Kennedyiheme:
well maybe we aren't getting each other... if you cant be submissive to your husband because you are rich, you'll never find one.. then thats where loneliness comes in

Loneliness, because there are no men in town again or because the whole men in the world are now scared of rich women

When you come across a rich woman, drop your ego and humble yourself thst doesn't make you less a man

And you will have her at your finger tips

frozen70:


Loneliness, because there are no men in town again or because the whole men in the world are now scared of rich women

When you come across a rich woman, drop your ego and humble yourself thst doesn't make you less a man

And you will have her at your finger tips

well what we see now doesn't follow your narrative does it?... linda ikeji, ini edo, rita dominic, Genevieve.. ask them

You keep stating different assumptions and fairytales.. there's that and there's reality... you should always use linda ikeji as reference.... men and women aren't the same... a man can chase a career and be successful and still find a woman to marry... have you ever heard about a man praying and fasting for a wife?.. have you ever heard men going for shiloh?.. its simply because our lifes path isn't the same... for one you have menopause knocking... sperm doesn't have expiry date, 100 years old sperm can still do its job.... my point is, if you spend all that time as a woman chasing a career, you will hit the wall.. at 35 you start looking for love, by the way i dont know of any rich man that wants to marry a 35 year old... why would dangote marry a 35 year old woman?.. he'd go for someone very young... choose wisely, its either you go for career or you go for having a traditional family... you cant have both

Amumaigwe:


You sound like a well brought up lady. May God grant you all your heart desires.

Awww thanks.

Amen!

frozen70:


Loneliness, because there are no men in town again or because the whole men in the world are now scared of rich women

When you come across a rich woman, drop your ego and humble yourself thst doesn't make you less a man

And you will have her at your finger tips

Don't mistake ego (one's sense of self-esteem) for egoism/egotism (greed, selfishness, or self-centeredness). It's an abomination for a man to drop his ego in order to relate well with a rich woman or any person at all, regardless of such a person's status - no sane man with genuine interest and intention towards a woman will do such. Only a disingenuous man will drop his ego in order to relate well with a rich woman, or other people, and the reason isn't far-fetched, he's out to mete out pernicious act towards her.

A man's ego is equivalent to a woman's pride, and keeping them healthy entail a possessor individual conquering egoism.

Kennedyiheme:
well what we see now doesn't follow your narrative does it?... linda ikeji, ini edo, rita dominic, Genevieve.. ask them

Did they ever complain that they are lonely

And who told you that they don't have a man dying for their love

I will like you to erase the mentality of seeing women who are not married as being are lonely

Marriage is not for everyone

Instead of being in a bitter and frustrated marriage, remain single and be answerable to your self and God alone

All those women who died in their so called marriage would have been happier living a single life they had known

If it works for you, that same thing may not work for another

Some men are in their third marriage, just because the previous ones didn't work, yet the clergy men still wedds them

The most recent one is 9ice

That doesn't mean he is not a good guy, it just didn't work

Rich woman or no rich woman, love must be fulfilled, its a natural force

Nigerian men mentality

LordKO:


Don't mistake ego (one's sense of self-esteem) for egoism/egotism (greed, selfishness, or self-centeredness). It's an abomination for a man to drop his ego in order to relate well with a rich woman or any person at all, regardless of such a person's status - no sane man with genuine interest and intention towards a woman will do such. Only a disingenuous man will drop his ego in order to relate well with a rich woman or other people and the reason isn't far-fetched, he's out to mete out pernicious act towards her.

A man's ego is equivalent to a woman's pride, and keeping them healthy entail a possessor individual conquering egoism.

