Hi elders in the house, I'm a lady, I'm 21 years old. There's this guy I've been dating for about 3 years, we got along so fast that it feels like I've known him all my life, he's in his final year and I'm in my third year, not in the same school though.

He used to call and text often until middle last year, he stopped calling like he used to, I still do the calling, but I got tired, he wasn't reciprocating, when I complained, he said he's always busy, I feel that if he loves me like he claims, he will always check on me, whenever we're together, the vibes of the relationship is still there, but when we aren't together, he's a different person.

There was a time I broke up, I blocked him, he found a way to reach me and we ironed things out, he changed for 2 weeks before he went to his normal self. He answers to my needs guys, he has been paying my rent since my first year in school, he gives me 10k every 2 weeks, he pays for my hair when I need him to + other stuffs too.

Do you think he can change or do I just leave the relationship?? Please ignore the errors, I'm not perfect.

...you both should sit down and talk it out, then decide if you need to break up.

Women are something else.
What do women want? How do you expect him to make all those monies he spent on you if he’s not busy
You enjoy all these cos he’s a busy man and hardworking. Go and date a broke man if you need maximum attention!!!

A great fool is always ungrateful.....


Just because of call, you wanna call off the relationship and destroy those good memories you share together?


Maybe a new guy is shaking your legs at the moment, but be rest assured, that same new guy will also exhibit one character that would make you wanna break up with him.

Fareee123:
Hi elders in the house,I'm a Lady, I'm 21 years old,there's this guy I've been dating for about 3 years,we got along so fast that it feels like I've known him all my life, he's in his final yearbow and I'm in my third year,not in the same school though ,he used to call and text often until middle last year, he stopped calling like he used to ,I still do the calling, but I got tired,he wasn't reciprocating, when I complained, he said he's always busy,I feel that if he loves me like he claims, he will always check on me ,whenever we're together, the vibes of the relationship is still there,but when we aren't together, he's a differences person, there was a time I broke up, I blocked him, he found a way to reach me and wironed things out,he changed for 2 weeks before he went to his normal self. He answers to my needs guys,he has been paying my rent since my first year in school, he gives me 10k every 2 weeks,he pays for my hair when I need him to + other stuffs too,do you think be can change or do I just leave the relationship?? Please ignore the errors,I'm not perfect

Have you gotten an alternative for his financial provision like business or " a better guy "?

dawnomike:
...you both should sit down and talk it out, then decide if you need to break up.

I've done that, he said he'll change, but I don't see the change in him,I even stopped calling so i won't be tagged as clingy

Pay your rent
Gives you 10 k every 2 weeks

If you ever get tired of that relationship..... The God that Your Boyfriend serves will surely locate you


*Spits on her womb twice*

Spits on the moronic boy too

Epositive:


Have you gotten an alternative for his financial provision like business or " a better guy "?

I do well for myself too,I make and sell wigs and I'm a make up artist,my parents still cater for me too, if I leave him,I can't have a problem financially, I just don't know if I can love someone else the way I love him,I'm sad.

The niggar de try oo. What an investment.


My hardwork my money.

Davash222:
Women are something else.
What do women want? How do you expect him to make all those monies he spent on you if he’s not busy
You enjoyed all these cos he’s a busy man and hardworking. Go and date a broke man if you need maximum attention!!!

so are you saying he loves me even without attention??

Nothing to talk na. Maybe he's not the type that always sees something to talk about on the phone but I bet he might be a talkative in person. That one no mean say he no love you. Try to find a lot of things to discuss with him, no dey wait for am to dey do all the calls and talking...

Fareee123:
so are you saying he loves me even without attention??

Attention doesn’t pay bills, woman.

Davash222:
Women are something else.
What do women want? How do you expect him to make all those monies he spent on you if he’s not busy
You enjoyed all these cos he’s a busy man and hardworking. Go and date a broke man if you need maximum attention!!!

Broke guy's like us are now stingy with our attention.... We don't pay it again.



Dem bless the Op with prick but she dey find the one wen hair dey.

Yes. Please break up with him. It will be saving him lots of money along the line and he'll really thank you for it in the end.

Yes.


He needs to focus more on himself.


A final year student that has both his projects, seminar and a lot of reading to do to avoid spillover plus still hustling to be able to provide for some financial needs.

Some people are really heartless ooh.


You want him to still give you much attention as he used to when he doesn’t have so much on his head as he has now. All these while he has been the perfect man, but the few times he snapped probably because he has a lot to tackle, you couldn’t hold up for him. He has been calling for close to two years, no wahala, but you got tired just for the few weeks you did the calling.


Please leave him, he needs a better woman in his life.




I will keep on praying to God to take women like you far away from me.

All these people talking about attention this, attention that , has never really worked a full day, let’s say common 8-5 for just one week. That is when they will know the importance of time.

[quote author=Fareee123 post=85640552]He answers to my needs guys,he has been paying my rent since my first year in school, he gives me 10k every 2 weeks,[b]he pays for my hair when I need him to +

Wait, is he your father?

Abi he is the one that is naturally stupid?

U have handwork, n your parent cater for u n u still exploit the young man

That guy is not suppose to pay your rent if u are from a good home

Fareee123:
I do well for myself too,I make and sell wigs and I'm a make up artist,my parents still cater for me too, if I leave him,I can't have a problem financially, I just don't know if I can love someone else the way I love him,I'm sad.

