Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by oshaosha2014(m): 10:43am On Jan 14, 2020 |
I have said my own. Enjoy your day.
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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Pacesetter123(m): 10:43am On Jan 14, 2020 |
MizzPhoney:
Sorry na, no vex.... Sometimes we really wish to come but something will just come and spoil plans we might not be able to tell you exactly what happened. Either way if we get you for mind, we gat you. If not, then we don't. I think I like de way u responded to de issue very maturely. But we don't always expect you girls to tell us exactly wot later went wrong dat makes u piple not to show up again.But we expect u to just pick up a phone n call to say, am sorry.I don't think I will be able to make it again today.Let it rather be so-so day.But u people rather prefer to hold somebody at home incommunicado.Too badttt! One even tell me after abt two weeks later dat she was afraid of how my reaction will be if she tells me she is not coming again.That that was why she off her phone. Me was like,do u now know my reaction now dat u r telling me dis after two weeks?Babes,make una park well. 6 Likes |
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by GeneralPula: 10:55am On Jan 14, 2020 |
peterincredible: this same thing happened to me last year feb then i was a corper serving during the election period i told her to come the first time she agreed then she stood me up she no come hmmm i saw here during cds the following thursday asked her why dat it is disrespectfull and i dont lyk it she appologised and we rescheduled the following week i called her that morning on the day she was suppose to come she said she will start preparing then i started cleaning my room told my roomate to disappear or i will break his head he laughed and went to the next room, so i started cooking usually i dont add much salt and use only one maggi when i cook cause i have mild high blood pressure bcause of her i cooked and put the normal salt and just make the jollof ricr look good and tasty and and even spray perfume for the room thinking say na beta person i invite come ooo then boom time was 5pm this girl neva come or even called hmm so i called her then she told me she was ill i just laff cut the call then immediately i deleted her no, i saw her the next day during all this political waker when copers dey do during election period na i politician called all corpers in that local govt to a hotel for some sharing of money oo na so i see this same girl that said was ill talking to some of my guys i just went to dem greet my guys, greet her smiling then left, guess what? her concience start judging her she came to me to start a conversation we talked for a while then i left her giving her a boring reason to go she neva saw my call since that day and anytime i see her i will just greet from afar and go without chatting her up hmm then she called me a month time telling me i dont call her anymore infact that got me angry but i maintained and then later she sent me text on watsapp immediately the text entered my phone i blocked her then she new we not on the same page again since then wherever she sees me she will complain peter wetin i do you i will just laff and tell her nothing jare then give her a boring reason to excuse myself and since that time she has been the one trying to spark a conversation but guy i am very hot headed and will neva ever tollerate a disrespectfull woman even if am broke and my wife or gf tries to be bitchy bcause of one boring reason i will just let her know am the man and am ready to walk away any fucking time when u let them know that and u always smile it will leave them confuse neva eva chase a women even when she threatings to leave she might be testing u to know ure strenght and most of it all a girl can never love a man she takes for granted or disrespects so when a girl act that way always smile when u see her to keep her confuse then cut her offff u hear me cut her offff and as for the gurl she always be the one to come to me but i gave her a very long space even the day i we where both passing out she called me i looked at her then smile a bit turn and left she was expecting me to come to her to talk but i didnt that shows strength neva let a girl disrepect u when she does just leave her most time it she will be the one chasing as i read ure post i just laff cause i remembered what i did to her i can see the look on her face anytime i gave her a quick answer and excuse myself she looks rejected i neva even taught i was that wicked the dating world is very beautifulll but only the men who dont give a Bleep and show strenght wins i just cant stop laughing sha thanks for remembering me about that wierd girl Confirm! Nah man you be bro! E no go teeh before you make am for life! 4 Likes |
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by kense88: 11:00am On Jan 14, 2020 |
Eroms4life17:
Make sure you save this quote because we will remind you one day. Don't complain when you husband refuse to come home after work or kicks her silly ass out, for been completely useless to him. 2 Likes |
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Auntyesther(f): 11:03am On Jan 14, 2020 |
oshaosha2014: I have said my own. Enjoy your day.
thats the same thing i did. Same to you dear |
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by peterincredible: 11:03am On Jan 14, 2020 |
joezy11: .
