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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by ffo(m): 7:46pm On Jan 10, 2020
Ifyjos:
How?

1. By being wicked to a fellow human
2. By not being ready to make amend
3. By destroying somebody future
4. By not controlling your anger issue for days, months
5. By allowing your anger to take over you
6. By ganging up against your blood sister
7. By exhibiting the trait of witchcraft
8. By allowing your sister to suffer and keeping quiet
9. By lieing constantly
10. By envying and being jealous
11. By maybe killing your sister

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 7:47pm On Jan 10, 2020
yes thank God u are not my sister because u cannot be one too or else I would have ............. long time ago , I know your type u talk rubbish behind the screen but in my presence I know u wouldn’t even dare say a thing , I pity u .


Ehibiggirl:
the next thing want to do now is to tell that you agbero to come and fight me sad thing I’m not your sister.i know it’s your small work to gang and destroy people.
You will soon snap again please don’t take it out in your sister at home o she has suffered enough you hear unwa jezebel
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ehibiggirl(f): 7:48pm On Jan 10, 2020
Ifyjos:
She doesn’t need your stupid wish and keep it to yourself , I have never live a wayward life , I have been with my guy ( my crown) for almost 7 years now and he is the only man in my life and by God grace we will grow old together. So I don’t care about what you think because it doesn’t affect me at all


let me leave this one for other Nairalanders to hammer you.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by CHoccolaTE: 7:51pm On Jan 10, 2020
Ifyjos:
She doesn’t need your stupid wish and keep it to yourself , I have never live a wayward life , I have been with my guy ( my crown) for almost 7 years now and he is the only man in my life and by God grace we will grow old together. So I don’t care about what you think because it doesn’t affect me at all



So he started sleeping with you when you were 13?

Egbelegbele grin

And this irresponsible pedophile is the person you place over your family and let him beat your sister?
That your sister has really suffered in your hand.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ehibiggirl(f): 7:52pm On Jan 10, 2020
Ifyjos:
yes thank God u are not my sister because u cannot be one too or else I would have ............. long time ago , I know your type u talk rubbish behind the screen but in my presence I know u wouldn’t even dare say a thing , I pity u .


i said it your are supposed to be in a mental institution you are dangerous to a sane society and to think that a child is in close proximity to this your psychiatric condition is disturbing.

Btw you would have what? Hahahahaha you never see madness naim make you still no get sense. You’re lucky sha.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by midnighter(f): 7:54pm On Jan 10, 2020
Can the mods please close down this thread? I dont think she should talk anymore, it's just so terrible to read.

This person cant be a real human, maybe they grew her inside the lab as part of an experiment

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 7:55pm On Jan 10, 2020
I was 14 and very matured , i almost 21 in March . It’s not a pedophile because age it’s just a number, if it was a pedophile why he is not in prison then? You can say whatever you like about him , am not bothered because I still love him and your words is making me loving even more. I can sense jealousy because u don’t even have a guy in your life and konji and ulcer has been killing you that’s why you are talking rubbish

CHoccolaTE:


So he started sleeping with you when you were 13?

Egbelegbele grin

And this irresponsible pedophile is the person you place over your family and let him beat your sister?
That your sister has really suffered in your hand.
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ehibiggirl(f): 7:58pm On Jan 10, 2020
midnighter:
Can the mods please close down this thread? I dont think she should talk anymore, it's just so terrible to read.

This person cant be a real human, maybe they grew her inside the lab as part of an experiment
she is even threatening me o. She may have killed before to have that kind of audacity. sad
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by CHoccolaTE: 7:59pm On Jan 10, 2020
Ifyjos:
I was 14 and very matured , i almost 21 in March . It’s not a pedophile because age it’s just a number, if it was a pedophile why he is not in prison then? You can say whatever you like about him , am not bothered because I still love him and your words is making me loving even more. I can sense jealousy because u don’t even have a guy in your life and konji and ulcer has been killing you that’s why you are talking rubbish


You be mumu oo grin

You be real mumu pikin
See person that nairaland has been advising for 2 days
Unrepentant blockhead

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 8:02pm On Jan 10, 2020
Where in my comment did I threaten you? Only a killer knows her fellow killer maybe we did committed the murder together then?

