lavylilly:
TO THE LADIES:

When you are ready to settle down, dont forget these...

1) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see paying your bride price as buying you...

Neddyogu:
Jus kukuma settle for Jesus

pansophist:
In as much that I agree with the poster, it can not be ignored that by default, women are convinced in their own perfection, and see men as the only gender that needs adjustment, meet certain rules, be man enough and to be an awesome partner.

Having said that, I await the day women here starts advising other women on how they can be perfect partners to their man, such as, but not limited to, equally co-financing household subsistence, not withholding/weaponizing sex, not being a manipulator, and seeing him as a human wallet, not using the kids against him, to name a few. Furthermore, women should Begin cautioning their fellow women to curtail their predisposition to "sex for cash".

Particularly in Nigeria, the upsurge of unregistered "one-woman business" locally known as oloshos has reach an alarming level, that it fears me deeply that finding a virtuous woman for the next generations will be an almost impossible task. So far, nairaland women are not writing articles about it. Right now, I'm chilling at farm city in lekki, and the number of "business women" inshore and onshore are almost uncountable.

I cant even turn my head to a 180 degree without the ladies desperately hoping that I call them to my table, flex them, take home, and pump and dump. It is sickened that this women themselves even if they accuse of men of sexually objectifying them, wilfully objectify themselves for cash, and that is how they role. This is not the Nigeria I know of 10 years ago, and it will get worse.

So ladies, what is good for Ada, is also good for Adamu. I'll like to see nairaland women writing articles on how they can be a better woman, that they should not just show-up, but show-up with something, that they should not be Jezebel, and be the women their mothers are, and make society great again.

Pansophist.

shiwex:
Apart from sex, women have nothing to offer.

BadRadio:
ladies with over 1 million body counts are forming prudent preference list. smh

Michellekabod2:


The dating/marriage game has been reduced to business and not true love,and as you know it business is for profit not compromise. Dating now is take and take and not give and take,if you wanna give you are tagged as a "simp" if you are a guy and "pick-me girl" if you are a girl. Just flow with the trend,seek out your own interest.

ruffDiamond:
lolsss all these on top wetin na? wetin the ill educated ill-mannered lady go come bring come table na ?just punna and brezz?lol if I begin write the kinda gals guys shouldn't marry ehn..dem fit no wan marry at all !or maybe settle for foreigners..dirty, ill-bred,over makeup, packaged bitches be giving condition!no be naija girls again?,tufiakwa!spit on them smelly punna.



olosh0 lot!

booscy:
And that's for the ladies, what about Men abi is marriage now one-sided ?

pansophist:


Lol, but Jesus no get money na, he is not man-enough

CorGier:
If I were to possess all that, why then for the life of me would I need bend a knee proposing to your lame entitled ass?

Why does the average basic black chick always feels she deserves better than she's worth? That I would choose you to spend the rest of my life with and bear my offspring(s) should be a privilege for you. You not me.

I for one plan on proposing with her on her knees between my legs, fresh from sucking me off.

That way it puts things in perspective. Make nobody stress me abeg, who una epp.

Ten06:
But when she is running of time she will settle for bricklayer or lagos agbero.

Dupalmer:
This type of post is the reason why a whole lot of ladies are insolent, obnoxious and only good for bedmatics then remain very single because all the men that come their way will not be be able to keep to her impossible high standards. They will only pretend for a while and have a full share of her body and leave her heartbroken to continue her search for Mr.Jesus Christ. While she's getting older and less appealing. Her exes are going for younger sweet damsels to her chagrin.

Single ladies you better be wise. There's no 100percent rosy marriage. Get into marriage and make it work. Ask our our mothers how they did it. Their formula for marriage still works till tomorrow. Even though I agree that the effort should come from both husband and wife but your commitment as the mother of the house is very important in shaping the home.

The stupid current trend of feminism is the reason for the very high rate of present day marital failures. In most cases its the ladies that take the greater loss.

It's 100times easier for a man to marry and remarry several times whether as divorcee or polygamist than for a lady to marry even once. (hard fact)

We are Africans for Christ's sake not whites.
I repeat single ladies be wise.

lavylilly:
TO THE LADIES:

When you are ready to settle down, dont forget these...

1) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see paying your bride price as buying you...

2) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see marrying you as doing you a big favour...

3) Make sure you settle for a man who wouldn't use your monthly cramps and mood swings against you,, YES Some men are like that...

