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Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by mila1121(m): 10:38pm On Jan 09, 2020
Spend on him too buy cloth pay his school fees he will call you more often
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by 3mmyz(m): 10:39pm On Jan 09, 2020
chigoizie7:
Yes.


Yes needs to focus more on himself.


A final year student that has both his projects, seminar and a lot of reading to do to avoid spillover plus still hustling to be able to provide for some financial needs.

Some people are really heartless ooh.


You want him to still give you much attention as he used to when he doesn’t have so much on his head as he has now. All these while he has been the perfect man, but the few times he snapped probably because he has a lot to tackle, you couldn’t hold up for him. He has been calling for close to two years, no wahala, but you got tired just for the few weeks you did the calling.


Please leave him, he needs a better woman in his life.




I will keep on praying to God to take women like you far away from me.

All these people talking about attention this, attention that , has never really worked a full day, let’s say common 8-5 for just one week. That is when they will know the importance of time.

Apt reply
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Nobody: 10:40pm On Jan 09, 2020
He's keeping the pucci for recycling purposes; keep it chilling baby tongue
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Insectkiller: 10:40pm On Jan 09, 2020
I think u should have describe urself first..atleast since u cant put ur picture..(that will help us to know what's up and how to advice)..

Anyways,

If u are a busty girl that likes fvck..let me tell u, guys like to be around us but not to marry/plan for us..


They can pay our bills but don't expect anything more..because we easily fade off from them..but when they need good sex (especially the ones with Big D*ck they always look for us..

So, don't feel bad..
It's still a Win-Win situation..

Just face ur studies
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Nobody: 10:45pm On Jan 09, 2020
ashantitope:
Lol if he doesn't call can't you call or is it written in Constitution that it only man that must call and secondly you are 21 and you have been dating him for like 3 years na wa oooo when am in your age I don't know what relationship is all about




So what is there if she started dating at 19.
Is there a law that states that 21 year old girls shouldn't be in a relationship?
She's in 3rd year, if she doesn't have a bf now when will she now start having?
Aunty please just because u were a saint during your own time doesn't mean everyone should be like u

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Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Goldiano(m): 10:47pm On Jan 09, 2020
Davash222:
Women are something else.
What do women want? How do you expect him to make all those monies he spent on you if he’s not busy
You enjoyed all these cos he’s a busy man and hardworking. Go and date a broke man if you need maximum attention!!!
girls are dead-brain in reasoning in relationships often times... always thinking sloppily...just go and be fucking Available guys then...stop being unidirectional
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Bankyshinani(m): 10:48pm On Jan 09, 2020
I dare you to break up if suffer no go waya you well well
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Impostor: 10:53pm On Jan 09, 2020
Fareee123:
well, I never asked for it,my dad gives me house rent which he knows about, but he still pays it because when I had issues with my roommate in my first year,the Lady broke my head,so he got me another apartment and told the landlord to call him whenever the rent expires. Not all guys don't have sense like you

Actually it is your father's responsibility to pay your rent and upkeep, not a young undergraduate student. Ah ah naw, I would have understand if he is a working class guy. Your fellow student giving you 20k per month. Na wa o. Is relationship for sell in Nigeria? This is wrong naw. Why are you girls so hungry? And you are even proud to say it. Such an irresponsible girl.
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by EstherBlished: 10:56pm On Jan 09, 2020
Very mature and straight to the point!
chigoizie7:


Be patient with him, he probably has a lot in his life right now. You will start enjoying him once the burden is lesser for as it is used to be.
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Krisddon: 10:59pm On Jan 09, 2020
Davash222:
Women are something else.
What do women want? How do you expect him to make all those monies he spent on you if he’s not busy
You enjoyed all these cos he’s a busy man and hardworking. Go and date a broke man if you need maximum attention!!!
EOD!
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Fantazy(m): 11:04pm On Jan 09, 2020
Your matter tire me o

Why can't u just be doing the calling since he is given u the money? Or is he not picking ur calls also?

Very confused fellows called female

Tofiakwa!
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Fantazy(m): 11:08pm On Jan 09, 2020
Fareee123:
I do well for myself too,I make and sell wigs and I'm a make up artist,my parents still cater for me too, if I leave him,I can't have a problem financially, I just don't know if I can love someone else the way I love him,I'm sad.

So after all these u still collect money from him and so on
And u want to end the relationship just because he doesn't call only.

Let me just hold my mouth
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Daddy46: 11:25pm On Jan 09, 2020
jagaban002:
Easiest way to get is attention if you really need one , whenever he send u money send it back , don’t ask for money for hair just tell him nah is call u want and attention he go change since he will realize no be money be ur prob and nah attention u need but my own point of view guys like that are few , 10k every 2 weeks and other things follow even parents don’t do more than this for there kids miss be patient and fight for what u want if u truly love him not all this u wan break up , nah mallians full town no better bf again
I pray you realize early what it's takes to have a caring partner well if it's attention try chatting with him why blocking him na send voice not on watapp anything else maybe you have already made up your mind self
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by JeogahII(m): 11:27pm On Jan 09, 2020
Those hurling insult on her because of the money the guy is giving her do not really understand what relationship is to a lady. It is so sad that relationship have been reduced by some ladies as money making venture.

