victorian:







Babe, your bf loves you.

Don't make the huge mistake of breaking up with him or else u will regret it for many years to come. Then u will realise how terrible it is to date a broke guy!

Try broke guy who has lots of attention to give you and see if u will see ordinary suya chop! The broke guy will even be tasking you for weekly allowance. Hehehehehehehehe. Chai!
Oh Lord!
Some girls are now working extra hard buying their broke bf cars And fueling it join every week! Chai!

Mehn! Well it's your call. Breakup if you want.

What's my own sef?

yeah some truth though...cant rememba spending more than 10k on my girl all thru our 2yrs of being 2geda although i earn a decent income...she's the one who does the spending on me (she earns well 2)...

chigoizie7:


Be patient with him, he probably has a lot in his life right now. You will start enjoying him once the burden is lesser for as it is used to be.

You have a good heart. It's because of positive comments like yours that I am still on nairaland. May God bless people like you who criticises people positively and and help change their view of some life' issues.

Skmoda360:

Same thing happens to me with my ex.....

Sorry O

Pay your house rent give you 10k every week? Hmm. Even me my salary is 553k naira a month I can never ever pay such money to a so called girl friend. What happened to investment and other things valuable.
Now I know that most Nigerian guys are MUMU.

Fareee123:
I'm not leaving him again bro,I've just been unhappy with the new development

just listen to yourself,can u understand how stupid u sound right now

how can we satisfy a woman?
please break up with him let another person enjoy what you are enjoying.

funmisticqueen:
Aunty, this is textbook fuckboy behavior, please do the needful and dump him.

But aunty, you are addicted to the hypergamous lifestyle.

lord knows how much I dislike u ..pukes!

The guy is technically n incredibly stupid

Timekeeper:


I swear I feel like cursing your bf for making such investment in you.. He is a big fool, and I hope life will teach him a lesson

How can he spend such money on a bitch and leech like you.. U gat parents Abi shey ur parents are disabled ni.

A man is feeding ur life and u r thinking of breaking up. Final year 4dt matter.. I swear, karma will do 10x of this in ur miserable rubbish life.


Chai dt guy na big fool.. Ontop on pussy oo, not two oo, just one pussy that might be smelling sef

kai, u dey vex o

AfroKnight:


Please break up with him.

If I find out that my son is spending money on one girl in his school like this, I will give him a good knock on his coconut head.

Your boyfriend gives you money for rent and at least 20k a month and he is in his final year and you’re still yarning dust like this? Young lady, leave him.

When you get a job and begin to earn money you would understand the care he has shown you.

Instead of you to be his peace and give him support especially at this crucial stage of his academics, you are here complaining. My friend go and read your book before I open my eye. Nonsense.

. Oga are u a comedian ..I don Laugh tire ...

Fareee123

He seems to be treating you like a wife in a harem. He takes care of your needs but the romance and sex is almost dead.

As long as he takes care of your financial need, he feels he has done his best. It's a foretaste of what's to come when you're married.

He has the cash and he has girls at his beck and call where he is.

Edandy:


Seriously, she needs counseling. Educated people are difficult to counsel. Even if she is a prof, she still needs help! Let us continue to show @funmisticqueen love.

Ahaaa, it's too much from her abeg, every of her post reeks hatred, partiality, self-centeredness and other vices.
Seriously as u said I agree with you, she need help But only God knows the genesis of her problems oo. hmmm

He gives 10k every 2 wks

Make use of the part and do the calling

If actually your story is real

Fareee123:
he doesn't go clubbing, I see texts of girls giving him green lights,but he is good at ignoring them,I'm not saying he's perfect, but I haven't caught him cheat

just be patient with him

lomprico:


yahoo boi! he is fattening you for the kill.

laugh wan kill me abeg

Fareee123:
so are you saying he loves me even without attention??

