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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by CeterisXVII: 10:30am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos: Ifyjos: Ifyjos: You are still trying to justify your silly actions. Nobody is blaming your daughter. They are blaming you, and blaming the guy, more..... Why should a guy who has no job, no steady income, no lifelong goals, no educational qualification, and who can barely feed himself.... be getting someone else's daughter, pregnant??! Should that have been his priority? Or your own? Look, don't let me deceive you....more insults will continue to come, as long as you are living at the mercy of others. And as long as you do not improve yourself, and change your haughty attitude. So better develop a thick skin to all those insults, and learn to ignore them. Or develop a coping mechanism, so that it doesn't affect you, much. If the guy was a decent professional that could afford to take entire care of you and the child, without any input from your family, then there would be very little insults, from anybody. That is the truth. It is sad, that 5 years after, nothing has improved in his life or your own. Worse still, no single member of your guy's family is even helping both of you, with anything. So how do you want your own family, to respect you or him? How? |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Vanzcharles(m): 10:32am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Okay, if you say so then why NOT put HER OUT of HER misery try reconciling HER and her fiance bavk. If you ask HER for forgiveness she WOULD NOT react well knowing all what she has lost due to your act. By the way what about HER fiance? Has he moved ON? Ifyjos: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Vloml222(f): 10:33am On Jan 08, 2020 |
I would have doubted such story but seriously alot ,I mean alot of unimaginable things happens these days,many have experienced n even can tell but let's save that for another day.My dear ifyjos(OP),I wasnt even shocked on what you did,you know why? You just young n naive ,that's one. (2).you weren't guided on the mistake you made 5years ago,you where scolded,insulted n even casted with words by the years,n you lost your trust n confidence in your self n in your family..n the only one person that comforted you I guess was your baby daddy.n that's why you have so much believe and trust in him.you could kill for him.. know that feeling.it would have only make enough sense if the guy was worth it.but your up shows ,he doesn't even deserve a slap from you to your sister. MY DEAR! Your sister doesn't hate you or look you less. Have you ever stop .,or rather take a pause and place your self in her shoes.it is not easy for her,like you said shes the bread winner of the family...n there you are a liability n painful again you arent even waking up to reality, you still stuck with that one mistake 5years ago,believing in a boy ,that placed you in a family way at a tender age...anyways dear, your sister wants the best life for you,you should be in school ,pursing your dreams ,not wallowing with some irresponsible man..YES you made that mistake ,but dear you have your life a long way to go..you are just 20 n not 50..you should have focus on making your life better for your kid,you dont have to wait for baby daddy or even your sister..... N what where you thinking ,that your sister should open a business for you,like seriously ,youcant even handle your shits together left alone business...n let me tell you something remove that clause "US".....focus on your self..I make a bet with you today...if that guy I mean your baby daddy makes it big tomorrow,that guy wont give a Bleep about you...he just been around because you are only is option for now.... N for what you did to your sister...dear that's inhumanity No matter what she did to you,,said to you ....you had no right to slap her ,n jeopardising all she has laboured for....its an UNFORGIVABLE ACT you did...you have ruined your own family..even if she forgive you ,she will always be scarred for life ....but you dont have a choice here ,you have to own up for what you have done...Tell the truth....Go over to her fiance, tell him everything you did..before it's too late....it will be a different one if your sister ended up dead......May God have mercy on...n may your sins never affect your kid..... N one more thing if all this over,go close to God Focus n work on yourself,your trust should be on God n not man.... Make yourself a better woman n mother. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Gloriagee(f): 10:34am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Typical Nigerian. Calling God after wickedness. Do the better plans God has for you include lying on your sister and breaking her relationship. Let me explain something to you about the way God works. He blesses the works of your hands. Which work are you doing? He is also angry with the wicked every day but ready to forgive. Ifyjos: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by blesskewe(f): 10:37am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos:As the senior sis, did u think it was easy for her to accept that u were pregnant at a very young age. If she want u to be alone, don't u think she would have set u up with something Because me personally won't finance u when I know u would use it to feed a lazy guy 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by midnighter(f): 10:38am On Jan 08, 2020 |
CeterisXVII: You better stop answering her before you irritate yourself...yesterday even the small midnight snack I was taking wanted to sour in my mouth as I was reading the story...this girls character is so disgusting it put me off my food Wallahi I swear I am so grateful for my annoying sisters who can never sink to do me like this smh 3 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by cappucino925(m): 10:40am On Jan 08, 2020 |
what you did was too Bad...... do you know what is feels like for a relationship and a life time marriage to be cancelled?...... The only way out of this is to confess and ask for forgiveness I Pray your elder sister has a forgiving heart ....and to those fools who encouraged you to do this I pity their future don't let your emotions lead You into Bad toughts |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Vanzcharles(m): 10:41am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Now, do you know why your conscience pricks you every now and then and why your guy doesnt feel it.. Because it is blood and you have hurt HER and you know it, keeping silent Will NOT make it better. Now what if the guy moves ON marry another woman and your sis get to hear of it. Do you know what you've just did you've destroyed HER UNION. Ifyjos: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by comtem2011: 10:44am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos:You are responsible for making her loose her job dear. By the way, which planet are you from cos you are so adamant and unrepentant. Anyways, you are naive, that's why you are still bragging about this your smoker husband. By the time he is set to deal with you, ur eye go clear one time. 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by divinelypruned(f): 10:45am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos:He takes care of you? wow, why not go and live with him in his squatting apartment with your child, I can guess you love him so much, go and stay with him anywhere he is. You don't want your parents to throw you out but you have the mind to carry out evil against your sister and with who, a guy that can't even pay his bills. If I may ask what has he achieved in the past five years you are together. My dear you need help. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Mom007(f): 10:45am On Jan 08, 2020 |
