ufotty2001:
Hello Nairalanders!
Please, I really need your advice most especially from matured men and women. Am a kind of person that don't like associating with ladies because I see them has distractions right from my University time now this has become part of my lifestyle am absolutely addicted to it.
This year will make me 35yrs old I don't have a girlfriend also I don't still have interest of becoming a married man yet reason because am still chasing my career and money.
Am a graduate, also I got qualified as a Chartered Accountant last year, currently am earning 120k per month, Am staying in one room apartment rent of N85k.. have Managed to save up to a N1m as savings.
When I see people earning even 40k married with 2 children I always feel as if something is wrong with me.

At least, get a girlfriend na

Nnemuka:

You see how everyone is politely asking you to take your time, dont rush, marriage is not a do or die affair etc... especially females. Nobody is pointing out that you are a MIDNIGHT NEWSPAPER, who might be needing energy drinks to stay ontop a woman for 2mins atleast.

well reason I am saying this is that I came across your post calling someone's girlfriend an evening newspaper but here you are, earning poorly, living in a self contain at 35, yet nobody is attacking you.
At 35 you should quit being silly

Many nairaland guys lack sense.

So he is old like this and he had mouth to call another person evening newspaper

ufotty2001:
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Mr OP please don't waste away. Kindly consider joining the priesthood

rosy1992:
Marriage is not meant for everybody.

Hey I like you... Can't do PMs...how can I reach you?

crackkhaus:

At least, get a girlfriend na

thanks man

CHoccolaTE:


Many nairaland guys lack sense.

So he is old like this and he had mouth to call another person evening newspaper

If the poster were to be a female, by now we should be in the 10th page with his ilk calling her different names and reminding her of menopause.

Many of them are over 40 and still stup1d

ufotty2001:
thanks man

GRANPA, continue to be single, if at 35 you don't have multiple streams of income, or earn only 120k from your day job, then what has life taught you?

Pls yesterday's newspaper like you should stay single abeg, you are already almost past your prime so your sperm is reducing in quality. You will probably be balding, have a pot belly or begin to show signs of grey hair.

Women like their guys young and virile, still able to last for 30 mins without Viagra. You are approaching the age when you need to start taking pills for your blood pressure

You need to improve, or get a girl from the village to marry

One million is enough for a low-key white wedding or a low-key TM. You chose one of the above along with a Registery marriage. How old is the life expectancy of the average Nigerian man? Search for a mature lady and plan together, stop chasing small girls at your age. Men die earlier than women , do you want to start reproduction with balding head/grey hairs and end up not reaping the fruits of training your kids? As an evening newspaper marry now, don't wait till you become a midnight paper.

LilMissFavvy:
One million is enough for a low-key white wedding or a low-key TM. You chose one of the above along with a Registery marriage. How old is the life expectancy of the average Nigerian man? Search for a mature lady and plan together, stop chasing small girls at your age. Men die earlier than women , do you want to start reproduction with balding head/grey hairs and end up not reaping the fruits of training your kids? As a evening newspaper marry now, don't wait till you become a midnight paper.

Mature women no follow abeg.25 or nothing OP.

Bro, get married and start a family. Try and elevate your status. Women are distraction but now you need to build a family. Unless you like masturbating continue being a bachelor.

Nothing is wrong with you bro, I have brothers and friends that are their late 30s living their best life. The only thing I don’t understand is why you don’t have girlfriends? Is your phallus not working? Man up and look for a lady that share the same dreams and ideologies like you..

You don't need get married as you will be emotionally unavailable sometimes to your spouse. Get a baby out a cute mama.

funmisticqueen2:
GRANPA, continue to be single, if at 35 you don't have multiple streams of income, or earn only 120k from your day job, then what has life taught you?

Pls yesterday's newspaper like you should stay single abeg, you are already almost past your prime so your sperm is reducing in quality. You will probably be balding, have a pot belly or begin to show signs of grey hair.

