This question is for the married folks!!! If you are to marry again, would you marry your current spouse? Please, be very honest with your answer.

Not married yet... hoping for the best

Yes, Yes, Yes, Yes and YES !!! I'll marry her again any day, anytime!

There's an adage in Yoruba: A pe jeun, koni je'baje! Literal meaning... "A late Diner never feeds on scraps".

Proverbial translation... "A Patient dog eats the most sumptuous and juicy bone"

I kinda married late but, I definitely hit the bull's eye! The most perfect thing for me. I remain appreciative.

YorubaLord:
Yes, Yes, Yes, Yes and YES !!! I'll marry her again any day, anytime!

There's an adage in Yoruba: A pe jeun, koni je'baje! Literal meaning... "A late Diner never feeds on scraps".

Proverbial translation... "A Patient dog eats the most sumptuous and juicy bone"

I kinda married late but, I definitely hit the bull's eye! The most perfect thing for me. I remain appreciative.

Thats nice to hear. You are one of the few that are happy in their marriage. What motivated this topic was the fact that; I observed many people are not happy in their marriage

Greatdre:
Thats nice to hear. You are one of the few that are happy in their marriage. What motivated this topic was the fact that; I observed many people are not happy in their marriage

You're very right. Most people (especially from this part of the world) don't really fall in love with each other. They fall in love with what they can get out of one another.

YESSSS.....

He makes marriage sooo easy.

I will look for him in my next life and even toast him if I have to

not married

ImaIma1:
YESSSS.....

He makes marriage sooo easy.

I will look for him in my next life and even toast him if I have to

Seeing stuff like this makes me happy, gives me hope for the future as well.
I pray myself and my partner feel this way about each other when I get married.

Long may your sweet marriage continue!!

When you are with a guy who is handsome facially with good physique, beautiful eyes, well behaved, not stingy, respectful, overall sexy and most importantly crazy in love with you. You will never want marriage with any other guy even if you come to this world ten times over.
So I will choose mine over and over and over again.

ImaIma1:
YESSSS.....

He makes marriage sooo easy.

I will look for him in my next life and even toast him if I have to

Thank God for your marriage. You are also one of those that got it right.

Yustash001:
Not married yet... hoping for the best

Same here... but I pray for my own bone

Vyolet:
When you are with a guy who is handsome facially with good physique, beautiful eyes, well behaved, not stingy, respectful, overall sexy and most importantly crazy in love with you. You will never want marriage with any other guy even if you come to this world ten times over.
So I will choose mine over and over and over again.

@Bolded. Those guys ONLY exist in Jupiter.

I will marry him a million time over but with a better planned surprise proposal lolzzz

The little research I made also showed that many people are not happy in their marriages but will come public to display their marriage or spouse as the next best thing. A woman can be receiving consistent beating from the husband on a daily basis but would still display her husband to the outside world as the best man on earth. Thats the kind of society we find ourselves. Nobody wants to be ridiculed for having a bad spouse or union.

Bola146:


Same here... but I pray for my own bone

i'm also single.






We can as well get married.

YorubaLord:


@Bolded. Those guys ONLY exist in Jupiter.

It's not my fault that you don't possess all of these qualities but be rest assured that there are men who are even more, and yes, mine exists on earth.

Doesn’t matter what anyone says on this thread, Nairalanders will believe whatever they want to believe. People act like that love to see happily married people but they actually derive more joy from other people’s sadness.

Cue the sad threads that attract more attention versus the good marriage ones which at best are boring for these spectators or as usual will seem like show off to them.

OP there are happily married people everywhere. Yes even on NL. They may not come to this thread to tell you about it. But yes there are.

Greatdre:
The little research I made also showed that many people are not happy in their marriages but will come public to display their marriage or spouse as the next best thing. A woman can be receiving consistent beating from the husband on a daily basis but would still display her husband to the outside world as the best man on earth . Thats the kind of society we find ourselves. Nobody wants to be ridiculed for having a bad spouse or union.

Like this one.

If you share any bit of your life that seems good in public, “researchers and truth seekers” won’t stop looking holes in it to convince themselves that you must be unhappy somehow.

