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Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by fujirice: 9:39pm On Jan 09, 2020
Fareee123:
well, I never asked for it,my dad gives me house rent which he knows about, but he still pays it because when I had issues with my roommate in my first year,the Lady broke my head,so he got me another apartment and told the landlord to call him whenever the rent expires. Not all guys don't have sense like you
Now this is beginning to sound like bollocks to me. undecided
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Bahddo(m): 9:44pm On Jan 09, 2020
Fareee123:
I do well for myself too,I make and sell wigs and I'm a make up artist,my parents still cater for me too, if I leave him,I can't have a problem financially, I just don't know if I can love someone else the way I love him,I'm sad.
aunty, you don't love him. You just enjoy the idea of being in love. If you truly loved him, you wouldn't be considering finding someone else. Love, when it is true, is loyal - it never fails. It is also selfless; it wouldn't insist on getting what it wants, especially if the one you love could have issues in his final year because of divided focus.

He sacrifices his material resources for you, what do you sacrifice for him? The airtime you use for the calls that you have stopped because it is mostly one sided?

Stop mentioning love in purely transactional relationships.

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Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Davefate: 9:46pm On Jan 09, 2020
Your boyfriend is among the best. Don't ever try to leave him. He's in final year, he needs your support now. What is wrong with you?, you dont even need much attention cos you too are studying. Give him time, he cares, he's a good man you might not see such a caring man again Above all be prayerful.
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by SyrusdeHansome(m): 9:46pm On Jan 09, 2020
mamaafrik:
u don't call but u want to be called,i feel like swearing for you


Oya swear na
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Eofclub: 9:47pm On Jan 09, 2020
Send me small thing mAh give you attention
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by officialfestus(m): 9:48pm On Jan 09, 2020
Davash222:
Women are something else.
What do women want? How do you expect him to make all those monies he spent on you if he’s not busy
You enjoyed all these cos he’s a busy man and hardworking. Go and date a broke man if you need maximum attention!!!
so on point
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Thegeneralqueen(f): 9:52pm On Jan 09, 2020
Victornezzar:

Madam
Why are you angry
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by marvelito: 9:56pm On Jan 09, 2020
Fareee123:
I do well for myself too,I make and sell wigs and I'm a make up artist,my parents still cater for me too, if I leave him,I can't have a problem financially, I just don't know if I can love someone else the way I love him,I'm sad.
Your man may be going through some academic challenge especially now that he is in his finals. Most guys withdraw at this stage. You need to message him once in a while to assure him you are always there for him and follow up with calls but not too much. Whenever you see again try and ask him if he is going through any challenge.

Another reason could be that he is seeing a sugar mummy who bankrolls him and he has to limit calling you not to get into trouble. But I doubt this reason though. The guy is a good guy please don't pressure him now that he is in his finals. This guy that meets your needs hope you also support him financially when the need arise. Shower him with gifts with that money.
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by StoneColdBiceps(m): 9:57pm On Jan 09, 2020
Fareee123:
Hi elders in the house, I'm a lady, I'm 21 years old. There's this guy I've been dating for about 3 years, we got along so fast that it feels like I've known him all my life, he's in his final year and I'm in my third year, not in the same school though.

He used to call and text often until middle last year, he stopped calling like he used to, I still do the calling, but I got tired, he wasn't reciprocating, when I complained, he said he's always busy, I feel that if he loves me like he claims, he will always check on me, whenever we're together, the vibes of the relationship is still there, but when we aren't together, he's a different person.

There was a time I broke up, I blocked him, he found a way to reach me and we ironed things out, he changed for 2 weeks before he went to his normal self. He answers to my needs guys, he has been paying my rent since my first year in school, he gives me 10k every 2 weeks, he pays for my hair when I need him to + other stuffs too.

Do you think he can change or do I just leave the relationship?? Please ignore the errors, I'm not perfect.


Forget busy.
Forget money.
Forget rent.
Guy man is busy with another girl and compensating you abeg. A chick is within his peck and call...
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by nan1: 10:01pm On Jan 09, 2020
From your analogy this guy is a gentle man if you leave him you will cry one guy said earlier na marlians full town. try to be patient you can't have it all I know your age is still shaking you for youthful exuberance better stick with him and also face your studies
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by philip0906(m): 10:01pm On Jan 09, 2020
victorian:







She try.

I wish both of you best of luck.

