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Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by obatan(m): 1:38pm On Jan 10, 2020
Guy u head no correct. grin

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Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by 9jaArea: 1:38pm On Jan 10, 2020
Don't blame her pastor, dow do you expect a lady that is sexually active before you to become celibate because you promise here marriage?

Favoritefarmer:
I met my beautiful girl through facebook last April and we started relationship after meeting face-to-face.

With immediate effect, i told her my future plan that all things being equal i will be a pastor and this relationship is NO SEX TILL WEDDING (I am 30 still a virgin thou and she really told me she isn't a virgin again, of which i have no problem with). She has visited me five times spending atleast a week yet no sex with her, knew all my family and as to caring for your girl, i am trying my best but here is the problem.

1. Spiritual: I pray and fast to know God's mind, but no yes or no but my parents went to pray and saw negative though i wish to damn the consequences and marry her but her behavior towards spiritual is bad. No prayer and reading bible. She can sleep eh na from 8pm to 8am.

2. Competition with my family.

3. Ineffictive communication. More like interview.

4. 'Unfaithfulness.' I have caught my girl agreeing to meet one man in hotel for sex and that one asking him if she moans
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by digitaltrades: 1:39pm On Jan 10, 2020
Thegeneralqueen:
Just let the girl be biko.....How on earth can you accuse her of cheating when you've not caught her red handed

Imagine if that guy is your son; will you repeat this same thing?

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Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by shineeye1: 1:39pm On Jan 10, 2020
Which kain audio pastor be dis?
You claim you are spiritual and apparently, the deciding criteria for your selecting a life partner was Beauty!
Start afresh...

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Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Nobody: 1:39pm On Jan 10, 2020
@Favoritefarmer

Count yourself lucky cos God truly loves you and that was why he revealed the girl's true nature to you.

You were being disobedient to the holy spirit and your stubbornness would have landed you in a ditch.

Have you forgotten what Proverbs 3:5-6 says? Mr. Man. Ask God for forgiveness and retrace your steps. When the time is right, you will meet a daughter of Zion according to Christ's will. Wait on the Lord and be of good courage.

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Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Jabioro: 1:39pm On Jan 10, 2020
Anyone at home with meme cane? Abeg make na help me flog the OP..He is a Mumu pastor to be..What do you know about spiritual? You're fasting and praying ..no sex..Ode! Otoyo!! Namu!!!

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Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by bodyloveghetto(m): 1:39pm On Jan 10, 2020
she's no virgin and you re, at age 30, what kinda prayer and fasting you doing instead of having the best time of your life? Wasted I guess .

For your girl na correct girl, she's tired of spending a whole week with you and no sex, bro leave her or you ain't even ashamed?

Lastly I ain't trying to discriminate your religion but then come make I blend you .

Phew

Why fp ?

Bye
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by richPHAROAH: 1:39pm On Jan 10, 2020
pim..p her please. las las her toto go smell
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by bluefilm: 1:39pm On Jan 10, 2020
I can only see disaster upon disaster ahead in that arrangement.

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Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by thundafire: 1:40pm On Jan 10, 2020
Favoritefarmer:
I met my beautiful girl through facebook last April and we started relationship after meeting face-to-face.

With immediate effect, i told her my future plan that all things being equal i will be a pastor and this relationship is NO SEX TILL WEDDING (I am 30 still a virgin thou and she really told me she isn't a virgin again, of which i have no problem with). She has visited me five times spending atleast a week yet no sex with her, knew all my family and as to caring for your girl, i am trying my best but here is the problem.

1. Spiritual: I pray and fast to know God's mind, but no yes or no but my parents went to pray and saw negative though i wish to damn the consequences and marry her but her behavior towards spiritual is bad. No prayer and reading bible. She can sleep eh na from 8pm to 8am.

2. Competition with my family.

3. Ineffictive communication. More like interview.

4. 'Unfaithfulness.' I have caught my girl agreeing to meet one man in hotel for sex and that one asking him if she moans
asking if she moans really got me cracking
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by lizdammy: 1:40pm On Jan 10, 2020
kpash
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by DukeNija(m): 1:40pm On Jan 10, 2020
Favoritefarmer:

i am not accusing i read it on her chat myself but she denied. I even dare her to read my chat

Bros your girlfriend is a runs girl, aka Olosho. Apologies in advance.

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Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Holamic: 1:40pm On Jan 10, 2020
See your prayer has just been answered about your life.... Cause Nah that girl for kill your spirituality

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Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Powersurge: 1:41pm On Jan 10, 2020
kunlesufyan:
Baba! The answers are right there in your face... No dey tell woman say you wan marry am at the first stage of the relationship.


Na the ultimate mistake a man can ever make be that!!!