Ehibiggirl:
she is even threatening me o. She may have killed before to have that kind of audacity. sad
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by benjijosh(m): 8:12pm On Jan 10, 2020
Some day, your daughter will have to pay her school fees again, your so called guy will have no money and your sister won't be able to help. Only then you will realise you single handedly destroyed your own life.

You took someone's joy and not just someone, your sister's. What kind of person are you?? Wicked is not okay to qualify you. All for some guy that possibly has no plan for you. Even though he doesn't cheat/beat you, it's a matter of time as he will soon get frustrated and depressed.

It's okay your sister doesn't like your guy. It's not like she's bad. It's what the society has made us realise and no lies, being with a man that can't provide for his own daughter is a waste of time.

Your sister will be back to okay very soon but I doubt if you will ever be okay. You will live everyday regretting how you met that demon you call boyfriend/baby daddy.

Bad girl.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 8:16pm On Jan 10, 2020
Ok no problem if he have no money for he school fee is not a problem, she will stay at home and wait until money come
benjijosh:
Some day, your daughter will have to pay her school fees again, your so called guy will have no money and your sister won't be able to help. Only then you will realise you single handedly destroyed your own life.

You took someone's joy and not just someone, your sister's. What kind of person are you?? Wicked is not okay to qualify you. All for some guy that possibly has no plan for you. Even though he doesn't cheat/beat you, it's a matter of time as he will soon get frustrated and depressed.

It's okay your sister doesn't like your guy. It's not like she's bad. It's what the society has made up realise and no lies, being with a man that can't provide for his own daughter is a waste of time.

Your sister will be back to okay very soon but I doubt if you will ever be okay. You will live everyday regretting how you met that demon you call boyfriend/baby daddy.

Bad girl.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by benjijosh(m): 8:18pm On Jan 10, 2020
Ifyjos:

Ok no problem if he have no money for he school fee is not a problem, she will stay at home and wait until money come

You are a deranged person. You need help.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 8:20pm On Jan 10, 2020
Same to you


benjijosh:


You are a deranged person. You need help.
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by prettyangel10(f): 8:47pm On Jan 10, 2020
midnighter:
Can the mods please close down this thread? I dont think she should talk anymore, it's just so terrible to read.

This person cant be a real human, maybe they grew her inside the lab as part of an experiment

Lol,

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by comtem2011: 9:00pm On Jan 10, 2020
Ifyjos:
Its you that’s wicked see for the fact that you have been insulting me since I started my thread , it show that you are heartless evil soul and U have no peace and go and take your frustration somewhere else , u r taking as if u have a man in ur life and who will want to marry a heartless thing like u? Well all I know is my guy loves me a lot and we will get married . U old cargo keep waiting for a widower to marry you and that will be your sisters portion too not mine. I have a big God he can never failed me

You keep mentioning God, but your heart is full of evil.

Just know that you can't mock God, stop calling Him to your evil deeds pls.

God only have mercy on those that have a repentant heart not stone-hearted creature.

God does not break limits for evil doers, jealous soul, and pikin we no dey hear word.

You are not ready to take correction.

Go out there and ask old people living in regrets today what they have done in their youthful days.
They will tell them then but strong head will not allow them to listen.

I just pray it won't be too late for you before you realize yourself my dear.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Vanzcharles(m): 9:14pm On Jan 10, 2020
Chaiiii You don Bleep up . . . This shows you are immature for Christ sake this is a social environment. What were you expecting appraisal?. Madam there would be criticism and insults. Face your music alp by yourself. You replied almost everyone with insults....
Just leave the thread it appears we can't help you. Someone greater than us above can help you. Tho I just hope you won't regret this.. Best wishes.
Ifyjos:
Its you that’s wicked see for the fact that you have been insulting me since I started my thread , it show that you are heartless evil soul and U have no peace and go and take your frustration somewhere else , u r taking as if u have a man in ur life and who will want to marry a heartless thing like u? Well all I know is my guy loves me a lot and we will get married . U old cargo keep waiting for a widower to marry you and that will be your sisters portion too not mine. I have a big God he can never failed me

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Hestywhyt(f): 9:26pm On Jan 10, 2020
Ifeoma Joseph...weldone
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by kingphilip(m): 9:42pm On Jan 10, 2020
Hestywhyt:
Ifeoma Joseph...weldone
this your digger sharp and strong o
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Hestywhyt(f): 9:53pm On Jan 10, 2020
kingphilip:
this your digger sharp and strong o

Hehe
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 11:14pm On Jan 10, 2020
Ifyjos:
Yes I will beg her because I want to be set free and be in peace


WHEN!!! angry angry

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 11:15pm On Jan 10, 2020
comtem2011:
You keep mentioning God, but your heart is full of evil.

