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Materiality of life by ufotty2001: 1:55pm On Jan 19, 2020
Hello Nairalanders!

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Re: Materiality of life by ufotty2001: 1:56pm On Jan 19, 2020
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Re: Materiality of life by kilokeys(m): 1:57pm On Jan 19, 2020
Hmmm
Re: Materiality of life by falcon01: 1:58pm On Jan 19, 2020
You are a smart man. You don't play by the books. Enjoy your life.

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Re: Materiality of life by pocohantas(f): 1:58pm On Jan 19, 2020
Then continue your bachelor's life. It is not compulsory to get married.

When I see people earning even 40k married with 2 children I always feel as if something is wrong with me.

Nothing is wrong with you, but if you think something is wrong with you - you should probably open up on that.

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Re: Materiality of life by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 1:58pm On Jan 19, 2020
grin
Re: Materiality of life by ufotty2001: 2:01pm On Jan 19, 2020
pocohantas:
Then continue your bachelor's life. It is not compulsory to get married.



Nothing is wrong with you, but if you think something is wrong with you - you should probably open up on that.
only problem I have now is that people are now asking me this regular questions " wouldn't you get married"

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Re: Materiality of life by layzie: 2:01pm On Jan 19, 2020
Well, the earlier u get married the better for u. It's always better to start raising children when u re younger.
Unless u have decided not to marry at all, which is still fine.

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Re: Materiality of life by We4all: 2:04pm On Jan 19, 2020
You can live your life however you want. But don't end up regretting what you felt you could have done or didn't do.

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Re: Materiality of life by Thegeneralqueen(f): 2:04pm On Jan 19, 2020
When they're done counting scores they'll start looking for a responsible lady to marry oga continue with your bachelor life save up to 5m before you talk about getting married 1m can't feed you not to talk of the said lady and her needs

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Re: Materiality of life by ufotty2001: 2:05pm On Jan 19, 2020
layzie:
Well, the earlier u get married the better for u. It's always better to start raising children when u re younger.
Unless u have decided not to marry at all, which is still fine.
Re: Materiality of life by pocohantas(f): 2:06pm On Jan 19, 2020
ufotty2001:
only problem I have now is that people are now asking me this regular questions " wouldn't you get married"

Give them irregular answers like, "Jesus never married- call me the Messiah" lipsrsealed

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Re: Materiality of life by Thegeneralqueen(f): 2:12pm On Jan 19, 2020
pocohantas:


Give them irregular answers like, "Jesus never married- call me the Messiah" lipsrsealed
pity the said young man menopause will soon caught up with him if he don't get married anytime soon cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: Materiality of life by Holycity(f): 2:25pm On Jan 19, 2020
Marriage is not for everyone.....

Have seen older men in my village who are not married and I don't think the regret it....

Since you are happy alone, I think thats fine...

All that matters is your happiness

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Re: Materiality of life by Nobody: 2:25pm On Jan 19, 2020
I think the Africa societies is not helping matters and in fact they are wired that if you are not married, you are not responsible either be it a man or a woman. and it has been proven that most people die as a result of bad marriage.

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Re: Materiality of life by Nobody: 2:29pm On Jan 19, 2020
You're not alone, part of the reason you see some guys at 40 just getting married. See, you are the master of your own ship. Don't feel like something is wrong with you.

And if you finally decide to have a girlfriend, make you select the one that will give you peace of mind. Girl that has understanding should be your watchword.

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Re: Materiality of life by Nobody: 2:42pm On Jan 19, 2020
Why am I feeling like op just used this as an ad?
Ladies, inbox him. He is waiting for your DMs
Re: Materiality of life by rosy1992(f): 2:45pm On Jan 19, 2020
Marriage is not meant for everybody.
Re: Materiality of life by ufotty2001: 2:54pm On Jan 19, 2020
2kaybiel:
You're not alone, part of the reason you see some guys at 40 just getting married. See, you are the master of your own ship. Don't feel like something is wrong with you.

And if you finally decide to have a girlfriend, make you select the one that will give you peace of mind. Girl that has understanding should be your watchword.
Thanks
Re: Materiality of life by Newbreed2018: 3:08pm On Jan 19, 2020
UyaiIncomparabl:
grin
Please stay away. Soon now u will secretly DM him. Focus on ur own.

How's ur husband GreatResearcher?

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Re: Materiality of life by Kylekent59: 3:32pm On Jan 19, 2020
Find a girl, if at all you love her, plan with her that she should pretend that she is pregnant and you are responsible .

