Keep calling him it makes him feel important to you and it boost his ego

OlawaleBammie:


Why has jealousy eaten u up like this? av always read ur comments which are full of bitterness, why are you like dis?

O fe so da da binse da abi? ajegbodo ton weni kunra.

Better embrace peace arabirin.

Maybe u re just sarcastic anyway.

Bros, the matter tire me o.
Person just read something finish, tell another person make she just dump her man. Is it that easy? I've never seen any positive comment toward men from that lady. Can people really be this bitter?

Talk like a gee bro, she still needs attention, is there any big deal if he calls her seldomly. Make no mistakes about it, money can't buy love but money is needed.

Wetin woman want?

Timekeeper:


I swear I feel like cursing your bf for making such investment in you.. He is a big fool, and I hope life will teach him a lesson

How can he spend such money on a bitch and leech like you.. U gat parents Abi shey ur parents are disabled ni.

A man is feeding ur life and u r thinking of breaking up. Final year 4dt matter.. I swear, karma will do 10x of this in ur miserable rubbish life.


Chai dt guy na big fool.. Ontop on pussy oo, not two oo, just one pussy that might be smelling sef

Guy you wicked ooo, Chisos

knowhowk:
. Oga are u a comedian ..I don Laugh tire ...

Lol. She dey vex me.

Wow! Stories like this will make you realize how mentally broke many guys are. This is a typical human behavior and it doesn't make the person bad. She gets money and all that but wants attention, what is wrong with that? Truth of the matter is when someone really cares about you, even of they like your money as well, if you don't give them attention, they are never satisfied. Mentally and genetically broke guys always think money is everything. Even when they manage to have the money, they behave anyhow and don't know how to love anybody including themselves.

Fareee123:
he doesn't go clubbing, I see texts of girls giving him green lights,but he is good at ignoring them,I'm not saying he's perfect, but I haven't caught him cheat

then you should stop worrying


lemme give you a code for the sake of your sincerity about him because I know some ladies would have painted their guy bad

as a lady, a guy should be the one worried about you and if you're concerned because of much feelings you had for him, hide it inside you. people abuse feelings you showered on them so Much. as a lady you need to give him reason why he should be giving you attention and running after you


is obvious he knows you're going crazy about him, reduce or hide that for some months to balance the ratio


in a relationship feelings must be on balance ratio 5:5. anything far long from that can lead to the partner taken advantage of you

cococandy:
I just checked the profile of the poster. New account. Created 2 hours ago.

Summary: just another fvckboy looking for talk. So many of you on this forum need to get busy. Always obsessed with useless ways to insult women. I’m 110% sure the OP is on this thread with his various other monikers saying how women are bitchess and leeches.

Probably one of the first to comment.

Mental problems

How does the time the account was created correlate with what you pointed out?

There are obviously issues with the relationship.
The guy(and a lot of guys too, sadly) believes that all you need is money so he works his ass off(hopefully so, I pray the source of the money is legit) to satisfy you financially but forgets the emotional side to ladies...

You, on the other hand, do have your own issues. You are 21, you are young, You have romantic fantasies, You want to be adored like a princess and as such finance is key but romance is also important.

I suspect you may outgrow these feelings though.

Just concentrate on your studies and your impressive side hustle and see where things go...
Am not an advocate of premarital sex so I advise you not to do the do(that is if you haven't already)

Best wishes

cococandy:
I just checked the profile of the poster. New account. Created 2 hours ago.

Summary: just another fvckboy looking for talk. So many of you on this forum need to get busy. Always obsessed with useless ways to insult women. I’m 110% sure the OP is on this thread with his various other monikers saying how women are bitchess and leeches.

Probably one of the first to comment.

Mental problems

I have a four years old account on nairaland, I'm scared to open up with my real account, cos of all the insults, and this story is real!

Davash222:
Women are something else.
What do women want? How do you expect him to make all those monies he spent on you if he’s not busy
You enjoyed all these cos he’s a busy man and hardworking. Go and date a broke man if you need maximum attention!!!

Oooooh God bless you.....

grandstar:
Fareee123

He seems to be treating like a wife in a harem. He takes care of your needs but the romance and sex is almost dead.

As long as he takes care of your financial need, he feels he has done his best. It's a foretaste of what's to come when you're married.

He has the cash and he has girls at his beck and call where he is.

lol

Having read at this comments. My advise as a male being is for another lady to advise their species since it seems like when a man explains things they will not take heed....

Timekeeper:


I swear I feel like cursing your bf for making such investment in you.. He is a big fool, and I hope life will teach him a lesson

How can he spend such money on a bitch and leech like you.. U gat parents Abi shey ur parents are disabled ni.

