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Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by jaxxy(m): 7:40pm On Jan 09, 2020
Fareee123:
Hi elders in the house, I'm a lady, I'm 21 years old. There's this guy I've been dating for about 3 years, we got along so fast that it feels like I've known him all my life, he's in his final year and I'm in my third year, not in the same school though.

He used to call and text often until middle last year, he stopped calling like he used to, I still do the calling, but I got tired, he wasn't reciprocating, when I complained, he said he's always busy, I feel that if he loves me like he claims, he will always check on me, whenever we're together, the vibes of the relationship is still there, but when we aren't together, he's a different person.

There was a time I broke up, I blocked him, he found a way to reach me and we ironed things out, he changed for 2 weeks before he went to his normal self. He answers to my needs guys, he has been paying my rent since my first year in school, he gives me 10k every 2 weeks, he pays for my hair when I need him to + other stuffs too.

Do you think he can change or do I just leave the relationship?? Please ignore the errors, I'm not perfect.

Obviously Ure not the cheating type, she wud have looked for another guy around to keep her company while having his money.

That’s said I think u shud be patient until u both stay closer to each other then u can see how the vibe is and things go. Sm people are quite busy for long distance relationship challenges and keep ups. Keep doing ur good part for him and most importantly know if he has any future plans for u after these 3years if not i think it’s time to bounce bt offcourse in a civil and cordial way pls. Cheers
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by donhils: 7:41pm On Jan 09, 2020
So somebody gives U 20k a month and pays your rent yet u cannot buy recharge card and call him? Continue!
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Munzy14(m): 7:41pm On Jan 09, 2020
Davash222:
Women are something else.
What do women want? How do you expect him to make all those monies he spent on you if he’s not busy
You enjoyed all these cos he’s a busy man and hardworking. Go and date a broke man if you need maximum attention!!!
cheesy

Women!!!

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Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Amumaigwe: 7:42pm On Jan 09, 2020
Fareee123:
so are you saying he loves me even without attention??

Which attention is more apt than those frequent credit alerts? He sends the alerts, you then call to encourage him to work harder. If he works his ass off to make enough money to cater for your needs and still calls you as frequently as you desire, what then are you bringing to the table?

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Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Lastmankc(m): 7:42pm On Jan 09, 2020
20k a month. That guy dey try Abeg. MALIANS like us don't spend much on just one pussy

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Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by CAPSLOCKED: 7:43pm On Jan 09, 2020
Martinez39:
It's easier to outsmart Einstein than to satisfy a woman and make her happy. They don't know what they want but they sha want it now.

YOUR GIRL IS DESPERATELY LOOKING FOR REASONS TO JUSTIFY WHY SHE HAS BEEN CHEATING ON MR. NICE GUY FOR 2 YEARS NOW. cheesy

FROM HER NARRATIVE, EVEN ME WILL CHEAT ON THE CLOWN. HOW CAN A STUDENT BE PAYING SCHOOL FEES FOR ANOTHER STUDENT IN ANOTHER DIFFERENT SCHOOL, PLUS MONTHLY SALARY AND UPKEEP MONEY FOR HAIL, NAILS AND FOOD.
YOUR BOY IS NOT SMART. WITH THE LEVEL OF INVOLVEMENT GOING ON IN CAMPUSES THESE DAYS, HOW CAN YOU BE THE FOOL IN A RELATIONSHIP WASTING SO MUCH RESOURCES WITH ZERO ASSURANCE?
WHAT A FOOL! cheesy

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Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Edandy(m): 7:44pm On Jan 09, 2020
OlawaleBammie:


Why has jealousy eaten u up like this? av always read ur comments which are full of bitterness, why are you like dis?

O fe so da da binse da abi? ajegbodo ton weni kunra.

Better embrace peace arabirin.

Maybe u re just sarcastic anyway.


Seriously, she needs counseling. Educated people are difficult to counsel. Even if she is a prof, she still needs help! Let us continue to show @funmisticqueen love.

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Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Skmoda360(m): 7:44pm On Jan 09, 2020
teflonjake:


You dont know if you will love someone else?

My GF said that to Me for three years whilst cheating on me calmly..


You will love someone dont worry
Same thing happens to me with my ex..... undecided

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Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Amumaigwe: 7:45pm On Jan 09, 2020
Fareee123:
I'm not leaving him again bro,I've just been unhappy with the new development

No. Please leave him. I know women are a confused creature, but your own level of confusion is legendary.

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Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by kelvindj98: 7:45pm On Jan 09, 2020
Timekeeper:


I swear I feel like cursing your bf for making such investment in you.. He is a big fool, and I hope life will teach him a lesson

How can he spend such money on a bitch and leech like you.. U gat parents Abi shey ur parents are disabled ni.

A man is feeding ur life and u r thinking of breaking up. Final year 4dt matter.. I swear, karma will do 10x of this in ur miserable rubbish life.