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Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 1:41pm On Jan 10, 2020
All that look fabricated... Ladies here is this how you people behave?
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by TemmyT002(m): 1:41pm On Jan 10, 2020
Tell her what you know
As at this time last year, I was in your shoes though I am not going to be a pastor.
I caught her too and I don't like keeping secrets like that.
I told her to find someone else.
Do the same.
Your parents may make jest of you but you have dodged a bullet and a rocket.

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Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Nobody: 1:42pm On Jan 10, 2020
Thegeneralqueen:
Just let the girl be biko.....How on earth can you accuse her of cheating when you've not caught her red handed
Whoever you see stvpid girl commenting for likes, you will know. Keep it up!
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Nobody: 1:43pm On Jan 10, 2020
Thegeneralqueen:
Just let the girl be biko.....How on earth can you accuse her of cheating when you've not caught her red handed
Whenever you see a stvpid girl commenting for likes, you will know. Keep it up!
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Powersurge: 1:43pm On Jan 10, 2020
mployer:


Nawaoo.
It's not bad to defend women, but you shouldn't be stupid about it.

Somebody that has agreed to have sex with a man in a hotel is not a cheat?

It seems some people once they are online they lose their brains.
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by staga: 1:43pm On Jan 10, 2020
You pray and fast: yet you cannot see God speaking to you clearly using your parents and showing you aspects of her character that are in complete variance with your faith?

How can two work together except they agree? (Amos 3 v 3)

No wonder Professor Chinweizu said that when a man's pen** is up, his brain takes French leave. You are secretly desiring to have the girl no matter what. Can I tell you something?

If you come to God in prayer and fasting with your own expectation already in your heart, you will hear nothing but your own heart. Be advised and guided!

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Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Snipper007: 1:44pm On Jan 10, 2020
Favoritefarmer:
I met my beautiful girl through facebook last April and we started relationship after meeting face-to-face.

With immediate effect, i told her my future plan that all things being equal i will be a pastor and this relationship is NO SEX TILL WEDDING (I am 30 still a virgin thou and she really told me she isn't a virgin again, of which i have no problem with). She has visited me five times spending atleast a week yet no sex with her, knew all my family and as to caring for your girl, i am trying my best but here is the problem.

1. Spiritual: I pray and fast to know God's mind, but no yes or no but my parents went to pray and saw negative though i wish to damn the consequences and marry her but her behavior towards spiritual is bad. No prayer and reading bible. She can sleep eh na from 8pm to 8am.

2. Competition with my family.

3. Ineffictive communication. More like interview.

4. 'Unfaithfulness.' I have caught my girl agreeing to meet one man in hotel for sex and that one asking him if she moans

Omo pastor grin
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by CodeTemplar: 1:44pm On Jan 10, 2020
Sorry. That's like no testing condition on gadget but the gadget is being deployed secretly elsewhere. Sorry o.

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Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Nobody: 1:45pm On Jan 10, 2020
AfroKnight:
Lol. Guy you know she’s cheating.

Believe me, you don’t want to have a wife who cheats on you. You don’t!

Do not suspend your common sense because of beauty or big yansh.

Hosea the Prophet, who was instructed to marry a promiscuous woman, knows what he went through in her hands. He wrote of his ordeal. Are you Hosea, do you have that grace? Were you instructed to marry a hôe?

Guy, advise yourself well.

Best reply

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Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Righteousness89(m): 1:45pm On Jan 10, 2020
Favoritefarmer:
I met my beautiful girl through facebook last April and we started relationship after meeting face-to-face.

With immediate effect, i told her my future plan that all things being equal i will be a pastor and this relationship is NO SEX TILL WEDDING (I am 30 still a virgin thou and she really told me she isn't a virgin again, of which i have no problem with). She has visited me five times spending atleast a week yet no sex with her, knew all my family and as to caring for your girl, i am trying my best but here is the problem.

1. Spiritual: I pray and fast to know God's mind, but no yes or no but my parents went to pray and saw negative though i wish to damn the consequences and marry her but her behavior towards spiritual is bad. No prayer and reading bible. She can sleep eh na from 8pm to 8am.

2. Competition with my family.

3. Ineffictive communication. More like interview.

4. 'Unfaithfulness.' I have caught my girl agreeing to meet one man in hotel for sex and that one asking him if she moans

My Brother in Christ what did you Ask our FATHER in Heaven..

From your Summation, I see you got a lady and ask GOD To approve her.. That's wrong..

Secondly, with her deposition towards spiritual matters , Like you said... she is a no go area..

I Advice you to Quit immediately..

Ask GOD for Mercy and tell Him that you desire His Choice for you..

Wait ... do not Rush! HE will Answer..

I Repeat, Leave that lady! again I say, Leave that Lady!

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Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Blackpearlous(f): 1:45pm On Jan 10, 2020
Favoritefarmer:
I met my beautiful girl through facebook last April and we started relationship after meeting face-to-face.