They are monitoring you all oh. Keep exposing yourselves

Vyolet:
When you are with a guy who is handsome facially with good physique, beautiful eyes, well behaved, not stingy, respectful, overall sexy and most importantly crazy in love with you. You will never want marriage with any other guy even if you come to this world ten times over.
So I will choose mine over and over and over again.

I knew I would meet your kind.

This is not a thread to breed competition or promote hypocrisy.

You woman are good at dropping lines like these in order to portray the luckiest woman on Earth.



I have been married for over 3 decades and I can say "Marriage is beautiful if both of you love each other truthfully" and are determined to make your marriage work. Though it's not a smooth sail but with a determined spirit, you will conquer all.


You will sometimes fight your extended family because of that woman you love and cherish. Marriage is not for the feeble heart.

I remember one time, I looked straight in her eyes and I saw a helpless woman. I stood up to my late uncle's and told them never to insult my wife again or I stop bearing their surname and cut ties with them forever.


I could remember when i slumped, my wife was crying like I child. I woke up to her screams and tears.

I love my wife and I am without any doubt that she loves me too. I married her because I couldn't imagine living so far away from such beautiful soul. I wanted to have her all to myself and I succeeded.

Today, I don't see the curves (Of course I wasn't interested in all that when I married her) and she isn't seeing the albs, afro hairstyle etc but she is still my "Sexy Amigo".

I will marry her over and over again if given a chance.


PS: Don't even think money brought us together. I was still trying to find my place in this world when I met her. She told me "I believe in you"

After my mother, no one else except her said those words to me.

I held on to those words and today, it's all history.

cococandy:
Doesn’t matter what anyone says on this thread, Nairalanders will believe whatever they want to believe. People act like that love to see happily married people but they actually derive more joy from other people’s sadness.

Cue the sad threads that attract more attention versus the good marriage ones which at best are boring for these spectators or as usual will seem like show off to them.

OP there are happily married people everywhere. Yes even on NL. They may not come to this thread to tell you about it. But yes there are.

No matter what they write, we won't stop putting it here if we have good men in our lives, they are used to sad stories forgetting that good stories exist too.


The Op even expects to read stories like, " I will not marry my husband in another life because he is a beast".

Vyolet:

No matter what they write, we won't stop putting it here if we have good men in our lives, they are used to sad stories forgetting that good stories exist too.


The Op even expects to read stories like, " I will not marry my husband in another life because he is a beast".

They do know that good stories exist. They just don’t want it to be you. And the bad stories do create more back and forth, arguments bla bla bla hence more interesting

But yes, you can’t stop living and sharing your happiness because another person doesn’t like it.

KingSatan:


I knew I would meet your kind.

This is not a thread to breed competition or promote hypocrisy.

You woman are good at dropping lines like these in order to portray the luckiest woman on Earth.



I have been married for over 3 decades and I can say "Marriage is beautiful if both of you love each other truthfully" and are determined to make your marriage work. Though it's not a smooth sail but with a determined spirit, you will conquer all.


You will sometimes fight your extended family because of that woman you love and cherish. Marriage is not for the feeble heart.

I remember one time, I looked straight in her eyes and I saw a helpless woman. I stood up to my late uncle's and told them never to insult my wife again or I stop bearing their surname and cut ties with them forever.


I could remember when i slumped, my wife was crying like I child. I woke up to her screams and tears.

I love my wife and I am without any doubt that she loves me too. I married her because I couldn't imagine living so far away from such beautiful soul. I wanted to have her all to myself and I succeeded.

Today, I don't see the curves (Of course I wasn't interested in all that when I married her) and she isn't seeing the albs, afro hairstyle etc but she is still my "Sexy Amigo".

I will marry her over and over again if given a chance.

Your post is contradictory, I wish I know what side of the fence you belong.

Greatdre:
This question is for the married folks!!! If you are to marry again, would you marry your current spouse? Please, be very honest with your answer.

Never ever

dapo456

Vyolet:

Your post is contradictory, I wish I know what side of the fence you belong.

There is nothing contradictory about my post. I told you the truth no one, including women like you will ever tell you.