Chai dt guy na big fool.. Ontop on pussy oo, not two oo, just one pussy that might be smelling sef
And u will be surprisped that the idiot's close padis or siblings are probably broke.
As long as there are men who let their joysticks do the thinking, there will always be women who believe they are entitled to men's money.

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Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Nobody: 7:45pm On Jan 09, 2020
Fareee123:
well, I never asked for it,my dad gives me house rent which he knows about, but he still pays it because when I had issues with my roommate in my first year,the Lady broke my head,so he got me another apartment and told the landlord to call him whenever the rent expires. Not all guys don't have sense like you
well, we may agree dude doesn't have sense; but do you have sense?

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Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by izibili44: 7:45pm On Jan 09, 2020
you have said it all
dawnomike:
...you both should sit down and talk it out, then decide if you need to break up.
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by ashantitope: 7:46pm On Jan 09, 2020
Lol if he doesn't call can't you call or is it written in Constitution that it only man that must call and secondly you are 21 and you have been dating him for like 3 years na wa oooo when am in your age I don't know what relationship is all about

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Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Lexusgs430: 7:46pm On Jan 09, 2020
Fareee123:
Hi elders in the house, I'm a lady, I'm 21 years old. There's this guy I've been dating for about 3 years, we got along so fast that it feels like I've known him all my life, he's in his final year and I'm in my third year, not in the same school though.

He used to call and text often until middle last year, he stopped calling like he used to, I still do the calling, but I got tired, he wasn't reciprocating, when I complained, he said he's always busy, I feel that if he loves me like he claims, he will always check on me, whenever we're together, the vibes of the relationship is still there, but when we aren't together, he's a different person.

There was a time I broke up, I blocked him, he found a way to reach me and we ironed things out, he changed for 2 weeks before he went to his normal self. He answers to my needs guys, he has been paying my rent since my first year in school, he gives me 10k every 2 weeks, he pays for my hair when I need him to + other stuffs too.

Do you think he can change or do I just leave the relationship?? Please ignore the errors, I'm not perfect.


He is reserving you for final sacrifice...... Whatever that sacrifice is........ You're simply doing.... Stop it, I like it.....

Enjoying the benefits, but expecting more......

Choose one side...........

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Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by naijacann: 7:47pm On Jan 09, 2020
Fareee123:
Hi elders in the house, I'm a lady, I'm 21 years old. There's this guy I've been dating for about 3 years, we got along so fast that it feels like I've known him all my life, he's in his final year and I'm in my third year, not in the same school though.

He used to call and text often until middle last year, he stopped calling like he used to, I still do the calling, but I got tired, he wasn't reciprocating, when I complained, he said he's always busy, I feel that if he loves me like he claims, he will always check on me, whenever we're together, the vibes of the relationship is still there, but when we aren't together, he's a different person.

There was a time I broke up, I blocked him, he found a way to reach me and we ironed things out, he changed for 2 weeks before he went to his normal self. He answers to my needs guys, he has been paying my rent since my first year in school, he gives me 10k every 2 weeks, he pays for my hair when I need him to + other stuffs too.

Do you think he can change or do I just leave the relationship?? Please ignore the errors, I'm not perfect.

The guy masturbates and doesn't feel the urge to initiate calls as usual. Believe me, there is no other girl.

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Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by CAPSLOCKED: 7:48pm On Jan 09, 2020
Fareee123:
so are you saying he loves me even without attention??

MADAM COMOT FOR THIS PLACE.

YOU EITHER GO AND THANK THE BABA THAT DID THE JAZZ FOR YOU, OR YOU CANDIDLY ADVICE YOUR BOYFRIEND TO GO FOR MENTAL CHECK UP BECAUSE HE IS NOT NORMAL.

EVEN THE DULLEST OF DULLARDS ARE SMARTER THAN HIM. AND ALSO, FOR THE SAKE OF CHRIST, ALWAYS USE PROTECTION WHILE YOU INVOLVE THOSE BOYS WEY DE SHACK YOU FOR SCHOOL BEFORE YOU INHERIT DISEASES PASS AM TO MR. NICE GUY.

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Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by psalmylee(m): 7:49pm On Jan 09, 2020
Davash222:
Women are something else.
What do women want? How do you expect him to make all those monies he spent on you if he’s not busy
You enjoyed all these cos he’s a busy man and hardworking. Go and date a broke man if you need maximum attention!!!
GBAM!!!!
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Devops: 7:50pm On Jan 09, 2020
Fareee123:
well, I never asked for it,my dad gives me house rent which he knows about, but he still pays it because when I had issues with my roommate in my first year,the Lady broke my head,so he got me another apartment and told the landlord to call him whenever the rent expires. Not all guys don't have sense like you
What does he do for a living? Not everyone has time.

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Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Tunar18(m): 7:50pm On Jan 09, 2020
My one cent!

Perhaps, one of the main reasons for sending 20k monthly is for you to buy enough airtime to always call, since your parents cater for your welfare.