A man is feeding ur life and u r thinking of breaking up. Final year 4dt matter.. I swear, karma will do 10x of this in ur miserable rubbish life.


Chai dt guy na big fool.. Ontop on pussy oo, not two oo, just one pussy that might be smelling sef

If that Nigga na my friend,the kind slap i go wozz am ehh

Some have food, but they can't eat. Some can eat, but have no food.

Fareee123:
I have a four years old account on nairaland, I'm scared to open up with my real account, cos of all the insults, and this story is real!

Wether new,old or fake acct....If u can't take insults then u shouldn't be on social media.
Especially when it's a faceless forum.They ain't standing and saying it in ur face,are they?

Maybe it's his kind of person or he simply doesn't love you enough to give you his time. I know what I'm saying. My kind of person value my time so much that I don't like investing it on anybody. Even if I'm laying on bed all day browsing, I still find it hard to call or text. But if I really love someone, I know I wouldn't mind sparing a little time everyday

Fareee123:
I do well for myself too,I make and sell wigs and I'm a make up artist,my parents still cater for me too, if I leave him,I can't have a problem financially, I just don't know if I can love someone else the way I love him,I'm sad.

He is perhaps too busy making money. Has he been intimate with your before?

He's married... If u know, u know.
No doubt!

this one na olosho.

GeniusWannabe:

Bros, the matter tire me o.
Person just read something finish, tell another person make she just dump her man. Is it that easy? I've never seen any positive comment toward men from that lady. Can people really be this bitter?

Woo dat lady own is too much, she sees negative in everything u wouldn't want to have her likes as mother in-laws, in fact aye eniyen ti polukurumusu niyen

Am sure she has bn used and dumped severally dat is why she's dis bitter, especially towards male folks.

Ahaa, kilodee, na only she??

Dis one can kill a child of her fellow due to jealousy and hatred.

Fareee123:
well, I never asked for it,my dad gives me house rent which he knows about, but he still pays it because when I had issues with my roommate in my first year,the Lady broke my head,so he got me another apartment and told the landlord to call him whenever the rent expires. Not all guys don't have sense like you

You don't miss your water until your well runs dry.
At 21 You're young and naive to an extent, you think love is like the way you see it in movies. When you grow up and life begins to happen to you, you'll understand better and regret bitterly if you break up with him.
I wish you the best in whatever decision you make.

Davash222:
Women are something else.
What do women want? How do you expect him to make all those monies he spent on you if he’s not busy
You enjoyed all these cos he’s a busy man and hardworking. Go and date a broke man if you need maximum attention!!!

Gracias!!!

Davash222:
Women are something else.
What do women want? How do you expect him to make all those monies he spent on you if he’s not busy
You enjoyed all these cos he’s a busy man and hardworking. Go and date a broke man if you need maximum attention!!!

you dey mind the brainless olosho

how did this shit thread make front page?

Fareee123:
Hi elders in the house, I'm a lady, I'm 21 years old. There's this guy I've been dating for about 3 years, we got along so fast that it feels like I've known him all my life, he's in his final year and I'm in my third year, not in the same school though.

He used to call and text often until middle last year, he stopped calling like he used to, I still do the calling, but I got tired, he wasn't reciprocating, when I complained, he said he's always busy, I feel that if he loves me like he claims, he will always check on me, whenever we're together, the vibes of the relationship is still there, but when we aren't together, he's a different person.

There was a time I broke up, I blocked him, he found a way to reach me and we ironed things out, he changed for 2 weeks before he went to his normal self. He answers to my needs guys, he has been paying my rent since my first year in school, he gives me 10k every 2 weeks, he pays for my hair when I need him to + other stuffs too.

Do you think he can change or do I just leave the relationship?? Please ignore the errors, I'm not perfect.

Sometimes guys shot down emotions just to focus on other things that will make life better for both of you.

Davash222:
Women are something else.
What do women want? How do you expect him to make all those monies he spent on you if he’s not busy
You enjoyed all these cos he’s a busy man and hardworking. Go and date a broke man if you need maximum attention!!!

Best comment of the year

BlackboiNero:
Nothing to talk na. Maybe he's not the type that always sees something to talk about on the phone but I bet he might be a talkative in person. That one no mean say he no love you. Try to find a lot of things to discuss with him, no dey wait for am to dey do all the calls and talking...

I love this

henriettttta:



I need this kind of boyfriend biko

Search no more coz i am here for yah

Women and confusion.

Continue asking questions on Nairaland while thousands are praying to have the likes of your guy.

The question I still have not gotten clear answer to, is, what exactly do women appreciate in a relationship?

It's either: he's a one minute guy or he is not romantic .....etc habah!