And I also shared a bit of my marital experience with you guys.

Whenever such questions are thrown to the public, there is always a woman like you who tries so hard to convince the public that she is married to a King, perfectly designed without errors, doesn't bite or bark.

KingSatan:


There is nothing contradictory about my post. I told you the truth no one, including women like you will ever tell you.


And I also shared a bit of my marital experience with you guys.

Whenever such questions are thrown to the public, there is always a woman like you who tries so hard to convince the public that she is married to a perfect King, perfectly designed without errors and their relationship is blessed beyond doubts.

Oh I get.
There is no point trying hard when you actually have it.
The truth is, no one has it all, the person that has certain good traits will obviously have some shortcomings but that's not enough for us to ignore the good parts.

I didn't see where you wrote that your wife is a bad woman, you praised her and praised yourself, you should have moved on after writing yours, there's no point looking for sob stories in a good story.

Greatdre:
The little research I made also showed that many people are not happy in their marriages but will come public to display their marriage or spouse as the next best thing. A woman can be receiving consistent beating from the husband on a daily basis but would still display her husband to the outside world as the best man on earth. Thats the kind of society we find ourselves. Nobody wants to be ridiculed for having a bad spouse or union.

Or they will keep quiet and say nothing.

Vyolet:
When you are with a guy who is handsome facially with good physique, beautiful eyes, well behaved, not stingy, respectful, overall sexy and most importantly crazy in love with you. You will never want marriage with any other guy even if you come to this world ten times over.
So I will choose mine over and over and over again.

Lol, chics...

You must have said these exact same things to yourself when you were with your last boyfriend.
We hope this one marries you.


Bukatyne come and talk your own jor.
You know I like to read about your marriage to the first and only man you ever dated. Real stuffz

See how yours is the true love story but the other lady was trying to portray herself as the luckiest ?



No be today.

KingSatan:


I knew I would meet your kind.

This is not a thread to breed competition or promote hypocrisy.

You woman are good at dropping lines like these in order to portray the luckiest woman on Earth.



I have been married for over 3 decades and I can say "Marriage is beautiful if both of you love each other truthfully" and are determined to make your marriage work. Though it's not a smooth sail but with a determined spirit, you will conquer all.


You will sometimes fight your extended family because of that woman you love and cherish. Marriage is not for the feeble heart.

I remember one time, I looked straight in her eyes and I saw a helpless woman. I stood up to my late uncle's and told them never to insult my wife again or I stop bearing their surname and cut ties with them forever.


I could remember when i slumped, my wife was crying like I child. I woke up to her screams and tears.

I love my wife and I am without any doubt that she loves me too. I married her because I couldn't imagine living so far away from such beautiful soul. I wanted to have her all to myself and I succeeded.

Today, I don't see the curves (Of course I wasn't interested in all that when I married her) and she isn't seeing the albs, afro hairstyle etc but she is still my "Sexy Amigo".

I will marry her over and over again if given a chance.


PS: Don't even think money brought us together. I was still trying to find my place in this life when I met her. She told me "I believe in you"

After my mother, no one else except her said those words to me.

I held on to those words and today, it's all history.

cococandy:
See how yours is the true love story but the other lady was trying to portray herself as the luckiest ?



No be today.

Like I said, no woman will ever tell her the truth.

If you had read my post, you would have seen where I said "Marriage is not a smooth sail". What if you have comprehension issues?

If you had compared both posts truthful, you would have noticed that there is a big difference. What if you have a microscopic Intelligent Quotient?

Or better still, you are a just being a WOMAN THAT YOU ARE!

For the records, my story is not a true love story. It's actually a MARRIED MANS EXPERIENCE IN WRITING. NO LYING, NO HYPOCRISY


Lalasticlala

RoyalRoy

tbabs10166:
i'm also single.





We can as well get married.

crackkhaus:

Lol, chics...

You must have said these exact same things to yourself when you were with your last boyfriend.
We hope this one marries you.


Bukaty come and talk your own jor.
You know I like to read about your marriage to the first and only man you ever dated. Real stuffz

What are you saying?