I think if you stop collecting the money (by refunding it whenever he sends it), he would start using the money to buy airtime and call you all day (more than you are expecting sef).

Try it and thank me later (Something is telling me you won't even if you can grin)

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Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Monday60655(m): 7:50pm On Jan 09, 2020
Guys who work hard to take up their responsibilities usually don't have much time and all the attentions you might need from them. But broke and deceive guys do have your time anytime, any day.
My advice; try to find out what your guy engage in as a source of livelihood. From there, both of you can iron things out.

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Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by akpunda86: 7:50pm On Jan 09, 2020
Fareee123:
Hi elders in the house, I'm a lady, I'm 21 years old. There's this guy I've been dating for about 3 years, we got along so fast that it feels like I've known him all my life, he's in his final year and I'm in my third year, not in the same school though.

He used to call and text often until middle last year, he stopped calling like he used to, I still do the calling, but I got tired, he wasn't reciprocating, when I complained, he said he's always busy, I feel that if he loves me like he claims, he will always check on me, whenever we're together, the vibes of the relationship is still there, but when we aren't together, he's a different person.

There was a time I broke up, I blocked him, he found a way to reach me and we ironed things out, he changed for 2 weeks before he went to his normal self. He answers to my needs guys, he has been paying my rent since my first year in school, he gives me 10k every 2 weeks, he pays for my hair when I need him to + other stuffs too.

Do you think he can change or do I just leave the relationship?? Please ignore the errors, I'm not perfect.

Stupid student.He pays ur rent.gives u ten k for pussy. Is a pity u no get parents or family
See dumb question
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Lastmankc(m): 7:51pm On Jan 09, 2020
Plug0072:


You claim you are in school but can’t write good English? Why

Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by alkali10: 7:52pm On Jan 09, 2020
dawnomike:
...you both should sit down and talk it out, then decide if you need to break up.
I think that is the best idea
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by madprophet(m): 7:53pm On Jan 09, 2020
What kind of Job does your boyfriend do??

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Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Martinez39(m): 7:53pm On Jan 09, 2020
Michellekabod2:
for her to consider leaving despite him taking care of her shows she isn't in for his money but love,many girls will still stay to be collecting their 20k monthly and hair money.
Yimu. She has probably found a her bidder and she is piling up a good excuse to cut off the current boyfriend MUMU at the appointed time. Perhaps, she is just dramatic and really doesn't know what she wants. If the boyfriend starts spending so much time with her, she will still complain.

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Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by akpunda86: 7:54pm On Jan 09, 2020
akpunda86:


Stupid student.He pays ur rent.gives u ten k for pussy. Is a pity u no get parents or family
See dumb question


You cant leave him cos he does more than ur family do for u besides u with d slowpoke for personal gains.
.
Please where are ur parents.u started olosho on time.tpobad

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Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by 2Ways(m): 7:54pm On Jan 09, 2020
I am even scared to be in a relationship because girls are so confused, they can frustrate your future.

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Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by purehustle101(m): 7:55pm On Jan 09, 2020
Experience will make op wiser, her thinking can't go far beyond these at these age.

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Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by jackyraw09: 7:56pm On Jan 09, 2020
BlackboiNero:
Nothing to talk na. Maybe he's not the type that always sees something to talk about on the phone but I bet he might be a talkative in person. That one no mean say he no love you. Try to find a lot of things to discuss with him, no dey wait for am to dey do all the calls and talking...

Babe you just described me. I shock when I saw the title of this post until I read that y’all are still in school.

I used to be lovey with my girl whilst still paying her bills back in school also, all the lovey shit all lasted a whole year and ended up setting back my hustle (I work in IT, you have keep up with the times, technology grows faster than you can imagine).

I still pay her bills (she also lives in my lekki apartment while I work abroad) but I hardly call. She’s always doubting my love for her but I love her whole heartedly just that it’s hard for young partners to find a balance between hustle and relationship.

I’m also in my mid twenties and trying to improve. Our relationship is also 3years old.

While I got my bad boy side also, I won’t be footing bills of a girl I don’t love and this applies to all guys. 10k bi weekly isn’t a lot but paying your rent is a thing guys do only for girls they got in mind. Your man loves you babe ❤️

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Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Nobody: 7:58pm On Jan 09, 2020
Fareee123:
I'm not leaving him again bro,I've just been unhappy with the new development
who's your bro?you better stay dia besides no one is perfect.
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by LINTUNE(m): 7:58pm On Jan 09, 2020
Davash222:
Women are something else.
What do women want? How do you expect him to make all those monies he spent on you if he’s not busy
You enjoyed all these cos he’s a busy man and hardworking. Go and date a broke man if you need maximum attention!!!
don't mind the fool,so selfish I'm sure the only thing she offers that young man is her pussy..very greedy thing, she wants money yet she is still seeking attention,thunder fire here there..rubbish!

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