Why u dey vex.... She know ur plan already, na money u want give or job ?? Bleep kill u der baba i no vex ooo i have experienced it several times i was only telling my story and how a man should handle it by smilling and placing distance that is all and again sorry for the lack of puntuation or typo on my story and not all women will reciprocate what u want that is life and it is normal just smile and confuse dem period good morning bros 1 Like |
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by oshaosha2014(m): 11:06am On Jan 14, 2020 |
Yes, he deserves it. babtaima:
Yo.... the truth in this post is scary.. this is the entire summary of the game. You deserve some cash commissions for this.. |
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by TechCapon(m): 11:11am On Jan 14, 2020 |
Educonomist: Bros,, as u arrange ur room, clean everywhere so, shey u no happy??........
this comment go reach 2000 likes before evening 1 Like |
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by kense88: 11:24am On Jan 14, 2020 |
sirhamilton:
I am surprised to read the comments this post is getting, there is nothing wrong if a lady tells you she is coming to visit you but fails to show up. This could be because she does not trust you enough to be alone with you or something else came up, but either ways no lady owes you a visit. Girls are being raped everyday just because they decided to "come over" . if you had a sister would you be comfortable if she told you she was going to visit any of the guys who have been lamenting on this thread? If you know your intentions are genuine you won't have to block a girls phone just because she didn't show up... would you block your guys number just because he didn't "come over" ( well, unless you are gay ) nice one |
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by oshaosha2014(m): 11:26am On Jan 14, 2020 |
I like girls like you. You don’t waste a man’s time. We can just meet now and disintegrate the next minute because we couldn’t agree on you coming to my house. Unto the next. ![wink](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/wink.png) Ladycewhy: Honestly when the Nigerian guy says "come to my house" na to fvck o ,and this thread just proves it. See that one taking concuction so he can shift someone's womb like say he know road to her papa house. The very reason i usually ask a guy that tells me to come to his house 'if they are minting money at his house" lol .
However i do not approve the way ladies have been going about it, is it fear or shyness that will not make you pick your call and tell him you are not coming? Or even tell him straight up the first time he brings it up that you wont come. Ladies we need to do better, maybe thats why most guys feel i am blunt and they can't handle it. Me refusing to come to your house is not breaking any law so i will tell you straight up and if you start giving me attitude ,i delete you.Na my pussy and i will decide when to bring it to your house,not on your terms,if you want your terms ,go carry ashawo (for socially awkward men ). 1 Like |
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by oshaosha2014(m): 11:33am On Jan 14, 2020 |
He doesn’t have to bleep. The most important thing is he did not lose himself in the process of getting laid. Nothing is special about a woman’s pvssy my brother. I still wonder why some men keep spending their life savings on this thing. henrybangs44:
all this long story u no bleep am....chai 5 Likes |
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by CKLP: 11:38am On Jan 14, 2020 |
You not being able to come any longer isn't a big deal. E no dey even pain me at all. I just forget about it, dress up and go out.
The painful part is when they don't pick their calls , some will even switch off their phones only to call you back days later that she was scared of your reaction if she told you she could no longer make it that was why she didn't pick your call and switched off her phone lol. When I was in uni, one did me this kind of thing. She was to even come at night, it got so severe that any footstep I hear like this I go think say na she till I slept off and woke up around past 12. I just jejely go lock my door and window continue my sleep jare I even had exam the following day and because of her promise to come I didn't go for night class. After that incident she noticed I didn't greet her like before again and just walk past anytime we jam for faculty.
These kind of girls just ignore them afterwards and act like nothing ever happened . That's how to deal with them psychologically and emotionally. It will make them look foolish 6 Likes |
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by oshaosha2014(m): 11:50am On Jan 14, 2020 |
You are right. He did more than half of the job. I just think he wants to have fun at her expense. Like, give her some good psychological turmoil. Malawian:
Wait bro, you no fvck am? You had done more than half the job. |
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by idonhammer: 12:11pm On Jan 14, 2020 |
Well, as long as bank still exists,my Money will keep increasing so I got no time to waste for nonsense Love. MizzPhoney:
Highest Bidder? Dude, did you read what I wrote at all? If a lady loves or likes you as the case may be, nothing will stop her from respecting and explaining to you the reason behind her behaviour. That is what I am saying. Besides, what do you then gain by being loved for the money? When all the money is no more, will you still be loved by the ladies who "rush" you right now? You need to give yourself more worth other than the coins in your purse. For the ladies it is imperative to be resourceful, decisive and not allow yourself to be seen as a gold digger when the supposed gold is even gold dust. 1 Like |
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by temielects(m): 12:15pm On Jan 14, 2020 |
NihiIist:
You ladies are actually used to this thing.. she's not the first to do it to me. It doesn't just make sense at all. maybe you are making it very obvious that you only wanna strav,if you make it too glaring that all you need is sex,my Lagos babes makes that a way of teaching you how to be patient ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) |
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by NewDelhi(m): 12:26pm On Jan 14, 2020 |
emperorblog21: leeave all dis undergrown small girl
if u have ur money carrt Olosho sleep over night.
