Insatiable. You want to eat call. Probably, he is married somewhere else.

Tormentor053:
A great fool is always ungrateful.....


Just because of call, you wanna call off the relationship and destroy those good memories you share together?


Maybe a new guy is shaking your legs at the moment, but be rest assured, that same new guy will also exhibit one character that would make you wanna break up with him.

Girls very unreasonable and ungrateful

All these people talking about attention this, attention that , has never really worked a full day, let’s say common 8-5 for just one week. That is when they will know the importance of time.[/quote]


Yes ooo, especially when you run 4 shifts work.

Fareee123:
so are you saying he loves me even without attention??

He loves you more than anything sis. The problem is you. You want him to be possessive.

Sniper101:
How true can this be?
Click "like" for True
Hit "share" for Wrong

come on dude
You should have left this attitude in 2019

Hmmmm!!!

What is his offense that you are righteous of?

Fareee123:
Hi elders in the house, I'm a lady, I'm 21 years old. There's this guy I've been dating for about 3 years, we got along so fast that it feels like I've known him all my life, he's in his final year and I'm in my third year, not in the same school though.

He used to call and text often until middle last year, he stopped calling like he used to, I still do the calling, but I got tired, he wasn't reciprocating, when I complained, he said he's always busy, I feel that if he loves me like he claims, he will always check on me, whenever we're together, the vibes of the relationship is still there, but when we aren't together, he's a different person.

There was a time I broke up, I blocked him, he found a way to reach me and we ironed things out, he changed for 2 weeks before he went to his normal self. He answers to my needs guys, he has been paying my rent since my first year in school, he gives me 10k every 2 weeks, he pays for my hair when I need him to + other stuffs too.

Do you think he can change or do I just leave the relationship?? Please ignore the errors, I'm not perfect.

You claim you are in school but can’t write good English? Why

Fareee123:
Hi elders in the house, I'm a lady, I'm 21 years old. There's this guy I've been dating for about 3 years, we got along so fast that it feels like I've known him all my life, he's in his final year and I'm in my third year, not in the same school though.

He used to call and text often until middle last year, he stopped calling like he used to, I still do the calling, but I got tired, he wasn't reciprocating, when I complained, he said he's always busy, I feel that if he loves me like he claims, he will always check on me, whenever we're together, the vibes of the relationship is still there, but when we aren't together, he's a different person.

There was a time I broke up, I blocked him, he found a way to reach me and we ironed things out, he changed for 2 weeks before he went to his normal self. He answers to my needs guys, he has been paying my rent since my first year in school, he gives me 10k every 2 weeks, he pays for my hair when I need him to + other stuffs too.

Do you think he can change or do I just leave the relationship?? Please ignore the errors, I'm not perfect.

he is not your father and he is doing all this things for you


stop fornication

am here to read comments

if I talk, I know my talk might make the girl commit suicide..



let my nairaland brothers do the needful


my talk about issues like this is always a nuclear bomb

Sweeetheart:



in another thread a lady relationship hit the wall because she's introvert but here I'm reading an extrovert complaining of her guy introvert attitude


if this guy don't flirt or smoke, hanged out with friends in club etc then I see no reason why you should be worried about him not calling you. you duo should face academic

if he's an academia, I mean lover of book, you won't expect him to abandoned that for feelings that had been established


I want to believe if him fvcking you timelessly is what's dropping the feelings, he won't have value for you, not to talk of taking care of your needs


at 21, you're still young even if anything happen aftermath you'll be fine. just focus on your study so as not to lose on two sides

he doesn't go clubbing, I see texts of girls giving him green lights,but he is good at ignoring them,I'm not saying he's perfect, but I haven't caught him cheat

Davash222:
Women are something else.
What do women want? How do you expect him to make all those monies he spent on you if he’s not busy
You enjoyed all these cos he’s a busy man and hardworking. Go and date a broke man if you need maximum attention!!!

Dude, the girl has another guy in her sight already. Maybe even a casual bf where she schools already. Na today?

Her long term bf has a high chance that he has wasted his 20k monthly and school fees on this girl for nothing.

The only reason she's still with him is because of the goodies she gets from him.

Fear women. They want your money and plenty of your time too. Thank God the guy is wise enough to face his studies. If he spent hours on phone with this girl and end up with third class, this girl will be first to mock him for not being serious.

A money miss road guy. A dependent student funding another man's daughter and likely another man's future wife.

20k monthly, buying credit to call him like twice a week is a problem. Na wa.

You see women they are soo selfish and greedy. A fellow student like you pays for your rent, gives you 10k every two week may be he has already gotten you an iPhone x plus human hairs yet you fail to ask what he does for a living as a student that enables him afford all that. When you find out what he does then you will know why he does not call you

Ukodo1123:
U have handwork, n your parent cater for u n u still exploit the young man

That guy is not suppose to pay your rent if u are from a good home

how is she exploiting him?
He was not forced at gun point to give, he did all those willingly.

Their is no perfect being, everyone has a flaw, Ignore flaw and try to accept him the way he is.

Also, your hapiness and peace of mind is most important, if these cannot be guaranteed then leave the guy and find hapiness elsewhere.

Incase you or anyone needs a new boyfriend, you may contact a caring me on Zero Eight Zero Six Zero Three One Nine Six Seven Zero.

funmisticqueen:
Aunty, this is textbook fuckboy behavior, please do the needful and dump him.

Most likely if someone create a new thread asking to dump someone, that is their gut warning you of a red flag and the answer is to move on

Your only reason for this reply is because you are a DICK freak.

Ukodo1123:
U have handwork, n your parent cater for u n u still exploit the young man

That guy is not suppose to pay your rent if u are from a good home

Exactly my thoughts

Btw, he pays for your rent.
Gives you 10k every two weeks.
Takes care of your provisions/food stuffs.
But doesn't call you?

