Ebenezar2020:
you sure say that her guy no give am love potion make she drink
the guy fit hypnotise am oh that's why she's acting like a zombie
pity am abeg maybe one day she will come to her full senses

Are you trying to say the lady is under my influence?

Hypnotise:

Are you trying to say the lady is under my influence?

na wah no Moniker we no go see for nairaland
domor sir

No I didn’t go to his office again because He won’t even want to see me and That would be a waste of time and transport. But before I left the house this morning , I did recorded some voices videos narrating what I did and sent them to my sister WhatsApp, so far she hasn’t seen it yet because it’s only showing one tick and her last seen on WhatsApp was yesterday 8.19pm so I’m just here waiting to see what will happen when she listen to those voices I sent her. I’m scared and my mind is telling me because she hasn’t seen them yet I should deleted but I don’t know if I should or not

SlimBrawnie:
Ifyjos, where you able to meet with your sister's ex fiancee? What is the situation of things now?

Ifyjos:
Yes please don’t judge him being poor is not permanent, I know that some day he will owe houses and many cars by God grace

You still live in fairytale and your naivety is out of this world. Don’t worry, reality will soon hit you and wake you up from your slumber and yes, you are very foolish .

Hestywhyt:
Ifeoma Joseph...weldone

so the troll has been identified.

Ifyjos:
No I didn’t go to his office again because He won’t even want to see me and That would be a waste of time and transport. But before I left the house this morning , I did recorded some voices videos narrating what I did and sent them to my sister WhatsApp, so far she hasn’t seen it yet because it’s only showing one tick and her last seen on WhatsApp was yesterday 8.19pm so I’m just here waiting to see what will happen when she listen to those voices I sent her. I’m scared and my mind is telling me because she hasn’t seen them yet I should deleted but I don’t know if I should or not

Don't delete it, let her see it, also be praying about it, you should have still make an attempt to see her fiancee

Ifyjos:
No I didn’t go to his office again because He won’t even want to see me and That would be a waste of time and transport. But before I left the house this morning , I did recorded some voices videos narrating what I did and sent them to my sister WhatsApp, so far she hasn’t seen it yet because it’s only showing one tick and her last seen on WhatsApp was yesterday 8.19pm so I’m just here waiting to see what will happen when she listen to those voices I sent her. I’m scared and my mind is telling me because she hasn’t seen them yet I should deleted but I don’t know if I should or not

It's a good thing you've done. Please don't delete them. You are a strong lady and will definitely withstand whatever result will come out of it. Just remember to also pray for God to touch her heart also so that things don't escalate. All the best.

Ifyjos:
My story is long but I will cut short. I’m 20 years old and I have a 5 years old daughter , I’m still with her father but we are not living together. I’m still at home with my parents.

My elder sister is a banker she is engaged and her fiancé is a doctor, they were supposed to get married this February 2020. My elder sister Hates my guy a lot just because he is not educated, has no money, he drinks and Smokes but he is a good guy, he doesn’t beat or cheat on me , he gives money for our daughter upkeeps and she goes to school he is paying her school fees but sometime when he doesn’t have my sister will be paying but she will insult the hell out of me that I ruined my life by giving birth at a young age , I should have closed my legs she just says many things that really hurting me sometimes I cried and Whenever she sees my guy she will insulting him threatening to pour him hot water.

So it happened in July , our parents traveled to the village because my dad was very sick so my guy visited me at home and she came and saw him , she got angry and started raining insult at him as usual and I got angry and slapped her which lead to a very serious fight and she arrested me and my fiancé and we came out after 3 days my guy had to sign undertaken that he should not step his foot in our house again.

So he promised to deal with her in a way she will regret and I supported him, so we have decided to destroyed her relationship with her fiancé by arranging lots of boys and girls who are my guys friends to start calling her fiancé and threatening him to leave their girlfriends alone or they will kill him, so we had 7 boys and 2 girls also called him claiming that my sister is dating their husbands so he should warned her or they will do worse. Everything went according to our plans and we have succeed in destroying her relationship that her fiancé dumped her and cancelled the marriage in October.

She hasn’t been well since, she lost her job , she is totally depressed and all she does is crying and she lost so much weigh. I was so happy seeing her like that because she deserved it but I pretend like I care when I didn’t but now I just feel so bad because her condition is getting worsened.

Seeing her going to the hospital today really broke my heart and made me regretting what I and my guy did to her but I don’t know how to help her again. I wish I could talk to her and tell her everything we did and beg for her forgiveness but I’m scared because everybody in the family will hate me, they will disown me and throw me out of the house and I have nowhere else to go with my child. My guy stays with friends in a one room house.

I’m Feeling helpless

Ha,


It is obvious that you deserve to be poor and miserable. All 12 levels of hell will wait for you. Thunder fire you. To harm your blood sister, benefactor and fellow woman.

You did all you did due to jealousy. You deserve to be ostracized from your family.


May I never meet people like you. Better confess you wretched fool.

Your sister is right, no wonder you got pregnant at an early age.

yettymuse:
pickmeisha spotted with a Dusty!