Ukodo1123:
U have handwork, n your parent cater for u n u still exploit the young man

That guy is not suppose to pay your rent if u are from a good home

well, I never asked for it,my dad gives me house rent which he knows about, but he still pays it because when I had issues with my roommate in my first year,the Lady broke my head,so he got me another apartment and told the landlord to call him whenever the rent expires. Not all guys don't have sense like you

Fareee123:
well, I never asked for it,my dad gives me house rent which he knows about, but he still pays it because when I had issues with my roommate in my first year,the Lady broke my head,so he got me another apartment and told the landlord to call him whenever the rent expires. Not all guys don't have sense like you

And yet you want to leave that one that has sense.

Clap for yourself

chigoizie7:


And yet you want to leave that one that has sense.

Clap for yourself

I'm not leaving him again bro,I've just been unhappy with the new development

you're probably saying this because of his assistance. The thing is, are you OK with the way things are going?

Talk to him, if nothing change then move on unless if you're OK with the whole thing because if you guys eventually marry, it will continue.


#My mind is telling me something though...

Victornezzar:
Pay your rent
Gives you 10 k every 2 weeks

If you ever get tired of that relationship..... The God that Your Boyfriend serves will surely locate you


*Spits on her womb twice*

Spits on the moronic boy too

People don craze for Nairaland oh... This your comment got me laffing as if i attended Ay Live. Baba Dont mind the useless boy paying bills for a LovePeddler

Fareee123:
I'm not leaving him again bro,I've just been unhappy with the new development

Be patient with him, he probably has a lot in his life right now. You will start enjoying him once the burden is lesser for as it is used to be.

Fareee123:
Hi elders in the house,I'm a Lady, I'm 21 years old,there's this guy I've been dating for about 3 years,we got along so fast that it feels like I've known him all my life, he's in his final yearbow and I'm in my third year,not in the same school though ,he used to call and text often until middle last year, he stopped calling like he used to ,I still do the calling, but I got tired,he wasn't reciprocating, when I complained, he said he's always busy,I feel that if he loves me like he claims, he will always check on me ,whenever we're together, the vibes of the relationship is still there,but when we aren't together, he's a differences person, there was a time I broke up, I blocked him, he found a way to reach me and wironed things out,he changed for 2 weeks before he went to his normal self. He answers to my needs guys,he has been paying my rent since my first year in school, he gives me 10k every 2 weeks,he pays for my hair when I need him to + other stuffs too,do you think be can change or do I just leave the relationship?? Please ignore the errors,I'm not perfect

Aunty, this is textbook fuckboy behavior, please do the needful and dump him.

But aunty, you are addicted to the hypergamous lifestyle.

chigoizie7:


Be patient with him, he probably has a lot in his life right now. You will start enjoying him once the burden is lesser for as it is used to be.

thanks a lot,

Las las you will still cheat!


The young man cannot can again!

If you know, you know!

Easiest way to get is attention if you really need one , whenever he send u money send it back , don’t ask for money for hair just tell him nah is call u want and attention he go change since he will realize no be money be ur prob and nah attention u need but my own point of view guys like that are few , 10k every 2 weeks and other things follow even parents don’t do more than this for there kids miss be patient and fight for what u want if u truly love him not all this u wan break up , nah mallians full town no better bf again

If u want attention send back the 10k every 2 weeks he normally send to u , and don’t collect anything from him again u shall have d attention u seek ASAP

Fareee123:
well, I never asked for it,my dad gives me house rent which he knows about, but he still pays it because when I had issues with my roommate in my first year,the Lady broke my head,so he got me another apartment and told the landlord to call him whenever the rent expires. Not all guys don't have sense like you

I swear I feel like cursing your bf for making such investment in you.. He is a big fool, and I hope life will teach him a lesson

How can he spend such money on a bitch and leech like you.. U gat parents Abi shey ur parents are disabled ni.

A man is feeding ur life and u r thinking of breaking up. Final year 4dt matter.. I swear, karma will do 10x of this in ur miserable rubbish life.


Chai dt guy na big fool.. Ontop on pussy oo, not two oo, just one pussy that might be smelling sef

Timekeeper:


I swear I feel like cursing your bf for making such investment in you.. He is a big fool, and I hope life will teach him a lesson

How can he spend such money on a bitch and leech like you.. U gat parents Abi shey ur parents are disabled ni.

A man is feeding ur life and u r thinking of breaking up. Final year 4dt matter.. I swear, karma will do 10x of this in ur miserable rubbish life.


Chai dt guy na big fool.. Ontop on pussy oo, not two oo, just one pussy that might be smelling sef

Das even if he is fuckin it atoo

Please break up with him.

If I find out that my son is spending money on one girl in his school like this, I will give him a good knock on his coconut head.

Your boyfriend gives you money for rent and at least 20k a month and he is in his final year and you’re still yarning dust like this? Young lady, leave him.

When you get a job and begin to earn money you would understand the care he has shown you.

Instead of you to be his peace and give him support especially at this crucial stage of his academics, you are here complaining. My friend go and read your book before I open my eye. Nonsense.