forget about heartbreak disapppintment. This is why I prefer oloso bro... And funny enough oloso tend to be cheaper than keeping a girlfriend sef. If you're dating a girl, before she go even open leg for you, you for don spend heavily. Even if she opens leg, she's not doing it out of love. She's only doing it out of pity so it wouldn't look like she is just eating your money for nothing. Oloso between 2-10k you're good to go. If na ashawo you fit enjoy yourself with as little as #500 . Some of them go even like you wan be your friend. I used to have one ashawo customer like that at a brothel when I was in kwara state. They called that joint honeymoon phase 1, close to kasmag inside that street. This girl like me so tey we go fùck like husband and wife.... Sometimes I'll even be feeling like I'm cheating her self like I'm paying her below the standard of what she's offering me. Chai na Yoruba girl we go Bleep styles lie down for bed from afternoon to night when she will now go and bath so she fit go hustle customers downstairs. I no dey pay am pass #1k. Sometimes she no go even collect money for my hand. 9 Likes |
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by samtol4(m): 12:31pm On Jan 14, 2020 |
Wow ! The way guys prepared for ladies I wish you guys can use that same energy and enthusiasm prepare business proposal 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by samtol4(m): 12:33pm On Jan 14, 2020 |
Most guys need to change their mentality ! |
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Neldrizzy(m): 12:52pm On Jan 14, 2020 |
konvict0111: For your mind, you just kan dey form exotic and nice restaurant on the island. Lols!!!
Just say you don't fancy the guy, that's all. On a normal day, u go hang leg aswear down. lolz guy you wicked ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) say she go hang leg on a normal day... I swear I just de look al this NL girls forming woke, when we all know what they do behind keypads.. they are everywhere especially on Twitter.. They sound woke in their post and DO opposites in their DM ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) woke girls are the easiest girls/things to get in this present day.. If you see My whatsaap chats you go fear... steady piping 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Shinfuluan: 12:54pm On Jan 14, 2020 |
NihiIist: You invite a girl to come over, she promises you. Because of her, you quickly arrange your house, clean everywhere, wash your toilet clean, lay your bed and spray airfreshner. You even down a bottle of alomo bitters and all sorts of concoction just in case.
The time for her to come is here as you agreed and well you decided to give her about an hour or so maybe she'll show up but she doesn't.
You call her phone to ask her whatsup, she's not picking, some will even switch off their phone.
Pls if you know you wouldn't come, you shouldn't have made the promise. It's nothing but wickedness Educonomist: Bros,, as u arrange ur room, clean everywhere so, shey u no happy??........
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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Ibrahim3307(m): 12:59pm On Jan 14, 2020 |
kingslj:
Had that experience in those days in Uniport.Spent my feeding allowance preparing food for her.She never came .Spent the rest of the semester eatiing pawpaw growing around the campus.
hahahahahaha tell me you are joking� |
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Nobody: 1:11pm On Jan 14, 2020 |
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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Allsingles: 1:15pm On Jan 14, 2020 |
This how my neighbor took sxx concoction that made his penis to be erect for 24 hours. Please if you know you can't come don't just promise that you will come before you kill sombori pickin oo |
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by berryace007: 1:55pm On Jan 14, 2020 |
Same here nearly landed in the HOSPITAL na only God save me after drinking all sorts of Jedi Jedi |
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by MizzPhoney(f): 2:00pm On Jan 14, 2020 |
idonhammer: s,Well, as long as bank still exists my Money will keep increasing so I got no time to waste for nonsense Love.
Sorry love, I feel your pain. In another news, talk to me about the money increasing and bank existing please. I need more income generating avenues ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) |
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by pocohantas(f): 2:06pm On Jan 14, 2020 |
This is the kind of thread that gets to 15pages. Yet they say Buhari is the problem.
Only thing in an average Naija guy's head is toto and food. Maybe a little football and national politics. But toto will take like 73% of his brain's space. Very anyhow creatures.
