see him deficient. Make him feel its free meanwhile you're over billing him and using the extra for all these perks. Chai I'm evil

healthserve:


Let's do it this way Adam a. Since you love him and money isn't the problem. Shower him with occasional gifts like cooking meals once in a while. Weekend spoiling. Buying him gifts in arrears you see him deficient. Make him feel its free meanwhile you're over billing him and using the extra for all these perks. Chai I'm evil By this doing you take off the assumption of him being leeched to him been buoyed and trusted higher.. Not to cum talk about hot sex after fresh egusi soup with freshly killed and smoked rabbit meat and palm winetto augment the chemical reaction

Guy you bad gaan.

I actually caught one of my smallies pulling this stunt. Using my own money to buy me gifts.
As if it's by force to buy gift

crackhaus:

Guy you bad gaan.

I actually caught one of my smallies pulling this stunt. Using my own money to buy me gifts.
As if it's by force to buy gift

Seriously bro it takes an evil and twisted mind to come up with schemes like this.

crackhaus:

You're stvpid is a fact, not an insult.

You have all you 'claim' to have and still need help convincing a man you're not after his money.

So yes, it's either you're stvpid or you think everyone here is stvpid.

It is well with your soul

Intelligentbabe:

Thanks for the advice. And as for mixing pleasure with business, I won't make the mistake

Be weary of taking on damaged goods as projects. You have confirmed previous relationships have messed his head up.

id4sho:
just say ur pant got wet dripping all over. Board room kwa bed ni. Tell us the full story, Inside life

SMH