Yes he may still love you
Girls eh
You are just complaining.. have you tried to find out if he has any emotional problem or financial problem, he might be facing pressure from any end ... he is in his finals and still provides all those stuffs for you have been giving you maximum attention then 1 year he drops .. and even accepts he did xo by promising he will change you now also stopped calling your excuse is not to be seen as being clingy...
Mtcheww.. I tire for girls

Davash222:
Women are something else.
What do women want? How do you expect him to make all those monies he spent on you if he’s not busy
You enjoyed all these cos he’s a busy man and hardworking. Go and date a broke man if you need maximum attention!!!

God bless you!

Na wa o
3years rentage @150k =450k
10k every 2wks * 3yrs = 780k
Plus hair nails sharwama recharge cards etc * 3yrs = 300k
Total investment on u alone without friends or family oo = N1,530,000=
And in the wickedness of your heart na call u feel say be the main the main thing abi
Babe ure wicked considering just the above without putting his academics into consideration.
Habaaa

Married

The stupid boy siblings fit deh broke somewhere sha

Timekeeper:


I swear I feel like cursing your bf for making such investment in you.. He is a big fool, and I hope life will teach him a lesson

How can he spend such money on a bitch and leech like you.. U gat parents Abi shey ur parents are disabled ni.

A man is feeding ur life and u r thinking of breaking up. Final year 4dt matter.. I swear, karma will do 10x of this in ur miserable rubbish life.


Chai dt guy na big fool.. Ontop on pussy oo, not two oo, just one pussy that might be smelling sef

Oga you are beginning to cry than the bereaved o. Watch your bp.

with 20k every month
no any guy is gonna do that for you,when he says he is always busy,have you tried to finds out what keep him busy? what course does he study in school?

funmisticqueen:
Aunty, this is textbook fuckboy behavior, please do the needful and dump him.

But aunty, you are addicted to the hypergamous lifestyle.

My dear, I have never seen anyone as bitter as you are. You have a sick mind. Your negativity is beyond human imagination.

Fareee123:
well, I never asked for it,my dad gives me house rent which he knows about, but he still pays it because when I had issues with my roommate in my first year,the Lady broke my head,so he got me another apartment and told the landlord to call him whenever the rent expires. Not all guys don't have sense like you

Lol
This one enta

Why are all the “men are providers” gang upset that one of them is actually attempting to provide?

What is it that you people want?

@OP, you should be having this discussion with your man. No jobless Nairalanders

That guy get mind ooo..

With many of the comments here, it is obvious women dey try.

So as long as he takes care of her financially, that is okay.

What difference is there between her and a wife in a harem? Do you want her to be one of the romance starved wives who'll have a man outside taking care of the neglected areas? The husband will think his wife is faithful despite his not satisfying her. Continue living in cuckoo land!

If he does all these and yet cares less about you then he must be what Yoruba people would call olowo Igbo(Bush money)

Fareee123:
so are you saying he loves me even without attention??

doesn't he pick your call when you do?

Daryldaro:
yeah some truth though...cant rememba spending more than 10k on my girl all thru our 2yrs of being 2geda although i earn a decent income...she's the one who does the spending on me (she earns well 2)...

She try.

I wish both of you best of luck.

I can't be in such type of relationship. My man has to spend more, even though I assist by the side. Thats how our relationship flows.

Davash222:
Women are something else.
What do women want? How do you expect him to make all those monies he spent on you if he’s not busy
You enjoyed all these cos he’s a busy man and hardworking. Go and date a broke man if you need maximum attention!!!

broke guy no go easy ooo

If ever you get to see my reply
I'd advice you to start showing or rather giving him the attention you crave for
Why?___ Here is why?
You said he's a final year student..that means_Lots of school work, Project, school seminar and other added activities...loads and loads of activities
2._Hes gotta work to pay your bills girls
If he's broke he can't cater for your needs
Like you said when u are together the Sparks still there,it only disappear when u are apart
Simply means he still loves you but for now(Key word:FOR NOW)you gotta bear with him
Losing him or break-in up with him is a terrible idea
#BLESSED