Women like their guys young and virile, still able to last for 30 mins without Viagra. You are approaching the age when you need to start taking pills for your blood pressure

You need to improve, or get a girl from the village to marry

Please how many streams of income do you have? Only in Nigeria will broke girls call a man broke. And who says men in their 30s don't last long? Do you know the older the man gets the better he is in bed? Are you better than a village girl? Now I know why those lesbian girls in dubai were dissing you.

120k is 4k naira a day for one month. I don't even spend 4k a day when I visit Nigeria. His monthly salary can pay his annual rent leave change. He is doing okay even though not rich but still a millionaire.

Can you visit a guy without him paying for your cab? Do you earn enough to buy your wig or you have streams of men that you tax here and there.
I wish our guys can size up our girls. If a girl ain't got nothing to offer but kitten especially how there are alot of runs girl to satisfy sexual urge what's the point.

Omo girl go and get something doing your mates in some other places are independent and don't depend on a man

ufotty2001:
Hello Nairalanders!
Please, I really need your advice most especially from matured men and women. Am a kind of person that don't like associating with ladies because I see them has distractions right from my University time now this has become part of my lifestyle am absolutely addicted to it.
This year will make me 35yrs old I don't have a girlfriend also I don't still have interest of becoming a married man yet reason because am still chasing my career and money.
Am a graduate, also I got qualified as a Chartered Accountant last year, currently am earning 120k per month, Am staying in one room apartment rent of N85k.. have Managed to save up to a N1m as savings.
When I see people earning even 40k married with 2 children I always feel as if something is wrong with me.

Bro do what makes you happy. Why follow the norm if you can be different. Only question is don't you want to have kids? Marriage is not compulsory as long as you can do things on your own without the help of a woman and you can comfort yourself when you are down then you are good. Take your time size the woman make sure she brings something to the table not just depend on you and you will be fine.

bolayei:


Please how many streams of income do you have? Only in Nigeria will broke girls call a man broke. And who says men in their 30s don't last long? Do you know the older the man gets the better he is in bed? Are you better than a village girl? Now I know why those lesbian girls in dubai were dissing you.

120k is 4k naira a day for one month. I don't even spend 4k a day when I visit Nigeria. His monthly salary can pay his annual rent leave change. He is doing okay even though not rich but still a millionaire.

Can you visit a guy without him paying for your cab? Do you earn enough to buy your wig or you have streams of men that you tax here and there.
I wish our guys can size up our girls. If a girl ain't got nothing to offer but kitten especially how there are alot of runs girl to satisfy sexual urge what's the point.

Omo girl go and get something doing your mates in some other places are independent and don't depend on a man

I have 3atm , and trying to start up another.

bolayei:


Bro do what makes you happy. Why follow the norm if you can be different. Only question is don't you want to have kids? Marriage is not compulsory as long as you can do things on your own without the help of a woman and you can comfort yourself when you are down then you are good. Take your time size the woman make sure she brings something to the table not just depend on you and you will be fine.

Thanks bro

ufotty2001:
Hello Nairalanders!
Please, I really need your advice most especially from matured men and women. Am a kind of person that don't like associating with ladies because I see them has distractions right from my University time now this has become part of my lifestyle am absolutely addicted to it.
This year will make me 35yrs old I don't have a girlfriend also I don't still have interest of becoming a married man yet reason because am still chasing my career and money.
Am a graduate, also I got qualified as a Chartered Accountant last year, currently am earning 120k per month, Am staying in one room apartment rent of N85k.. have Managed to save up to a N1m as savings.
When I see people earning even 40k married with 2 children I always feel as if something is wrong with me.

Get married don't get married, the choice is yours bro. Just spare us the rant, no one is forcing you , you are a man who can take the decisions he want.

ufotty2001:
Hello Nairalanders!
Please, I really need your advice most especially from matured men and women. Am a kind of person that don't like associating with ladies because I see them has distractions right from my University time now this has become part of my lifestyle am absolutely addicted to it.
This year will make me 35yrs old I don't have a girlfriend also I don't still have interest of becoming a married man yet reason because am still chasing my career and money.
Am a graduate, also I got qualified as a Chartered Accountant last year, currently am earning 120k per month, Am staying in one room apartment rent of N85k.. have Managed to save up to a N1m as savings.
When I see people earning even 40k married with 2 children I always feel as if something is wrong with me.

