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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ehibiggirl(f): 9:58am On Jan 10, 2020 |
Gloriagee:na breaking limits into her untold hardship |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Vanzcharles(m): 10:03am On Jan 10, 2020 |
I shouldn't have replied you but seeing this your comment makes me wonder the kind of person you are. You are happy that she is infertile which only you know what you are saying here. Your word speaks jealousy. You are jealous that you didnt achieve anything while she has achieved more. Now, you have succeeded in making her marriage to be destroyed that is a life term event. You have succeeded in making her lose a job that is another loss. You have succeeded in making her suicidal. Sending her to hospital every now and then. I thank God you've gotten your so much wanted revenge on her. Your excuse was that she told you words that broke your self confidence never motivated you. Now, in addition yo what you have done you have seen her emotionally broken just like what you passed through that even make her to loose her job. You Nd your guy in ally beat her up. Your guy that she seniors. You held her hand down while a male stranger comes in to slap your sister for you. You don't give a Bleep because you hate her. You are rude to everyone that points out your problem. Now you've repaid Her in full coin. Do you know that you can still achieve marriage because you are still young, get a job and move on. But your sister is getting old evening newspaper like some will call her a lady not married yet in her 30s. Ifyjos: 3 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Gloriagee(f): 10:06am On Jan 10, 2020 |
U go fear na. Ehibiggirl: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by prettyangel10(f): 11:10am On Jan 10, 2020 |
This ifyjos girl, you are madly mad, you hear. I believe you created this thread for people to help justify your attitude. Can you just imagine her responses? And people are advising her again and again, she keeps having this stone mind. Karma will visit you and that your nuisance boyfriend. 2 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by CHoccolaTE: 11:18am On Jan 10, 2020 |
I see that op has dropped another series of bombs. 1. Her sister is 32 years old, in Nigeria women like that are mocked for not being married at her age but madam op went ahead to end her long term engagement 2. Her sister is probably having infertility issues according to op and these things worsen with age only God knows when the poor lady will be able to get married and start trying for kids. 3. Her and her jobless at 29 boyfriend beat up the same sister that has been financially supporting them Nawa o I fear who no fear this op. 4 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 11:27am On Jan 10, 2020 |
Please I’m not mad at all , I know what I did to her was bad and I created this thread for people to lead me in the right way to apologise and get them back together but all the people here are insulting so u are expecting me to be quiet ? No karma won’t visit us because God is full of mercy and he won’t allow anything bad to happen to us prettyangel10: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 11:28am On Jan 10, 2020 |
We didn’t beat her but it was self defence CHoccolaTE: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by prettyangel10(f): 11:33am On Jan 10, 2020 |
Ifyjos: So what have you done with all the advice that had been typed here since you created this thread? You r still looking for someone to justify your action right? Continue 4 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 11:34am On Jan 10, 2020 |
Well it is not the end of the world because everything is possible with God she can still get married even at 50 and that’s not a problem. I wasn’t jealous of her because I’m only 20 soon to be 21 I can still achieved my goals and be greater than her. Vanzcharles: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 11:36am On Jan 10, 2020 |
Nothing because I haven’t seen any good advice so far apart from the insults . I don’t need people to justify me because it won’t make me rich , all I need right now is to reunite my sister back with her fiancé prettyangel10: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by ffo(m): 11:58am On Jan 10, 2020 |
Ifyjos: have you seek for the mercy? have you make amends? have you apologize? Read your bible very well madam, you just keep mentioning God as if you believe in God. Galatians 6:7 Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap. Proverbs 11:21 Though they join forces, the wicked will not go unpunished; But the posterity of the righteous will be delivered. Isaiah 3:11 Woe to the wicked! Disaster is upon them! They will be paid back for what their hands have done. 2 Chronicles 7:14 If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, and I will forgive their sin and will heal their land. 2 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by ffo(m): 12:01pm On Jan 10, 2020 |
Ifyjos: this your thread is 32 pages and you claim you have not seen any good advise, lots of people have been telling you to make amends, confess to your sister fiancee. You will need to go to another planet to seek for advise. or maybe you want somebody to tell you to kill her, then it will be good enough for you. 4 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 12:02pm On Jan 10, 2020 |
Yes I do believe in God because am nothing without God and I asked God for forgiveness with all my heart and God forgave me . ffo: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 12:04pm On Jan 10, 2020 |
Yes I want to confess to him but am scared of the outcome . ffo: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by CHoccolaTE: 12:32pm On Jan 10, 2020 |
ffo: Can you imagine her stupidity? She hasn't seen any good advice ke? I now understand how frustrated her sister must have been while living with a stubborn and selfish blockhead like her. 6 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by izzygoing(f): 12:36pm On Jan 10, 2020 |
[quote author=Ifyjos post=85670620]Nothing because I haven’t seen any good advice so far apart from the insults . I don’t need people to justify me because it won’t make me rich , all I need right now is to reunite my sister back with her fiancé Did u just say u have not seen good advice here? 6 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by ffo(m): 12:36pm On Jan 10, 2020 |
