Let me just cut the story short...I met this girl about two weeks ago...she was cool when I met her. Our vibes clicked. I took her out, we had nice time together. She's a baker, I got her like four customers within the space of two weeks.. but she changed immediately we started having sex, she started coming up with different billing formats, this was the same girl that insisted on paying on all the dates we went.

lawful marriage: u pay bride price ,unlawful marriage: u pay sex price.

It takes a lot for us to open our legs so you could have your way and if there is any reward more than money i think we deserve it because it's not easy to undergo the stress of having sex especially with Nigerian men

Because men have braging rights afterwards. She has money for the inconvenience that braging right might bring. That's my opinion.

Thegeneralqueen:
It takes a lot for us to open our legs so you could have your way and if there is any reward more than money i think we deserve it because it's not easy to undergo the stress of having sex especially with Nigerian men

But you also enjoy the sex na. Why should it be the man to pay for something both people enjoyed

Thegeneralqueen:
It takes a lot for us to open our legs so you could have your way and if there is any reward more than money i think we deserve it because it's not easy to undergo the stress of having sex especially with Nigerian men

None of the above makes sense...
What do you mean by, "open our legs so yhu could have yhur way" ?

This is the annoying thing about ladies, especially the ones here in Naija.. They believe that sex is what for the man's benefit and therefore, money is what the woman gets in return.. And many girls limit themselves thinking that sex is all they can offer.

Actually, sex is not a fair exchange for money in any romantic relationship, unless it's prostitution... If that's what you girls wanna do, it's fine,, buh it should be properly defined..


MODIFIED
I once read an article which says that a man's role in the relationship is to focus on physical stress, in which money is a major player; and the woman's major role is to solve emotional stress, where sex is NOT a major factor.. SEX FOR MONEY IS CHEATING..

Thegeneralqueen:
It takes a lot for us to open our legs so you could have your way and if there is any reward more than money i think we deserve it because it's not easy to undergo the stress of having sex especially with Nigerian men

what does it take to open common legs, as if it is a federal job. Is the legs made of gold. I think a lady will be looked at being cheap in Nigeria if she doesn't get money out of it. it is a societal problem

sodiqapril:
Let me just cut the story short...I met this girl about two weeks ago...she was cool when I met her. Our vibes clicked. I took her out, we had nice time together. She's a baker, I got her like four customers within the space of two weeks.. but she changed immediately we started having sex, she started coming up with different billing formats, this was the same girl that insisted on paying on all the dates we went.

Don't you have sisters?

Thegeneralqueen:
It takes a lot for us to open our legs so you could have your way and if there is any reward more than money i think we deserve it because it's not easy to undergo the stress of having sex especially with Nigerian men

Really?
You must be very experienced...

SMH

Sodiqapril , why do Men feel they need to be rewarded with sex just because they give a woman some money ?

Why do men feel they need to be rewarded with sex after spending on a lady?

delishpot:
Because men have braging rights afterwards. She has money for the inconvenience that braging right might bring. That's my opinion.

What is this? You dey whine us ni?

Because that only what they got to offer,so they offer it like that....you self Bleep pay money na!

e easy to suck prick?

Bro, transactional sex is not a recent development.

Men have always been conditioned to reward women for sex. It is strange that only the bold ones are called prôstitutes while others can hide under different labels like girlfriends and escorts and even wives. If you collect money or phones or other gifts for sex, don’t form like you are better than olosho. You are all in the same Whatsapp group.

Stop looking for rewards for sex, if you’re not doing olosho work. Nacking is enjoyed by both parties. Nobody dey give anybody her body.

As a matter of fact, men lose a lot during sex, so we are the ones who should be paid. Imagine all the energy for thrusting and the skilful waist movements. Then you’d lose semen again. And the girl go still ask for money. Thunder suppose faya those girls.


Any girl who nacks without expecting gifts or money is a Queen. She is expressing equality in it’s true form.

There's nothing free even in free town...

Yhu dey find faqk ...Alaye where ego?

delishpot:
Because men have braging rights afterwards. She has money for the inconvenience that braging right might bring. That's my opinion.

you never change, you this girl

Riele:
SMH

Sodiqapril , why do Men feel they need to be rewarded with sex just because they give a woman some money ?

I never felt I was being rewarded for the money spent...we enjoyed each other's company.whenever I'm catching fun with my friends,I spend more. does it mean I ask my friends for sex ?

Jodha:
There's nothing free even in free town...

Yhu dey find faqk ...Alaye where ego?

Lol.... unless she wants a million naira every week..money isn't really a problem like that..I was just surprised that someone that never asked for money before just started demanding agressively.