You have to change your perception about women

Women are the same all over

It's time you start thinking of settling down, unless you are ready to train your children with your pension moneyuf you still have a lady or woman you go to when you feel lune having sex, I see no reason why you can't keep one at home

For you to have a peaceful home, practise true love and don't want to be in the habit of controlling a woman at home, that's what normally brings out the beast in them

Nnemuka:

You see how everyone is politely asking you to take your time, dont rush, marriage is not a do or die affair etc... especially females. Nobody is pointing out that you are a MIDNIGHT NEWSPAPER, who might be needing energy drinks to stay ontop a woman for 2mins atleast.

well reason I am saying this is that I came across your post calling someone's girlfriend an evening newspaper but here you are, earning poorly, living in a self contain at 35, yet nobody is attacking you.
At 35 you should quit being silly

frozen70:


You have to change your perception about women

Women are the same all over

It's time you start thinking of settling down, unless you are ready to train your children with your pension moneyuf you still have a lady or woman you go to when you feel lune having sex, I see no reason why you can't keep one at home

For you to have a peaceful home, practise true love and don't want to be in the habit of controlling a woman at home, that's what normally brings out the beast in them

thnks

ufotty2001:
thnks

Thanks too

Getting married doesn't mean one should start birthing.

I'm not married.

Marriage doesn't make one responsible, but dating someone's daughter for long without putting a ring on it. Bros, check am na.

She might be mocked, despised etc. African things. I see marrying her (girl one loves) as honouring her.

frozen70:


Thanks too

Op be very careful with ladies that reply ur gratitude.. they just want to show themself and make y to notice them..

unangidot:

Op be very careful with ladies that reply ur gratitude.. they just want to show themself and make y to notice them..

You just made a senseless statement to show how myopic your thinking is and how shallow your brain is

Someone acknowledged my comment and I reciprocated, it started affecting you, why ❓

Nnemuka:

If the poster were to be a female, by now we should be in the 10th page with his ilk calling her different names and reminding her of menopause.

Many of them are over 40 and still stup1d

Lack of quality exposure, poor education, poverty of the mind, a weak economy, frustrated with how things are going in their lives/Nigeria etc. are the reasons. Imagine someone who is 35 and is anxious to get married terming another evening newspaper when the probability of him marrying such a "newspaper" is high considering his meagre resources. Truly, age isn't a determinant of common sense or maturity.

Thegeneralqueen:
pity the said young man menopause will soon caught up with him if he don't get married anytime soon

Do you even know the meaning of menopause? Just empty and loud.

funmisticqueen2:
GRANPA, continue to be single, if at 35 you don't have multiple streams of income, or earn only 120k from your day job, then what has life taught you?

Pls yesterday's newspaper like you should stay single abeg, you are already almost past your prime so your sperm is reducing in quality. You will probably be balding, have a pot belly or begin to show signs of grey hair.

Women like their guys young and virile, still able to last for 30 mins without Viagra. You are approaching the age when you need to start taking pills for your blood pressure

You need to improve, or get a girl from the village to marry

Are all these falsehoods even neccessary?. I don't even want to start with counterinsurgency i may not stop.

Nnemuka:

You see how everyone is politely asking you to take your time, dont rush, marriage is not a do or die affair etc... especially females. Nobody is pointing out that you are a MIDNIGHT NEWSPAPER, who might be needing energy drinks to stay ontop a woman for 2mins atleast.

well reason I am saying this is that I came across your post calling someone's girlfriend an evening newspaper but here you are, earning poorly, living in a self contain at 35, yet nobody is attacking you.
At 35 you should quit being silly

Don’t mind him. Hypocrisy is dealing with him cos he is the evening newspaper to be frank.

funmisticqueen2:
I have 3atm , and trying to start up another.

linus

Omo see the was ladies finish the guy sigh. This life sha. At 35 u will have to work into your 60s to train the kids. Reason i cant raise any child in nigeria. Abroad once they are 16 work don finish on my part to an extent