She tells her parents, you too do the same. You will see how arrangements would be made and you become a married man before weekend.

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Re: Materiality of life by ufotty2001: 4:10pm On Jan 19, 2020
Lol. Funny
Re: Materiality of life by Myzzyfrazzy(m): 5:21pm On Jan 19, 2020
lets leave marriage first what do you do with your urges as a 35 year old unmarried girlfriendless man . not that i support fornication but how do you do it (stay without thinking of s3x)
Re: Materiality of life by unangidot: 5:51pm On Jan 19, 2020
Myzzyfrazzy:
lets leave marriage first what do you do with your urges as a 35 year old unmarried girlfriendless man . not that i support fornication but how do you do it (stay without thinking of s3x)
op. Don't mind this guy.. most someone have a girlfriend before someone can have a sex!!! You can meet a girl today tomorrow you have sex with her without going into any relationship with her..
I think what op mean is that he has no long term girlfriend that he can called his girlfriend
Re: Materiality of life by Nobody: 5:54pm On Jan 19, 2020
2kaybiel:
You're not alone, part of the reason you see some guys at 40 just getting married. See, you are the master of your own ship. Don't feel like something is wrong with you.

And if you finally decide to have a girlfriend, make you select the one that will give you peace of mind. Girl that has understanding should be your watchword.
You still talking about girlfriend? This one should skip the whole childish boyfriend and girlfriend thingy and jump to courtship

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Re: Materiality of life by Nobody: 6:30pm On Jan 19, 2020
ufotty2001:

Am a graduate, also I got qualified as a Chartered Accountant last year, currently am earning 120k per month, Am staying in one room apartment rent of N85k.. have Managed to save up to a N1m as savings.
When I see people earning even 40k married with 2 children I always feel as if something is wrong with me.

God help this country. Why is a Chartered Accountant earning 120k. God why?

Are you sure you are a real Chartered Accountant

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Re: Materiality of life by cococandy(f): 6:45pm On Jan 19, 2020
Well then don’t marry if you don’t feel like it.
Or you won’t be happy in it

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Re: Materiality of life by ufotty2001: 7:40pm On Jan 19, 2020
truthsayer009:


God help this country. Why is a Chartered Accountant earning 120k. God why?

Are you sure you are a real Chartered Accountant
Really, they are some chartered Accountants that earn 500k also some who earn even as low as 70k.. everything all depend on grace and time.

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Re: Materiality of life by Nobody: 8:42pm On Jan 19, 2020
Take your time.
10 0r 20 yrs of marital happiness and stability is better than 50 yrs of smiling and suffering.
Just pray for good and u understanding woman.
Also make sure the long leg is working properly.

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Re: Materiality of life by Mryacks: 9:20pm On Jan 19, 2020
2kaybiel:
You're not alone, part of the reason you see some guys at 40 just getting married. See, you are the master of your own ship. Don't feel like something is wrong with you.

And if you finally decide to have a girlfriend, make you select the one that will give you peace of mind. Girl that has understanding should be your watchword.

Well said...

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Re: Materiality of life by Sweetdeji6(f): 9:24pm On Jan 19, 2020
Nothing is wrong with u bro, u just have not given it serious thought before now. But now that you know u r physically, mentally and financially ready for it, start working towards it, same way u worked towards bagging a degree plus extra certificates. Wish u all d best.

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Re: Materiality of life by Nnemuka(f): 9:36pm On Jan 19, 2020
ufotty2001:
Hello Nairalanders!
Please, I really need your advice most especially from matured men and women. Am a kind of person that don't like associating with ladies because I see them has distractions right from my University time now this has become part of my lifestyle am absolutely addicted to it.
This year will make me 35yrs old I don't have a girlfriend also I don't still have interest of becoming a married man yet reason because am still chasing my career and money.
Am a graduate, also I got qualified as a Chartered Accountant last year, currently am earning 120k per month, Am staying in one room apartment rent of N85k.. have Managed to save up to a N1m as savings.
When I see people earning even 40k married with 2 children I always feel as if something is wrong with me.
You see how everyone is politely asking you to take your time, dont rush, marriage is not a do or die affair etc... especially females. Nobody is pointing out that you are a MIDNIGHT NEWSPAPER, who might be needing energy drinks to stay ontop a woman for 2mins atleast.

well reason I am saying this is that I came across your post calling someone's girlfriend an evening newspaper but here you are, earning poorly, living in a self contain at 35, yet nobody is attacking you.
At 35 you should quit being silly

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