Just know that you can't mock God, stop calling Him to your evil deeds pls.

God only have mercy on those that have a repentant heart not stone-hearted creature.

God does not break limits for evil doers, jealous soul, and pikin we no dey hear word.

You are not ready to take correction.

Go out there and ask old people living in regrets today what they have done in their youthful days.
They will tell them then but strong head will not allow them to listen.

I just pray it won't be too late for you before you realize yourself my dear.

It's already too late angry
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 11:18pm On Jan 10, 2020
See if ur reading this my only advice for u is to confess to her

But make sure you beg for ur child sake it won't be fair if she's thrown into a useless country with mentally inferior people like you

And as for where you would live I suggest you go to your "Good Guy" place and stay with him

Oh and lest I forget have a bad day smiley
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 11:26pm On Jan 10, 2020
Ifyjos:
Being older doesn’t give her the right to insult me or my guy as she like , after all I wasn’t staying in her house , it’s our father house and we have the same right to leave in peace. Yeah right she doesn’t owe me or my child anything because my child is my and my guy responsibilities and we didn’t need her help unless we don’t have any money and from all the help that we have received from her if I count it and it won’t even be more than 20k and so what’s 20k?
Yes she kill me with her words and it’s not my fault that I’m fertile and God bless me with a beautiful angel and she doesn’t have any yet


Okk I can now see the extent of your stupidity if it's 20k why don't you just refund all the 20k u borrowed from her ...borrower angry

And she doesn't have any because you ruined her life you naive slowpoke angry

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Gippeum(f): 11:43pm On Jan 10, 2020
Ifyjos:
I was 14 and very matured , i almost 21 in March . It’s not a pedophile because age it’s just a number, if it was a pedophile why he is not in prison then? You can say whatever you like about him , am not bothered because I still love him and your words is making me loving even more. I can sense jealousy because u don’t even have a guy in your life and konji and ulcer has been killing you that’s why you are talking rubbish



Dear girl you were not very matured.... You were just manipulated into thinking you were... I'm sure "your crown" told you that you are more mature than other girls your age just to whine your head and since then it has filled your head that you are more mature... You are not, age is not just a number, if that was correct it would then be okay for an 8 year old to be chased by a 21 year old or we would be having 10 year old presidents... Abi Na?... Age is not just a number when I comes to performing acts that you are not mentally mature enough for... Don't allow yourself to be deceived by the words that were used to capture you in the first place... Whether you've been with him for 7 or 30 years it still doesn't change the fact the he committed statutory rape and he manipulated you as well... Sha sha that's your lifes stress and struggle.
You better tell your sister because in case you don't know depression doesn't just stop at depression it can also cause high blood pressure and hypertension... So let me make it simple for you to understand... you better tell her soon or you stand the risk of watching your sister slowly waste away simply because you were too immature to realize that she wasn't insulting you to oppress you... It also seems to me that you're suffering from some form of inferiority complex with regards to your sister... Stop it... You can be someone great without using someone else's achievement as a yard stick...

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by midnighter(f): 11:50pm On Jan 10, 2020
Ehibiggirl:
she is even threatening me o. She may have killed before to have that kind of audacity. sad

Lol cheesy Let her come with her paedophile "crown" and beat all of us na hahaha

Like I said, this thread should be locked! We have precious young people using this site who dont need to be corrupted by mental headcases like her smh!

imagine 30+ pages of criticism and counter-attack because of an idiot thug who went to beat somebody in her house, nawao

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by AdedoyinO(f): 12:39am On Jan 11, 2020
I was discussing with an older man who was complaining bitterly about dating relationships among teenagers. I told him if you advice a teenage girl about having boyfriends, she will become arrogant and stubborn. She'll think you don't want her to shine, you want to cage her, meanwhile, her male counterpart is only in relationships for sex and he is not confused about that.