I can't be in such type of relationship. My man has to spend more, even though I assist by the side. Thats how our relationship flows.
But you want to be equal with a man? undecided
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by oshaosha2014(m): 10:03pm On Jan 09, 2020
Not her fault oooh. It is guys that overdo things all in the name of being a man. He’s putting that much stress on himself meanwhile, the girl can cater to some of this personal stuff on her own. The day he stops doing those things due to financial constraints wahala go shele because he has made her to feel entitled already.

Ukodo1123:
U have handwork, n your parent cater for u n u still exploit the young man

That guy is not suppose to pay your rent if u are from a good home
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by oshaosha2014(m): 10:05pm On Jan 09, 2020
He still doesn’t have sense. You still have a father and mother that takes care of you but one boy will be slaving day and night to be acting as your parent, and you feel happy about that??

Fareee123:
well, I never asked for it,my dad gives me house rent which he knows about, but he still pays it because when I had issues with my roommate in my first year,the Lady broke my head,so he got me another apartment and told the landlord to call him whenever the rent expires. Not all guys don't have sense like you
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by ademola020(m): 10:06pm On Jan 09, 2020
The only problem I see here is that you are too far away from him.
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by kiddapunk: 10:11pm On Jan 09, 2020
Fareee123:
Hi elders in the house, I'm a lady, I'm 21 years old. There's this guy I've been dating for about 3 years, we got along so fast that it feels like I've known him all my life, he's in his final year and I'm in my third year, not in the same school though.

He used to call and text often until middle last year, he stopped calling like he used to, I still do the calling, but I got tired, he wasn't reciprocating, when I complained, he said he's always busy, I feel that if he loves me like he claims, he will always check on me, whenever we're together, the vibes of the relationship is still there, but when we aren't together, he's a different person.

There was a time I broke up, I blocked him, he found a way to reach me and we ironed things out, he changed for 2 weeks before he went to his normal self. He answers to my needs guys, he has been paying my rent since my first year in school, he gives me 10k every 2 weeks, he pays for my hair when I need him to + other stuffs too.

Do you think he can change or do I just leave the relationship?? Please ignore the errors, I'm not perfect.
A final year student with all these responsibilities? how on earth would he accord you the same attention he gives to his hustle, which provides the obvious neccessities you enjoy?
PS: if he doesn't love you believe me you won't see shishi from him. that guy is close to God in your life grin
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Nobody: 10:13pm On Jan 09, 2020
Fareee123:
well, I never asked for it,my dad gives me house rent which he knows about, but he still pays it because when I had issues with my roommate in my first year,the Lady broke my head,so he got me another apartment and told the landlord to call him whenever the rent expires. Not all guys don't have sense like you
Typically, stuff like this is posted by people, who have no back-bone at all and you're beginning to sound like a squid....Pls,go n shut down this ur thread and Close ur Nairaland for a start, you're becoming Dysfunctional and too Sad.
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by oshaosha2014(m): 10:14pm On Jan 09, 2020
Lol. I think he’s going to regret investing this much on that girl, too. How can a boyfriend take the role of a husband or father over a girl that has her support system intact. Only one way this is gonna go - heartbreak for the stupid boy.

Timekeeper:


I swear I feel like cursing your bf for making such investment in you.. He is a big fool, and I hope life will teach him a lesson

How can he spend such money on a bitch and leech like you.. U gat parents Abi shey ur parents are disabled ni.

A man is feeding ur life and u r thinking of breaking up. Final year 4dt matter.. I swear, karma will do 10x of this in ur miserable rubbish life.


Chai dt guy na big fool.. Ontop on pussy oo, not two oo, just one pussy that might be smelling sef
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Victornezzar: 10:14pm On Jan 09, 2020
Thegeneralqueen:
Why are you angry
Lol
Was obviously joking
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by kiddapunk: 10:16pm On Jan 09, 2020
StoneColdBiceps:



Forget busy.
Forget money.
Forget rent.
Guy man is busy with another girl and compensating you abeg. A chick is within his peck and call...
this one that cannot give woman 500 naira without demanding sex. close your mouth!, dingbat.
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Thegeneralqueen(f): 10:16pm On Jan 09, 2020
Victornezzar:

Lol
Was obviously joking
Ok
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Enemyofpeace: 10:18pm On Jan 09, 2020
He is preparing you for ritual that is why he is taking very good care of you like person wey dey take care of fowl for Christmas
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Haywize93(m): 10:18pm On Jan 09, 2020
Davash222:
Women are something else.
What do women want? How do you expect him to make all those monies he spent on you if he’s not busy
You enjoyed all these cos he’s a busy man and hardworking. Go and date a broke man if you need maximum attention!!!
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Jayess: 10:21pm On Jan 09, 2020
Davash222:
Women are something else.
What do women want? How do you expect him to make all those monies he spent on you if he’s not busy
You enjoyed all these cos he’s a busy man and hardworking. Go and date a broke man if you need maximum attention!!!

