Fareee123:
I do well for myself too,I make and sell wigs and I'm a make up artist,my parents still cater for me too, if I leave him,I can't have a problem financially, I just don't know if I can love someone else the way I love him,I'm sad.

You do well for yourself, ur parents stiĺl cater for your needs yet someone has been paying ur rent since 100lv and also giving you money for upkeep..continue deceiving yourself..las las the prick that is sweeting you now will tire you and you will realise you have bleeped up big time

Davash222:

Attention doesn’t pay bills, woman.

But every human crave for attention once in a while.
Some ladies value attention more than money.
How busy is he, that he can't just check up on her in 24hrs?

1kworks:
Yes. Please break up with him. It will be saving him lots of money along the line and he'll really thank you for it in the end.

Must it be all about money?
So funny how everyone is so driven by money money money.

chigoizie7:
Yes.


Yes needs to focus more on himself.


A final year student that has both his projects, seminar and a lot of reading to do to avoid spillover plus still hustling to be able to provide for some financial needs.

Some people are really heartless ooh.


You want him to still give you much attention as he used to when he doesn’t have so much on his head as he has now. All these while he has been the perfect man, but the few times he snapped probably because he has a lot to tackle, you couldn’t hold up for him. He has been calling for close to two years, no wahala, but you got tired just for the few weeks you did the calling.


Please leave him, he needs a better woman in his life.




I will keep on praying to God to take women like you far away from me.

All these people talking about attention this, attention that , has never really worked a full day, let’s say common 8-5 for just one week. That is when they will know the importance of time.

Was this all u could take from her post?
Hmmmmmm

chigoizie7:


Be patient with him, he probably has a lot in his life right now. You will start enjoying him once the burden is lesser for as it is used to be.

But he is suppose to explain to her, so she doesn't bother herself that much.
Effective communication still remain one of d ingredient of a successful rship

thelish:



Was this all u could take from her post?
Hmmmmmm

Perhaps, you could tell me whatelse to take.

When a partner suddenly becomes too busy to reach out, then someone else is getting their attention.
You broke up and he came looking for you. That is a man for you. He thought he had you under his thumb till you pulled the plug on his. Your ability to do that got him scared and affected his confidence. His coming back is for him to pull the plugs this time since that would give him greater satisfaction. And that would also hurt you more.

Babe, time to bounce. Some other babe is getting his attention and he will soon be the one dumping you. So move fast and dump his sorry ass.

Fareee123:
I do well for myself too,I make and sell wigs and I'm a make up artist,my parents still cater for me too, if I leave him,I can't have a problem financially, I just don't know if I can love someone else the way I love him,I'm sad.

Who gave you money to start the wig business?

thelish:


But he is suppose to explain to her, so she doesn't bother herself that much.
Effective communication still remain one of d ingredient of a successful rship

Effective communications. I see.

And if she ask him what the problem was, would she die?

See, let me tell you something. When you find yourself in such situations, you hardly know it until it becomes obvious.

When your guy stops communicating the way he used to be but also still doing all that he used to do for you. Then you should be in a better position to ask him what the problem is, try to find out why he is like that, try to find out if he has some problem at the moment. That is called a relationship, if he makes mistakes, you correct it, you are there to compliment each other 100%. It shouldn’t be one sided.

Until you find yourself in the guys shoes, that is when you will know better.

Besides, common sense should have told her that the guy has a lot going for him at the moment, don’t pretend as if she doesn’t know that he has a lot going on in his life at that moment. Because she made use know that.

The young girl in question already thanked me for making her see what she couldn’t see earlier , this coming here for clarifications.

So what is your own?

Fareee123:
well, I never asked for it,my dad gives me house rent which he knows about, but he still pays it because when I had issues with my roommate in my first year,the Lady broke my head,so he got me another apartment and told the landlord to call him whenever the rent expires. Not all guys don't have sense like you

But why did the Lady break ur coconut head? Did you try to steal her bf because ur bf is far away and you needed constant prick? I can see This your ferrocious desire for constant dicking has been landing you in trouble since time immemorial

Single guy like me don't have anything to comment
Peace out

Pls give me his number let me talk to him....

Timekeeper:


I swear I feel like cursing your bf for making such investment in you.. He is a big fool, and I hope life will teach him a lesson

How can he spend such money on a bitch and leech like you.. U gat parents Abi shey ur parents are disabled ni.