Am sure he does call you to come over for weekend-fvcking things, sometimes. Right?

What kinda calls do you still need

Fareee123:
Hi elders in the house, I'm a lady, I'm 21 years old. There's this guy I've been dating for about 3 years, we got along so fast that it feels like I've known him all my life, he's in his final year and I'm in my third year, not in the same school though.

He used to call and text often until middle last year, he stopped calling like he used to, I still do the calling, but I got tired, he wasn't reciprocating, when I complained, he said he's always busy, I feel that if he loves me like he claims, he will always check on me, whenever we're together, the vibes of the relationship is still there, but when we aren't together, he's a different person.

There was a time I broke up, I blocked him, he found a way to reach me and we ironed things out, he changed for 2 weeks before he went to his normal self. He answers to my needs guys, he has been paying my rent since my first year in school, he gives me 10k every 2 weeks, he pays for my hair when I need him to + other stuffs too.

Do you think he can change or do I just leave the relationship?? Please ignore the errors, I'm not perfect.

Maybe he has taken a deep down thought on the relationship...

Maybe he asked himself if you would have been with him, if he had no money....
And maybe the answer is capital NO"

Maybe he loves you that's why he still payiny all the bills or he is fed up but can't stop paying the bills so has not to make it obvious

To win his heart back you need to give him double attention and get to shower him gift too and also show him you're not in the relationship for the Billings

Niggas might have issues weighing him deep down and what you do the help him is Billings if I was him I go don't pack you since,

We can't do all the talking hear, he does not show any love to u & forgetting love is not all about money.



We can't do all the talking For you, you ave the Final decision to make.


But Remember to always follow what make you happy

Fareee123:
Hi elders in the house, I'm a lady, I'm 21 years old. There's this guy I've been dating for about 3 years, we got along so fast that it feels like I've known him all my life, he's in his final year and I'm in my third year, not in the same school though.

He used to call and text often until middle last year, he stopped calling like he used to, I still do the calling, but I got tired, he wasn't reciprocating, when I complained, he said he's always busy, I feel that if he loves me like he claims, he will always check on me, whenever we're together, the vibes of the relationship is still there, but when we aren't together, he's a different person.

There was a time I broke up, I blocked him, he found a way to reach me and we ironed things out, he changed for 2 weeks before he went to his normal self. He answers to my needs guys, he has been paying my rent since my first year in school, he gives me 10k every 2 weeks, he pays for my hair when I need him to + other stuffs too.

Do you think he can change or do I just leave the relationship?? Please ignore the errors, I'm not perfect.

No allow him wife catch u 4 Ikeja Mall ooo

Fareee123:
well, I never asked for it,my dad gives me house rent which he knows about, but he still pays it because when I had issues with my roommate in my first year,the Lady broke my head,so he got me another apartment and told the landlord to call him whenever the rent expires. Not all guys don't have sense like you

you should have told him to stop aiding you financially when you know you can stand on your own,olooshi omo,you saw greener pasture con dey itemize silly excuse abi,mark my word ,you will one day regret it,you foolish ingrate.

Fareee123:
so are you saying he loves me even without attention??

he does..that’s why he pays your bills

Fareee123:
Hi elders in the house, I'm a lady, I'm 21 years old. There's this guy I've been dating for about 3 years, we got along so fast that it feels like I've known him all my life, he's in his final year and I'm in my third year, not in the same school though.

He used to call and text often until middle last year, he stopped calling like he used to, I still do the calling, but I got tired, he wasn't reciprocating, when I complained, he said he's always busy, I feel that if he loves me like he claims, he will always check on me, whenever we're together, the vibes of the relationship is still there, but when we aren't together, he's a different person.

There was a time I broke up, I blocked him, he found a way to reach me and we ironed things out, he changed for 2 weeks before he went to his normal self. He answers to my needs guys, he has been paying my rent since my first year in school, he gives me 10k every 2 weeks, he pays for my hair when I need him to + other stuffs too.

Do you think he can change or do I just leave the relationship?? Please ignore the errors, I'm not perfect.

A student like you give 20k monthly and pay your rent
You need to tell us what he does for a living

excel101:
Your only reason for this reply is because you are a DICK freak.

perish your obscene fantasies involving my monicker.

In life, we can never be satisfied. Someone, somewhere is wishing for what you’re complaining about. Someone don’t want this call but want these things you benefit from him. Just think of the things you can cope with and go with it. You can’t have all in a relationship. It’s rare

Let him continue to pay till you get tired of acting... find someone who gives you attention.

He'll never change... and you'll never find happiness there.

Fareee123:
I do well for myself too,I make and sell wigs and I'm a make up artist,my parents still cater for me too, if I leave him,I can't have a problem financially, I just don't know if I can love someone else the way I love him,I'm sad.

Why not get yourself busy with the hair do?

wait o i dont understand a final year student paying for all this dues u mentioned.... u don't mean it

Hope you understand the pressures of being a final year student?

Be contented

jagaban002:
Easiest way to get is attention if you really need one , whenever he send u money send it back , don’t ask for money for hair just tell him nah is call u want and attention he go change since he will realize no be money be ur prob and nah attention u need but my own point of view guys like that are few , 10k every 2 weeks and other things follow even parents don’t do more than this for there kids miss be patient and fight for what u want if u truly love him not all this u wan break up , nah mallians full town no better bf again

this mungunun will send money back,you dey joke,ngbo aunty will you send the cash back,she is a typical confused Nigerian lady,you can get time and money from a man,he uses the time to get money,sink it in that confused soul's head

Madam stop collecting money from him and find out how he makes his money before you continue such relationships