Then let him hang his ego about every where he goes since its an abomination for a man to bring down his ego to relate with women and other people

His ego, his business

Just let the well to do women be, they are complacent with their way of life

frozen70:


Did they ever complain that they are lonely

And who told you that they don't have a man dying for their love

I will like you to erase the mentality of seeing women who are not married as being are lonely

Marriage is not for everyone

Instead of being in a bitter and frustrated marriage, remain single and be answerable to your self and God alone

All those women who died in their so called marriage would have been happier living a single life they had known

If it works for you, that same thing may not work for another

Some men are in their third marriage, just because the previous ones didn't work, yet the clergy men still wedds them

The most recent one is 9ice

That doesn't mean he is not a good guy, it just didn't work

Rich woman or no rich woman, love must be fulfilled, its a natural force

go to linda ikejis Instagram page, go and see how she keeps telling us how she wants to be someone's bride... this is after she has preached how she doesn't need a man...

frozen70:


Then let him hang his ego about every where he goes since its an abomination for a man to bring down his ego to relate with women and other people

His ego, his business

Just let the well to do women be, they are complacent with their way of life

why would a man bring down his ego for a woman... do you find men who act feminine attractive, men who act emasculated, goodluck finding a man who would bring down his ego.... the ego is part of his masculinity

Kennedyiheme:
go to linda ikejis Instagram page, go and see how she keeps telling us how she wants to be someone's bride... this is after she has preached how she doesn't need a man...

That's her business not ours

You can decide not to marry but have baby mamas

Are you not aware of some men, who have baby mamas yet chooses to be single

Ask flavour

Linda is the richest female blogger, it takes a humble man to propose marriage to her

You with all your pride, can you do that ❓

You guys that doesn't even know how the game of marriage is, are here masturbating on a woman being single or married

You don't know and won't know until you keep a woman at home as a wife

Then you will realise the power of a woman in the house


*THE OTHER ROOM...*

The other room
Where a woman pretends
To be weak
So that a man
Can believe he is strong
Where a woman pretends
To be foolish
So that a man
Can say he is wise
Where a woman stoops
So that a man can conquer.

The other room
Where gods of men
Become worshipers of women
Where leaders of thought
Become minions
Of the bleeders blood
Where wielders of power
Succumb to power.

The other room
Where the brashness of testosterone
Yields to the bra straps of estrogen
Where the bravado of masculinity
Is tamed by the wiles of femininity
Where the turgid
Becomes the flaccid

Three rooms
In a house
One in which a man
Believes he is king
Two in which
He realizes
A woman is god!
Hmmmmmm!

The other room
Hardened men become beggars
The queen becomes the king too
The king, just a beggarly page

In the other room
We cry for joy
Beg to be injured
For there, we enjoy pain

In the other room
We beg to suck milkless breasts
Accept every proposal
And promise any thing

In the other room
Fate of nations are decided
Destinies of men are fixed
Death warrants are signed

The other room
What a room..!

frozen70:


That's her business not ours

You can decide not to marry but have baby mamas

Are you not aware of some men, who have baby mamas yet chooses to be single

Ask flavour

Linda is the richest female blogger, it takes a humble man to propose marriage to her

You with all your pride, can you do that ❓

lol linda ikeji is one celeb women in nigeria look up to, lol thats certainly your business. Oh really it takes a humble man, yet no humble man has proposed??

Kennedyiheme:
why would a man bring down his ego for a woman... do you find men who act feminine attractive, men who act emasculated, goodluck finding a man who would bring down his ego.... the ego is part of his masculinity

His mates are achieving success he is holding unto his ego

Let him go on pls

frozen70:


His mates are achieving success he is holding unto his ego

Let him go on pls

you are just grasping at straws... you think its only broke men that have ego... almost all men have ego.. even the successful... so i dont understand your own argument

frozen70:
You guys that doesn't even know how the game of marriage is, are here masturbating on a woman being single or married

You don't know and won't know until you keep a woman at home as a wife

Then you will realise the power of a woman in the house


*THE OTHER ROOM...*

The other room
Where a woman pretends
To be weak
So that a man
Can believe he is strong
Where a woman pretends
To be foolish
So that a man
Can say he is wise
Where a woman stoops
So that a man can conquer.