You are a real problem child and you will still suffer for what you did to a sister who was only trying to rescue you from the foolish road you decided to follow. You got pregnant and had a child outside wedlock, instead of comporting yourself, trying to learn a skill or trying to go back to school to better your life, you still clung to wayward baby daddy who cannot even marry you and put you in his house. You even bring him into your family home to continue your rubbish. Your sister is trying to correct you yet see how you repay her.. You are everything a parent pray against in a child. One who will not learn from mistake. Nonsense. 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Acidosis(m): 10:46am On Jan 08, 2020 |
tosyne2much: True sha.. Unbelievable stuff |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 10:48am On Jan 08, 2020 |
I make people hair at home Gloriagee: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 10:51am On Jan 08, 2020 |
No I don’t know because I’m not in her shoes and I don’t want to be in her shoes too , I regret my actions and I wish I didn’t do it in the first place , that’s why I came here seeking for advice because I do care and love her so much , I just want her to be happy again cappucino925: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Vanzcharles(m): 10:53am On Jan 08, 2020 |
People Will come here seeking for advice and then they WOULD still BE arguing with you 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 10:53am On Jan 08, 2020 |
It was my wish to go back to school but my parents didn’t send me back and what do you expect me to do? To go and do prostitution just for school? By the way who school help ? Anyway I want to learn tailoring but I don’t have the money yet but I trust my God , this new year will be great for me . Mom007: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Gloriagee(f): 10:56am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Which is a start. I don't look down on you for that but surely you know you can be a lot more. Do you have your SSCE? Do you want to own a salon? Can you work in an established one so you learn about their processes, Billing etc? What are your life goals and how are you working to achieve them? As you can see, even after your sister lost her job and fiance, still your issues remain. Work on bettering yourself and no one will care that you are a single mum Ifyjos: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by rita25(f): 10:58am On Jan 08, 2020 |
AND WANT TO DESTROY YOUR SISTER....YOU BE THE REAL ENEMY WITHIN ASWEAR... U BETTER CHANGE THAN DEY RUN YOUR MOUTH..YOU WIL;L LIVE TO REGRET YOUR ACTIONS IF YOU DONT CORRECT THEM NOW.PLEASE CORRECT THEM.GOD WILL TOUCH THEM TO FORGIVE YOU.IF HE PUTS YOU FIRST HE SHOULD STABILISE GET A JOB AND MARRY YOU AND CREATE A STABLE HOME FOR HIS DAUGHTER NOT ACTING CHILDISH AND SETTING YOU AGAINST YUR FAMILY. Ifyjos: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Alwaysachick: 10:59am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Yustash001: Compliwhat.....Op is just plain useless and heartless and stupid. You will reap the consequences of your action soon. Wait, school fees and other bills will soon come calling. You will soon know who the enemy is, your sis or boy friend? Silly thing, make sure you inform her about how you ruined her relationship now to see if there can be remedies. Hain? Your sister? I wonder what you will do if were a friend. . So things like this happen? I'm � |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Codyt(m): 10:59am On Jan 08, 2020 |
ojun50:Damnn too far. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Codyt(m): 11:02am On Jan 08, 2020 |
sholay2011:A guy that'd probably abandon her later. Lol Bad move sis Just try out to her fiancé and confess. Explain why also. 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Bejusttoall: 11:03am On Jan 08, 2020 |
SangoOlukosoOba: Two wrongs can never make a right nah. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 11:05am On Jan 08, 2020 |
I didn’t finish secondary school and i don’t have SSCE certificate , but I want to learn tailoring so I can be a professional fashion designer , but I’m not working on it yet because I have low self esteem Gloriagee: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Malawian(m): 11:07am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos:Yes. Put it all in writing. Your sister's main issue is loss of her fiance. Hope you have found somewhere to live where your sister wont get to you after all is said and done. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 11:09am On Jan 08, 2020 |
It’s not a big deal if we cannot afford her school fees , she will stay at home until the money come but God will provide for us Alwaysachick: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Alwaysachick: 11:10am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos: Flimsy thing. Just get out of the site already and go do the right thing . 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Alwaysachick: 11:12am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos: My dear go and carry sand and ensure that child is in school don't direct your wickedness to her 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 11:12am On Jan 08, 2020 |
I don’t have anywhere to go Malawian: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Gloriagee(f): 11:16am On Jan 08, 2020 |
What does having low self esteem have to do with learning tailoring. When you wake up in the morning, Tell your self, I am awesome, I am blessed, I am fabulous. Time waits for no one, start the learning as early as you can. Ifyjos: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 11:17am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos: There are some spiritual deficiencies in your life which made you get to that extent to hurt your sister. Temperance and longsuffering are key virtue the Holy Spirit gives to people who are in correct relationship with Jesus to enable them with any situation according to the will of God. First thing first, seek for salvation from sin and the root of bitterness entrenched within you by repenting of your sinful ways and believe in Jesus for the salvation of your soul. Thereafter, you can see your Pastor for counsel. Do it God's way and it shall be well with you now and in eternity. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 11:20am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Thanks for your suggestions. God bless u Gloriagee: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 11:21am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Thank you so much Oluvan: |
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