But to most others, relationship is more than that. A lady enjoy attention of her man most

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Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by ufotty2001: 11:27pm On Jan 09, 2020
Women are the most confused people in the world
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by OndoRaph(m): 11:29pm On Jan 09, 2020
He has another girl over there at his school, period.
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Samofamo: 11:43pm On Jan 09, 2020
Fareee123:
I do well for myself too,I make and sell wigs and I'm a make up artist,my parents still cater for me too, if I leave him,I can't have a problem financially, I just don't know if I can love someone else the way I love him,I'm sad.
u are a thief,leave him,hairdressers are promiscuous set of people,let me tell u the bitter truth he cannot marry u,if he married u,u will die premature... To make the matter worse,u don't know what he does for a leaving....... U dis hairdresser

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Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Dearlord(m): 11:52pm On Jan 09, 2020
OP is a confused stupid girl that's few I can say.
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by osayuwamwen(m): 12:01am On Jan 10, 2020
I don't tink many guys in school can afford this for a lady, is there something you are not telling us, are you sure this guy u are talking about is not yr sugar daddy. Maybe the mumu man has finally located is senses and has shifted his attention to his family
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Germi9: 12:10am On Jan 10, 2020
I also have that syndrome of not calling,and everybody complains about it even my girlfriend,but that doesn't mean I don't care or think about the all...not just my thing
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by poseidon12: 12:19am On Jan 10, 2020
Both of you are students. I'm just curious as to how he makes enough money to take care of himself and still have enough to pay your rent and give you #20,000 a month. Make sure you are not dealing with a criminal.
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Utumax(m): 12:24am On Jan 10, 2020
Fareee123:
Hi elders in the house, I'm a lady, I'm 21 years old. There's this guy I've been dating for about 3 years, we got along so fast that it feels like I've known him all my life, he's in his final year and I'm in my third year, not in the same school though.

He used to call and text often until middle last year, he stopped calling like he used to, I still do the calling, but I got tired, he wasn't reciprocating, when I complained, he said he's always busy, I feel that if he loves me like he claims, he will always check on me, whenever we're together, the vibes of the relationship is still there, but when we aren't together, he's a different person.

There was a time I broke up, I blocked him, he found a way to reach me and we ironed things out, he changed for 2 weeks before he went to his normal self. He answers to my needs guys, he has been paying my rent since my first year in school, he gives me 10k every 2 weeks, he pays for my hair when I need him to + other stuffs too.

Do you think he can change or do I just leave the relationship?? Please ignore the errors, I'm not perfect.
This boy must be a Yahoo boy.�
EFCC must hear this �
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by XklusivGistBlog(m): 12:33am On Jan 10, 2020
Fareee123:
I do well for myself too,I make and sell wigs and I'm a make up artist,my parents still cater for me too, if I leave him,I can't have a problem financially, I just don't know if I can love someone else the way I love him,I'm sad.

You mean the way u love his money
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by MariaAngeles: 12:36am On Jan 10, 2020
funmisticqueen:
Aunty, this is textbook fuckboy behavior, please do the needful and dump him.

But aunty, you are addicted to the hypergamous lifestyle.
You read the part where she stated that dude was in his final year right ?
Oh! I forgot. Op is female and that's no issue .
She's right as long as she's a she .
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by MariaAngeles: 12:39am On Jan 10, 2020
Fareee123:
I do well for myself too,I make and sell wigs and I'm a make up artist,my parents still cater for me too, if I leave him,I can't have a problem financially, I just don't know if I can love someone else the way I love him,I'm sad.
I hope you bring the same level of energy you seek when you get to your finals and are running around concerning your project but he wants your attention .
Attention seeking leech !
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by NevetsIbot(m): 12:47am On Jan 10, 2020
chigoizie7:


And yet you want to leave that one that has sense.

Clap for yourself


Lol. Bro.. I could dash you my future Benz for this
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by sayisayi(m): 12:57am On Jan 10, 2020
First world problems....
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Lifecanbeamazin: 1:13am On Jan 10, 2020
Probably a Married Catfish.
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Lifecanbeamazin: 1:16am On Jan 10, 2020
This could be a married man, who's pretending to be what he's not.
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by KomonSense: 1:20am On Jan 10, 2020
frozen70:


You have a caring guy like him and you want to let him go just like that

Well he may be busy, he may not be

If he has found another girl, them he is really busy

But I suggest you pay him a visit and dig deep into his mouth to find out why the sudden change

It takes a thin line between love and lost love

Assure him of your loyalty and promise him you did make him proud

Though he alone knows what's up, you are just trying to let him know that he is your jewel

come collect bitter kola joooor.... you get sesne
Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by MarxisGlaaiback: 1:33am On Jan 10, 2020
When they start to wire u money like dat shine ur eyes nothing good comes dat easy when dem won refresh the source of d money d juju go quick catch u sharp sharp be careful!

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