With immediate effect, i told her my future plan that all things being equal i will be a pastor and this relationship is NO SEX TILL WEDDING (I am 30 still a virgin thou and she really told me she isn't a virgin again, of which i have no problem with). She has visited me five times spending atleast a week yet no sex with her, knew all my family and as to caring for your girl, i am trying my best but here is the problem.

1. Spiritual: I pray and fast to know God's mind, but no yes or no but my parents went to pray and saw negative though i wish to damn the consequences and marry her but her behavior towards spiritual is bad. No prayer and reading bible. She can sleep eh na from 8pm to 8am.

2. Competition with my family.

3. Ineffictive communication. More like interview.

4. 'Unfaithfulness.' I have caught my girl agreeing to meet one man in hotel for sex and that one asking him if she moans
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Opinedecandid(m): 1:46pm On Jan 10, 2020
Favoritefarmer:
During sex and he will take drug to prevent her being pregnant.
A married woman also reached out to me on facebook alleging that my girl is dating her hubby thou i abused the woman of lieing and the woman directed to her particular post. I confronted with her with it, she didn't denied but said no sex between them.
thirdly, she asked for hair and transport fares which i gave and she still asked another another guy and right when she was with me last sunday about to leave for her place she was chatting this guy, 'are we meeting today or not.'
You know my girl denied all charges.

If you marry that girl, what ever you see, take it.
It is imature boys like you that always run to nairaland to ask whether to divorce or not. You have seen all the signs of lies, unfaithfulness, lack of courtesy and respect for your family as well as lack of commitment to spirituality, yet you will be blinded by infatuation and call it love.

Modified:
Op, on the flip side of thought and consideration, the fault might be yours. The girl is not a virgin, she knows the urge and sweetness of romance, something you have never tasted nor appreciated. She can't stand the abstinence from sex. She may like you, not necessarily love, but she needs the good Bleep to carry on well with her life.
Maybe you should try to Bleep her, and Bleep her well.
Truth is, that girl is not even certain you can Bleep. She might not sincerely want to marry you. In that relationship, you are the one spending, she is not losing anything. The risk of marrying a man that might end up not satisfying her is too great. If she ends up marrying you, she might resort or getting the satisfaction elsewhere, if you fail to satisfy her.
Take note.
People don't behave this way again.
No sex, should come with no gains.

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Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Nobody: 1:46pm On Jan 10, 2020
You prayed, no yes/no from God but awaiting, that means He wants to show you something so that you won't make mistake. Now, God answered your prayers, blown the breeze that opened the fowl yansh to you. The ball is in your court to decide.

"Walk in or walk away peacefully."

Though, maybe He wants you to walk away because of the future danger that may crash your ministerial calling and marriage. Be wise!

But your problem in this write up seems like babyish-amebo-gossip. No man-up and mature conversation. Don't seek advice and counsel through gossip.

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Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by kunleweb: 1:46pm On Jan 10, 2020
Favoritefarmer:
I met my beautiful girl through facebook last April and we started relationship after meeting face-to-face.

With immediate effect, i told her my future plan that all things being equal i will be a pastor and this relationship is NO SEX TILL WEDDING (I am 30 still a virgin thou and she really told me she isn't a virgin again, of which i have no problem with). She has visited me five times spending atleast a week yet no sex with her, knew all my family and as to caring for your girl, i am trying my best but here is the problem.

1. Spiritual: I pray and fast to know God's mind, but no yes or no but my parents went to pray and saw negative though i wish to damn the consequences and marry her but her behavior towards spiritual is bad. No prayer and reading bible. She can sleep eh na from 8pm to 8am.

2. Competition with my family.

3. Ineffictive communication. More like interview.

4. 'Unfaithfulness.' I have caught my girl agreeing to meet one man in hotel for sex and that one asking him if she moans





What do you mean by competition with your family. Let's start from here before we take it further
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by rigarmortis: 1:47pm On Jan 10, 2020
If she moans?
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Wiifesnatcher(m): 1:48pm On Jan 10, 2020
cheesy

the Op is just one clown, you better get sense because a fool at 30 is still a fool


it's obvious the girl shouldn't be blame here

you want to be a pastor but you still meet a lady online and you think you will get married to her


your parents pray about it and it came out negative and you think one thing will turned it to positive?


she's not a virgin and you as a virgin is dating non virgin and you think it will work


right from time she don't read bible and follow the line you believe in(spirituality)


and you don't have common sense to tell you duo are incompatible? you need to give your life to Christ again

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Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by crafteck(m): 1:48pm On Jan 10, 2020
Help me thank god, I just dodged d bullet thanks to dna... Op don't be stupid
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Suremikky(m): 1:48pm On Jan 10, 2020
Liposure:
Since u ve decided 2 marry her. Ask God to remove every spirit of sexual immorality in her.

God will slap you very soon for your kind of stupidity and for disturbing him with ur unnecessary kinda prayers

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