I swear to God. How do I unread this bullsh¡T?

Dear ifyjos,


Please deactivate immediately, stop replying posts here.

Thanks.

Ifyjos:
Yes please don’t judge him being poor is not permanent, I know that some day he will owe houses and many cars by God grace

let me tell you the truth. You guys will soak kpokpo garri and allow it to swell for the rest of your life. That's a fact. Let's even leave what you did to your sister aside.

1. You are twenty with a child, so most likely you haven't finished school, so you're uneducate making you 10 times more likely to be useless to society.

2. You are still suffering and smiling with a useless tout and you are calling him your husband. Even if he makes it which I doubt, he will still dump you and get a better woman. Also he is most likely uneducated.

3. The man has no vision for his life, no plan. but to drink and smoke his liver and lungs away. It is only a while before you start downloading his blows like etisalat data.

4. God grace is not going to make you rich. Hardwork and diligence will. He seems to be doing neither because he had time to plot your sisters demise.

5. You are both small minded and petty, plus you are swimming in the pond of poverty mentality.

Michellekabod2

Livescores:
Dear ifyjos,

Please deactivate immediately, stop replying posts here.

Thanks.

Deactivate? For what reason? No-oo-oo! Please let the thread remain here.

Let other people read and learn, from it.

Let them see how a person with a self-entitled mentality, poor behaviour, and lousy attitude can use her own hands to ruin herself, and her sibling.

Let them see that a man or woman's enemies, are members of their household.

Let them witness first hand, man's inhumanity to man (or should I say, woman's inhumanity to woman)?

Let them also realise how one wrong action can alter a person's destiny and cause serious consequences, down the line.

By getting pregnant at 14 and giving birth at 15, this Ifyjos girl, single handedly messed up her education, and embarked on a journey of hardship.

And let the rest of us all pray and thank God, that we are so fortunate to have good siblings who have our best interest at heart, and would not ruin our own lives, like this wayward girl did to her own biological sister!

At least, that is what I have been doing ever since I came across this thread!

Ifyjos:
She was the breadwinner , she helped a distant cousin with money to start business, if she could help a cousin and why not me her blood sister? She doesn't pay my child school fees but she does help if my guy doesn't have the money and before we get the money we will receive insults just because we are poor and she was rich . I'm 20 and going to be 21 on march 28
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Lolzz, seriously your sister should start up business for you and your supposed baby daddy. Is she that extremely rich, have she not done enough by training your child in school.
How old are you again?

To whom much is given much is expected and you are a dissapointment. You don't deserve a business from her, you aren't worth it

CeterisXVII:

Deactivate? For what reason? No-oo-oo! Please let the thread remain here.

Let other people read and learn, from it.

Let them see how a person with a self-entitled mentality, poor behaviour, and lousy attitude can use her own hands to ruin herself, and her sibling.

Let them see that a man or woman's enemies, are members of their household.

Let them witness first hand, man's inhumanity to man (or should I say, woman's inhumanity to woman)?

Let them also realise how one wrong action can alter a person's destiny and cause serious consequences, down the line.

By getting pregnant at 14 and giving birth at 15, this Ifyjos girl, single handedly messed up her education, and embarked on a journey of hardship.

And let the rest of us all pray and thank God, that we are so fortunate to have good siblings who have our best interest at heart, and would not ruin our own lives, like this wayward girl did to her own biological sister!

At least, that is what I have been doing ever since I came across this thread!

Amen

Ok thanks very much

ffo:

Don't delete it, let her see it, also be praying about it, you should have still make an attempt to see her fiancee

Ok thanks very much

SlimBrawnie:

It's a good thing you've done. Please don't delete them. You are a strong lady and will definitely withstand whatever result will come out of it. Just remember to also pray for God to touch her heart also so that things don't escalate. All the best.

CeterisXVII:

Deactivate? For what reason? No-oo-oo! Please let the thread remain here.

Let other people read and learn, from it.

Let them see how a person with a self-entitled mentality, poor behaviour, lousy attitude can use her own hands to ruin herself, and her sibling.

Let them see that a man or woman's enemies, are members of their household.

Let them witness first hand, man's inhumanity to man (or should I say, woman's inhumanity to woman)?

Let them also realise how one wrong action can alter a person's destiny and cause serious consequences, down the line. By getting pregnant at 14 and giving birth at 15, this Ifyjos girl, single handedly messed up her education, and embarked on a journey of hardship.

And let the rest of us all pray and thank God, that we are so fortunate to have good siblings who have our best interest at heart, and would not ruin our own lives, like this wayward girl did to her own biological sister!

At least, that is what I have been doing ever since I came across this thread!

Hey mate,I don't know the Op .... in as much I condemned her actions, I really don't like the way folks here are taking advantage of vulnerability, enough of the insults.

The previous 35 pages can serve as lessons for those who want to learn.

The thread is a joke already.

Livescores:
Hey mate,I don't know the Op .... in as much I condemned her actions, I really don't like the way folks here are taking advantage of vulnerability, enough of the insults.

The previous 35 pages can serve as lessons for those who want to learn.

