ultimate77:


Egbon, sebi I thought Overtaking is allowed. May be she sees better potentials in me.

ultimate77:

aaHahahhh my friend says "money can't bring joy and peace if a person is toxic."Besides, I can marry her now comfortably. But it's cool there is extra source of income before this. I am a skilled educated professional and not hungry as well.

Chi59:

Be very careful with her. Because the truth is, her family might be aware and in support of the guy from abroad. I see you as a sensible and careful guy.
If you can, keep her at arms length, be very professional with her. Teach her the Java, let her pay you. If she wishes to take the relationship any further, she should break it up with the guy in your presence (voice call, video call) and introduce you properly to her people. Nothing else would do.

samdavjustin:



Bro women don’t leave already made men for potential men ooo. Your love will be put to test when yankee guy comes back with money and gifts for her

Erediauwa:
"She had told me she has a guy outside the
country who she said want to marry her, she
loves him but then, she doesn't know what is
going on because she can't seem to get over
me and she said she knows it's not infatuation."
















This is simply the "betrayal of trust" and a bitchy attitude from her.

Didn't she know that the dude hustling abroad was uneducated before saying "yes" to him?

And you Op, you're still putting your big head into another man's compound with the hope of chasing him out?

Damn dude, she sees you as the assistant technology boyfriend.

"Commot your hand for soldier man salary"

safarigirl:
lol, see advice.

This is the advice some people are looking for here, sleep with her two or three times, that is how your daughter will be slept with and dumped by an idiot.

Later, one unfortunate woman will procreate with this one. God help women

PropaMan:
What a self centred, greedy and lazy guy you are, you don’t have a business yet but you want to get married, I’m irritated by your guts, why can’t you find your own lady and grow with her, you already made up your mind to marry someone under two weeks, honestly you are a joke if you think you’ll succeed. Look at the way you’re comparing yourself with another man like a kid, fam let the girl be, she’s not for you.

ultimate77:


Not to sound harsh.. i don't have a business running nigga i am not unemployed. as a matter of fact we mightn't be on same level. that i posted and it graced front page doesn't mean i am a clown. just catch fun and exit bro.

BSomebody:
That girl seems smarter than you. Sorry to say, but the truth is, she do not love you. She like your techy personality and want your attention for obvious reasons.

She have observed you closely and carefully carved her personality to suit your person and also to portray herself as some amazing angel you have been looking for.

That girl won’t marry you. She is just too smooth for her age. You should becareful.

Erediauwa:
"She had told me she has a guy outside the
country who she said want to marry her, she
loves him but then, she doesn't know what is
going on because she can't seem to get over
me and she said she knows it's not infatuation."


U have spoke well jare













This is simply the "betrayal of trust" and a bitchy attitude from her.

Didn't she know that the dude hustling abroad was uneducated before saying "yes" to him?

And you Op, you're still putting your big head into another man's compound with the hope of chasing him out?

Damn dude, she sees you as the assistant technology boyfriend.

"Commot your hand for soldier man salary"

Erediauwa:
"She had told me she has a guy outside the
country who she said want to marry her, she
loves him but then, she doesn't know what is
going on because she can't seem to get over
me and she said she knows it's not infatuation."


God bless you. That is all I have to say















This is simply the "betrayal of trust" and a bitchy attitude from her.

Didn't she know that the dude hustling abroad was uneducated before saying "yes" to him?

And you Op, you're still putting your big head into another man's compound with the hope of chasing him out?

Damn dude, she sees you as the assistant technology boyfriend.

"Commot your hand for soldier man salary"

sadoroy:



Look at the way you are talking about it like karma means nothing to you. Let me tell you something I am sure of, "it will end in tears"


This thing you are doing ehn, I did it one time. I was busy snatching girls from their GF's here and there. Bad sharp guy doing survival of the fittest just like you said "overtaking is allowed"

Bro, when I reaped everything I sowed, I cried so much I needed more tears but they were nowhere to be found.

Now them no born me well to dey philander.

Bro, there is always a price for snatching girls all because she fell in love with you and all. If she can meet you within days and forget her guys hustling for her overseas, then who are you "obalende silicon valley?"

The way you will be jilted ehn, even your ancestors will read it on paper.

Best thing, she loves me, infatuation shit, or not, cool. But if you love yourself, let her be please. Imagine you are the guy abroad. Imagine how you felt when your gf treated you the way she did? Imagine the way the guy will feel when she comes. What if it becomes brutal? Cult wars and shit? All for a woman you could have said hi to and moved on.

You will get your own girl, boy. Leave her and face your damn business.

DNSPro:


The guy might even be the one sponsoring her education.

Sikay19:

This is too much for me to read this morning. I will comment when i get the summary of the whole story from the comments section. Btw, try to proofread your post next time, too many typo errors herein, good morning.

PharoahIII:
Our elders say that on the day it is appointed for the goat to die, it asks “what can the butcher do to me?” This op wants to tempt a woman? Ah, would it not be even better to tempt the gods than tempt a woman? This girl dy use op play BTTS. She has put him on a very very long thing indeed, even longer that the River Benue. I can only imagine the shock that he will be in when she finally breaks up with him. The text would read something like this:
...you know I told you right from the very start, right from the onset that I had a boyfriend abroad, and how my whole family likes him, and also how I said I liked him too, and that I could not choose between the two of you. Well, I have now made up my...(this is the point where the op will faint)

BlindedIrony:
Before i start writing, I must say you sound naive. I will tell you why in a minute. Your naivety puts your age from 25 to 35; either that or you haven't had a lot of experience with women. Now, I am going to tell you why I think you are naive.

Firstly, the fact that you want to marry a girl that you have not had the time to get to know; it shows you don't get laid often. It is a syndrome among men in your situation. You can take a step back and think whether you really know this girl. Does your attraction stem from her beauty? I bet it is because you want to lay a pipe in a certain place.

Secondly, the lady clearly wanted sex. She already communicated with you that she has somebody else (a beta male provider), but she wanted you. She wanted to be laid by you because you were not salivating over her earlier like the rest of the 95% of males around her. Women are attracted to men who don't give them approval. She already told you she wanted something with you (and probably hoped you will keep your mouth shut after the hookup). Someone she can bone until the abroad guy comes home.

Thirdly, her attraction level was high. All you had to do was invite her out for a drink the same day she expressed her feelings, and later take her home to satisfy her needs. She already had a high attraction for you, so things would be very easy. You screwed this up with too much talking (probably spending a lot of time chatting or talking on the phone)- now, the alpha personality you projected didn't rhyme with the character she was expecting. She saw you as one, and that's why she was open to you (NB: Women don't usually make that kind of movie especially if you two never have great rapport). She saw you as a distant alpha male working on his purpose, and I sincerely hope you haven't screwed it up that badly.

Now, you have gone ahead and behaved like the rest of the 95% guys she knows. You will be friendzoned. This is because her attraction has probably decreased. Good luck getting what you want. Oh! Also, she has other men screwing her as I write lol You said she had 8 men, and she removed 6, while two (abroad guy and you) only remain. You are so naive about women!

Oh let me know how it goes.

ultimate77:

aaHahahhh my friend says "money can't bring joy and peace if a person is toxic."Besides, I can marry her now comfortably. But it's cool there is extra source of income before this. I am a skilled educated professional and not hungry as well.