Guy I don't know what to say to you, but more cerebrum to your brain for this, I wish I can like this multiple times! grin
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by gowonmaharajah(m): 10:23pm On Jan 09, 2020
mamaafrik:
you should have told him to stop aiding you financially when you know you can stand on your own,olooshi omo,you saw greener pasture con dey itemize silly excuse abi,mark my word ,you will one day regret it,you foolish ingrate.
Boss,why u con dey paara na? Na so e pain u reach

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Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by oshaosha2014(m): 10:27pm On Jan 09, 2020
Can you do that for a boyfriend “willingly.”

Nnemuka:

how is she exploiting him?
He was not forced at gun point to give, he did all those willingly.
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Victornezzar: 10:28pm On Jan 09, 2020
Thegeneralqueen:
Ok
cheesy wink wink
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Goalnaldo(m): 10:31pm On Jan 09, 2020
Do you want the call or for him to take care of your needs? Make up your mind.
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Nobody: 10:31pm On Jan 09, 2020
Fareee123:
I do well for myself too,I make and sell wigs and I'm a make up artist,my parents still cater for me too, if I leave him,I can't have a problem financially, I just don't know if I can love someone else the way I love him,I'm sad.

kiss
mч dєαr lσvє íѕ pαín. hαvє α hєαrt tσ hєαrt tαlk wít hím. mαчвє hє íѕ gσíng thrσugh α díffícult tímє. tαlk tσ hím αѕ α fríєnd.

Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Nobody: 10:32pm On Jan 09, 2020
He's chilling the pucci for recycling
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by victorian(f): 10:35pm On Jan 09, 2020
philip0906:

But you want to be equal with a man? undecided








I'm not struggling any roles with my man.

He can be the man and the leader in our relationship, no problem.

I don't have issues with him taking the leading role. He respects me, he adores me , he listens to me and he's faithful, he loves picking up bills with all smiles. He goes for the best in whatever he buys and eats.
so why would I want to compete or struggles roles with him? I don't need to.
He's free to be the boss cheesy
Mehn! With all pleasure! Make I relax, follow his enjoyment lead and enjoy my life jare! I didn't vow I'm meant to be a man for life! grin
I no come this life as a man. I'm a woman, and My dear I have been a man for many years, since I lost my parents to death, it's tiring , even though the experience made me tough when I need to be

But I love being pampered like a woman. smiley damn! It's sweet!

And he's not bossy, hes not arrogant, he's sweet, soft, gentle , and respectful too cheesy

Even though I'm blue blood, and he's not? That fact doesn't get to my head. Im submissive and I see him and give him his respect as the man in our relationship.
I don't even compete with anyone sef,. Lol.
I don't struggle roles with anyone.
I don't envy anybody.
I don't struggle to be anyone.
My friends know me for that. I don't have time for such. I simply focus on my strength and weakness in life and live life to the fullest.

So don't bring that equality card to me. It's no use.

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Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by femi4: 10:35pm On Jan 09, 2020
Fareee123:
Hi elders in the house, I'm a lady, I'm 21 years old. There's this guy I've been dating for about 3 years, we got along so fast that it feels like I've known him all my life, he's in his final year and I'm in my third year, not in the same school though.

He used to call and text often until middle last year, he stopped calling like he used to, I still do the calling, but I got tired, he wasn't reciprocating, when I complained, he said he's always busy, I feel that if he loves me like he claims, he will always check on me, whenever we're together, the vibes of the relationship is still there, but when we aren't together, he's a different person.

There was a time I broke up, I blocked him, he found a way to reach me and we ironed things out, he changed for 2 weeks before he went to his normal self. He answers to my needs guys, he has been paying my rent since my first year in school, he gives me 10k every 2 weeks, he pays for my hair when I need him to + other stuffs too.

Do you think he can change or do I just leave the relationship?? Please ignore the errors, I'm not perfect.
I m interested in that part.

Anyway, there is someone else elsewhere. A "10k every two weeks" guy is too good for one person. Learn to share!
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by SKINDOGGY: 10:38pm On Jan 09, 2020
koldej:

Das even if he is fuckin it atoo
Mad ooh grin

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