The thread is a joke already.

Nobody is taking advantage of her vulnerability. In fact, it is the other way round.

She has been taking advantage of other people's attempts to advise her, by insulting them, justifying her horrible actions, and deriding her sibling.

Ifyjos:
He can never dump me because If he wanted to leave me , he would have done it long time ago when I was still pregnant. He never denied me and my pictures is everywhere on his Facebook and WhatsApp profile and our future will be greater. Not I’m not responsible for her loosing her job , she lost her job because at the time her fiancé dumped her , she was suicidal and missed work for almost a month and lost her job.

he can never.dump you?

It is like they have used your destiny and sense to play ludo.

You drove your sister to depression and made her lose her job. So you caused it

CeterisXVII:

Nobody is taking advantage of her vulnerability. In fact, it is the other way round.

She has been taking advantage of other people's attempts to advise her, by insulting them, justifying her horrible actions, and deriding her sibling.

k

Ifyjos:
I wish I could do it but what if they all turned against me and kick me out with my child and where will I go ?

with your husband na

Ifyjos:
So do u think confessing is something easy to do right ? I don’t know even have the strength to face her And narrate everything We did to her , don’t even know where to start from and u are talking like that because u are not in my shoes because if you were in my shoes then you would know how it feels. I did it out of anger and that time I had no remorse but now I feel remorse and regret it but don’t know how to go about it, I said I willè do it this evening but anytime I want to open up my heart is beating faster and I’m thinking how the whole family will gang up and beat me then throw me out of the house. It’s not easy for me

You would be fine. It would pass. But you'll have to face the consequences of your actions.

Meliian:


I already reprimanded her for raising her hand at her sister. She's a very disrespectful girl. However, there are other ways to punish a rude younger one. Getting them arrested is psychotic. Op must come from a very bad home. They both need help.

it isn't actually

Meliian:


So because she got impregnated at a younger age now her life is completely useless? If the said bf had money, you all wouldn't be talking like this. Is the guy the first man to drink, smoke or impregnate outside of marriage? The fact that he's penniless doesn't mean he's entirely useless. What about the part where he acknowledges the child? Doesn't that count for something?

Nope, accounting for the child is bare minimum

Depending on the type of family you have, confessing directly might lead to letting all hell loose and a series of events that can prove disastrous. It's not all families that can handle this madness. Like I said in my previous post, unless you are sure your family can handle this, go the indirect route at first - try anonymous tips to the fiance at first and see how things pan out, if it works and the fiance's mind changes towards her, then you can confess. At least they are back together.

Alternatively, go to a church or NGO you respect and that can beg on your behalf or protect you and rehabilitate you if your family proves too difficult. Let them take up this issue for you. Let them beg and negotiate a soft landing for you. You do not have what it takes to handle the fallout of this.

My hunch is that going directly is a bad idea.

Ifyjos:
No I didn’t go to his office again because He won’t even want to see me and That would be a waste of time and transport. But before I left the house this morning , I did recorded some voices videos narrating what I did and sent them to my sister WhatsApp, so far she hasn’t seen it yet because it’s only showing one tick and her last seen on WhatsApp was yesterday 8.19pm so I’m just here waiting to see what will happen when she listen to those voices I sent her. I’m scared and my mind is telling me because she hasn’t seen them yet I should deleted but I don’t know if I should or not

this is one step in the right direction.
Make up your mind to bare whatever comes. Beg for her forgiveness that the only way you can ever be free, even if the relationship never works out between them.

ffo:
1. By being wicked to a fellow human 2. By not being ready to make amend 3. By destroying somebody future 4. By not controlling your anger issue for days, months 5. By allowing your anger to take over you 6. By ganging up against your blood sister 7. By exhibiting the trait of witchcraft 8. By allowing your sister to suffer and keeping quiet 9. By lieing constantly 10. By envying and being jealous 11. By maybe killing your sister

this one na 11 count offence you are guilty of.

CHoccolaTE:


So he started sleeping with you when you were 13?

Egbelegbele

And this irresponsible pedophile is the person you place over your family and let him beat your sister?
That your sister has really suffered in your hand.

bro u tak too much mennn

Ifyjos:
No I didn’t go to his office again because He won’t even want to see me and That would be a waste of time and transport. But before I left the house this morning , I did recorded some voices videos narrating what I did and sent them to my sister WhatsApp, so far she hasn’t seen it yet because it’s only showing one tick and her last seen on WhatsApp was yesterday 8.19pm so I’m just here waiting to see what will happen when she listen to those voices I sent her. I’m scared and my mind is telling me because she hasn’t seen them yet I should deleted but I don’t know if I should or not

@Ifyjos, you confess and end this thing once and for all now. We have all said all there is to be said.... End this talk, responses and insults plus fight. The ONLY MSG WE WANT TO HEAR FROM U NOW IS THAT U HAVE CONFESSED......be responsible for once plz......and show us our time and data used in commenting on this thread isn't wasted

Plz ifyjoy... How did it go...?

Can't itch enough to know. Wish u d best of luck as u do d right thing