4) Make sure you settle for a man who knows you have right to your body sometimes,, who understands you have the right to say NO to sex when its not comfortable for you,, maybe due to weakness or whatever it might be,, and still respect you for that...

5) Make sure you settle for a man who would stick with you inspite of the odds,, who wouldn't compare you to a SWEET 16 after series of child birth (though most women try to work on themselves after child birth,, but truth be told,, you cant remain young forever)...

6) Make sure you settle for a man who would understand that there are just times you might feel too tired to fix the family meal,, and him helping you out wont be a taboo...

7) Make sure you settle for a man who would always allow you air your opinions, who understands you have d right to 'agree' or 'disagree' on a particular issue,, depending on what the case may be,, without always shutting you up before you are done airing your view...

Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt find it difficult saying 'SORRY',, someone who easily asks for forgiveness whenever he wrongs you,, not some kind of 'Autocratic' man,, who expects 'sorry' from you even when it's glaring he's wrong...

9) Make sure you settle for a man who understands that hitting a lady is a crime and shouldnt be done especially to his wife,, not some 'wife beaters' who raises their hands at the slightest provocation...

10) Make sure you settle for a man who loves everything about you,,who loves your soul not just the body,,and who enjoys your company always...

YOU CAN ADD YOURS TOO...

I COME IN PEACE✌

OnPointMan:
Funniest thing is, OP might still be single

victorian:









I concur!


Never settle for less , cause me i didnt settle for less even when my male friends always ring it in my ears , that is divorced middle aged or old rich men or married men that will feel comfortable to marry me .

I rejected such declarations immediately . I will never become a second or third or fourth wife ! Hell no!
And i kept believing a young rich man will love me to the moon and back !
I made sure i look topnotch to the teeth!

It took quite a long time but ive gotten what i want ! No going back ! No retreat! No surrender to bad vibes and wrong prophecies!


So women date the right person and marry well!

Cheers!


Im so so happy!!!!

IdioticNLmods:
Funny thing is that every lady wants the perfect man while most of them are horrible.
Ogbeni go get a clay and mould your prince charming. Yeye

pocohantas:
Nice threads for the ladies,

But then, the male retards running amok in the section couldn't wait to hijack it.

PrimadonnaO:
I’ve never dated a man who was deficient in any of those 10 areas.

prekumohtim:


Permission granted
You have earned my ring
Remove every other ring

pansophist:
In as much that I agree with the poster, it can not be ignored that by default, women are convinced in their own perfection, and see men as the only gender that needs adjustment, meet certain rules, be man enough and to be an awesome partner.

Having said that, I await the day women here starts advising other women on how they can be perfect partners to their man, such as, but not limited to, equally co-financing household subsistence, not withholding/weaponizing sex, not being a manipulator, and seeing him as a human wallet, not using the kids against him, to name a few. Furthermore, women should Begin cautioning their fellow women to curtail their predisposition to "sex for cash".

Particularly in Nigeria, the upsurge of unregistered "one-woman business" locally known as oloshos has reach an alarming level, that it fears me deeply that finding a virtuous woman for the next generations will be an almost impossible task. So far, nairaland women are not writing articles about it. Right now, I'm chilling at farm city in lekki, and the number of "business women" inshore and onshore are almost uncountable.

I cant even turn my head to a 180 degree without the ladies desperately hoping that I call them to my table, flex them, take home, to ejaculate and evacuate with my money of course.. It is sickened that even if these women accuse men of sexually objectifying them, they actually and wilfully objectify themselves for cash, and that is how they role. This is not the Nigeria I know of 10 years ago, and it will get worse.

So ladies, what is good for Ada, is also good for Adamu. I'll like to see nairaland women writing articles on how they can be a better woman, that they should not just show-up, but show-up with something, that they should not be Jezebel, but be the kind of women their mothers are, so we can all make society great again.

Pansophist.

koyyes:


That was how oyibo women gathered one day and kept on demanding until they trained and groomed their men to be what they are now- Inventors.

African females need to do the same. Just look at the number of lazy, spineless she-males wailing here over a simple list that a normal, sane human would agree too. As if it was an animal that gave birth to them.

These breed of males need to be trained because they were all born and bred like animals.

viyon02:
OK now, make sure this and make that:By the time you are 40 all this rules will no longer matter. a wise woman will always find a way to her husband heart. Sarah did it and she succeeded.