The other room
Where gods of men
Become worshipers of women
Where leaders of thought
Become minions
Of the bleeders blood
Where wielders of power
Succumb to power.

The other room
Where the brashness of testosterone
Yields to the bra straps of estrogen
Where the bravado of masculinity
Is tamed by the wiles of femininity
Where the turgid
Becomes the flaccid

Three rooms
In a house
One in which a man
Believes he is king
Two in which
He realizes
A woman is god!
Hmmmmmm!

The other room
Hardened men become beggars
The queen becomes the king too
The king, just a beggarly page

In the other room
We cry for joy
Beg to be injured
For there, we enjoy pain

In the other room
We beg to suck milkless breasts
Accept every proposal
And promise any thing

In the other room
Fate of nations are decided
Destinies of men are fixed
Death warrants are signed

The other room
What a room..!

a woman pretends to be weak... women don't pretend to be weak.. women are weak....

You just keep holding on to some kind funny narrative... is it not men that built this world while women watched?.. so howbarebyou strong, just tell me... everything you need for survival was made by a man... nairaland, facebook, social media, the clothes you wear, the attachments you put, the wigs you wear, the relaxer you use, the sanitary pads you use, the pants you wear, the clothes you wear, everything was made by a man... so how are you not weak?

Kennedyiheme:
lol linda ikeji is one celeb women in nigeria look up to, lol thats certainly your business. Oh really it takes a humble man, yet no humble man has proposed??

Because they are scared of her status

frozen70:


Then let him hang his ego about every where he goes since its an abomination for a man to bring down his ego to relate with women and other people

His ego, his business

Just let the well to do women be, they are complacent with their way of life

On this "Then let him hang his ego about every where he goes"

Once more, stop mixing up egoism with ego. Only an unrefined man who hasn't conquered egoism will be hanging his ego around women/other people, regardless of their social status. There's nothing wrong with ego (one's sense of self-esteem), provided that the possessor isn't egoistic (selfish, greedy, or self-centered) or has conquered egoism.

Only a woman who hasn't conquered egoism will have problem to relate and put up with a man with ego who has conquered egoism.

A well-to-do woman who has conquered egoism is a bliss to relate with, while her opposite is personification of subjugation.

Kennedyiheme:
a woman pretends to be weak... women don't pretend to be weak.. women are weak....

You just keep holding on to some kind funny narrative... is it not men that built this world while women watched?.. so howbarebyou strong, just tell me... everything you need for survival was made by a man... nairaland, facebook, social media, the clothes you wear, the attachments you put, the wigs you wear, the relaxer you use, the sanitary pads you use, the pants you wear, the clothes you wear, everything was made by a man... so how are you not weak?

Well as it is, you are not yet experienced, you will get their but not with this mentality

Women never do you something

You will sure have am encounter that will adjust your mindset about men doing everything

Kennedyiheme:
you are just grasping at straws... you think its only broke men that have ego... almost all men have ego.. even the successful... so i dont understand your own argument

You mentioned broke men, I didn't

Every mam has ego

The way and manner you uses yours is what makes you different from others

LordKO:


On this "Then let him hang his ego about every where he goes"

Once more, stop mixing up egotism/egoism with ego. Only an unrefined man who hasn't conquered egoism will be hanging his ego around women/other people, regardless of their social status. There's nothing wrong with ego (one's sense of self-esteem), provided that the possessor isn't egoistic/egotistic or has conquered egoism/egotism.

Only a woman who hasn't conquered egoism will have problem to relate and put up with a man with ego who has conquered egoism.

A well-to-do woman who has conquered egoism is a bliss to relate with, while her opposite is personification of subjugation.

I repeat, a woman success is her effort not a man's effort

So if you want to be with a rich amd successful woman

Just respect yourself if not you won't be different from a gold digger

frozen70:


Because they are scared of her status

lol thats why successful women are lonely..

Kennedyiheme:
lol thats why successful women are lonely..