Riele:
SMH

Sodiqapril , why do Men feel they need to be rewarded with sex just because they give a woman some money ?

I never demanded sex as a reward....matter of fact, she initiated the sex first. What I'm saying is she has a side hustle that pays her well and if you well to read, you will learn I helped her with four clients in a week.. she even tried to pay me for the referral which I rejected sharply. What I'm suprised about is how the demand just started coming from nowhere after we had sex

sodiqapril:

I never demanded sex as a reward....matter of fact, she initiated the sex first. What I'm saying is she has a side hustle that pays her well and if you well to read, you will learn I helped her with four clients in a week.. she even tried to pay me for the referral which I rejected sharply. What I'm suprised about is how the demand just started coming from nowhere after we had sex

This isn't about your experience with her .

I asked a general question , why are you bringing it back to yourself .?

sodiqapril:

I never felt I was being rewarded for the money spent...we enjoyed each other's company.whenever I'm catching fun with my friends,I spend more. does it mean I ask my friends for sex ?

You generalize on girls asking why " Girls " which mean All Girls demand money after sex .

Which is not entirely true .

According to you , same way you don't feel entitled to sex after spending is the same way most girls don't feel entitled to money after sex. .

I'm not really concerned about your experience with the girl . Just your generalization .

Riele:
SMH

Sodiqapril , why do Men feel they need to be rewarded with sex just because they give a woman some money ?

Waoh! Rewarded? Sis no be your fault jare. Na niggas wey dey see puna as an achievement cause am.

Thegeneralqueen:
It takes a lot for us to open our legs so you could have your way and if there is any reward more than money i think we deserve it because it's not easy to undergo the stress of having sex especially with Nigerian men

so say a Nigerian woman... we guys know most y"all are decent prostitute D's Days......look around ow many married ladies and ow many single mothers?
Do the math

Riele:
SMH

Sodiqapril , why do Men feel they need to be rewarded with sex just because they give a woman some money ?

Cos dat wat most y"all jobless have to offer.....see d honest truth is we men only treat the hungry lazy cretin among u people dat way.......if a man meet a matured classy reasonable lady he will surely treat her right but ow do u expect me to treat a decent prostitute who can go so low as lying dat her mum is on sick bed just to get money off me.
see have met a bunch and I don't blame d way guys treat most ladies D's days.

Godoverevery:

Cos dat wat most y"all jobless have to offer.....see d honest truth is we men only treat the hungry lazy cretin among u people dat way.......if a man meet a matured classy reasonable lady he will surely treat her right but ow do u expect me to treat a decent prostitute who can go so low as lying dat her mum is on sick bed just to get money off me.
see have met a bunch and I don't blame d way guys treat most ladies D's days.

Smh .

The truth also is that ladies also treat Lazy men the way OP lady treated him .

If a woman meets aClassy intelligent man she would respect him .

I also don't blame the way women treat you guys .

Riele:


Smh .

The truth also is that ladies also treat Lazy men the way OP lady treated him .

If a woman meets aClassy intelligent man she would respect him .

I also don't blame the way women treat you guys .

see u ladies are too many .....d worst a woman can do a man is "chop is money" or cheat on him like we all say but my dear we all no you ladies av experience lot of trauma.....I know one who is currently 5 month pregnant and currently under house arrest....her life is already miserable courtesy a guy she was playing smart with.

sodiqapril:

Lol.... unless she wants a million naira every week..money isn't really a problem like that..I was just surprised that someone that never asked for money before just started demanding agressively.

Yhu shouldn't have initiated sex with her.....

Cutehector:
you never change, you this girl

Uuuh, its been a long, long time! Hope your new year is going great.

AfroKnight:


What is this? You dey whine us ni?

Nope not whining you. When a guy beds a girl, he has that bragging right that he has nailed her. I know many people will say shebi they both enjoyed it but our society shames the woman and elevates the man. So women feel like...... if I will be screwed and be bragged about, I have to make sure its worth it . Now, for some just TP to and fro would do, for some it's school fees, for some it's shawarma and baileys etc.

delishpot:


Uuuh, its been a long, long time! Hope your new year is going great.

yeah yeah it is.

That is what gives women satisfaction in a relationship. They enjoy the sex, but it's never as much as the satisfaction derived from having money, and they will not be likely to stay solely with a man who gives good sex but not money. She will ultimately find a man who will give her money to complement the one who will give her good sex, and keep both.

It is the same with men, but conversely. Men also enjoy the sex and will usually enjoy taking money/gifts as well, but the gifts are not as important to men as the sex. If a woman gives her man gifts and money but no sex, the man will likely not stay with her exclusively, but will find someone else to give him sex.

You are a man. If you want sex, you give money; one way or the other. That is life.