OP, apart from you being very wicked, is this what your mates are doing at this age? You want to depend on a man who is living from hand to mouth? You should be ashamed of yourself, your choices are really poor.

You have stepped into adult shoes too quickly and I tell you you are not ready for what will hit you. You know nadda! If I hear you say again that you are mature. Mature kee you there.

I pray your sister will bounce back, God will restore all she has lost seven folds in Jesus name.

As for you, if you refuse to confess...and ask for forgiveness..., I can't pronounce judgement but there's no peace for the wicked.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 1:42am On Jan 11, 2020
Ifyjos:
Why take pandol for someone else headache ?


Close your mouth, u uncouth gal.
Learn good manners.


I'm sure this is how u run your mouth at home.

If your sis happens to come here, we won't be shocked at what she will say about you.

Genevieve nnaji gave birth at a very tender age like you but where is she now?
She dusted herself up and moved on to carve a successful life for herself.
She didn't wallow in self pity. Her family was hard on her.
Send her to the east when everybody was living in Lagos to finish school.
Look at her.
Lots of people talking to you here have seen so many people who ended badly because of mishap like yours but refused to listen to words of reason.

Also let me tell you, some of the people u seem so eager to insult here are people who can actually set u up had u had a remorseful and repentant heart.
This is a secret but not so secret forum.

Lots of people have had their lives turned around here cos of their attitudes.
So don't ever think that everybody here are like you.
Some are looking for who to train in handiwork, start business for or train in school.
Some are even old enough to be your parent.
Haven't life thought you any lesson at all.
Almost 30 something pages and u are still here doing what?

Girl, u are so unwise.
U missed lots of opportunities honestly.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ebenezar2020(m): 8:39am On Jan 11, 2020
Ehibiggirl:
let me leave this one for other Nairalanders to hammer you.
you sure say that her guy no give am love potion make she drink
the guy fit hypnotise am oh that's why she's acting like a zombie grin
pity am abeg maybe one day she will come to her full senses

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ehibiggirl(f): 10:13am On Jan 11, 2020
sassysure:

Close your mouth, u uncouth gal.
Learn good manners.


I'm sure this is how u run your mouth at home.

If your sis happens to come here, we won't be shocked at what she will say about you.

Genevieve nnaji gave birth at a very tender age like you but where is she now?
She dusted herself up and moved on to carve a successful life for herself.
She didn't wallow in self pity. Her family was hard on her.
Send her to the east when everybody was living in Lagos to finish school.
Look at her.
Lots of people talking to you here have seen so many people who ended badly because of mishap like yours but refused to listen to words of reason.

Also let me tell you, some of the people u seem so eager to insult here are people who can actually set u up had u had a remorseful and repentant heart.
This is a secret but not so secret forum.

Lots of people have had their lives turned around here cos of their attitudes.
So don't ever think that everybody here are like you.
Some are looking for who to train in handiwork, start business for or train in school.
Some are even old enough to be your parent.
Haven't life thought you any lesson at all.
Almost 30 something pages and u are still here doing what?

Girl, u are so unwise.
U missed lots of opportunities honestly.

atleast she is not a goat for nothing.she still knows how to chase good away from her self with her disgusting attitude.
She thinks life is all about having sex with agberos, producing a child they can’t take care of, passing their responsibilities to others,ganging to kill the person if they don’t accept.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ehibiggirl(f): 10:26am On Jan 11, 2020
Ifyjos:
I was 14 and very matured , i almost 21 in March . It’s not a pedophile because age it’s just a number, if it was a pedophile why he is not in prison then? You can say whatever you like about him , am not bothered because I still love him and your words is making me loving even more. I can sense jealousy because u don’t even have a guy in your life and konji and ulcer has been killing you that’s why you are talking rubbish

hahahahaha you have been a mature goat good for isewu and nkwobi not even good enough for sacrifice. Useless toad it’s only sex you know. Sex kee you there.
When that agbero carwasher start beating you make sure start another thread to share it o. Silly Olodo.
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by SlimBrawnie(f): 11:57am On Jan 11, 2020
Ifyjos, where you able to meet with your sister's ex fiancee? What is the situation of things now?

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