A man is feeding ur life and u r thinking of breaking up. Final year 4dt matter.. I swear, karma will do 10x of this in ur miserable rubbish life.


Chai dt guy na big fool.. Ontop on pussy oo, not two oo, just one pussy that might be smelling sef

Some of you really lack sense and it shows.

Lawlahdey:
Some of you really lack sense and it shows.

Like some of ur type have sense so much Abi... Bitches

Lawlahdey:
Some of you really lack sense and it shows.

Don't ever quote me again

Timekeeper:



Don't ever quote me again

I wonder what you will do if I quote you. I just did, by the way.

Just be patient. Face your book and maintain your morality. He will come to you as before.A word is enough for the wise.

thelish:


Must it be all about money?
So funny how everyone is so driven by money money money.

Yes. It's the most difficult to get.

Lawlahdey:
I wonder what you will do if I quote you. I just did, by the way.

Lola, I dey warn u. Quote me now and see if a drone wunt drop a bomb on ur head.. U can comment without quoting me... Its an open thread. Make ur own comment Pls

thelish:


But every human crave for attention once in a while.
Some ladies value attention more than money.
How busy is he, that he can't just check up on her in 24hrs?

Okay if she values attention than money, let her reject 10k allowance, let her start paying her house rent.. Then we can talk about attention

Timekeeper:


Lola, I dey warn u. Quote me now and see if a drone wunt drop a bomb on ur head.. U can comment without quoting me... Its an open thread. Make ur own comment Pls

Shut the hell up.

Timekeeper:


Okay if she values attention than money, let her reject 10k allowance, let her start paying her house rent.. Then we can talk about attention

Like she can't??
How come 10k has taken d place of communication in a rship?
Why is everybody so concerned about d 10k, forgetting her pains n concern in d rship??

1kworks:


Yes. It's the most difficult to get.

Hahahahaha, really??
Has money eaten so deep into d heart of people like this??

chigoizie7:



Effective communications. I see.

And if she ask him what the problem was, would she die?

See, let me tell you something. When you find yourself in such situations, you hardly know it until it becomes obvious.

When your guy stops communicating the way he used to be but also still doing all that he used to do for you. Then you should be in a better position to ask him what the problem is, try to find out why he is like that, try to find out if he has some problem at the moment. That is called a relationship, if he makes mistakes, you correct it, you are there to compliment each other 100%. It shouldn’t be one sided.

Until you find yourself in the guys shoes, that is when you will know better.

Besides, common sense should have told her that the guy has a lot going for him at the moment, don’t pretend as if she doesn’t know that he has a lot going on in his life at that moment. Because she made use know that.

The young girl in question already thanked me for making her see what she couldn’t see earlier , this coming here for clarifications.

So what is your own?

What's my own? Like we are quarrelling??
But according to d post, she has tried to find out severally,
They have discussed about it. And d guy promised to change.
No matter how busy u are, u can still use w minute of ur day to check up on someone u care about.

thelish:


Like she can't??
How come 10k has taken d place of communication in a rship?
Why is everybody so concerned about d 10k, forgetting her pains n concern in d rship??

Not that.. He has been doing this since her level 1... Imagine 10k every two weeks for almost 3 years.. Haba..

It's her Bf, she can know what's wrong with him if she is serious abt him.. They av been for 3 years na, sumtyms relationship just bores one but u gat to make move and find out what's wrong really.. 10k is everyone concern in this economy, paying house rent too from level 1..haba

Lawlahdey:
Shut the hell up.

I am warning u oo

Yass please, break up with him. The guy, no, the boy is a fool; and he doesn’t deserve you. You’re a kween.

thelish:


What's my own? Like we are quarrelling??
But according to d post, she has tried to find out severally,
They have discussed about it. And d guy promised to change.
No matter how busy u are, u can still use w minute of ur day to check up on someone u care about.

Then she should break up with him.

thelish:

Hahahahaha, really??
Has money eaten so deep into d heart of people like this??

It's strange cos you have it. This country is the poverty capital of the world but for some reason, you want us to be more concerned about other things?

Fareee123:
I do well for myself too,I make and sell wigs and I'm a make up artist,my parents still cater for me too, if I leave him,I can't have a problem financially, I just don't know if I can love someone else the way I love him,I'm sad.

You are not sad but selfish and stupid.

What else do you want ??...what's the purpose of boyfriend and girlfriend if it's not to help you financially....abeg go and sit down anty