You see them as lonely

They are complacent with the way they are, simple

frozen70:


Well as it is, you are not yet experienced, you will get their but not with this mentality

Women never do you something

You will sure have am encounter that will adjust your mindset about men doing everything

you are the one saying women pretend to be weak.... with every successful woman, its because of a man shes rich.. if a man didnt invent the internet, would linda ikeji be rich?... is it a woman that owns google who pay her?.. its because of a man linda ikeji is rich..

frozen70:


You see them as lonely

They are complacent with the way they are, simple

yet she keeps reminding us shes a bride.. ok ooo

frozen70:


I repeat, a woman success is her effort not a man's effort

So if you want to be with a rich amd successful woman

Just respect yourself if not you won't be different from a gold digger

Wretched people like you aren't hard to spot, lol. Empty vessels make the loudest sound.

LordKO:



Wretched people like you aren't hard to spot, lol. Empty vessels make the loudest sound.

Just the way your low self esteem is affecting your ways of reasoning over women and their successful life

Kennedyiheme:
90% of the time a rich woman is never loyal.. especially when she knows shes richer than her husband. soryy that fact... i know you all want this narrative to go the happy ever after, it jsut cant... everything most people stated here are justb assumptions... we all know in our society rich men dont marry rich women... so why should we keep assuming

Lol it's funny you mentioned assuming since you're the one doing most of the assumption, backed up by no facts nor statistics and in as much as there's a truth in it just citing Linda ikeji alone isnt enough, one could site Folorunsho Alakija as an example for the opposing side.
And frankly a lot of extremely wealthy people have cooks it's not the wife cooking for the man.

Ultimatesammie:

Lol it's funny you mentioned assuming since you're the one doing most of the assumption, backed up by no facts nor statistics and in as much as there's a truth in it just citing Linda ikeji alone isnt enough, one could site Folorunsho Alakija as an example for the opposing side.
And frankly a lot of extremely wealthy people have cooks it's not the wife cooking for the man.

yeah linda ikeji is one of plenty, wasnt she a feminist, is that an assumption too? If she had regrets, you don't think there are many like her out there?.. or to you its an assumtion? Lol anyways.. if my cook would do all the cooking, why do i need a wife.. whats the usefulness of a wife if you have your maid filling up the wify role?

so all those ladies from wealthy families getting married to men from wealthy families na were dem dey see them?
any lady who blames her success for a reason for not getting a man is not being sincere with herself
in short do you know how many men are dying to date and marry successful female doctors or ladies from wealthy lineage?
i bet if chimamander adichie where to come out now to say she is divorced and looking for a new husband many men will queue up waiting to be picked
who no like better thing
op abeg talk another thing.

Kennedyiheme:
how many wealthy men have you seen marrying wealthy women? I'm glad you metioned the hard part is to find a man that wont bother about her wealth... wow you basically just repeated all i said lol

a lot.Sir Gabriel igbenedion the esama of benin whose son was the former governor one of his grand dauthers got married to then senator markafi"s son.one of his dauthers got married to the late oba"s nephew as well though dat marriage didnt last long.point in fact is that the rich always get married to the rich while the poor always get married to the poor in real life.its onlywood u see a rich igwe"s son getting married to an illiterate maid but then nollywood is not real life .

Kennedyiheme:
exactly.. so thats where the problem is.. if you cant date down then you'll remain alone... someone like dangote wouldn't marry a woman who wouldn't have the time to do chores... yes he has maids, but if the maid plays the role of the wife then his wife becomes useless

Are you trying to say that the reason why dangote would marry is because he is looking for who will do house work for him?

What would happen to the maids already doing it? Notice I said maids because I wonder how a rich man like dangote who probably lives in a mansion would marry, just for his wife to slave around cooking and cleaning in and around such a large house every day without help for the rest of her life.

The only role of a woman in marriage is to be a glorified maid if not she becomes useless, that means its safe to say that the only role of a husband in marriage is to bring money if not he becomes totally useless.


Op your reasoning is flawed and not of this century.