See lamentations on top fck matter. Gosh! 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by MizzPhoney(f): 2:06pm On Jan 14, 2020 |
Pacesetter123: I think I like de way u responded to de issue very maturely. But we don't always expect you girls to tell us exactly wot later went wrong dat makes u piple not to show up again.But we expect u to just pick up a phone n call to say, am sorry.I don't think I will be able to make it again today.Let it rather be so-so day.But u people rather prefer to hold somebody at home incommunicado.Too badttt! One even tell me after abt two weeks later dat she was afraid of how my reaction will be if she tells me she is not coming again.That that was why she off her phone. Me was like,do u now know my reaction now dat u r telling me dis after two weeks?Babes,make una park well. That's so unfair. Two weeks... Sorry Bro. I admit, some of us can really be a handful. 2 Likes |
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Nobody: 2:54pm On Jan 14, 2020 |
uthlaw: if you see person way mumu pass u carry am go court! I'm proud to carry that title anywhere I go that carry the tag of a rapist by a manipulative woman. 1 Like |
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by idonhammer: 3:10pm On Jan 14, 2020 |
You must agree to date me first. MizzPhoney:
Sorry love, I feel your pain.
In another news, talk to me about the money increasing and bank existing please. I need more income generating avenues ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) |
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by MicroSweet(m): 3:13pm On Jan 14, 2020 |
Holywizard: do u know that I was so konjified yesterday, and I controlled a young beautiful Tiv babe like that right in the morning. Do u know that the babe agreed to come by 2pm? I called by 2.30pm and the fool told me to give her some mins to dress up. 3.30pm I didn't still hear from her and I called her. Could u imagine that de mad fool changed her tone just to tell me that she felt sick instantly. I couldn't allow finish her statement and I ended the call, deleted and unfriend her on Facebook. Omo, you graduated her from FOOL to MAD FOOL. ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) |
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by NwaScore442(m): 3:20pm On Jan 14, 2020 |
peterincredible: this same thing happened to me last year feb then i was a corper serving during the election period i told her to come the first time she agreed then she stood me up she no come hmmm i saw here during cds the following thursday asked her why dat it is disrespectfull and i dont lyk it she appologised and we rescheduled the following week i called her that morning on the day she was suppose to come she said she will start preparing then i started cleaning my room told my roomate to disappear or i will break his head he laughed and went to the next room, so i started cooking usually i dont add much salt and use only one maggi when i cook cause i have mild high blood pressure bcause of her i cooked and put the normal salt and just make the jollof ricr look good and tasty and and even spray perfume for the room thinking say na beta person i invite come ooo then boom time was 5pm this girl neva come or even called hmm so i called her then she told me she was ill i just laff cut the call then immediately i deleted her no, i saw her the next day during all this political waker when copers dey do during election period na i politician called all corpers in that local govt to a hotel for some sharing of money oo na so i see this same girl that said was ill talking to some of my guys i just went to dem greet my guys, greet her smiling then left, guess what? her concience start judging her she came to me to start a conversation we talked for a while then i left her giving her a boring reason to go she neva saw my call since that day and anytime i see her i will just greet from afar and go without chatting her up hmm then she called me a month time telling me i dont call her anymore infact that got me angry but i maintained and then later she sent me text on watsapp immediately the text entered my phone i blocked her then she new we not on the same page again since then wherever she sees me she will complain peter wetin i do you i will just laff and tell her nothing jare then give her a boring reason to excuse myself and since that time she has been the one trying to spark a conversation but guy i am very hot headed and will neva ever tollerate a disrespectfull woman even if am broke and my wife or gf tries to be bitchy bcause of one boring reason i will just let her know am the man and am ready to walk away any fucking time when u let them know that and u always smile it will leave them confuse neva eva chase a women even when she threatings to leave she might be testing u to know ure strenght and most of it all a girl can never love a man she takes for granted or disrespects so when a girl act that way always smile when u see her to keep her confuse then cut her offff u hear me cut her offff and as for the gurl she always be the one to come to me but i gave her a very long space even the day i we where both passing out she called me i looked at her then smile a bit turn and left she was expecting me to come to her to talk but i didnt that shows strength neva let a girl disrepect u when she does just leave her most time it she will be the one chasing as i read ure post i just laff cause i remembered what i did to her i can see the look on her face anytime i gave her a quick answer and excuse myself she looks rejected i neva even taught i was that wicked the dating world is very beautifulll but only the men who dont give a Bleep and show strenght wins i just cant stop laughing sha thanks for remembering me about that wierd girl Bruh.. Na so u stingy with punctuation marks.. I almost cry reading this |
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by KellyFORMAT(m): 3:20pm On Jan 14, 2020 |
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