Ifyjos: you are not scared of outcome when you said you confess to God, but you are scared of outcome from man. In life, that is why it is not good to be wicked, when you are hurting her, framing her up, you and your boyfriend must be happy that time, but now to make amends its an issue and you are "scared" of the outcome. You should be more scared of God that can take and give life and soul than man, you have already started what you dont want to finish. if you think God will or has forgiven you when you have not make amends, you must be deceiving your self. there is no peace for the wicked. Repentance is not complete without making amend ifyjos. You dont have all the time you think you have. (Proverbs 27:1 Do not boast about tomorrow, for you do not know what a day may bring) James 5:16 Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working. Ezekiel 33:14-15 "But when I say to the wicked, 'You will surely die,' and he turns from his sin and practices justice and righteousness, if a wicked man restores a pledge, pays back what he has taken by robbery, walks by the statutes which ensure life without committing iniquity, he shall surely live; he shall not die. Numbers 5:6-7 "Speak to the sons of Israel, 'When a man or woman commits any of the sins of mankind, acting unfaithfully against the LORD, and that person is guilty, then he shall confess his sins which he has committed, and he shall make restitution in full for his wrong and add to it one-fifth of it, and give it to him whom he has wronged. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by izzygoing(f): 12:40pm On Jan 10, 2020 |
[quote author=Ifyjos post=85670371] Please I’m not mad at all , I know what I did to her was bad and I created this thread for people to lead me in the right way to apologise and get them back together but all the people here are insulting so u are expecting me to be quiet ? No karma won’t visit us because God is full of mercy and he won’t allow anything bad to happen t But I asked you to call me to help you out make peace with your sister, and as well counsel you. 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by letitrainnow(m): 12:42pm On Jan 10, 2020 |
Ifyjos: Lolz, I wan die for laugh, this girl is foolishly funny. Do you forget that GOD can be unmerciful too? 4 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by ffo(m): 12:52pm On Jan 10, 2020 |
letitrainnow: leave her, all her sister needs is some aggressive prayer and fasting, before you know it, her eyes go clear. 3 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Vanzcharles(m): 1:17pm On Jan 10, 2020 |
Ifyjos:Repentance is not complete without restitution. When you commit evil against your fellow go and apologize to him/ her because you have sinned before God and Man. Who am I to judge, just amend your ways before it is too late and cause a lifetime damage to anyone please. 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 1:29pm On Jan 10, 2020 |
Yes u are right butconfessing to her will make everyone hating me , and they will all forget all the bad things she has done to me and I know for sure my parents will throw me out of the house which it is not fair on me and my child. Anyway I will try this evening but am scared , don’t even know how to start Vanzcharles: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Gloriagee(f): 1:36pm On Jan 10, 2020 |
Your goal should not be to be greater than your sister. Don't be in competition with her. It never ends well. Everyone has their own destiny. Ifyjos: 6 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 1:43pm On Jan 10, 2020 |
I have never competed with her , all I know is I will be greater than her and I won’t look down on people who don’t have anything , when I get rich I will p people who don’t have and I won’t remind them of their past. Gloriagee: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ehibiggirl(f): 2:22pm On Jan 10, 2020 |
Ifyjos:your heart is wicked for saying this there is no peace for the wicked. That your stupid boyfriend will not marry you In fact you will wait till you are 60 before you see a shoeshiner widower that will pity you and marry you then you will know that the seed you sow can germinate and you must reap. Imagine saying she can still marry even at 50 I felt like cursing you when I saw that but you have cursed your self already. 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by nahzyla: 2:24pm On Jan 10, 2020 |
Ifyjos you don't need to confess to your sister not for your own sake but for the benefit of your innocent child who might become an indirect recipient of the hatred you will incur if you confess. It won't be right for them to throw an innocent child out into a harsh world because of her wicked mama. Don't tell her you did it but get an anonymous means to tell her fiance that you ended their relationship. Send anonymous messages or WhatsApp or tell one or two of the guys who called her fiance to go to him and confess that they lied about her unfaithfulness to him. You must do your very best to convince her fiance that the whole thing was a setup. I would have supported your going straight to him to confess but I feel for your innocent 5 year old. It's not her fault her mother is wicked and stupid. 2 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ehibiggirl(f): 2:28pm On Jan 10, 2020 |
[quote author=izzygoing post=85672390][/quote]you think she wants to fix this she is very happy about it She won’t reach out to you don’t even bother. She is just an evil sad little toad that is envious and bitter that she destroyed her life and her sister is better than her. 3 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 2:31pm On Jan 10, 2020 |
Its you that’s wicked see for the fact that you have been insulting me since I started my thread , it show that you are heartless evil soul and U have no peace and go and take your frustration somewhere else , u r taking as if u have a man in ur life and who will want to marry a heartless thing like u? Well all I know is my guy loves me a lot and we will get married . U old cargo keep waiting for a widower to marry you and that will be your sisters portion too not mine. I have a big God he can never failed me Ehibiggirl: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by ffo(m): 2:51pm On Jan 10, 2020 |
Ifyjos: but you know you have FAILED God. 4 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by kingphilip(m): 2:57pm On Jan 10, 2020 |
Ifyjos:you can start by stating your location and all those in that axis who wants to join you to go and plead can meet your up so they can plead on your behalf |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 3:06pm On Jan 10, 2020 |
Ok thanks , I live in port harcourt kingphilip: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 3:08pm On Jan 10, 2020 |
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